Posted December 18, 2021 Ewwwww, lol! Dudes are really chomping at the bit for BBFS? Wild shit and I’m shocked, not really, that all you nut jobs are trying to contract some shit. Just be happy these women are even letting you into their personal space. Gawd damn, y’all crazy! On a side, I know for a fact that lots of people are NOT going to the dentist and most certainly are NOT brushing and flossing twice a day. If I’m a SW, no fuckn way I’m letting that nasty mouth eat my pu$$y. Hell, I wouldn’t let you eat my ass either. I smell some bullshit in here…. lol 😏 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2021 1 hour ago, Shyguy said: Ewwwww, lol! Dudes are really chomping at the bit for BBFS? Wild shit and I’m shocked, not really, that all you nut jobs are trying to contract some shit. Just be happy these women are even letting you into their personal space. Gawd damn, y’all crazy! On a side, I know for a fact that lots of people are NOT going to the dentist and most certainly are NOT brushing and flossing twice a day. If I’m a SW, no fuckn way I’m letting that nasty mouth eat my pu$$y. Hell, I wouldn’t let you eat my ass either. I smell some bullshit in here…. lol 😏 LOL, you might be a shy guy, but not behind a keyboard. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2021 I've never done bb inthe hobby. But once when she couldnt find her covers and I didnt have any. She said, that's ok, just pullout before I cum. I said uh, can you just finish with the bbbj, and she did. I am skeptical of a provider that offers bb. But alot of them are the scam gift card girls. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2021 2 hours ago, Mike940370 said: LOL, you might be a shy guy, but not behind a keyboard. Everyone’s a hardo behind the keyboard and I’m no exception. Always been self conscious in public, not sure why cuz I’m handsome af. Especially now that my hair is gray. Lol 🤡 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 9 hours ago, Madison Taylor said: My doctor told me unless everyone is getting their mouth checked for stds (which most dont) you can 100% get stds from daty. Say someone sees one that is not so clean or offering bbfs then he goes to see another which he may have an std in his mouth and not know .... you get the picture. Daty or bbbj is not any safer although I feel most men would not see most of us if it was not offered unfortunately. But really think about the risks because I feel a lot of people don't. You can get an std from a mouth, it is possible. Maybe a bit on the rare side but yes it can happen. Uncovered oral can absolutely be a way to pass on STDs. If someone has a cold sore (HSV 1 or 2), of course it can be passed to the genitals. If there’s a colonization of a bacterial infections such as Gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis or other bacteria (STIs), of course it can transfer to the genitals. But you’re right Madison, it’s very rare. It’s not seen nearly as often as genital to genital contact. Things are way more transmissible that way. We all take a lot of risks in this lifestyle, (including the risk of C19 with its newest variant the Omicron, not an STD but still…). Why not lessen our risks by throwing on a cover for bbfs? Kudos to those girls who cover the BJs, I have and would do it upon request. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 8 hours ago, Mike940370 said: I've never done bb inthe hobby. But once when she couldnt find her covers and I didnt have any. She said, that's ok, just pullout before I cum. I said uh, can you just finish with the bbbj, and she did. I am skeptical of a provider that offers bb. But alot of them are the scam gift card girls. There are girls that openly advertise it but I respect that because at least you know if that’s your cup of tea or not or if you want to see that provider or not. Should they be doing that for the sake of more income? Probably not. Especially if they have not had children and plan to in the future. A lot of these STDs can damage the reproductive tract. Not to mention cancers! Or worst yet HIV. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 10 hours ago, Shyguy said: Ewwwww, lol! Dudes are really chomping at the bit for BBFS? Wild shit and I’m shocked, not really, that all you nut jobs are trying to contract some shit. Just be happy these women are even letting you into their personal space. Gawd damn, y’all crazy! On a side, I know for a fact that lots of people are NOT going to the dentist and most certainly are NOT brushing and flossing twice a day. If I’m a SW, no fuckn way I’m letting that nasty mouth eat my pu$$y. Hell, I wouldn’t let you eat my ass either. I smell some bullshit in here…. lol 😏 Yep! I have had the rotten mouth cases, Gingivitis you can smell from 10 feet away, the kin that the smell lingers in my room for hours after they’re gone. Or men whose genitals literally smell like rotten fish; that’s an infection yo! Anyway, we deal with all kinds. One thing I’ll have you know, is if I give a reference to another girl, I will spill the beans on his hygiene or lack there of. Our personal hygiene is our responsibility & no way I will put another girl through the funk I dealt with… I have refused to see clients after the first encounter due to hygiene issues. Grose! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 I have to admit, this thread is getting seriously depressing all of a sudden. Damn 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 12 hours ago, Leyla Scott said: Yep! I have had the rotten mouth cases, Gingivitis you can smell from 10 feet away, the kin that the smell lingers in my room for hours after they’re gone. Or men whose genitals literally smell like rotten fish; that’s an infection yo! Anyway, we deal with all kinds. One thing I’ll have you know, is if I give a reference to another girl, I will spill the beans on his hygiene or lack there of. Our personal hygiene is our responsibility & no way I will put another girl through the funk I dealt with… I have refused to see clients after the first encounter due to hygiene issues. Grose! 1000% seen it all had it all .. I will tell every thing to a refes request if you have stinky dick or mouth !!!! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 13 hours ago, LightningP said: I have to admit, this thread is getting seriously depressing all of a sudden. Damn Nah! I’m sure you’re not one of the cases we’re discussing. 😃 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2021 19 minutes ago, Leyla Scott said: Nah! I’m sure you’re not one of the cases we’re discussing. 😃 I certainly hope not! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2021 (edited) 20 hours ago, LightningP said: I have to admit, this thread is getting seriously depressing all of a sudden. Damn Yep, my excitement for going down is, well, going down hill. That's a shame. Edited December 20, 2021 by Mike940370 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2021 On 12/14/2021 at 11:08 AM, Leyla Scott said: That got your attention didn’t it? Haha NO! I’m not offering bbfs… Ever! But I wanted to get something out there for all you(s) that think you’re entitled to it because you have seen a provider repetitively. Recently, I have had a few clients that went cold turkey on me after I refused to do bbfs with them. They felt entitled to it because after all, they’re repeat clients that ‘claim’ they only see me!! Yeah right. I very much appreciate your enthusiasm and your need to feel so close to me. I’d like to say, you haven’t taught me any lessons by not seeing me anymore… good riddance! We are not a good fit. however, this I do know, you will get your lesson soon! Stupid dumbass me, who thought we had a connection. There are many STDs that we don’t test for FYI. They can’t test for them because they will yield inconclusive indexes and results or they can’t test until an outbreak pops up… how fun! These STDs will stay dormant in your Trigeminal nerve and reap havoc in due time. You’ll never be rid of them. Explain that to your wifey or GF. If she’s popping it bare for you, she’s popping it bare for many others. She’ll even say no when you ask her about it. There are many girls offering bbfs with an up charge (or not), good luck with that! I’d rather protect my business and reputation which I have worked hard to build and keep all clients safe. Condoms suck, I think they do too… however, it’s the best protection against ‘genital’ STIs. There are other ways of uncovered satisfaction or even female condoms. For those girls that are offering bbfs, you’re putting yourselves and clients and even the rest of us at risk. Also, clients kiss & tell - always! Have a wonderful day everyone! With much love and no cooties, Leyla 💕 Agreed they are losing their minds!!!!!! I would guess 50% are asking straight out and I just immediately block and blacklist them! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2021 I won’t do bare FS and almost never had to remind the other person. In the last year however, I’ve been “offered” bbfs a few times. And I’m being nice when I say offered as it was more like “ooops…” So I wonder if it isn’t those ladies setting the wrong expectations. Be safe, muchachos! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2021 (edited) On 12/18/2021 at 6:58 AM, Caressa Duval said: If you are giving DATY to multiple women in one day then, I would say there are a few things that you are at a higher risk of getting and transmitting. I know HPV can be transmitted orally, and in some cases cause cancer later down the line. Both kissing and oral can transmit HPV, Herpes ( lesions do not need to be apparent), and Chlamydia can infect the throat with no symptoms at all. In these days, even kissing is a high risk with Covid, colds, and the flu. This is a sex forum, and this is a doctor question. The only doctor I know on here is @Phil-anderer. Maybe he will chime in. Most escorts go to extreme measures to protect ourselves, and keep our clients safe. Definitely more so than a woman you might pick up at a bar. As I said, a doctor question. I am not one, unless it is during roll play I'm sure there are other docs on here, but yes... any STD can be transmitted by unprotected contact - BBFS, oral and anal in particular. HIV is lesser risk with oral sex, higher with vaginal/anal, but if someone has HIV and sores in their mouth or on the genitals, then it can transmit. And I'll just add... if you have a question of your own, call your OWN doctor. Don't trust shit you read online. Be safe and get tested. PS I agree that with Covid, kissing is a risk, so once again... get vaccinated, get tested, and wear a mask. Edited December 20, 2021 by Phil-anderer 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2021 On 12/18/2021 at 9:01 PM, Leyla Scott said: Yep! I have had the rotten mouth cases, Gingivitis you can smell from 10 feet away, the kin that the smell lingers in my room for hours after they’re gone. Or men whose genitals literally smell like rotten fish; that’s an infection yo! Anyway, we deal with all kinds. One thing I’ll have you know, is if I give a reference to another girl, I will spill the beans on his hygiene or lack there of. Our personal hygiene is our responsibility & no way I will put another girl through the funk I dealt with… I have refused to see clients after the first encounter due to hygiene issues. Grose! This info about providers customers makes my big head say forget this hobby. It was totally TMI ! How can you promote yourself or this habit as safer if you let us know where you've been? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2021 (edited) 7 hours ago, Mike940370 said: This info about providers customers makes my big head say forget this hobby. It was totally TMI ! How can you promote yourself or this habit as safer if you let us know where you've been? Instead of the response you provided, perhaps you should have thanked her for making this information known. Would you rather be ignorant or well-informed when entertaining any activity? Edited December 21, 2021 by BBT-8367 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2021 You're right. I apologize Leyla. If I was too harsh. It just was not the answer I was hoping for. But, your post may save and others from learning it a much harder way. Thanks for that. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2021 18 hours ago, Mike940370 said: This info about providers customers makes my big head say forget this hobby. It was totally TMI ! How can you promote yourself or this habit as safer if you let us know where you've been? No comment 😑 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2021 19 minutes ago, Mike940370 said: You're right. I apologize Leyla. If I was too harsh. It just was not the answer I was hoping for. But, your post may save and others from learning it a much harder way. Thanks for that. Knowledge is power. Would you rather be with a provider that is aware and protects herself and her clients? Or someone who doesn’t give a hoot? Thanks for the realization. ❤️ 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 7, 2022 On 12/15/2021 at 0:21 PM, CountryGentleman said: I agree, I screen the providers I approach by whether the seem to allow any BBFS. In my mind, any provider that does bbfs is more likely to have an STD which is a risk I don't want. This is one of the issues with the term "GFE"... Some people consider bbfs part of GFE. I don't, but every time I see "GFE" it gives me pause. Good to know….I guess everyone is different. When I think of GFE I think of having a nice meal made spending QUALITY time together….all the positive aspects of a relationship without the drama😘 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2022 We all know that bare pussy Is like no other but I wouldn't even consider asking for it or even expecting it. If you are with a hot enough lady I have had no problem. I know age is a factor but so far I'm good. Hope it's stays that way for awhile! I 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2022 19 hours ago, HeavenlyBellaCO said: Good to know….I guess everyone is different. When I think of GFE I think of having a nice meal made spending QUALITY time together….all the positive aspects of a relationship without the drama😘 That’s exactly what I think also! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 8, 2022 You never know if the SP just had bbfs with her husband, boyfriend, or a customer just right before you. How would you feel putting your d1ck in there without protection? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 9, 2022 3 hours ago, veteranhobbyist said: You never know if the SP just had bbfs with her husband, boyfriend, or a customer just right before you. How would you feel putting your d1ck in there without protection? Good point. That is why I always send in my tongue first, for reconnaissance purposes. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2022 If you partake in French kissing, what's the difference, also many ladies here are post menopausal, so pregnancy shouldn't be an issue. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2022 11 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: If you partake in French kissing, what's the difference, also many ladies here are post menopausal, so pregnancy shouldn't be an issue. Big difference. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2022 If a provider advertises bbfs, there is no way I would ever consider her for an appointment 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 21, 2022 On 12/15/2021 at 11:07 AM, Mustang87 said: I had it offered to me once at least 10-12 years ago during one of the rare outcalls I had ever done. She had forgotten covers but still wanted to provide FS. I declined and we found another way to get where we needed to be. Bizarre appointment though. Played out really weird, but has given me a story that I still tell, inside the community, to this day. I'm a little shocked that SO many guys still ask for it. Just too much for everybody to risk. But the reality is that there are ladies out there, at least there were, who offer it. Crazy. I review just got posted this week for a prominent lady on this board mentioning BBFS among the activities. Might be more common then some of us would like to think. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
