Posted January 23, 2013 I read an interesting comment on sowet about TOB essentially saying TOB is pretty mean spirited. I would agree. I'll try not to be that. How often have you read an advertisement that states the woman is well educated, can fit in at a cocktail party and so on. This begs the question, are clients taking/paying escorts to non-sexual stuff? This is the sort of thing I read about when powerful people go down in the media but I'm surprised it happens on a smaller local level. Is there a stigma to going to a cocktail party alone? Do you really want to risk taking an escort to an important business dinner ala Pretty Woman? Maybe this is so you can have a fulfilling conversation between shots on goal? My criteria has been friendly, polite, and MSOG. I'm seriously interested in how often this happens. Paying an escort to do those things it out of my price range but if someone else has it, good for them. educated: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/exotic_-sexy_g-o-r-g-e-o-u-s-h-o-t-t-i-e-75special-21/11137697 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-playful-fun-loving-a-cut-above-35/10052591 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/winter-warm-up100-satisfaction-check-out-my-reviews-28/10974431 dinner date: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-pics-from-avn-published-playboy-model-twitter-celebrity-reviewed-200-24/10933881 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/klttle-back-to-see-you-at-your-place-out-only-49/10752581 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/o-n-e-s-m-o-k-i-n-g-h-o-t-c-u-t-i-e-l-o-o-k-21/9678525 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I read an interesting comment on sowet about TOB essentially saying TOB is pretty mean spirited. I would agree. I'll try not to be that. How often have you read an advertisement that states the woman is well educated, can fit in at a cocktail party and so on. This begs the question, are clients taking/paying escorts to non-sexual stuff? This is the sort of thing I read about when powerful people go down in the media but I'm surprised it happens on a smaller local level. Is there a stigma to going to a cocktail party alone? Do you really want to risk taking an escort to an important business dinner ala Pretty Woman? Maybe this is so you can have a fulfilling conversation between shots on goal? My criteria has been friendly, polite, and MSOG. I'm seriously interested in how often this happens. Paying an escort to do those things it out of my price range but if someone else has it, good for them. educated: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/exotic_-sexy_g-o-r-g-e-o-u-s-h-o-t-t-i-e-75special-21/11137697 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-playful-fun-loving-a-cut-above-35/10052591 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/winter-warm-up100-satisfaction-check-out-my-reviews-28/10974431 dinner date: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-pics-from-avn-published-playboy-model-twitter-celebrity-reviewed-200-24/10933881 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/klttle-back-to-see-you-at-your-place-out-only-49/10752581 http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/o-n-e-s-m-o-k-i-n-g-h-o-t-c-u-t-i-e-l-o-o-k-21/9678525 It depends on the city but this happens often enough. You're not paying for a 4 hour plus date for msog. You're really paying for the lady's company. Judging by Denver ladies' ads, pricing and websites, these longer dates are in the minority as a percentage of total dates. I have done dinner dates and overnights before and they're fun. It's fun to have a nice dinner with a lady with the full knowledge that you'll be having fun later that night. It's fun to wake up to a bj in the morning. You're not worried about the clock and you can enjoy yourself completely. With the right lady, it's like a date with a guaranteed outcome. My feeling is why not spend more time with someone I like. Spending only an hour together just feels insufficient. I'd never take a lady to a business meeting though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I don't think that higher end ladies are more educated than the typical provider. However they are classier. They know how to conduct themselves at a nice restaurant, they know of good nightlife places, they know how to conduct themselves so that no one would be able to guess that she's an asp and I'm a client, they know how to dress in accordance with the occasion. Depending upon the lady, she may also be much, much more cultured than the average person. Remember the minority of Americans hold passports. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I've never done it, but know at least one friend who has. We worked for a large company, it was a holiday party, fancy attire, and he didn't want to go alone. I don't see anything wrong with it, assuming you enjoy the ladies company. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 The last time I saw this was a national trade convention. Advertising execs & VPs walking around the various corporate "hospitality suites" with arm candy half their age. I recognized several gals from the display booths on the convention floor. I suspect talent from local modeling agency. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I recall one work holiday party at a nice restaurant back when I lived in So Cal. A mild mannered programmer showed up with a drop-dead gorgeous lady on his arm. She was introduced as "a friend" and they seemed awkward together. It never occurred to me that she might be a paid companion until a buddy of mine made a snide comment the following week along the lines of "I hope he got his money's worth, because she wasn't cheap." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I would never ever take a hooker to an official company event. 1. Some dude might recognize her. 2. She might embarrass me (can't hold her liquor, starts handing out business cards, etc.) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 ..... educated: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/exotic_-sexy_g-o-r-g-e-o-u-s-h-o-t-t-i-e-75special-21/11137697 If a gal is promoting the fact that she's educated, and by implication, attempting to appeal to an audience for whom that's an important element, she might not want to start her ad with "I'M A EDUCATED BEAUTY." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 Living in a remote, rural (albeit paradise), I occasionally enjoy extended stay companionship. On an import/export basis, smart, presentable and able to carry a social tune matter just as much as her bbbj's. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 If a gal is promoting the fact that she's educated, and by implication, attempting to appeal to an audience for whom that's an important element, she might not want to start her ad with "I'M A EDUCATED BEAUTY." I thought the same thing. Possibly to your surprise, guys sometimes actually do just pay for companionship. I've had several instances where I have been paid simply for my time. I have been paid to go to shows, go out on the town in Vegas, go out to a nightclub, go to dinner, and in one instance, I was paid to hang out at the park for two hours and play Frisbee. Although this type of arrangement may not appeal to many of you here, it absolutely does exist. Why does it exist? Because there are men out there that are genuinely lonely that are actually interested in the companionship of a younger pretty girl. Bless their hearts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 What this phrase in advertising means to me: - You CAN take her somewhere social if you so choose without being embarassed, - She can hold up her end of a conversation regardless of location/circumstances, - She is not a Bimbo (rare as this is @ TOB, it is something I avoid like the plague), - She knows what she is doing, is more likely to be truly independent, and is also more likely to be in the biz because she enjoys it. While physical interaction is fun, it is much more fulfilling with an intelligent lady where the social part is also fun and the likelihood of a connection is greater. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 they know how to conduct themselves so that no one would be able to guess that she's an asp and I'm a client This is also true on the flip-flop. I learned my lesson early on in this hobby that while it may be a gamble for the gentleman to take a lady out on the town and run the risk of being embarrassed, it is also a nightmare to be a lady out in public with someone who: 1) can't keep his hands off her in a very ungentlemanly way. I may be an escort, but I don't want to be publicly molested. PDA is something I seldom do in my private affairs, let alone a client/provider relationship. 2) appearance-wise would be hard to pull off as her non-monetarily driven lover. If I feel that everyone in a restaurant is looking at us all night thinking "she's definitely a hooker" you can count me out. So awkward. Then there's the issue of Denver and surrounding areas being a very small world and I don't want to have to explain to my high school frenemy why I'm out on a date with someone who looks like the opposite of Brad Pitt. After a few of these types of public encounters early on in my career as "Mona" I have strictly forbidden myself to go out on paid blind dates. I will only do so after we've spent ample time together alone. Even then there's no guarantee that things will go smoothly, but at least I have a clue as to what I'm getting myself into. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I thought the same thing. Possibly to your surprise, guys sometimes actually do just pay for companionship. I've had several instances where I have been paid simply for my time. I have been paid to go to shows, go out on the town in Vegas, go out to a nightclub, go to dinner, and in one instance, I was paid to hang out at the park for two hours and play Frisbee. Although this type of arrangement may not appeal to many of you here, it absolutely does exist. Why does it exist? Because there are men out there that are genuinely lonely that are actually interested in the companionship of a younger pretty girl. Bless their hearts. +1 Yes, it does happen. Yes some men enjoy a woman in their company while eating,going to a show, or yes, just hanging around the house. These type of men normally appreciate a lady who conducts herself as a lady in public, and can carry on an intelligent conversation. This is not at all unusual. In these scenarios, the "after fun" is just a portion of the time spent together. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 I have accompanied a certain gentleman friend to a cocktail party several times. While we are there, he hints to a few men that he may be able to arrange a dinner with me some day. It is surprising to see how far these men will go, on the off-chance of getting together with me. I think it's the hunt that thrills them. My friend says he closes more deals with me on this arm than when he is alone. It is really fun to shop for a new dress every time. I get to keep the dresses and the shoes. I do my own make-up but I go to a hairdresser. I could be recognized, but so what? We're all adults. I am sure as hell not ashamed of what I do. I do not kiss and tell, so no one has anything to worry about. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2013 Not sure what this all means. You won't find too many "classy" folks at a Denver Broncos home game. Most are nice, fun loving, passionate fans. They definitely aren't classy, but they are fun to be with. Whatever floats your boat. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 I know of several local girls in this business who have graduate level university degrees. If they want to make tax free income to help pay off their student loans, good for them. And they are classy enough to accompany someone to a business function without embarrassing them. As for paying a girl to accompany you on a dinner date, that is probably a good option to have if you are out of town, lonely, and looking for actual conversation and companionship rather than just an hour of sex. I've met a few girls for a late lunch or early dinner and have never been charged for it beyond the cost of dinner and drinks. But then again, I'm not scheduling time with high demand celebrity escorts either. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 This has to be your best post ever! I actually fell off my couch laughing so hard. Thank you for being you 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 Just wanted to say educated can mean many things In this ladies case...advanced education (really expensive paper I have hanging on my walls) doesn't mean I am different or more special than any other lady. However, it does mean you can take me anywhere and I really can carry on a conversation but also, ride on the back of a Harley, hike, watch sporting events or just have a quiet dinner. Your choice... B 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 I thought the same thing. Possibly to your surprise, guys sometimes actually do just pay for companionship. I've had several instances where I have been paid simply for my time. I have been paid to go to shows, go out on the town in Vegas, go out to a nightclub, go to dinner, and in one instance, I was paid to hang out at the park for two hours and play Frisbee. Although this type of arrangement may not appeal to many of you here, it absolutely does exist. Why does it exist? Because there are men out there that are genuinely lonely that are actually interested in the companionship of a younger pretty girl. Bless their hearts. This "frisbee" post floored me more than any "eating cum" discussion. To pay someone to literally play in the park, an act that so many take for granted, has to be one of the saddest things I have ever read. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 Sometimes it is nice to have some company and enjoy a common interest. I find an educated, smart gal to be very attractive. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 As for paying a girl to accompany you on a dinner date, that is probably a good option to have if you are out of town, lonely, and looking for actual conversation and companionship rather than just an hour of sex. What is the likelihood of you having a stimulating conversation with a girl you've never met in your life? For one thing, you can't really deploy any of the standard ice breakers: where do you work, where do you live, family, etc. So, what are you going to talk about? The singularity? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 What is the likelihood of you having a stimulating conversation with a girl you've never met in your life?. For anyone with a bit of personality, extremely good. So, what are you going to talk about? The singularity? Since you have a limited imagination: Books Movies Television shows (your favorite) Philiosophy Travel Funny escort stories Funny trick stories Celebrities News items Exercise TOB board personalities Reviews Sex Kink House cleaning methods Laundry Walmart people watching Airport people watching Politics Democracy Socialism Communism Fascism Fruits and vegatables Veganism and on, and on, and on 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 So, what are you going to talk about? The singularity? Uh, Spartacus? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 What is the likelihood of you having a stimulating conversation with a girl you've never met in your life? slightly better than finding stimulating dialogue on this board. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2013 What is the likelihood of you having a stimulating conversation with a girl you've never met in your life? For one thing, you can't really deploy any of the standard ice breakers: where do you work, where do you live, family, etc. So, what are you going to talk about? The singularity? There are people I've known for 10+ years whom I cannot have a stimulating conversation with. Our personalities and interests don't mesh. pfunk is totally on point. There's always something to talk about with the right person. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2013 I used to have a couple of friends who lived in a tourist destination area who worked as escorts for an agency and never had sex with clients. They just acted as tour guides and arm candy for out of towners. They were both educated and good company. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for the great replies. Learned a few things. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2013 What is the likelihood of you having a stimulating conversation with a girl you've never met in your life? For one thing, you can't really deploy any of the standard ice breakers: where do you work, where do you live, family, etc. I learn something new from everyone I meet, and typically let them lead the conversation and add to it as I see fit. Sex and family are the only topics that don't usually come up. Mostly we just talk about life . . . and all sorts of stuff. I'm fairly selective and try to pick people who I find interesting in some way. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 27, 2013 This is also true on the flip-flop. I learned my lesson early on in this hobby that while it may be a gamble for the gentleman to take a lady out on the town and run the risk of being embarrassed, it is also a nightmare to be a lady out in public with someone who: 1) can't keep his hands off her in a very ungentlemanly way. I may be an escort, but I don't want to be publicly molested. PDA is something I seldom do in my private affairs, let alone a client/provider relationship. 2) appearance-wise would be hard to pull off as her non-monetarily driven lover. If I feel that everyone in a restaurant is looking at us all night thinking "she's definitely a hooker" you can count me out. So awkward. Then there's the issue of Denver and surrounding areas being a very small world and I don't want to have to explain to my high school frenemy why I'm out on a date with someone who looks like the opposite of Brad Pitt. After a few of these types of public encounters early on in my career as "Mona" I have strictly forbidden myself to go out on paid blind dates. I will only do so after we've spent ample time together alone. Even then there's no guarantee that things will go smoothly, but at least I have a clue as to what I'm getting myself into. Any gentleman fortunate enough to be out in public with you, Mona, might have the other guys in the restaurant wishing they were him, not so much wondering about your choice of profession. If I am every so fortunate, I'm happy to introduce my professional, and very well read, ski instructor! ;-) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites