Posted February 20, 2013 For a provider to ask to meet for drinks, prior to the session or vice versa? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 For a provider to ask to meet for drinks, prior to the session or vice versa? During the 25 years of doing this, I've never been asked, nor have I asked for it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 That's kind of what I thought, thanks 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 During the 25 years of doing this, I've never been asked, nor have I asked for it. You've been seeing hookers since you were 5?! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 Very unusual. In about 11 years it has not happened to me. One time an escort ran into me when she was leaving the hotel lounge a couple of hours after our appt. and asked me to go out to dinner with her. That was it and it was an accident. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 I am sure a lot of providers would love to have a drink in between appointments or after their last appointment. But they are to smart. They know that the average "trick" is to stupid to understand that she is just bored. Guys would read to much into it and then nothing but trouble. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 I have been asked a few times, and have done it. I think there is a mentality among some that LE would never ask and/or show up for drinks first. I do not assume that! On the other hand, some folks just feel more comfortable in a "real date" situation, or having a little icebreaker. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 Not unusual for me to ask or to be asked. i always accept and he has always accepted. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 Happened once, while we were working out scheduling. Worked out fine, had no problem. (Mind you, this was an easy going sociable person - not some entitled demand.) I can imagine circumstances when I might not want to, in which case I'd politely decline. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 I did it ONCE... I was star struck with a band that invited me out. I hung out for like 5 minutes.. and it totally hit me that they had NO intention of paying. That was a nice 30 minute drive there and 30 minute drive back... Now, I notice guys ask.."Wanna grab drinks at The Ritz?/ Four Seasons? Im famous/ athlete/rich/ own tons of cars/ houses." blah blah blah.. They THINK we will take the bait! ha! I HIGHLY recommend girls offer it on Their Menu. Wanna have drinks and playtime? Cool.. meet you at the cash register.Cha CHIng. Be CLEAR while booking ladies, that you have a Menu Item For That! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 Provider asking to meet prior to session: I'd be leery. As we've seen in other threads, who knows who's out there looking to use the fact that you're a pervert, as seen by "normal" society (eg. capturing the plate number of your car, someone with a camera getting your picture while talking with lady; sure, she might be just trying to get a feel,if she wants to do a session). Sure, might be paranoid, but then again, maybe not. Even if no reason to be paranoid, have a back story in place, because if you're married and someone you know spots you with a woman too hot for you to be with... Then again, if you're going to hobby, every session is a possble danger for your shit being put out there (eg. Provider getting busted/investigated while you are there). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 It has happen a few times and they were some of the better sessions. It makes it feel more like a date than a business transaction. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 Sure, I did (and still do) as part of my "Date Without the Hassles" menu offering. We might even have dinner first! Feels more like a date than a business transaction for us both. Then we tend to make more of a connection and have an intimate encounter.............. which is what most of my clients are looking for. It's harder to find in this industry. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 For a provider to ask to meet for drinks, prior to the session or vice versa? In the pre-internet days, it was common to meet a hooker in a bar, or have a meeting with a call-girl in a bar before going back to your room or her place or maybe one or the other of you refused the date for whatever reason. Today you might call it "screening" or "doing your homework,"depending on your point of view. Today, it's quite unusual, unless you have a social relationship with the provider. If you and the girl click, it never hurts to ask, but never forget that this is how they pay their bills. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 There have been many times when if our session ended near meal time I might ask if the YL would care to join me. If she sayd yes, great! If not, no problem, no pressure. Ofcouse there are also preplanned dinner dates, which can be a lot of fun. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 21, 2013 I have been asked a few times, and have done it. I think there is a mentality among some that LE would never ask and/or show up for drinks first. I do not assume that! On the other hand, some folks just feel more comfortable in a "real date" situation, or having a little icebreaker. Not drinks but maybe go out for breakfast ~ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2013 I did it ONCE... I was star struck with a band that invited me out. I hung out for like 5 minutes.. and it totally hit me that they had NO intention of paying. That was a nice 30 minute drive there and 30 minute drive back... Now, I notice guys ask.."Wanna grab drinks at The Ritz?/ Four Seasons? Im famous/ athlete/rich/ own tons of cars/ houses." blah blah blah.. They THINK we will take the bait! ha! I HIGHLY recommend girls offer it on Their Menu. Wanna have drinks and playtime? Cool.. meet you at the cash register.Cha CHIng. Be CLEAR while booking ladies, that you have a Menu Item For That! I'm surprised you don't have a 900 number for scheduling appointments. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 22, 2013 I've had several providers offer to take me to a strip club, when I confessed that I've never been. Does that count? Although it gave me a warm fuzzy....it's still never happened. Somehow, I just don't think the S.O. would approve 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
