Beverly Fisher

I was one of the providers who assisted in putting together those meet and greets, back in the day. I don't know where you got this idea, dear... but we NEVER, EVER, EVER asked for personal information from providers or clients. EVER. This business is about discretion, first and foremost. I have always prided myself on my tact and responsibility, as have the other providers who organized these parties. Our reputation has always been professional and discreet. I have not posted here in some time, since I retired, but I had to respond to this statement. I know you don't intend to deliberately insult me. After the Ashley Madison hack, I was reminded how people in the hobby prefer a level of discretion that keeps them safe. Our meet and greet group was always focused on not only fun, but safety, and discretion. I appreciate the hobbyists and providers who were a part of our group, and I want all of them to know that the only information we ever had was screen names and hobby emails -- all of which were destroyed years ago. Please be careful out there, and never, ever share or post any information you don't want spread all over the internet. I wish all of you love! Beverly Fisher ;-*

Big, small, I just enjoy dick. A lot. Variation is part of the enjoyment. They're like flowers or shoes or pussies. Each one is unique, charming in its own way. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

Can't speak for others... but my email is gone because I retired. No more Beverly, no more Beverly email. As for my phone, well, that was just dumb. Rather tipsy. Dropped it face-down onto a tile floor in a bar. It was an old phone, so I couldn't transfer my contacts. As for other providers, maybe their "problems" stem from not wanting to respond to certain hobbyists. Not naming names, mind you. xxxooo Beverly ;-* (not really) LOL

Thanks honey, that was useful. I feel dumb -- I was searching the membership list for him under "D" for "Dirty." LOL Thanks again for the help. Yer my fave dirty girl. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

Put me down for $20. xxxooo B. ;-*

My phone was destroyed, my email is gone... but I'm needing to get in touch with the Dirty Old Web Guy. If you know who he is, or how to reach him, I'd be much obliged. PMs work great. If you don't know who I'm talking about, then you don't know. xxooo Beverly ;- P.S. I'm retired, so please don't take this as advertising/looking to get PMs and hook up with people. I just want to talk to an old friend. Thanks.

Happy Birthday, gorgeous girl! xxxxooo Beverly ;-*

Actually, I am the same sort of provider... I prefer to see gents who appreciate the unique, delightful pleasures that come from giving enjoyment, as well as receiving it. I love giving pleasure, and giving arouses me as much as recieving. I love seeing like-minded men. So the advice I gave was in light of that perspective. No matter how much I love giving, no matter how carefully I screen, once in a blue moon I get someone I don't click with - and for me, that means someone who isn't interested in hearing about what would make things work better for me. So i just do my best and go on. There are many girls who are happy to see gents like Stevie, et al - as long as they aren't LE or psychotic, and have the full donation. And that's cool, it's their business. But I want to love what I do and feel good about myself and the way I do it. So money becomes a secondary, or even tertiary, consideration. Stay true to yourself, lovely girl. Xxxxoooo Beverly ;-*

Sometimes, sessions are just awkward and weird. Careful screening on both sides can greatly mimimize the frequency of such occurrences, but the reality is that sometimes, bad sessions just happen. People don't always click, even when your job is to click with everyone. All you can do is smile and soldier on, just do your best no matter what, and if you feel they're unhappy at the end of the session, you can offer them a discount on a future session, or some such. I would not suggest offering them helpful advice on how to be a better client. They can't all be great, or perfect. Just do your damndest, be the best you can be, and know you've given it your all. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

thanks CH. But I'm not saying there's NO risk to a guy giving out his name. What I'm saying is do the math -- how often do men's names get released, versus how often escorts are busted? Radical difference. And let's not forget psycho providers, too -- though I think those risks can be mitigated with careful research, reviews, etc. Still, it happens. Yes, there are risks for the guys. Absolutely. But I'm talking odds, here. Again, if it's too risky, don't play. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

And that's a damn fine point: this hobby is risky, on both sides. There are things you can do to mitigate the risks, but in the end, you're both rolling the dice a bit. How much risk you can reasonably cope with is up to you. Want no risk? Don't play. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

Kinda trollin' here, aren't we? I mean, we all know why ladies say "you're paying for my time, not services." You know why. I know why. EVERYONE knows why. Well, 'cept maybe noobs. The difference, then, is ladies who don't get it. If you add an extra fee for an activity, you're blowing your defense. (some smart ass, please insert a blow joke here, thanks) On the other hand, girls get to do whatever they want and let whoever they approve of f*ck them in the ass. Having an enormous schlong must make this particular yearning hard to fulfill. But what do I know; I've never allowed it. There are those of us who really do, and have always, charged for time. Not a phony disclaimer, but the honest truth. What happens during that time honestly is up for discussion -- including just discussion, modeling semi-transparent white panties while straddled over the back of a loveseat, bargain-basement psychotherapy, a romantic dinner, or smearing plain yogurt all over my chest and having someone lick it off. To name but a few. Anyhow quit yer whinin'. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

What everyone says is true -- girls run their business as they see fit; you either like it or you don't. But in answer to your curiosity, I can't speak for others, but I can speak for myself. Why I want your real name and I don't have to tell you mine: 1. I'm nervous about legal issues, and verifying that you're a real person is important. 2. I get that you're nervous about legal issues, which is your perogative, but the odds of LE spending umpteen dollars and man hours to try to track you down are slim to none. They'd much rather try to track ME down. 3. I'm nervous about psychos beating/raping me. Verifying a real name can help prevent such issues. 4. If you're safety conscious, consider that providers who screen harder are generally busted less. 5. Eliot Spitzer got caught with a hooker. He now has his own TV show. If a political figure got caught working as an escort, he/she would shock the nation and never be seen again. In other words, there's differences between you and me. Lots of them. The same standards cannot apply to both. For you, this is a hobby. For me, this is my livelihood, and it's dangerous. 6. Arguing with me on any of the above points is a waste of time; I've made up my mind. I understand that you may well have made up yours, and that's great -- by all means, see providers who are willing to accept your rules. I would not... but it doesn't mean we can't be friends. xxxooo Beverly ;-*

One can't make ANY assumptions about provider behaviors based on a handful of responses on a discussion board. Seriously, put your percentages back in your pants (no matter how large your percentage is. *mwah!*) This business is different for each and every woman who does it. The key to any exit strategy has nothing to do with schooling, or money management. It's about changing your mindset, the way you relate to the world. The rest of it follows naturally. To put it another way: they call it The Life for a reason. It can easily become a woman's whole life, for a variety of reasons. You live in a shadow world, approaching everything differently than those in the civvie world. For you gents, it's a hobby. But for many, many women, it's their life. I'm retiring soon myself. I won't detail my exit strategy, nor my financial plans or habits, for the amusement of the crowd. I've worked in the past, and retired for several years before re-entering the industry. And it's changing that mindset that was the most important part of being successful (and, frankly, it then made it very difficult to choose to start working again, because I'd made that mental shift). Best example of what I'm talking about: When you see a policecar in your rearview mirror, you feel tense, check your speed, make sure you're doing all the right things as you drive. When *I* see a policecar in my rearview mirror, I do all the same things -- but I also feel a depth of fear and tension that goes beyond the norm. Successful retirement means feeling things like regular people do. Anyhow, just my usual 2000 cents... xxxooo Beverly ;-*

Pardon me for trying to frame things in an easily understood fashion. Futue te ipsum.