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It is not likely, but, also not impossible for something like ebola to spread through the hobby. It only takes a few people desperate to make a buck or with a screw everyone else attitude to start something.

So I am wondering why the ladies say it would be better to date someone you met in the civilian world and then tell him what you do. It does not make sense to me. Is this so you can keep your lives separate or because you think he won't be able to separate it. Seems to me that a guy already active here could be more understanding of your situation and willing to accept it. Thoughts?

I hope everyone understands sarcasm when they read it. Yea. Oxy will need to add a new type of dating ad category. Sounds like a new revenue stream. Or maybe that already exists at www.sugardaddy.com So this week I went on two civilian dates for the first time in a while. Kinda boring actually. No real connections for me. But, both gals initiated make out sessions before the night was over. So I guess I still got a little game left without paying for it. But, feel like I need to change my moniker from imwhoim to i2mapig. Ha And last night was a weird first. Had a Skype date (can you fuckin' believe it?) with this attorney/college professor from Brazil who next year is coming here to teach for a semester. She is very much my idealized physical type with a very cute face, long black hair and a fit, curvy body. Kinda blew me away actually. And we seemed to hit it off. After an hour, she laid on her side with her hand propping up her head and she hiked up her brightly colored flower print halter top dress and started to massage her thighs and lick her lips as we talked. And then she passionately kissed the screen when we said goodbye. Supposed to talk again today. Who knows where this could lead? Did that give you some material to work with macho? Any way, when I went to bed last night and when I woke up this morning I was still thinking about the original object of this post. Is there such a thing as mental stalking? So will finally commit to talking with her when she gets back from vacation. Wish me luck! But, I probably won't let you know what happens. Sorry!

Cream with a cherry on top.

I have not done anything yet. Besides being rich, handsome, funny, kind and a generous and fantastic lover, I really don't have anything to offer this beautiful lady. So I am doubting myself. But, don't worry. You all will be invited to the wedding if it happens! I will need a macho man there to keep me from running away.

I have always been a serial monogamist. The last few months of seeing escorts has confirmed for me that I am happiest in a committed relationship. I like seeing you lovely ladies, but, there is still an unfulfilled hole in my soul. I can honestly say that I have never cheated on someone when in a relationship. Intellectually I don't believe in monogamy, but, have never had the opportunity to try out a non-monogamous relationship. I guess dating an escort would be the ultimate test of that theory. I am a bit gun shy of a real commitment at this point, but, definitely miss having a SO to go out to dinner, shows, concerts, etc. So I would like that with the freedom on both sides to take time to really get to know each other and make sure that we are a really good match before jumping into a commitment again. Not looking for free sex. I am willing to pay. I would not defraud a lady by pretending to be in a relationship only for free sex. Just not that kind of guy. Sage advice oh wise one. Thanks.

Yesterday I got on Match.com to check it out. Last time I looked was prior to being on TOB and P411. I saw ads on Match from four ladies in Denver and NoCo I recognized from P411 who say they are interested in marriage or LTR including one I had just met with a few days prior. All were in late 30s to early 40s and are above average in appearance. Surely they generate lots of interest from the guys. Makes me wonder what it would be like dating someone who escorts for a living. Or do the ladies plan to quit if they find a SO? I have been seeing one lady almost exclusively on a very regular basis for the last few months. We know each other pretty well by now. It's been kind of like having an office wife with benefits. We spend time together and have a good time and go our separate ways at the end of the day. She is someone I would definitely be interested in really dating if the opportunity were there. This morning I was tempted to ask her out as a civilian, but, don't want to ruin a good thing. Do you ladies date or have SOs?

Interesting how she categorized customers into four groups: guys interested in companionship, relationship, ownership and couples. Seemed to me she could be a lesbian not admitting it to herself yet. Guys were a means to money and luxury. Women gave her pleasure. Her writing is basically devoid of emotion or soul or spark or whatever you want to call it. Left me feeling sorry for her that she seems to have so little joy in her life. I too very interested in the ladies perspective on this.

I agree. of the five ladies I have met, only one was doing this for the wrong reason IMO (substance abuse). The other four are in this career, for legitimate reasons. Three of the four actually seem to really like what they do. With flexible work schedule and decent money while [snip} being reason number one. There's nothing wrong with that if they can deal with the shit that goes along with escorting. I myself am a bit defective while working through my shit from a recent breakup. I am just glad these ladies have been here for me. I have healed more from a few hours of affection from these sexy, caring ladies than I did from months of weekly marriage counseling. The angels of mercy moniker applies. The amazing Bernini sculpture called "The Ecstacy of Saint Teresa" comes to mind. There is healing in sexual connection. I was blessed through meeting these ladies. And if any of you aholes ever talked to my [snip} like you talk on here, fuck you. There is no excuse for being an ahole. Oxy needs to take a break. Even she is making excuses for you. If you aren't a decent person when you are anonymous, then you aren't really a decent person. Oh and congrats sexyblue for three years being sober. You rock girl!

Business Consultant line item on my financial statements. They inspire me to earn more money. I think it's legit.

Zooey Deschanel cause she's has a great personality and is cute, funny, smart and she sings. Not sure about her survival skills. But, I can handle that part.

Loving time with the late 30s to mid 40s gals. We have more in common. Good conversation. Beautiful. Skilled. Have their shit together. I don't feel like I am with one of my daughters' friends. Most are doing this part time while working on an exit strategy and seem to actually enjoy it.

If you are referring to escorting, I think escorting can be very moral despite what the religious and political establishment wants us to believe. If you are referring to people's feelings, then yea, it sounds like a bunch of bickering spouses who got their feelings hurt.

There was a bust of a john in Loveland yesterday. Not much detail in the paper other than LE advertised somewhere for a mother/daughter combo. The guy emailed with the "underage daughter" and went to the incall where he was busted for soliciting a minor. It's called the Darwin Effect.

I agree with everyone who says this is a business and should be treated like such. There are good and bad ways to participate in business. I prefer the "business ideal" of working with people who are honest and easy to work with and where people pay a fair price for an excellent product. When either side does not respect the other or thinks things are unfair, the business relationship probably won't work. Luce Kytten and av8r are probably not getting together any time soon. The guys who only see a lady once, don't give a shit. They can get away with the cum bucket attitude. That only works in a buyers market or a nontransparent market such as we have here. It won't work with a wife, girl friend or escort you see regularly. The girls who don't provide a good service for the price won't get repeat customers. Straight shooting is good. But, when people say things anonymously on the board, we can and do say things in a way we probably wouldn't face to face. Not everyone has skin like a rhino and people get their feelings hurt. But, I get the impression that some of the guys and gals really have deep seated disdain for the opposite sex or maybe its just people in general and are probably haters in real life too. The repeated bashing and negativity and offending terminology and "I'm only in it for me" attitude is what comes across as hating and wears on the psyche of the more sensitive souls here. And you can tell them if they can't take it, then they should leave. Someone else will come along. But, if you want to be part of Justina's "big, dysfunctional family", I think you should make an effort to play well with others.