Blue-eyedTraveler

Completely serious, Kaduk. I'm being bombarded with attempts to connect, but very few of these women are there for BDSM.

Hello, everybody. Just dropping by to make you aware of my experiences on a relatively new BDSM dating site. It is not that, really. Girls use it to reach out to potential Johns. It's a fascinating study of how girls use the web in the wake of the Craigslist personals shutdown. If you're not using it, you might want to consider it. www.bdsmamerica.com. One of the women coming on to me wrote that I was "perfect" for her. Her first message off site was "How many guys will I have to fuck?" She wanted me to arrange a gangbang, so that she could get paid by each guy. This was a new one on me, so I thought I'd share it here. Gorgeous women and all around me including Nashville, Birmingham, Atlanta, and beyond. Age is mostly 20s and 30s. And THEY ALL WANT ME!!! Once the ego figured it out, I just smiled and laughed to myself at how clever y'all are.

Yes, this is bad ju-ju. I don't think it'll hold up in the courts. It's the First Amendment, but it's also utter bullshit to refer to the bill as a tool against "sex trafficking." Kinda like the misdirection of the "opiate crisis."

Let me tell you that reaching in to cop a butt feel and coming back with messy fingers puts that "fecal incontinence" matter in its proper perspective. I knew a woman whose previous boyfriend was a guy who would ONLY fuck her in the ass. She could take it or leave it, but it really did ruin it for me. She ended up stuffing her panties with tissue or wearing Depends. We didn't last very long. She had great legs and a cute little butt, but it just wasn't worth it over time. She also gave up on sex due to the trouble she had to go through to clean herself up. In my opinion, it's great, but it's an occasional treat, not a regular thing.

I'm not active much anymore, but in my time I was much more into faces than anything else. After all, I spent a lot of time watching eyes and reading pleasure through the face more than any other part of a provider's body. I adore little spinners, but my ATF was an under-the-radar provider who was a bit on the plump side. Three things made her my favorite, her looks, her personality, and the fact that she was always so damned horny. You can't fake that stuff. Oh, and reviews, especially if variety is your thing. Personally, it's overrated, but if you want it, then reviews are probably top priority.

I didn't want to hijack outlaw's BP thread, so I thought I'd start a new one. What's the weirdest idiosyncrasy you've ever encountered in a partner? Many years ago, I was in South Texas on business, and made a hotel appointment with a very hot, young Latina. I mean, damn! So I get her clothes off and pull her back to me on the bed, and she excuses herself to run into the bathroom. She comes out with a dry washrag and energetically hops on the bed. She says she loves to give head, so I position myself accordingly, and she takes me into her mouth. Then she wipes my dick with the washcloth and then back in her mouth. One stroke, and then the washcloth treatment. I said, "Um, what the hell are you doing?" "Oh, don't worry," she said. "I just can't stand the taste of precum." I tried again, but went limp. It was among the most disappointing of all encounters in my life. I just couldn't get back into it. BTW, I paid her. What's your story?

Every encounter is a learning experience, but bullshit is a lousy teacher. That's why I need honesty in feedback, not somebody trying to "make" me feel good. It's too transparent, and above all, I hate being called "baby" or any similar pornesque moniker. I just can't handle fakery and have been known to totally lose wood under such circumstances.

All my love and hope for a speedy recovery.

I thought "time and companionship" was a euphemism for fucking that was used in an attempt to shield oneself from LE. So if "time and companionship" is artificial, then wouldn't/shouldn't pricing be determined by the amount of fucking going on? I'm an old fart who can't bang over and over again, no matter how beautiful my bedmate. I'd be paying for travel, meals, sightseeing, relaxing, free time for the gal, and whatever else is required of a "vacation." And you want to charge me by the hour? If I offered you $5k to spend two weeks with me in Hawaii, would you accept?

Long ago, my favorite provider in Dallas liked to role play with me, and she was outstanding at maintaining character throughout, something that's not as easy as it seems. The scenario is daughter/step daughter returns home well after curfew. Very short skirt. Heels. She tries to sneak in. I'm waiting in the dark. After the dirty talk about what a slut she is, she's up against the wall and told to keep her arms above her head. I play slowly. She cannot lower her arms. And so forth...

Hello again, I wanted to take a few moments to let you guys know that I've learned a lesson this week about using more care in the presentation of thoughts on this board. To those who were offended by my post "Asian Men, White Women Porn," please accept my sincere apology. That was certainly not my intention, although a person is only judged on their behavior, and in that, I've failed pretty badly. As a writer, it's especially unnerving to have been called out for expressing something other than what I meant. Please allow me to explain. In my view, the physical act of sex is built upon a "man gives" (penis) "woman receives" (vagina) paradigm. Psychologically, therefore, it seems to me that the mental side of sex includes a similar concept, for what turns me on the most about sex - and has all my life - is my woman's genuine orgasm and her responsiveness leading up to it. A woman who responds to touch is letting her partner know if what her partner is doing is "working" for her, and that woman is to be praised. There is no better feeling, no greater sense of oneness felt than a woman's response. Therefore, whether fantasy or IRL, I am aroused by this, and I find a lot more in Japanese porn than any other genre. By using white women who speak English, that is magnified, whether the woman is feigning resistance (we used to call it "playing hard to get") or actively encouraging. In Western porn, the responsive actions of women are so over-the-top and fake that it leaves me utterly limp, whereas Japanese women play a more submissive role and seem much more responsive to the actions of the man in the scene. In this genre of which I speak, videos are 40 minutes plus, 80% of which are foreplay with the woman's response growing with arousal as the minutes tick by. This is my favorite cup of tea, for under my way of thinking, this is a man giving and a woman receiving. Moreover, I'll add that resistance is at least a response, which is much more than is often the case. It certainly beats the "oo, ah, give it to me baby" nonsense of more traditional porn or the transparent and artificial encouragement of "oh, you're so big" that seems to float other people's boats. In the Japanese culture, there appears to be a sense that the woman is "guarding" her (alleged) purity, which adds to the heightened response. It is as far from sexual assault as things can get, which is why I was so shocked at some of the responses. Like I said, I expressed it poorly. What I was trying to say was that a certain group of men in prison for violent acts against women (people I interviewed for an award-winning documentary many years ago) said they believed their victims actually liked what they were doing, which we all know is a total crock. Again, I'm really sorry for the umbrage caused. I was probing for responses to the idea of arousing women in the hobby, and I'm still very curious. It's a business deal, I know, and that's probably the biggest reason I don't play nearly as much as I once did. It's just too risky for my ego. I haven't had sex since 2011, but I can switch hands without missing a stroke. {Snip} Thanks for reading.

Okay. You've made your point. I've asked the mods to delete the post. I wanted to discuss asian male/white female porn, but everybody else wants it to be about [Snip}. Fine. And please don't try to tell me what I said, because, well, I wrote the fucking thing. Jumping to conclusions is a very old and tired practice, and I don't wish to play.

Nice assumption there, Kali. You don't know me at all, so spare me the judgmental condescension, friend. And way to hijack the thread. Thanks much.

So I've discovered this genre, and it's not only arousing but intriguing to me. Most of the videos are Japanese and censored, but newer entries are not censored. The women speak English, which separates them from other Japanese porn. The difference between this and all other m/f porn is the degree to which the Asian men try to drive their lovers crazy with attention to lady bits that arouse. Many/most of these videos feature a reluctant woman, but each gets really aroused (real or otherwise) no matter how hard they resist. The idea of a resisting woman getting turned on is, of course, a [Snip} fantasy, but these guys seem to pull it off in a way that is very appealing. Just wondering what you folks think.

I was going to say that I'd be worried about herpes, but all this talk about history has made me change my mind.