Posted August 16, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? I'm just curious as to the rationale behind this behavior. Ladies? Have you ever done this? Guys, have you ever received one? I'm not interested in your opinions, only if it's happened and if it did, why. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? yes I'm just curious as to the rationale behind this behavior. Ladies? Have you ever done this? Guys, have you ever received one? yes I'm not interested in your opinions,gotta hand it to ya Skibum, you have a way with words. only if it's happened and if it did, why.promote business - oops, sorry that was opinion:) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I've had a couple of ladies over the years call me and ask if we can get together. It has never been a spur of the moment thing though where they wanted to get together that same day. It has always been where they ask about getting together in a couple of days or so. They have been ladies I've told that they can call me and that we have meeting for a few weeks/months. I like to believe that they called because they enjoyed my company. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 Yeah of course. Any time you have a good session and connection with an escort they are going to check with you to see if you want to do it again. From the ladies perspective it makes sense to check with people you already know are safe and cool before you look for appointments from new clients. I think it happens all the time, I would not let it go to your head, because money is still involved lol. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I have providers contact me on occasion. My guess is it's just marketing. Contacting previous customers to generate a little extra income is nothing new to business. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 If we don't enjoy your company, then we , or should I say, I, will not return, period. I don;'t care how much money a man makes. If I don't like him as a individual, it will not happen again. And skibum, it is marketing. They must have thought you were fun and they wouldn't mind taking your cash again and your company. It's a compliment to you also. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 Made the mistake of giving my # to couple providers in the past, and they (plural) would call up frequently soliciting business. And to channel 2big, it was when (1) rent was due or (2) when jonesing for a fix. I highly doubt their motivation was my charm or good looks. Finally had to change my # as I couldn't say no. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? I'm just curious as to the rationale behind this behavior. Ladies? Have you ever done this? Guys, have you ever received one? I'm not interested in your opinions, only if it's happened and if it did, why. As stated in another thread, maybe they read up about your inheritance. This is just a recent phenomenon for you, correct? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? No; you must be a very special guy. I'm not interested in your opinionsNo problem ... that's why I provided sarcasm instead of an opinion. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2013 I've had several ladies that have done this. I actually really like it. They need some cash, they know I'm a safe bet as far as not being LE, or a boundary pusher, so they send me a text and sometimes it works out where I can actually make the time for a visit. Many times it also comes with the offer of a special low price that's incredibly difficult to turn down. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Fork, you got me LMAO! To the best of my knowledge these providers aren't aware of the inheritance. Boy, was I stupid in posting that or what? I'm a good client, but a lousy poster... I've had it happen in the past, as well. I'm afraid to take it as a compliment, that's why I'm asking around about it. Thanks for the all the responses, really appreciate it! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 One other thought. I know I'm GIB, not as good as I used to be but still up there. Could it be that these women are sex crazed maniacs? Nymphos? Are there nymphos in this biz? One of the gals spends hours with me without even charging extra. I think she's a sex fiend. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 ... One of the gals spends hours with me without even charging extra. I think she's a sex fiend. Now you're beginning to sound like our Mormon friend. To your OP: Yes. It's marketing. If I had a good time AND have the funds & time on hand, I'll consider a repeat engagement. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Yes. It's marketing. If I had a good time AND have the funds & time on hand, I'll consider a repeat engagement. Yes indeed. I don't mind the periodic solicitations from ladies I've seen before. It lets me know they appreciate my business, and that I'm an acceptable client. I"m not saying some clients don't get hit on due to their studliness. However, I have no delusions about my sexual prowess.....uncle Ben has always been better with the ladies. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Recently, one of clients whom I have been seeing for very long time was apparently solicited by a provider he has seen before, he booked the appointment. Once he arrived he was arrested. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Isn't provider solicitation an oxymoron? That is how they generate business. But the real reason of you posts are to demonstrate what a stud you are. The ones that should be concerned are those that don't get solicitated by a hooker. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Isn't provider solicitation an oxymoron? That is how they generate business. But the real reason of you posts are to demonstrate what a stud you are. The ones that should be concerned are those that don't get solicitated by a hooker. Recently, one of clients whom I have been seeing for very long time was apparently solicited by a provider he has seen before, he booked the appointment. Once he arrived he was arrested. So.....if they aren't sending me emails looking for return business.....then my money is worthless 'cause I'm someone they don't want to see again. And if they ARE sending me emails....its probably only because they're cops. Damn. I'm never gonna get laid again........ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 if it's happened and if it did, why. 1)yes, 2) Is this a trick question? Why in the world do you think? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Why ask why. I'm totally flattered by the call back especially if I sensed the same connection they seemingly had with me. *and its more than just the sex by the way... I find assertive women sexy as hell in or out of the hobby. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 "rationale" (don't be scared of links ) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 *and its more than just the sex by the way... Of course it is. It's magic. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Isn't provider solicitation an oxymoron? That is how they generate business. But the real reason of you posts are to demonstrate what a stud you are. The ones that should be concerned are those that don't get solicitated by a hooker. Oooh.. What if you ask a provider to call you..... Is that provider solicitation solicitation? Sorry. I just had a lot of sugar..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2013 Now you're beginning to sound like our Mormon friend. +1 I was wondering if he was still around. Perhaps switched identities? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? I'm just curious as to the rationale behind this behavior. Ladies? Have you ever done this? Guys, have you ever received one? I'm not interested in your opinions, only if it's happened and if it did, why. That's no fair. It never happens to me. As a matter of fact they usuall leave crying. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2013 Now you're beginning to sound like our Mormon friend. "Demure Skibum" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2013 Only from someone I'd seen more than once and had some chemistry with. We'd occasionally exchange e-mails on subjects outside of the business. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2013 My guess is maybe said lady is slow and "cold calling" so to speak? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2013 This does not mean a provider should contact a friend without knowing friends situation out of the blue...text, call, or email. Discretion and respect is *key* 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2013 I've had a few providers recently contacting me about getting together again. They've been very complimentary towards me. Has anyone else have this happened? I'm just curious as to the rationale behind this behavior. Ladies? Have you ever done this? Guys, have you ever received one? I'm not interested in your opinions, only if it's happened and if it did, why. Yes, probably hard up for money. I never asked because I knew I wouldn't get a real answer. She'd probably say she enjoyed my company or something.. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2013 It's just business....and yes, a little bit of a compliment. She enjoyed your money and your company (or just your money a lot ). I think that it's kind of nice when a lady solicits me for a return visit. An actual phone call might be like putting me through a meat grinder....but a blank txt is our nice little code, just to let me know.....there's a little time available today! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
