Posted June 11, 2018 On 5/15/2018 at 8:21 AM, Stephanie-5768 said: I feel like most potential clients don't realize how off-putting "u available" is. I get at least a dozen + a day. Argh! I dont even know what part of the state these inquiries are coming from in the first place. Unfortunately, these idiots dont read the forum, so my rant goes on deaf ears. But thanks to you all here for listening. Its getting easier and I am learning to adapt. I have every possible response to messages like 'Rates?', 'Outcall BJ?', 'Hey', 'Sup', 'Hey Momma' etc on quick response on my phone. I hate it, but I now respond to text messages I wouldnt normally even glance at a couple months ago. Technology prevails here. I just have to put on my big girl pants and adapt accordingly. Text Gem of the Week: "How would you like to spend an afternoon chillin' with a really cool guy?" I felt like I was on 'Let's Make a Deal'....geez should I go for door #1, door #2 or keep the $ I already have in my hand. Hmmmmmm 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2018 Ladies, I hope today treats you all to many smiles and full sentences 😂😂 Happy Monday and make it a great day. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2018 (edited) On 5/16/2018 at 10:48 AM, vipblonde said: What’s worse is... “u free today” how am I supposed to answer that? Easy..just tell him that you are available,but never free. (Cecilia..great minds think alike ) Edited June 11, 2018 by JRWolfe giving credit 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2018 46 minutes ago, Laci French said: Ladies, I hope today treats you all to many smiles and full sentences 😂😂 Happy Monday and make it a great day. Happy Monday and cheers to a great day! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2018 On 6/10/2018 at 9:15 PM, CandiO said: I get at least a dozen + a day. Argh! I dont even know what part of the state these inquiries are coming from in the first place. Unfortunately, these idiots dont read the forum, so my rant goes on deaf ears. But thanks to you all here for listening. Its getting easier and I am learning to adapt. I have every possible response to messages like 'Rates?', 'Outcall BJ?', 'Hey', 'Sup', 'Hey Momma' etc on quick response on my phone. I hate it, but I now respond to text messages I wouldnt normally even glance at a couple months ago. Technology prevails here. I just have to put on my big girl pants and adapt accordingly. Text Gem of the Week: "How would you like to spend an afternoon chillin' with a really cool guy?" I felt like I was on 'Let's Make a Deal'....geez should I go for door #1, door #2 or keep the $ I already have in my hand. Hmmmmmm (-; You gals can be hard!!! We're all in the same boat. Guys often don't know if the lady is real, an agency, phone # or email collector or last and worse, a sting operation collecting info. I like to start slow giving little info til we can feel the lady is legitimate too. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2018 In my (limited) experience these things go both ways. When I see a post entered on Monday at 7:30AM offering morning service, call or text at 7:45AM, then receive a reply at 2:00-4:00PM it doesn't work very well for me. When I am trying to pre-book for a day or two later, send out 3 or 4 e-mails, 2 or 3 phone calls, and a couple of texts, then receive nothing back, well that doesn't seem to work very well either. Recently went on a road trip for 9 days covering 6 states. Tried making contacts in half-a-dozen cities I would be passing through, or staying overnight, and received no responses at all. While stopping overnight I tried several ads with phone numbers without ever getting a call back or text. It ain't all one side or the other. Common courtesy isn't all that common anymore. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 3, 2018 So- how should a text from a prospective new client read? (I'm fairly new to the Denver area) Typically I start with "Hi (Name), I saw your (ad/ Toot/ etc) and I was interested in (time) (incall/outcall). What do you need from me?" I have not been getting great responses, so... any advice would be appreciated. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 On 10/3/2018 at 5:49 AM, Spartan117 said: So- how should a text from a prospective new client read? (I'm fairly new to the Denver area) Typically I start with "Hi (Name), I saw your (ad/ Toot/ etc) and I was interested in (time) (incall/outcall). What do you need from me?" I have not been getting great responses, so... any advice would be appreciated. Spartan117, we are a easily spooked bunch of ladies. Rightfully so. We are arrested, beaten up, looked down on by society and by some hobbyists. So we find it easy to flake on some phone calls. We run into guys who when the deed is done, they jump up and rush into the bathroom. As if they are afraid off being tainted. So yes, we ladies can be pretty dang flaky about this. If the money wasn't so good, we would not put ourselves through this. That is the down side. There is a upside though. There are many, many good upstanding ,great clients out there. I 've met some fantastic people in this venue. But, how do you get to be one of these great guys? That is your question. It is up to you to make us comfortable in seeing you. If you have references from a prior escort visit, and she is amendable to giving you a reference , then offer it. Do you know another hobbyists who might recommend you to a lady? And always keep your options open and contact several ladies. If one responds , try and make her feel comfortable enough to accept you. It's tough , I realize this. Creating a forum presence is helpful. A way for us to research you to make sure your not on a blacklist somewhere, or a cop. Good luck to you.🍀 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 On 5/15/2018 at 8:55 AM, MelindaMadison said: I don't know how some of you ladies who do texts and direct calls do it.... Hugs to you. xoxo Mel +1 You ladies are impressive, and much tougher than I am. My hats off to you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 (edited) On 6/10/2018 at 9:15 PM, CandiO said: Text Gem of the Week: "How would you like to spend an afternoon chillin' with a really cool guy?" I felt like I was on 'Let's Make a Deal'....geez should I go for door #1, door #2 or keep the $ I already have in my hand. Hmmmmmm Keep the $ you have in your hand, grab the vibrator, and spend the afternoon chillin with a really cool chic. 😂😂😂 Edited October 20, 2018 by Hunter VanDyke 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 20, 2018 On 5/14/2018 at 3:54 PM, Jez UaBriain said: This is a recent text message. TEXT: Are you available (no question mark) ME: Who is this? TEXT: My name is _________ (name removed by me) TEXT: Donation (again ,no question mark) ME: I need a little more information then this _(name)_. Your asking me for classified information, and I don't have a clue as to who you might be. TEXT: What do you need (no question mark) TEXT: ok ME: References.....incall, outcall Something about yourself....age? That's it. How the hell am I supposed to know if I want to see you guys based on that ? Gentlemen, it is up to you to make the ladies feel comfortable that you are indeed a good guy. And text messages such as that one (it is an actual text I received) do not make me feel anything but get my hoe-dar up. No one wants to get busted. I for damn sure do not need to add this to my list of accomplishments on legal paper. Him: hey Me: where did you see my ad at? Him: tob Me: name,age,time of encounter,Length of encounter, date of encounter, recent references or reviews? Him: this is actually my first time doing anything like this. Me: being that you have completely ignored any of my screening questions and did not read ad apparently. Don't contact a VERIFIED girl unless you expect to be verified. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2018 (edited) On 5/15/2018 at 1:56 PM, CountryGentleman said: Personally, I try to laugh off the communication styles of some and move on to the next. I recently had this exchange with a provider I've been wanting to meet for quite a while... Me (text): Good morning! I hope your day is going well. I have been seeing your ads on TOB and wanted to know if you have a screening process that I should follow before I set up an appointment. Her (20 hours later): Hi Oh well... I'm sorry that that happened to you. I can tell you that I often times have my phone off during family times or while at work. When I turn it on all the messages have the time of when I turned it back on. So I am never sure when the message was received. Perhaps she has the same issue. On 5/16/2018 at 10:48 AM, vipblonde said: What’s worse is... “u free today” how am I supposed to answer that? "I'm sorry I am never free. I always cost money. 😀" Edited October 23, 2018 by Nina Faulkner Lost worss 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 25, 2018 On 5/15/2018 at 8:21 AM, Stephanie-5768 said: I feel like most potential clients don't realize how off-putting "u available" is. Stephanie can you give us a proper text message that you would like to get/receive? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 25, 2018 On 10/19/2018 at 7:35 PM, E.J.England said: Him: hey Me: where did you see my ad at? Him: tob Me: name,age,time of encounter,Length of encounter, date of encounter, recent references or reviews? Him: this is actually my first time doing anything like this. Me: being that you have completely ignored any of my screening questions and did not read ad apparently. Don't contact a VERIFIED girl unless you expect to be verified. OMG this 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 on point 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 26, 2018 I always sincerely appreciate those who take the time to write a couple full sentences at least when contacting lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 26, 2018 I always like to go up and beyond some times i worry too much lol. But I can semi relate in the world of online dating apps. i try to have a conversation and i get "hi.... hru....golf?......i eat pizza...." ok thats nice good conversation lol. Obviously this world though here requires, needs respect and communication 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
