Posted August 14, 2014 Never trust a woman... Who says "Size Doesn't Matter". Who says "A condom isn't necessary, after you know each other well". Who says "The money isn't the only reason I see you". Who tells you "Love isn't important, just the sex". Who tells you you're great, then tried to date your best friend. Who wants to look at your phone, but won't let you look at hers. Who never wants you to meet her friends, but wants to meet yours. Who wants dinner and sex, but then develops a headache after dinner. Who tells you she doesn't care what your job is, then belittles you for it. Who wants "You and only you", then starts checking out other guys. Who thinks you're perfect, then goes about trying to change you. Who buys you clothes you would never buy for yourself. Who looks like a million bucks when you meet her, but looks like a loser on the "$1.98 Beauty Show", when you break up. And finally, never trust a woman... Period. I'll save my pennies, nickles and dimes and rent some women who lie to me, but know just what I want to hear. And leave when they are done... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 Looking for love in all the wrong places. Get laid be happy 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 The most cynical posting of the year, and that's saying a lot. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 The most cynical posting of the year, and that's saying a lot. I feel really bad for the OP if he actually experienced every one of those deceptions, but I think all of us have experienced some of them. In all fairness, I'm sure all men have told lies in order to get a woman to spread her legs. That's why paying for sex is more honest and moral than a lot of what goes on in the everyday relationship world. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2014 I feel really bad for the OP if he actually experienced every one of those deceptions, but I think all of us have experienced some of them. In all fairness, I'm sure all men have told lies in order to get a woman to spread her legs. That's why paying for sex is more honest and moral than a lot of what goes on in the everyday relationship world. Glad you said it. I like an honest man! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2014 More honest but more moral is debatable. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2014 More honest but more moral is debatable. Someone used the word "moral" on this board? Dirty word. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2014 Really this is a very sad post. I agree you can't not trust everyone. Iv learned this the hard way. But reality is not everyone is bad. Sometimes, its takes mistake after mistake before you get to the right person. Best to keep any open mind. When your not looking someone will come along when you gave up! Don't see this as bad ending. Perhaps it will open a new opportunity in life for you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2014 (edited) Really this is a very sad post. I agree you can't not trust everyone. Iv learned this the hard way. But reality is not everyone is bad. Sometimes, its takes mistake after mistake before you get to the right person. Best to keep any open mind. When your not looking someone will come along when you gave up! Don't see this as bad ending. Perhaps it will open a new opportunity in life for you. Nikki, I actually think you are the only one who got it. The preceeding rant, if you will, is a complilation of my personal experiences with women, some professional, some amateur, and the various lies, mistruths, half thruths, untruths, deceptions, misleads, misdeeds, leading ons, turn offs and outright, bald faced, spit in your face, kick you when you're down, statements I had been personally been subject to, over the years. I keep trying to renew my faith in women in general, and don't mean to condem you all, but ladies, there are some of your gender who bring shame and a bad name to all of you. I don't say that men as a whole are any better, or worse, but we are still in there trying, even after you kick us to the curb. I will keep coming to bat, and trying to hit a home run with some other woman, but the odds are against me, the older I get. It's just a game, I know, but lately it seems a better idea, to just take my ball and go home. No runs, no hits, no errors, just struck out again... BD Edited August 19, 2014 by bd5671 content error 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2014 BD, You are in desperate need of a hug and a solid friend. If I where standing next to you, I would give you a big hugs. While I completely agree that wemon can be very mean, hurtful, take advantage of men. Please keep in mind that some us ladies have good hearts. We make this business full of fantasy, fun, exciting. That is exactly how a hooker should roll. there are some of your gender who bring shame and a bad name to all of you. BD Your right. Easy suggestion... its best to stay away from these ladies who do these things, for they will do them to you. It is because they simply have nothing better to do. Thanks to another provider (I won't mention her name) As for myself, I refuse to become a prison bitch always worrying about what other people think. You shouldn't either. Forgive people who do you wrong and purposely hate on you. Because they unknowingly make you stronger and wiser and unstoppable, untouchable. But don't forget, what they have done. So doesn't happen again. Advise I got from a friend: Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Our lives improve only when we take chances. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much including friends, and forgetting that you are special too. Stop trying to hold onto the past. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one. Stop being scared to make a mistake. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. Don't get involved in relationships or with friends for the wrong reasons. Relationships and friends must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company of people who ruin you. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. Maybe picking someone who wants someone in there life, but doesn't require someone might be a better choice. Take care BD! Life is a box of chocolates. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 BD, You are in desperate need of a hug and a solid friend. If I where standing next to you, I would give you a big hugs. While I completely agree that wemon can be very mean, hurtful, take advantage of men. Please keep in mind that some us ladies have good hearts. We make this business full of fantasy, fun, exciting. That is exactly how a hooker should roll. Your right. Easy suggestion... its best to stay away from these ladies who do these things, for they will do them to you. It is because they simply have nothing better to do. Thanks to another provider (I won't mention her name) As for myself, I refuse to become a prison bitch always worrying about what other people think. You shouldn't either. Forgive people who do you wrong and purposely hate on you. Because they unknowingly make you stronger and wiser and unstoppable, untouchable. But don't forget, what they have done. So doesn't happen again. Advise I got from a friend: Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Our lives improve only when we take chances. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much including friends, and forgetting that you are special too. Stop trying to hold onto the past. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one. Stop being scared to make a mistake. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. Don't get involved in relationships or with friends for the wrong reasons. Relationships and friends must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company of people who ruin you. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. Maybe picking someone who wants someone in there life, but doesn't require someone might be a better choice. Take care BD! Life is a box of chocolates. Nikki, Thanks for the compassionate advice. I haven't given up yet, but the time frame is closing fast. Hopefully, I can find the right woman before it's too late to keep on trying. Too bad I can't find someone as intelligent, caring, witty, insightful and beautiful as yourself. Oh well, here I go again... Life is like a box of chocolates...and I always seem to get the one left too close to the radiator! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 Never trust a woman... Who says "Size Doesn't Matter". Who says "A condom isn't necessary, after you know each other well". Who says "The money isn't the only reason I see you". Who tells you "Love isn't important, just the sex". Who tells you you're great, then tried to date your best friend. Who wants to look at your phone, but won't let you look at hers. Who never wants you to meet her friends, but wants to meet yours. Who wants dinner and sex, but then develops a headache after dinner. Who tells you she doesn't care what your job is, then belittles you for it. Who wants "You and only you", then starts checking out other guys. Who thinks you're perfect, then goes about trying to change you. Who buys you clothes you would never buy for yourself. Who looks like a million bucks when you meet her, but looks like a loser on the "$1.98 Beauty Show", when you break up. And finally, never trust a woman... Period. I'll save my pennies, nickles and dimes and rent some women who lie to me, but know just what I want to hear. And leave when they are done... I took a minute to run this post through the hobby forum post translator. here is what I got back.............................. "That bitch sent the divorce papers to my work!" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 [a verbose treatise on how a hooker owes him a few $1,000's]. does the "b" in "bd" stand for "beta much..." and there's and app for that!: 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 Nikki, I actually think you are the only one who got it. The preceeding rant, if you will, is a complilation of my personal experiences with women, some professional, some amateur, and the various lies, mistruths, half thruths, untruths, deceptions, misleads, misdeeds, leading ons, turn offs and outright, bald faced, spit in your face, kick you when you're down, statements I had been personally been subject to, over the years. I keep trying to renew my faith in women in general, and don't mean to condem you all, but ladies, there are some of your gender who bring shame and a bad name to all of you. I don't say that men as a whole are any better, or worse, but we are still in there trying, even after you kick us to the curb. I will keep coming to bat, and trying to hit a home run with some other woman, but the odds are against me, the older I get. It's just a game, I know, but lately it seems a better idea, to just take my ball and go home. No runs, no hits, no errors, just struck out again... BD That bring shame and a bad name to all of you. Humanity can be a drag, bad men, bad women, just plain bad people. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 I haven't given up yet, but the time frame is closing fast. Hopefully, I can find the right woman before it's too late to keep on trying. Dude ... give up. If you don't want to listen to me, go re-read your original post. Listen to that guy. He would tell you to give up. If your age is a concern, I double down on that statement. When you're young, you might get lucky finding a gem among the rocks and you should at least give it a try. But if you're getting old (and I don't know how old you are) then there are many things going against you. First, you feel like you're in a hurry. This is a recipe for disaster, and making bad decisions. Second, any women still single in middle age is defective. (I'm not being sexist; any guys who are still single in middle age are also defective, including me). And finally, lonely middle aged single guys are a dime a dozen. Who wants to date one? Give up. Make some friends of both sexes for companionship. Rent a woman occasionally for physical comfort. Give up on dating. People say that when you give up on dating, you magically find that special someone. This is a bunch of Hollywood horseshit. But when you give up on dating, you eventually find that a whole lot of stress and angst just go away. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 21, 2014 if this is true i am so fucked Dude ... give up. If you don't want to listen to me, go re-read your original post. Listen to that guy. He would tell you to give up. If your age is a concern, I double down on that statement. When you're young, you might get lucky finding a gem among the rocks and you should at least give it a try. But if you're getting old (and I don't know how old you are) then there are many things going against you. First, you feel like you're in a hurry. This is a recipe for disaster, and making bad decisions. Second, any women still single in middle age is defective. (I'm not being sexist; any guys who are still single in middle age are also defective, including me). And finally, lonely middle aged single guys are a dime a dozen. Who wants to date one? Give up. Make some friends of both sexes for companionship. Rent a woman occasionally for physical comfort. Give up on dating. People say that when you give up on dating, you magically find that special someone. This is a bunch of Hollywood horseshit. But when you give up on dating, you eventually find that a whole lot of stress and angst just go away. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 23, 2014 any women still single in middle age is defective. (I'm not being sexist; any guys who are still single in middle age are also defective, including me). I disagree...there are people who are attached and are still defective! They stay attached or become attached because of the social stigma of being single. Therefore, being attached is neither a necessary nor sufficient condition of being non-defective. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 23, 2014 At the risk of stating the obvious, you have brought your concerns to this board where you have gotten some compassionate insights. So maybe things are not so hopeless? I can relate to what you have said and some of it is 'true.' But the more you feed it (the ruminations, which sounds like what is going on) the bigger it gets and the more power it has in your life. Personally I think it is important to change things physically; be in different places, be with different people, do different things. Maybe take a trip somewhere where you have to get out of your head. just some thoughts 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 24, 2014 Never trust a woman... Who says "Size Doesn't Matter". Who says "The money isn't the only reason I see you". ... I agree with these two. I am not small but definitely not hung (the irony I have big hands and feet lol ) Men are in the same boat. Women appear to be more untrustworthy because they are more subtle . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2014 I feel really bad for the OP if he actually experienced every one of those deceptions, but I think all of us have experienced some of them. In all fairness, I'm sure all men have told lies in order to get a woman to spread her legs. That's why paying for sex is more honest and moral than a lot of what goes on in the everyday relationship world. My thoughts exactly. It's a lot easier to pay an escort - we all pay in one way or another, so we might as well minimize the risk. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2014 This is a pretty dumb post considering that you are trusting female (I assume) hookers. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2014 Dude ... give up. If you don't want to listen to me, go re-read your original post. Listen to that guy. He would tell you to give up. If your age is a concern, I double down on that statement. When you're young, you might get lucky finding a gem among the rocks and you should at least give it a try. But if you're getting old (and I don't know how old you are) then there are many things going against you. First, you feel like you're in a hurry. This is a recipe for disaster, and making bad decisions. Second, any women still single in middle age is defective. (I'm not being sexist; any guys who are still single in middle age are also defective, including me). And finally, lonely middle aged single guys are a dime a dozen. Who wants to date one? Give up. Make some friends of both sexes for companionship. Rent a woman occasionally for physical comfort. Give up on dating. People say that when you give up on dating, you magically find that special someone. This is a bunch of Hollywood horseshit. But when you give up on dating, you eventually find that a whole lot of stress and angst just go away. Good lord, what a downer. Keep at it, BrettArch. True love beyond the hobby is possible. It may fade someday, but it's better to have loved and lost. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2014 Good lord, what a downer. Keep at it, BrettArch. True love beyond the hobby is possible. It may fade someday, but it's better to have loved and lost. Wholeheartedly agree. Misery begets misery. There is so much love and happiness to be had there is no reason to ever stop looking for it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2014 Good Grief! If you want love go elsewhere. If you want to satisfy transitory lustful cravings you're in the right place. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2014 Good Grief! If you want love go elsewhere. If you want to satisfy transitory lustful cravings you're in the right place. True. I was talking about outside of the hobby. When "outside," you simply must make the leap and "trust a woman." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2014 Good lord, what a downer. Keep at it, BrettArch. True love beyond the hobby is possible. It may fade someday, but it's better to have loved and lost. +1 Brett... Your super hot, good looking, you take care of yourself, your fun, sweet, and well educated easy to get along with. I hope a very nice young lady comes your way. I know how hard you are trying. You deserve nice girl. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 27, 2014 I took a minute to run this post through the hobby forum post translator. here is what I got back.............................. "That bitch sent the divorce papers to my work!" Or that bitch has a good divorce attorney , most probably an attorney with pussy working for Gloria Allred. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
