wtf....

[parkercole]

i suppose i know what the responses will be but here it goes.

i had recently experienced a three day date in las vegas that was absolutely horrible! she was a lady that i had seen for a 24 hour date back in february and it was golden. i just can't seem to have the balls to write a review of her and our most recent experience. in vegas she was very impersonal, standoffish, and cold. after the second day of this behavior i was at my wits' end! so i was honest with her and told her how i was feeling about our time with each other. she seemed to get mad at me for even bringing it up. and all i got back was she was sorry i wasn't having a fun time with her? so i gave it a few more hours and nothing changed. so i had to go to a plan b. i had to pull the plug for my sanity and told her she could have the room for the remainder of the time in vegas. everything was paid for and she was financially set. i was done with our date and would be staying with my friends from there on out.

this may sound a little wierd but the only good thing with our date was our sexual playtime. but the companionship or her perspective and frame of mind was terrible-that was the crazy part! we had went to awesome shows, excellent eateries, stayed at a great hotel, and seen and experienced alot of the strip/town in those two days.

i just haven't been able to write a review of my time with her. she is a respectable lady where she lives. i also have many reviews of ladies in that part of country. i suppose i still have respect for the lady as a person. but not as an escort that totally flat-lined on our date. flying home all i could think was wtf just happened?!? i thought i had a good idea of who this lady was. in the end it was just a waste of my time and alot of cash! i had never been so disapointed and suprised like this before. it was an experience that made me rethinking pooning all together. i travel alot and i love to combine the two. so i'm sure in the end i'll chaulk this up to a wtf experience! also just to be clear this isn't a local lady....

[inkspot]

Good for you for pulling the plug. Umm, you were a lot nicer than I would have been if I was in you shoes.

She sounds like a spoiled brat with a sullen pout. Wondering, what did I do, you try to make nice. Does not do a bit of good with a brat.

Sorry you had such a bad experience. You should write a review. Bad attitude deserves a review. It is especially bad when you have seen that person before and then find out they are really bad company.

I had a similar experience with a civilian on a long ski weekend a while back. Looking back, I did not do anything to deserve the ice cold behavior. The weekend was a disaster. She was just a bitch in the put off mode. I found out a little late.

If you have a string of 4-5 so-so or bad experiences, you need to take a step back from the hobby for a while.

[Paul Pudenda]

This sounds like a pretty good review to me - straight forward, not vindictive. Copy/paste/post. Others should be warned of the lady's limitations on an extended liaison. She may be fine for up to 24 hrs, but not more. Of course, she may have had some difficulties going on of which you weren't aware. But she should have cleaned up her act after you called her on it. If she was willing to accept a 3-day invitation, she should have fulfilled her part of the bargain. One doesn't pay for b*tchy - that's what marriage is for.

[pfunk]

While I agree she was unprofessional, Paul touched on "she may have other issues".

You and I will never know what prompted her mood. Did she get outed to her family recently? Did she lose her medication. Were you irritating her? Does she have fibromyalgia?

Write a review, and learn from the experience. Sorry it was a bad time!

[Velvet Valentine]

You and I will never know what prompted her mood. Did she get outed to her family recently? Did she lose her medication. Were you irritating her? Does she have fibromyalgia?

Pfunk, you are too funny. LOL

Happy Father's day guys.

[MAG]

You've had some good responses here -- I agree, write a review. And I'm sure there was something else going on that contributed to her behavior.

Here's what I don't get. You entered into a business transaction with someone who was not holding up her end of the deal. If she had been a building contractor, or a house painter, or a mechanic, or whatever, you'd have fired her ass & kicked her to the curb. Why is it different because she's a hooker?

If someone fails to deliver a quality product, pull all funding and show them the door. It shouldn't be different just because she has a pussy.

[Jez UaBriain]

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You've had some good responses here -- I agree, write a review. And I'm sure there was something else going on that contributed to her behavior.

Here's what I don't get. You entered into a business transaction with someone who was not holding up her end of the deal. If she had been a building contractor, or a house painter, or a mechanic, or whatever, you'd have fired her ass & kicked her to the curb. Why is it different because she's a hooker?

If someone fails to deliver a quality product, pull all funding and show them the door. It shouldn't be different just because she has a pussy.

I have to agree with this point of view. While there is a personal aspect to this, THIS IS a business transaction. Whenever you have to pay for something that you are unhappy about, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Maybe you should have just cut her trip short, placed her on the next plane home, with her fee-only up to that point. That is all she earned. It's the cost of doing business. Her earning only went to a point, in which she did not not hold up to her end.

Twenty four hours is easy to bring your A game to the table. 3 -days on the other hand, that can be tough. There can be alot of fakery in this biz, and it is not uncommon. So the best suggestion I can make is tlhis- be sure you know your provider well. Make sure that you would actually consider her as a friend- with strings . I've done 24 hours, and I've done the 3 nights-4 days bit. But I did them with a hobbyist that I truly like as a individual. A very-much married at the time guy. We have had a blast every time we have done a extended date. But if I had to do this with a couple of other hobbyists I know, it could easily be tortuous for me till the end. Some people are just dry in their personality. And for a goof-ball like me- well, it would be miserable. Trips are supposed to be fun. Take a friend you enjoy being with. I know some of you guys have met providers whom you enjoy sexually, and yet still have a friendship with the boundaries entrenched into the friendship. This is who you would have fun with on a extended date. Not the flavor of the week.

[SlutBoy]

Good points Jez---there are really are very few providers I've met that an extended "date" may be fun...And candidly it could be that they're both good people.. the personalities aren't a match or an "issue" may develop...either way she should have been more forthcoming on any issues etc when he told her and done her best to "accommodate" ...IMHO

[lilithia]

It is hard to keep a straight face and your emotions in check for the long haul. Its a working vacation not a vacation.

Lilithia

[MAG]

It is hard to keep a straight face and your emotions in check for the long haul. Its a working vacation not a vacation.

Lilithia

It's working. You're providing a service, it's not meant to be a vacation for YOU -- it's a vacation for him.

If you can't provide the service, then limit yourself to 24-hour dates. Or one hour. Or 15-minutes.

[Doug28]

Your post is a great reminder for all of us.

60 minute love and connection is easy.

24 hour love and connection is hard.

72 hour love and connection is impossible unless its real.

I wouldn't have ended it but I would have scaled back my time with her so she could be your special girl in smaller increments.

Sounds like a good escort, just not a good companion.

[Mistress Claire]

That's pretty nuts but not surprising. You did state that you have only seen her for one whole day, one appointment. When a woman is making money, it's easy to keep a smile on but for a whole three days? Maybe she didn't like you as much as she made you believe. I'd contact her again, see if she cooled down any. Maybe see if she is offering any answers and a few free appointments.

If not, I'd cut ties and would put a review out for her. Two would be right since the first appointment did go good. I'd add in the first appointment that it was a 24 hour period and the second appointment was a 3 day visit.

I'm sorry this happened to you. I've actually had this situation happen to me, where I was paid in advance and it turned out I didn't like the guy. So I refused seeing him again but am currently paying him back what I owe. I wouldn't want someone to rip me off, so I'm not going to be one of those people.

ALSO! HAPPY FATHER'S DAY~

[mj76]

Sorry this happened to you but it is all your fault. I have extensive experience in this area. You did something that pissed her off. It was up to you to read her mind and apologize profusely for your stupidity. What you signed up for was the wife expereince. Things would have gotten better after 3 or 4 days had you stuck in there, agreed with everything she said and wanted to do, apologized everyday for your mere existence and gave into the fact that you are the biggest douchebag that ever walked the earth. Then all would have been forgotten and you would have a great time until did something stupid again at which time you have to start the process again.

In all seriousness though you should write a review so that guys know she is cool for the hour but probably not much more.

[Guest hgritstoo]

It is hard to keep a straight face and your emotions in check for the long haul. Its a working vacation not a vacation.

Lilithia

And this is why I've stayed away from the longer dates. I can be moody, irritable, and petulant. I don't think I could stave off those emotions for a whole 72 hours.....and it wouldn't be fair to ask a lady to put up with them unless she was given combat pay.

But please post the review.....some of us meet the LV ladies from time to time.

[mrvegas63]

...agreed with everything she said and wanted to do...

Though joking, probably some truth there.

we had went to awesome shows, excellent eateries, stayed at a great hotel, and seen and experienced alot of the strip/town in those two days.

Maybe awesome time/places for OP, but for the provider, a weekend in Vegas for her might mean going to the hot clubs, hanging out in a cabana at one of the big pool parties, dinner in one of the restaurants connected to the hot clubs, etc.

OP could have helped the situation by asking what she wanted to do, instead of this whole pseudo real date/wooing thing. Then again, provider should have been working on the assumption she's working and not going on a paid vacation.

[2Big]

TLDR...........................................................

[pitbull]

Too bad that happened. Can't imagine what it costs for three days of time.

Three days with a wife would be quite different. Great attitude, great conversation, pleasant company -- and NO SEX.

Pick your poison.

[Paul Pudenda]

This is a wonderful response.

[lilithia]

Then don't bitch if she is not having a good time. Working is working did she get a break did she get a lunch meal by herself. Well now he knows he was not the center of her world.

Lilithia

[MAG]

Typical. Get paid untold thousands of dollars for 3 short days, and he's the bad guy.

I'm sure her attitude was similar to yours, which is why he kicked her to the curb.

[lilithia]

I hope she was smart enough to get half down. 72 hours is not 3 short days, go to jail and tell me how short 3 days is.

lilithia

[nairobi09]

Just write a review with all of the details, qualifications, etc. We are used to sorting through it all.

[MAG]

TLDR...........................................................

This should help:

Guy hires hooker he thought he liked for GFE. Instead got BWE (bitchy wife experience). Guy calls it off early, hooker gets pissed. Instead of writing review, guy takes it in the ass and feels guilty at the same time.

As a result, hooker gets "golden pussy syndrome" and will expect future guys to pay high-dollar for mediocre service.

[Geekatlrg]

I just returned from a 7 day cruise with a younger lady she is not a provider and not quite a sugerbaby but we do have a 16 year age difference. We had never spent more than a weekend together. I figured out after the second day that we had very little in common other than great sex at times it was downright painful to have conversations.

We finally talked about it on the third day and things improved immensely with communication and compromise we were able to both enjoy ourselves.

it sucks that things did not improve after you spoke with her about it. communication is key try to take the fact that you are paying her out of the equation and try to look at it on a personal level for each of you. we all have off days. better luck next time! i am booking my next Cruise with another lady here soon hope it works out just as well.

she might be a total bitch but for me it made the world of diffrence

[Ghost_Rider]

I'm still stuck on the whole idea of a 3-day trip to Vegas, with a provider........I'm so jelly!

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[Paul Pudenda]

I'm still stuck on the whole idea of a 3-day trip to Vegas, with a provider........I'm so jelly!

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I was thinking the same thing. There's a plethora of providers in Vegas - and one can probably do better financially (and emotionally) with the many.

[DontEvenTrip]

You've had some good responses here -- I agree, write a review. And I'm sure there was something else going on that contributed to her behavior.

Here's what I don't get. You entered into a business transaction with someone who was not holding up her end of the deal. If she had been a building contractor, or a house painter, or a mechanic, or whatever, you'd have fired her ass & kicked her to the curb. Why is it different because she's a hooker?

If someone fails to deliver a quality product, pull all funding and show them the door. It shouldn't be different just because she has a pussy.

I am just curious - as I have never participated in any "extended travel dates" and really don't know the standard "procedures" but I would assume that the lady is paid up front..? Otherwise, what is to prevent her from being stiffed at the 72nd hour of the 3 day 'vacation'? And assuming I am correct in my assumption that the donation is taken care of up front then it would be difficult for him to "fire her ass" or "kick her to the curb" 2 days into the date right?

Perhaps my understanding of how it rolls is wrong though. Regardless, it sucks that happened to the OP. I'm sure it was a costly disappointment. xoxo

[inkspot]

Mr. Parker, did you forget to tell us the most important part of your story??

Having her show up on her period for a 3 day vacation explains a lot.

This is WTF material.

[pitbull]

Mr. Parker, did you forget to tell us the most important part of your story??

Having her show up on her period for a 3 day vacation explains a lot.

This is WTF material.

Oh my. No. Just, no.

[parkercole]

thanks for your thoughts and input. i will most likely post a review this weekend. actually i flew this lady in from portland, ore. again had an amazing 24 hour date with her back in february. we talked about going somewhere fun. so i asked her if she was up for fun in vegas.

i was also lucky enough to have a couple of 24 hour dates with two different vegas ladies! i maximized my time while i was there, big smile! i must say that it was a process to find genuine ladies in vegas. but did my homework and all went well with the vegas ladies!