Friends

[Juanmotai]

I am not quite sure what all being friends here entails, but hey, I wanna make some friends and get to know some people.

[Guest]

I am not quite sure what all being friends here entails, but hey, I wanna make some friends and get to know some people.

The quickest way is to find a random lady on EB, and pay for an hour of their time with one of the male posters here.

Voila! You just made friends with the lady and the gent!

But seriously, if you want to get together with a few guys here, knock back a couple of beers, compare notes, and say things like "Hookers: can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em!" thats not likely to happen. Most of us take our privacy pretty seriously. Now, if you have questions, ask them either publicly or by PM. Most of us here don't bite.

Besides, I'd never want to associate with a guy who would have a beer with someone like me.

[inkspot]

The quickest way is to find a random lady on EB, and pay for an hour of their time with one of the male posters here.

So are you suggesting a MMF threesome? I'm in.

[Juanmotai]

Haha.. I guess that didn't really come out sounding right did it. I am not talking about actually getting to know anyone on here, except maybe a professional friendship with a lady or 2. I just noticed people have "friends" on their profiles here. I was just inquiring what that was all about. I take my personal and private life seriously too. That's one reason I refuse to do outcalls. Even in my real life I keep very few people close to me, if any really.

[Mustang87]

I assumed he was talking about the friend requests that are regularity set and received on this board.

[Guest]

I am not quite sure what all being friends here entails, but hey, I wanna make some friends and get to know some people.

Probably not going to happen for reasons stated on a previous post. If you really want to cause a stir just start a thread about rates or better yet why a lot of ASP's put "No AA Men" in their ad.

Edited August 13, 2015 by MisterBigShot
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[Hvnaball2]

Probably not going to happen for reasons stated on a previous post. If you really want to cause a stir just start a thread about rates or better yet why a lot of ASP's put "No AA Men" in their ad.

That made me laugh out loud!

[Juanmotai]

I didn't mean like actual friends. I don't wanna know any of ya fuckers in real life. But I do like to drink beer laplace.

[Ricky Ricardo]

Good. One thing to remember. Don't post after you've had too many.

[Guest]

Good. One thing to remember. Don't post after you've had too many.

Good advice.

But I feel better knowing you are a beer drinker.

Better advice:

Don't drink after you've had a really good session with a lady, either. You'll end up on here waxing poetic about the majesty of her breasts or some such nonsense, and close by announcing your undying love for her.

Next thing you know, people will be comparing you to DemureMorman.

[Guest]

I didn't mean like actual friends. I don't wanna know any of ya fuckers in real life. But I do like to drink beer laplace.

Good. One thing to remember. Don't post after you've had too many.

Good advice.

Next thing you know, people will be comparing you to DemureMorman.

Dam..... lol

[gr8owl]

Good. One thing to remember. Don't post after you've had too many.

Speaking of which ........... what happened to macho anyway?

[Juanmotai]

Lol.. lately I've been striking out on really great sessions with the ladies. Ive been getting the ones with the hot 20 year old pictures and the haggy 40 year old reality. I think that's why I drink so much beer

[Guest]

Speaking of which ........... what happened to macho anyway?

He hasn't posted anything since May.

[Phil-anderer]

Yeah, I went to a bulletin board meet-up in the 90's (it was DIAL UP), and it went about like you'd expect. A room full of weirdos and virtually no conversation. I doubt this dynamic would be different.

[Lucy Kitten]

Having friends in this business isn't entirely uncommon. I have known several guys who have befriended each other, they go out for beers and play golf and do that guy kind of stuff. I have never understood underestimation of the potential of networking within the business. People are people and it takes all kinds and at least in the business we all have that one somewhat taboo thing in common.

Making friends isn't such a crazy thing and maybe some of you should embrace it and see how it goes. I have met some amazing people that I wouldn't have otherwise thanks to this.

[Guest]

Having friends in this business isn't entirely uncommon. I have known several guys who have befriended each other, they go out for beers and play golf and do that guy kind of stuff. I have never understood underestimation of the potential of networking within the business. People are people and it takes all kinds and at least in the business we all have that one somewhat taboo thing in common.

Making friends isn't such a crazy thing and maybe some of you should embrace it and see how it goes. I have met some amazing people that I wouldn't have otherwise thanks to this.

+1!

[dj278]

I feel fortunate to have a brother and two good friends who hobby. I've learned so much from this board, but it's not the same as face-to-face.

My in-state buddy keeps banging my favorites and then we get together over dinner to discuss. My out-of-state bud visited last month and I sent him to a favored young lass. Great fun!

[Bit Banger]

I have several friends here, both M & F. We go fishing, hiking, dinners & drinks. Sometimes we even play together as MF-MF or MFM.

Meet & Greet parties were fun! Meeting a group of ladies in a casual setting and putting faces to the guys writing reviews. Many a YL who wasn't on my radar made it to my list after such events. Some I still see years later. But I think they are over for a while since some folks brought reporters & cops as their dates.

[Guest]

I have several friends here, both M & F. We go fishing, hiking, dinners & drinks. Sometimes we even play together as MF-MF or MFM.

Meet & Greet parties were fun! Meeting a group of ladies in a casual setting and putting faces to the guys writing reviews. Many a YL who wasn't on my radar made it to my list after such events. Some I still see years later. But I think they are over for a while since some folks brought reporters & cops as their dates.

Oh yeah....the meet and greet party? The provider who was setting up meet and greets told me, I had to join if I wanted friendship, references from other girls, and to learn how to screen. At first I thought this was great idea. Until.....

After going to one meet and greet, in order to join I had to do the following:

*Give a complete list of all my clients.

*Provide phone numbers and email address.

*Provide home address of where guys lived.

*Provide employment information.

*Wanted to know if gent was married or had kids.

End result: I refused to give out my list of clients and there personal information.

After I was told this, I never went back.

Then another provider had a conversation with me at my favorite bar.

I never bothered to explain anything to her, I just let be.

[Bit Banger]

Over the years there have been many M&G groups. We used to have an annual Halloween party, but someone brought a reporter, plastered us all over Westword, and a few busts were made. One gal lost custody of her kids. Some of the groups were more private than others. For one I had to be vouched for by two or three members. I have no idea what they did for the ladies. They kept an email list for party notification; something no more dangerous than membership on this board provided you sensibly gave them a hobby address.

[Servius]

Back in my active days on my board in CA, we had lots of parties, what we called "socials." In the early days we didn't worry as much, but over time we made them increasingly private, by invitation only, and guests were screened and pre-approved. Eventually we formed clubs ... Food clubs, Asian clubs, S&M clubs, geek clubs, sports clubs, dancing, etc. Membership required screening and approval. Many of these parties were a blast, and gave one the opportunity to evaluate people whose internet personalities were sometimes rather different. I imagine you all had poker parties, here, as we did. We had a number of parties at private residences. The rule there was money could not change hands for sex at a party, but consensual activity could and did occur. Mostly it was just ordinary, good fun, and hookups for monetary consideration would occur later and elsewhere after people got to know one another. It was not a perfect way to screen, for either party, but better than mere text.

Nikki, I am glad you didn't join. That is reprehensible behavior. A provider who would ask for or require personal info on another's client should be identified, reported, blackballed and denounced as unsafe. A hobbyist who discloses private info he knows about a provider should be treated similarly. Just as one would use dicretion at a real life party, one should also at a hobby party, only more so. I managed to have fun whilst keeping my personal life to myself unless I knew the person very well.

As a bit of an extravert, I very much enjoyed socials, and making male and female friends. Some of my best friends in real life were made in the hobby nearly 15 years ago. My closest friend whom I trust more than anyone in the world is a retired provider I met many years ago. So, yeah, good to have good friends, and I would't give much weight, myself, to just friends on a board network signified by an avatar.

[Beverly Fisher]

Oh yeah....the meet and greet party? The provider who was setting up meet and greets told me, I had to join if I wanted friendship, references from other girls, and to learn how to screen. At first I thought this was great idea. Until.....

After going to one meet and greet, in order to join I had to do the following:

*Give a complete list of all my clients.

*Provide phone numbers and email address.

*Provide home address of where guys lived.

*Provide employment information.

*Wanted to know if gent was married or had kids.

End result: I refused to give out my list of clients and there personal information.

I was one of the providers who assisted in putting together those meet and greets, back in the day. I don't know where you got this idea, dear... but we NEVER, EVER, EVER asked for personal information from providers or clients. EVER.

This business is about discretion, first and foremost. I have always prided myself on my tact and responsibility, as have the other providers who organized these parties. Our reputation has always been professional and discreet.

I have not posted here in some time, since I retired, but I had to respond to this statement. I know you don't intend to deliberately insult me.

After the Ashley Madison hack, I was reminded how people in the hobby prefer a level of discretion that keeps them safe. Our meet and greet group was always focused on not only fun, but safety, and discretion.

I appreciate the hobbyists and providers who were a part of our group, and I want all of them to know that the only information we ever had was screen names and hobby emails -- all of which were destroyed years ago.

Please be careful out there, and never, ever share or post any information you don't want spread all over the internet.

I wish all of you love!

Beverly Fisher ;-*

[Guest]

I was one of the providers who assisted in putting together those meet and greets, back in the day. I don't know where you got this idea, dear... but we NEVER, EVER, EVER asked for personal information from providers or clients. EVER.

Beverly - You are not the provider who asked me for this information.

This business is about discretion, first and foremost. I have always prided myself on my tact and responsibility,

This I would agree with.

as have the other providers who organized these parties. Our reputation has always been professional and discreet.

I am very sorry to say this, but unfortunately your wrong. There is more than one provider whom she requested this information from. She has history of tacking down clients weather anyone chooses to believe me or not. In fact I recall a client put in one of his reviews. I have copy of it.

I have not posted here in some time, since I retired, but I had to respond to this statement. I know you don't intend to deliberately insult me.

I am in no way referring to you Beverly. I am referring to someone else specific. However, based on the board rules I am unable to mention her name or I will get infraction maybe banned. Im trying to follow the rules of the board.

[pfunk]

I am very sorry to say this, but unfortunately your wrong. There is more than one provider whom she requested this information from. She has history of tacking down clients weather anyone chooses to believe me or not. In fact I recall a client put in one of his reviews. I have copy of it.

Interesting. I was a member of this group, and no one in the group had any of my information, you claim you were asked for. No one ever asked me for it either. I was a member before I had an escort girlfriend, so don't try to play that card.

I don't believe you. I think you made it up.

Also, you copied a review? Obsess much?

[Guest]

Interesting. I was a member of this group, and no one in the group had any of my information, you claim you were asked for. No one ever asked me for it either. I was a member before I had an escort girlfriend, so don't try to play that card.

I don't believe you. I think you made it up.

Awesome,

Your are a JOHN pfunk.... Im sure they wouldn't be asking you for list of clients. That is because your not escort!

Your also friends with this provider I am talking about. You have also reviewed her, I am sure you'll defend her.

How about I email you personally with information that provider told me about you and girlfriend, things I shouldn't know about, instead of making it public?

[Servius]

It is one thing to make non-specific, general assertions; quite another to make accusations that cannot be adjudicated on a public board, and that by innuendo and implication, impugn the integrity of others not present to defend themselves, and who might be identifiable. If I were the moderator, both of the foregoing posts would be swiftly deleted, notwithstanding their potential entertainment value. And in any event, I suggest take this biz off the public board.

Edited August 15, 2015 by Servius
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[Bit Banger]

+1, Servius. We don't need this kind of personal vitriol on the public board.

[inkspot]

Haha.. I guess that didn't really come out sounding right did it. I am not talking about actually getting to know anyone on here, except maybe a professional friendship with a lady or 2. I just noticed people have "friends" on their profiles here. I was just inquiring what that was all about. I take my personal and private life seriously too. That's one reason I refuse to do outcalls. Even in my real life I keep very few people close to me, if any really.

Naw, I was just messing with you. I forgot to add a smiley face.

[Paul Pudenda]

Be careful what you wish for..............