Body Type in Review section

[Blue-eyedTraveler]

All I know is that if you need chalk and a string to find your way around, she ain't tiny.

[NaughtyNiceGuy]

Who landed in a sting? Reviews are worthless, the best you can get from them is that the provider might be legit.

[Guest moose]

Reviews are worthless, the best you can get from them is that the provider might be legit.

That alone makes them invaluable.

[Chrissy]

I've noted that most men in CO are tiny. That is going to affect their opinions about women.

I've researched the topic and it's the result of growing up at high altitude.

Lol! Time to make some plans down south I guess...

[Chrissy]

According to that I'm an Amazon!

Im wondering what that makes me??

[Pwyll]

IMHO being straightforward and honest trumps Being polite/kind/generous/understanding in reviews.

End of!

[MonetMarie]

Well Considering that I am a bbw I thought I would chime in here since I clearly say that I am the largest lady that shows her real height and weight. I look like my pics.

Bbw's is not for everyone it is a acquired taste a fetish really and on the streets and in real life its very common. Is it OK to be mean spirited towards us as a whole? No . Do I care if you don't want to try something new or different? No. Will I be upset if you never call ? No.

Being a bbw is something I take pride in. I can say that with out a doubt there is nobody like me. I lost 13 lbs the other day ... I hated all the attention it brought me ... I don't need to feel thin to feel beautiful. Before that whole big beautiful woman thing started to go around I had felt beautiful. I know my self I am not the typical fat person with self esteem issues so I eat to console myself... any one who ever knew me would know that I have a thyroid condition. in fact food makes me feel ugly inside because that's why people think I am big...

Some men have a lot of nerve talking about large women ... Some of you are not petite or slim build... it makes no difference to us we love seeing you and having fun... for example in the hobby I love big soft fat men they are fun especially if they are shy... makes me so happy. but in my personal life The men who get to be with me are slim with very nice sexy abs. When you all get on the board and make these comments ... we all sit back and are like is he really saying that I seen him how dare he say that ... the nerve. But then we move on because its just a opinion from some point of ignorance. One man's opinion does not taint the rest of the community's experience.

This bbw wouldn't be around as long as I have if one man's opinion held value... Everyone knows what they like or are willing to experience. I know when I see someone what the limits may be whether they can handle some different positions or what not... I am a woman. men if you don't like bbw than stay with in your comfort zone and don't make women feel bad . God made us all different.

You don't see us talking about you all or your inadequacy's like not being circumcised, too big body wise, package size. no and its not because you gift us. its because its wrong. why its allowed makes no sense.

hate it or love it large women be it tall or voluptuous or bbw are making there way on the boards over the last few years to provide variety. no yes you can say if i want to fuck a fat chick i can get one so easy ,your right some just need the attention... but than you have the few men who enjoy seeing a bbw on the board where there is nothing but beautiful average, petite, curvy women ... he think omg she is beautiful with her gorgeous face and round body ... i want that. Variety. That's why its important that there is a bbw out there . so you don't want to see her naked . OK but someone else will beg her to get naked. Don't hate it appreciate it.

Seriously guys its not alright to bad mouth the women for there body type ... That's why some wouldn't see you based on some comments or your p411 OK sheet if your type is one thing and you call someone different the thought is why me why now.

Merry Christmas

[DontEvenTrip]

Well Considering that I am a bbw I thought I would chime in here since I clearly say that I am the largest lady that shows her real height and weight. I look like my pics.

Bbw's is not for everyone it is a acquired taste a fetish really and on the streets and in real life its very common. Is it OK to be mean spirited towards us as a whole? No . Do I care if you don't want to try something new or different? No. Will I be upset if you never call ? No.

Being a bbw is something I take pride in. I can say that with out a doubt there is nobody like me. I lost 13 lbs the other day ... I hated all the attention it brought me ... I don't need to feel thin to feel beautiful. Before that whole big beautiful woman thing started to go around I had felt beautiful. I know my self I am not the typical fat person with self esteem issues so I eat to console myself... any one who ever knew me would know that I have a thyroid condition. in fact food makes me feel ugly inside because that's why people think I am big...

Some men have a lot of nerve talking about large women ... Some of you are not petite or slim build... it makes no difference to us we love seeing you and having fun... for example in the hobby I love big soft fat men they are fun especially if they are shy... makes me so happy. but in my personal life The men who get to be with me are slim with very nice sexy abs. When you all get on the board and make these comments ... we all sit back and are like is he really saying that I seen him how dare he say that ... the nerve. But then we move on because its just a opinion from some point of ignorance. One man's opinion does not taint the rest of the community's experience.

This bbw wouldn't be around as long as I have if one man's opinion held value... Everyone knows what they like or are willing to experience. I know when I see someone what the limits may be whether they can handle some different positions or what not... I am a woman. men if you don't like bbw than stay with in your comfort zone and don't make women feel bad . God made us all different.

You don't see us talking about you all or your inadequacy's like not being circumcised, too big body wise, package size. no and its not because you gift us. its because its wrong. why its allowed makes no sense.

hate it or love it large women be it tall or voluptuous or bbw are making there way on the boards over the last few years to provide variety. no yes you can say if i want to fuck a fat chick i can get one so easy ,your right some just need the attention... but than you have the few men who enjoy seeing a bbw on the board where there is nothing but beautiful average, petite, curvy women ... he think omg she is beautiful with her gorgeous face and round body ... i want that. Variety. That's why its important that there is a bbw out there . so you don't want to see her naked . OK but someone else will beg her to get naked. Don't hate it appreciate it.

Seriously guys its not alright to bad mouth the women for there body type ... That's why some wouldn't see you based on some comments or your p411 OK sheet if your type is one thing and you call someone different the thought is why me why now.

Merry Christmas

Very well said Ms. Marie! While it is perfectly fine to have one's personal preference or "taste" - the rude, mean and insulting comments ..."who wants to push aside her rolls of fat to poke her in the pink or stink" are just not necessary. Perhaps if this were an 11th grade boys' locker room, that type of talk would be acceptable, but in this community, we are all adults and believe it or not - even "hookers" have feelings.

Edited December 17, 2013 by DontEvenTrip
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[Pwyll]

If all escort ads had height weight and RECENT body and face pics as a requirement the number of clients would EXPLOOOOOOOOOD!

[Guest hgritstoo]

...............

You don't see us talking about you all or your inadequacy's like not being circumcised, too big body wise, package size. no and its not because you gift us. its because its wrong. why its allowed makes no sense.

Seriously guys its not alright to bad mouth the women for there body type ... That's why some wouldn't see you based on some comments or your p411 OK sheet if your type is one thing and you call someone different the thought is why me why now.

Merry Christmas

I agree it is never right to poke fun at people for their body types. A woman's attitude is far more important. That said, the items in bold tend to indicate that you don't think it right to bring up these body issues regarding the clients, and yet you (and other ladies) do so on a regular basis via comments attached to the clients p411 oks that they cannot see. This is somewhat disquieting.

If all escort ads had height weight and RECENT body and face pics as a requirement the number of clients would EXPLOOOOOOOOOD!

I don't believe this for an instant. Your evidence to support this (totally erroneous) claim?

[Goggles Paesano]

I don't believe this for an instant. Your evidence to support this (totally erroneous) claim?

I'm inclined to agree with hgritstoo on this. If anything, I think some providers would actually lose a lot of business. The incidence of bait & switch (particularly with sites such as backpage) is staggering.

[Jez UaBriain]

Very well said Ms. Marie! While it is perfectly fine to have one's personal preference or "taste" - the rude, mean and insulting comments ..."who wants to push aside her rolls of fat to poke her in the pink or stink" are just not necessary. Perhaps if this were an 11th grade boys' locker room, that type of talk would be acceptable, but in this community, we are all adults and believe it or not - even "hookers" have feelings.

I have met Miss Monet. I can vouch for what she says is true. She is a beautiful and compassionate young lady, and I have watched her mature greatly in mind over the last few years here. She also has a level of personal integrity that is hard to beat. Thank you Marie and Don't even Trip for your posts on this subject. Be true to yourselves ladies and gentlemen.

I have always wondered about those who are want to treat the ladies as pieces of meat to fuck. Rather a sensual woman whom they are about to get naked with. I know for a fact that I and my sisters here are so much more then just a fuckable body.

[Jez UaBriain]

And if I may add this gem from Monet Marie-

I quote-"its because its wrong. why its allowed makes no sense."

We learned mannners in grammer school. We should have learned compassion and empathy from our parents. Unfortunately, you often see a lack of all three of these on whore boards. Just saying......

[Sascha Sanders]

You don't see us talking about you all or your inadequacy's like not being circumcised, too big body wise, package size. no and its not because you gift us. its because its wrong. why its allowed makes no sense.

...I totally have talked about that stuff. I have preferences and I don't know why it's wrong to talk about them.

Generally, I don't find anything too wrong about this conversation or the fact that they are having it. From their perspective, I understand why confusion about body type in reviews is frustrating. If I've done my homework and I'm about to spend money, I want the body type that I want.

[MAG]

Seriously guys its not alright to bad mouth the women for there body type ...

Hookers bad-mouth johns all the time, for many more reasons than body type. How many times in the last 6 months have we seen a first-time post from a girl bitching about some guy's hygiene, or texting habits, or staying too long, etc, etc. And, there are plenty of hookers who turn away johns based on race & age.

So, discussions among johns about body type are more than valid, especially considering that WE are the one who are spending the Benji's. I'm not going to shed too many tears about those few ladies who get offended, especially after being told I'm an idiot for not being willing to take a dildo up the ass for a hypothetical payment.

"Respect" is a two way street.

[Goggles Paesano]

Hookers bad-mouth johns all the time, for many more reasons than body type. How many times in the last 6 months have we seen a first-time post from a girl bitching about some guy's hygiene, or texting habits, or staying too long, etc, etc. And, there are plenty of hookers who turn away johns based on race & age.

So, discussions among johns about body type are more than valid, especially considering that WE are the one who are spending the Benji's. I'm not going to shed too many tears about those few ladies who get offended, especially after being told I'm an idiot for not being willing to take a dildo up the ass for a hypothetical payment.

"Respect" is a two way street.

I just feel compelled to chime in here.... I want to officially go on record and say that I absolutley agree with av8r on this 100%!

(which kinda bothers me a little because it's av8r. But a good point is a good point nonetheless).

[SultryKitten]

I completely agree with you Monet!

I was, at one time, a petite little thing with a flat tummy when I got a back injury that practically made me bed ridden. Through therapy and healing, I am okay, but I gained over 70 lbs and have lost only half of it since. It is tough to lose because I can't exercise like I used to, and I can no longer stand for long periods of time either. What hurts though is that guys bad mouth my figure, or say I'm heavier when I have lost lbs since previous pics. I work HARD to try to lose the extra 30, but it just won't budge cause it is surface fat.

I do love my body, but when men constantly say something about it, it makes me question if I am beautiful, and I don't like that cause if it is affecting me, someone who strives everyday on maintaining her looks-what affect will it have on other ladies or our descendants that have to put up with this physical stigma put upon them?

I see men that are bald, receding hairlines, bellies, troubles with stamina/erections, wrinkles, moles, scars, prosthetics/other handicaps, and YET I enjoy each and every one of them because they are unique and they each are looking for something they know I can provide. I don't care about the physicalities of a person - I want respect, kindness, and honesty. I understand that a lot of what some clients are looking for is physical, but as Monet said, there is a client(s) for each and every one of us. Don't like what you see, move on and keep your mouth shut. Respect is earned and thinking it is okay to slander someone over the internet is still just as bad as doing it in their face.

It is a two-way street, but as long as men treat us like we are nothing but hookers-and yes, it is shown by their lack of hygiene, NCNS, abusing time, abusive texts, haggling, robbing, etc.-we will have a realistic view on clients and be more choosy by stating requirements for race, age, references, phone calls, you name it. I can tell you that one of mine is if you don't say "Hello" at the beginning of a phone convo, you will not walk through my door cause I see that as a lack of respect.

AV8R, look at it this way...you ARE spending the Benji's, but why do you have to? o.O

xoxo,

S3(Sultry Samantha Sheppard)

[MAG]

What hurts though is that guys bad mouth my figure, or say I'm heavier when I have lost lbs since previous pics.

Don't blame the messenger.

Don't like what you read, move on and keep your mouth shut.

I fixed it for ya.

Respect is earned and thinking it is okay to slander someone over the internet is still just as bad as doing it in their face.

Definition of slander: "oral defamation, in which someone tells one or more persons an untruth about another"

So, if someone says you are overweight, is that an untruth?

AV8R, look at it this way...you ARE spending the Benji's, but why do you have to? o.O

I could also ask you why you have to hook to make a living...

Bottom line -- johns are going to share information about your appearance, whether you like it or not. News flash: that's the nature of the business that you are in.

[Goggles Paesano]

I do love my body, but when men constantly say something about it, it makes me question if I am beautiful, and I don't like that cause if it is affecting me, someone who strives everyday on maintaining her looks-what affect will it have on other ladies or our descendants that have to put up with this physical stigma put upon them?

I see men that are bald, receding hairlines, bellies, troubles with stamina/erections, wrinkles, moles, scars, prosthetics/other handicaps, and YET I enjoy each and every one of them because they are unique and they each are looking for something they know I can provide. I don't care about the physicalities of a person

I think it's great that you love your body (as you should) but the thing that galls me is how women (yes, I am making a generalization here) act as if it's something that is only experienced by those without a Y chromosome. Women are every bit as shallow and superficial as us guys are (if not more so) when it comes to physical appearance.

And the fact that you "enjoy" each and every one of those guys you mention, I'm sure has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you are getting $$$ to enjoy them, right? If you weren't in this profession and being paid to do what you do, I seriously doubt that you'd give most of those guys the time of day or even a second glance, no matter how kind, courteous caring and respectful they are to you because you wouldn't take the time to even find out.

It's funny how a little $$$ can make women overlook a lot of male flaws and imperfections. But you're kidding yourself if you think you'd be that open-minded if there was no money being exchanged.

[MAG]

I think it's great that you love your body (as you should) but the thing that galls me is how women (yes, I am making a generalization here) act as if it's something that is only experienced by those without a Y chromosome. Women are every bit as shallow and superficial as us guys are (if not more so) when it comes to physical appearance.

And the fact that you "enjoy" each and every one of those guys you mention, I'm sure has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you are getting $$$ to enjoy them, right? If you weren't in this profession and being paid to do what you do, I seriously doubt that you'd give most of those guys the time of day or even a second glance, no matter how kind, courteous caring and respectful they are to you because you wouldn't take the time to even find out.

It's funny how a little $$$ can make women overlook a lot of male flaws and imperfections. But you're kidding yourself if you think you'd be that open-minded if there was no money being exchanged.

Well said, and right on the money.

[boink36]

AV8R, look at it this way...you ARE spending the Benji's, but why do you have to? o.O

xoxo,

S3(Sultry Samantha Sheppard)

So guys who spend money on escorts do it because they have to? that's as ridiculous as saying you only escort because you are not competent enough to get a real job.

[Guest hgritstoo]

Bottom line -- johns are going to share information about your appearance, whether you like it or not. News flash: that's the nature of the business that you are in.

This is true, but if appearance is really THAT important to you, how you share determines what kind of person you are.

Gentleman: Suzy Creamschmear seems to a bit on the Zoftig side. While I'm sure she's a lovely person, I am not attracted to that body type.

Asshole: Ol Suzy has really been packing in the donuts! She's so fat she's got a couple of little hookers in orbit around her!

The real sad thing is, regardless of whatever appearance shortcomings Ms Creamschmear may have, she's probably still hotter than what 90% of the gents or a-holes would be able to land on their own. Furthermore, she probably has the skills to ring their bells many times over......and because of their body image hangups, they'll never get to experience it.

Yes, I know we have many choices, and being visually stimulated creatures, we will pick that which titillates us the most at the moment. That doesn't mean we can't be nice about it.

[DontEvenTrip]

I think we are slightly missing the intended point here...

--There is nothing wrong with having a personal preference in body types but there is a big difference in describing someone as being "overweight" vs being

"a disgusting fat ass tub of lard!"

And I agree that it goes both ways. The nastiness and cruelty is just not necessary.

Now let's all play nice and enjoy the holidays like good girls and boys!

HO HO HO!

[Goggles Paesano]

The real sad thing is, regardless of whatever appearance shortcomings Ms Creamschmear may have, she's probably still hotter than what 90% of the gents or a-holes would be able to land on their own.

Where do you fall, hgritstoo? Are you among the 90% with the rest of us or are you one of the elite 10%?

Either way, I disagree with that statement.

I do, however agree that there's no reason for a guy to be disrespectful or cruel when describing a woman's body in a review (unless she's using fake pics that are nothing even remotely representative of her actual appearance in an attempt to bait & switch). But yes, a little tact goes a long way indeed.

[MAG]

unless she's using fake pics that are nothing even remotely representative of her actual appearance in an attempt to bait & switch).

True this. But it's just as bad when a provider posts outdated pictures of herself and then complains when a review is posted that calls her out on it. Remind you of anyone? And in a that case, an honest review calling attention to it does not qualify as "asshole" behavior.

[SultryKitten]

Oh AV8R, my new pics are heavier on purpose so that egotistical guys like YOU go yuck, and stay far, FAR away. Score for me! See, I love it when they come in and are pleasantly surprised who they are seeing. In reality, I am in very good shape and just cause my body doesn't reflect the body of Heidi Klum doesn't mean that I am overweight. My skeletal system will never be for Models R' Us. Let's just agree to disagree because you don't, and will never know me. Lastly, I don't hook to make a living. I hook cause I love the fact it keeps me from having to "interview", or as I term date, and due to my extensive traveling don't have time for that triviality. It allows an understanding between "consenting adults", we have fun and then go our separate ways which I think is a lot more drama free than the gf/bf thing. Perfect idea if you ask me.

Boink, I didn't realize that your name was AV8R! Hmmmm...:-)

xoxo,

S3(Sultry Samantha Sheppard)

[MAG]

Oh AV8R, my new pics are heavier on purpose so that egotistical guys like YOU go yuck, and stay far, FAR away. Score for me! See, I love it when they come in and are pleasantly surprised who they are seeing. In reality, I am in very good shape and just cause my body doesn't reflect the body of Heidi Klum doesn't mean that I am overweight. My skeletal system will never be for Models R' Us. Let's just agree to disagree because you don't, and will never know me. Lastly, I don't hook to make a living. I hook cause I love the fact it keeps me from having to "interview", or as I term date, and due to my extensive traveling don't have time for that triviality. It allows an understanding between "consenting adults", we have fun and then go our separate ways which I think is a lot more drama free than the gf/bf thing. Perfect idea if you ask me.

Boink, I didn't realize that your name was AV8R! Hmmmm...:-)

xoxo,

S3(Sultry Samantha Sheppard)

LOL - smh

[Guest hgritstoo]

LOL - smh

Lol...perfect. The following definition is taken straight from the urban dictionary:

SMH is an acronym meaning "shaking my head." It is an expression of un-verbalized contempt, used by people highly contemptuous of the world but too stupid to be able to express their disgust in actual words. It is, essentially, the grunt of the ignorant cynic.

[MAG]

Lol...perfect. The following definition is taken straight from the urban dictionary:

SMH is an acronym meaning "shaking my head." It is an expression of un-verbalized contempt, used by people highly contemptuous of the world but too stupid to be able to express their disgust in actual words. It is, essentially, the grunt of the ignorant cynic.

Also from the urban dictionary, which you conveniently left out:

Acronym for 'shake my head' or 'shaking my head.' Usually used when someone finds something so stupid, no words can do it justice. Sometimes it's modified to 'smfh' or 'smmfh' by those that prefer profanity in their internet acronyms.

[Bit Banger]

Where do you fall, hgritstoo? Are you among the 90% with the rest of us or are you one of the elite 10%? ...

Having visited with some of the same gals hgritstoo has and having shared a few adult beverages with him, I'd say his preference of personality over physique is genuine.