Posted October 1, 2022 If a married woman is aware that this particular male is single but openly stops by his house, flirts and always brings up her and the husband's sexual history? Now there has not been any sexual contact, maybe just the occasional touching of the shoulder or a small hug just to throw that out there. In your opinion, is the married woman cheating or not? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 Thats a good question? Maybe just flirting but but i have dealt with a few women like that and pretty much are asking for a fling. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 I agree it’s flirting. However… women cheat with their minds and men usually cheat with their member 🍆 . 🤷♀️ It’s a fine line. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 (edited) Creating, to me, has to do with the heart. A well-known Companion (personal friend) always returns to her husband and her home as well as her children and other obligations. She is SW’re and has a great head on her shoulders! I highly doubt that she would dream of showing up unannounced to a clients or man’s home just for fun?! She talks in detail about everything to me. Naaa it’s not her! Very beautiful lady in her late 30’s! I am only sharing because this describes what a married SW’re looks like to me in a very honorable fashion. What she does is provides a service to men. Her husband is fine with it too. She has that sort of deep understanding connection with her husband that many would dream about and @JessicaJonesing described in detail about. What you are describing to me is something different, possibly? Is the talk of her husband supposed to entice you? Is it an ego boost to have a married woman flirt or make advances toward you or are you reppelled by the idea? Questions only can answer! As for acting on those advancements goes? That’s up to you and that of your judgment. Are you friends with the hubby? If so I would warn her that you will indeed blow her out of the water if she comes around again, Especially unannounced, and if it is upsetting?! Why are men so caught up on such topics? Is it a secret Taboo? Is it something that blows their ego because the woman is taken? Or is it the challenge of trying to capture the untouchable heart?! Are you not just paying for the Fantasy? Edited October 1, 2022 by Kali Sensual Reiki 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 Yes! Shes is cheating! 12 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: If a married woman is aware that this particular male is single but openly stops by his house, flirts and always brings up her and the husband's sexual history? Now there has not been any sexual contact, maybe just the occasional touching of the shoulder or a small hug just to throw that out there. In your opinion, is the married woman cheating or not? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 No, she is not cheating, but she is trying to. Unless this is when you nutted in 30 seconds and all from hand on shoulder. Then yes, she did. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 sounds like she's open to the idea of an affair or maybe she just likes to flirt n that's it. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 @Savoir Faire Are you married? Do you have a life long partner? Answer the question, as many of us have asked before! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 12 hours ago, Johnny_rey said: Thats a good question? Maybe just flirting but but i have dealt with a few women like that and pretty much are asking for a fling. Johnny R I looked at it as flirting as well up until the SEXUAL HISTORY/HUSBANDS PERFORMANCE was brought up. It went from a fling to cheating in my opinion. Thanks for your input............. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 7 hours ago, Audrey Astor said: I agree it’s flirting. However… women cheat with their minds and men usually cheat with their member 🍆 . 🤷♀️ It’s a fine line. Ms Audrey have you ever cheated with your mind? Which do you think is worst, cheating with the mind or the member? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 4 hours ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: Yes! Shes is cheating! OTG I almost spit my orange juice all over the keyboard LOL. I like the way you gave a straight up and to the point answer....................Thanks for the input..... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 2 hours ago, sunshinelovely said: sounds like she's open to the idea of an affair or maybe she just likes to flirt n that's it. Sunshine LOL do you think she's cheating? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 (edited) I hear it's more hurtful on a man when a woman cheats but guys think it's no big deal when they cheat .. Edited October 2, 2022 by sunshinelovely 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 She's very aware and asking for it. And if her husband knows, no but, chances are he don't. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 2 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said: She's very aware and asking for it. And if her husband knows, no but, chances are he don't. Husband is not aware, he's working while she's exercising in the HOOD............................ Thanks for your input................. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 21 hours ago, sunshinelovely said: I hear it's more hurtful on a man when a woman cheats but guys think it's no big deal when they cheat .. In my opinion, its hurtful to both men and women when they discover the other is cheating. I would have to disagree when you say its not a big deal when guys cheat because the majority of guys don't have the balls to be upfront with their wives, so when they go cheat they are basically trying not to hurt their wives feelings/have their cake and eat it too because if you tell the wife/girlfriend the truth, well LOL there is no way she is going to take kindly to her man telling her that. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 3 minutes ago, Savoir Faire said: In my opinion, its hurtful to both men and women when they discover the other is cheating. I would have to disagree when you say its not a big deal when guys cheat because the majority of guys don't have the balls to be upfront with their wives, so when they go cheat they are basically trying not to hurt their wives feelings/have their cake and eat it too because if you tell the wife/girlfriend the truth, well LOL there is no way she is going to take kindly to her man telling her that. I see what you're saying. I've been cheated on n it hurt like hell. Totally wrecked me. I just meant from a guys perspective it's more hurtful because for guys its just physical / sex most the time but with a woman it might be more involvement then just the physical part. You're right though it goes both ways. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 5 minutes ago, sunshinelovely said: I see what you're saying. I've been cheated on n it hurt like hell. Totally wrecked me. I just meant from a guys perspective it's more hurtful because for guys its just physical / sex most the time but with a woman it might be more involvement then just the physical part. You're right though it goes both ways. Sunshine I am sorry that you got cheated on, don't look at it as a bad thing, its one of LIFE'S EXPERIENCES that are meant to teach you about this MAGNIFISCENT thing we call LIFE. Whispers to Sunshine, I wonder how many clients you have hurt LOL? I bet that hasn't even crossed your mind huh? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 If a client starts getting feelings for me that feels too intense I have no choice but to distance myself cause I'm not in this for a relationship. I'm honestly completely done with exclusive relationships outside the hobby n would only be interested in an open relationship. I don't like to hurt people. I'm a kind person at heart. 7 minutes ago, Savoir Faire said: Sunshine I am sorry that you got cheated on, don't look at it as a bad thing, its one of LIFE'S EXPERIENCES that are meant to teach you about this MAGNIFISCENT thing we call LIFE. Whispers to Sunshine, I wonder how many clients you have hurt LOL? I bet that hasn't even crossed your mind huh? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 Exactly. Women cheat with their mind. She is thinking about him instead of her husband. She is giving time and energy to him instead of her husband. An emotional affair is just as devastating as a physical affair. On 10/1/2022 at 10:59 AM, Audrey Astor said: I agree it’s flirting. However… women cheat with their minds and men usually cheat with their member 🍆 . 🤷♀️ It’s a fine line. !!!!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 18 minutes ago, sunshinelovely said: If a client starts getting feelings for me that feels too intense I have no choice but to distance myself cause I'm not in this for a relationship. I'm honestly completely done with exclusive relationships outside the hobby n would only be interested in an open relationship. I don't like to hurt people. I'm a kind person at heart. Sunshine the reason I mentioned I wonder how many clients you have hurt was just to show you that the one time you got cheated on really hurt you but do you realize how many times you have probably hurt one of your clients? My point is the guy that cheated on you was SELFISH and so are you, neither situation is okay, its just one of many LIFE'S EXPERIENCES is all. A lot of people will think that what they are going through is the worst, yet not even pay attention to they are causing someone else to go through something just as worst. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 (edited) Okay now on a good note, Sunshine I am going to start calling you Harlem Nights. This woman's pussy was so good, if you threw it up in the air it would turn to SUNSHINE...................... Sunshine Lela Rochon Harlem Nights - YouTube Edited October 2, 2022 by Savoir Faire Better clip 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 8 minutes ago, Savoir Faire said: Sunshine the reason I mentioned I wonder how many clients you have hurt was just to show you that the one time you got cheated on really hurt you but do you realize how many times you have probably hurt one of your clients? My point is the guy that cheated on you was SELFISH and so are you, neither situation is okay, its just one of many LIFE'S EXPERIENCES is all. A lot of people will think that what they are going through is the worst, yet not even pay attention to they are causing someone else to go through something just as worst. im pretty self aware at this point in my life. I admit I have been extremely selfish in my past lives not realizing what I was doing but like you said it's all apart of this life experience n I try to be a good person always n treat people kindly. As I grew older in this line of work I tried my best to go above n beyond for those who visited me. At first I wasn't very good at it but I was young n learned with time. & I've never seen Harlem Nights I'll have to watch it sometime. Not sure if that's a compliment or not but I'll take it for what it is. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 LOL click on that URL and its a short clip.........................Its a compliment trust me........................or better yet click on this URL below: Sunshine Lela Rochon Harlem Nights - YouTube 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 7 minutes ago, Savoir Faire said: LOL click on that URL and its a short clip.........................Its a compliment trust me........................or better yet click on this URL below: Sunshine Lela Rochon Harlem Nights - YouTube Lolllll this is going on my watchlist 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 3, 2022 On 10/1/2022 at 6:18 PM, Savoir Faire said: Ms Audrey have you ever cheated with your mind? Which do you think is worst, cheating with the mind or the member? Definitely mind. And that my dear is why I’m ok with threesomes and escorts.😁 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2022 3 hours ago, Audrey Astor said: Definitely mind. And that my dear is why I’m ok with threesomes and escorts.😁 Ms Audrey don't tell anyone but so am I LOL..................I use to date a girl named "Audrey" and about a year or so ago, I saw her on web cam. Shaking my head because she was a young one when I dated her but now she is one of the most beautiful women I have ever dated. Definitely should have married that woman. Thanks for your input....................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 6, 2022 Assume married woman is monogamous. In that context cheating IMO means sexual contact with someone other than spouse. A small hug (fully clothed) is not in any way sexual contact IMO. An occassional touch of the shoulder is also not sexual contact IMO. If that's the extent of what's going on, she is not cheating. If you ask what exactly is sexual contact it's a fuzzier thing. For example, if she were to get on bed naked with you and hug you, but not do *more* than that is that sexual contact? Feels like it to me but everyone must define their own boundaries. I don't understand saying a woman who has other male friends, even close male friends is cheating because they discuss just about anything, so long as there is no sexual contact. Flirting doesn't mean cheating IMO. It can *lead* to cheating but isn't cheating in and of itself. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 6, 2022 OG47 to my knowledge, she is or has been faithful to her man. The touching of the shoulder and hug is the extent LOL for now. I agree that she isn't cheating up until the sexual history of her hubby is brought up. To be honest LOL, I think the only reason she hasn't took it to another level is because of the neighbor she is visiting. Its really him and not her in my opinion. I will keep you updated LOL if the neighbor decides to ???? ?? ????? Thanks for your input...... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2022 "Cheating" is an interesting concept. Some sacred texts refer to "committing adultery" and usually reference "another man's wife" (or another woman's husband). But each of them fail to condemn sexual relations with, what we call today, sex workers or even having what are essentially harems. I have been wondering about this for quite a while, and it seems possible to me that the issue is not simply the fulfilling of unmet physical needs. But something deeper, more intimate. Essentially to "worship at the feet" of another. I don't know, maybe I'm just trying to rationalize... But it's not something that has escaped my thoughts. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
