Posted July 23, 2014 Is there any one thing that would make you leave this lifestyle immediately? ( for the guys and the ladies) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2014 If my SO was to suddenly want sex again. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2014 If I ever entered into a traditional relationship 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2014 If my wife regained even 1/10 of the desire that she used to have, I would stop the hobby. I first communicated with an ASP in 2009 via e-mail in a classic time-wasting (I now realize) fashion. She was incredibly intuitive, understanding, sweet, and acted as a psychologist of sorts. She has since retired. I never met her in person, and it now seems unthinkable that she would e-mail with me as much as she did, but she did even after it was remarkably clear that I was not mentally/emotionally ready to venture outside the marriage. It was not until 2013 that I saw an FS provider (after a lot of FBSM), and then only once. In 2014, I saw two more FS providers and they were wonderful. The funny thing about it is that I have a relatively low sex drive. I would love once a week, but even twice a month would be perfectly fine with me. I would stop the hobby if I had sex -- really affection -- twice a month. Once every two months is just brutal. It wore on me and here I am. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2014 Maybe for the short term if I found a woman that keeps my interest like the ladies here do and one that can put up with me. The relationship would soon fail like most do and I'd be back. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2014 If all the ladies turned into guys... Not that there is anything wrong with that :-) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2014 My main reason for hobbying is being single, so if I had a SO, I would quit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2014 Same answer as most of the other guys. If I was getting it at home never would have come here in the first place. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Same answer as most of the other guys. If I was getting it at home never would have come here in the first place. So true. I have heard people say that monogamy is a pipe dream, impossible, against man's true nature, etc. And yet, if my woman had kept even a small sliver of desire, I would not have wanted any other woman. She is my dream woman. I have not encountered a provider who is hotter, sweeter, more interesting, etc. And yet, sex is just not part of her world anymore. I want it to change, I'm working for it to change, but I'm here in the meantime. If wives/girlfriends were even a wee bit more affectionate, hookers would make a whole lot less money. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Is there any one thing that would make you leave this lifestyle immediately? ( for the guys and the ladies) no. there is nothing. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 I would if it was a love thing. But having been married twice- I don't see that happeing. So now I look at it this way-when I retire. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Correction, if wives didn't get allergic to blowjobs after the wedding... "I'm your wife, not your slutty girlfriend" Well said, comrade. And yet, the week after the wedding during the honeymoon, oh, she could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. What a hot little vixen she used to be. And when she wanted the diminutive forbidden topics, that was an absolute blast. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Leave??? I am having a hard time getting started. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 If I could find an SO that would stick around long term AND still want to have sex, yes I'd quit. I don't hobby while I'm actively dating someone, but as soon as it ends, back to the hobby I usually go. I'm back again as of last month when my relationship ended. Perhaps monogamy is a pipe dream at this point ? It sure seems pretty difficult at this point given all the options both genders have available to them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 So Holly, what one thing would it take for YOU? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Not to be morbid ... I'll quit when I die Is there any one thing that would make you leave this lifestyle immediately? ( for the guys and the ladies) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Correction, if wives didn't get allergic to blowjobs after the wedding... "I'm your wife, not your slutty girlfriend" I'm kind of off my topic but, IDK..... all of my SOs have got their dick sucked daily (morning and night) by someone who is errrrrrrrrr..... kind of skilled in the department, and it still does not seem to be enough sometimes. LOL 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Hello Holly, IMHO that to make a relationship work there has to be more than sex. I know exactly what you are saying about your SO'S as I am aware of your talent. it just has to all come together at the right time. My SO, when she was still horny, was just as good a sex provider to me as any lady I have been with in Denver. Since she is also my best friend and treats me like a King I would never, repeat never leave her. I do have needs though so here I sit fat dumb and happy with my 5 favorite providers. LUV, Ya Holly 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2014 Is there any one thing that would make you leave this lifestyle immediately? ( for the guys and the ladies) Not that I can think of. Woo-hoo!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 26, 2014 Yeah, the day I get this email: Hi 2Big, I always read your posts on theotherboard. I'm a huge fan! I want to offer you unlimited sex, any time you want. Nothing is taboo! Yours sincerely, Scarlett Johansson 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 26, 2014 So Holly, what one thing would it take for YOU? Like Jez said----REAL love----I've been asked to quit. I get it. After 3 years he has had enough. So the question then, I guess..... is it REAL love? lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 26, 2014 Powerball!!!! Pretty sure this^^^^ would have the opposite affect on my hobbying 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 26, 2014 I left when I decided to give my dream a try....do I miss the lifestyle? Sure, a little....I'm not getting laid anymore hahahaha 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 27, 2014 Yeah, the day I get this email: Hi 2Big, I always read your posts on theotherboard. I'm a huge fan! I want to offer you unlimited sex, any time you want. Nothing is taboo! Yours sincerely, Scarlett Johansson That's one of your best post ever 2Big. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 27, 2014 Yeah, the day I get this email: Hi 2Big, I always read your posts on theotherboard. I'm a huge fan! I want to offer you unlimited sex, any time you want. Nothing is taboo! Yours sincerely, Scarlett Johansson Kat Dennings has better boobs My plan was similar, get pregnant with Ryan Gosling's baby and run away to raise our future circus performer child. That witch, I mean the lovely Eva Mendes beat me to it though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2014 Perhaps a beautiful hottie that loves to f**k me crazy every day. What would it take for you to quit the ASP business? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
