Are you Considering Other Options?

[ilovewomen]

On 4/5/2020 at 7:22 PM, hovathegoat said:

 I'm personally making a mental note of the providers that are STILL booking appointments during this pandemic and will make sure I don't book with them. Nothing against face time meetings but I still see ads where you can book physical appointments.

Why?

Ladies are having to make a difficult decision as to how they are going to survive this.  Some are choosing to work.  Some are choosing not to work or finding an alternative job that may pay them $13/hour.

We all live in glass houses.

 

 

[Audrey Astor]

5 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

 

On 4/5/2020 at 7:22 PM, hovathegoat said:

 I'm personally making a mental note of the providers that are STILL booking appointments during this pandemic and will make sure I don't book with them. Nothing against face time meetings but I still see ads where you can book physical appointments.

Why?

Ladies are having to make a difficult decision as to how they are going to survive this.  Some are choosing to work.  Some are choosing not to work or finding an alternative job that may pay them $13/hour.

We all live in glass houses.

 

Are you keeping notes of those who don’t claim income and are get housing help or food stamps from the Government? Are you keeping notes of who has what responsibilities? How many littles have you adopted and/or are fostering on your own dime???  Do you boo 🤷‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️   
 

I really dislike judgmental people. It kind of seems like an oxy moron to bring that ish here of all places. 😂
   

Ps. Thanks for helping us keep our DNS list up to date.😉

 

[Bit Banger]

9 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said:

 

Ps. Thanks for helping us keep our DNS list up to date.😉

 

^^ OUCH ^^

(the sound one makes when they step on their Delta)

[ilovewomen]

2 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Are you keeping notes of those who don’t claim income and are get housing help or food stamps from the Government? Are you keeping notes of who has what responsibilities? How many littles have you adopted and/or are fostering on your own dime???  Do you boo 🤷‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️   
 

I really dislike judgmental people. It kind of seems like an oxy moron to bring that ish here of all places. 😂
   

Ps. Thanks for helping us keep our DNS list up to date.😉

 

I agree with you 100% Audrey.

[FuriousWeasel]

On 4/5/2020 at 7:22 PM, hovathegoat said:

 I'm personally making a mental note of the providers that are STILL booking appointments during this pandemic and will make sure I don't book with them. Nothing against face time meetings but I still see ads where you can book physical appointments.

Must be nice.  I know a provider losing her home TODAY, getting kicked out on the street with her kid, because she's not been getting any work.  She's not in a position to be protected by any anti-eviction efforts.

[pfunk]

7 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Are you keeping notes of those who don’t claim income and are get housing help or food stamps from the Government? Are you keeping notes of who has what responsibilities? How many littles have you adopted and/or are fostering on your own dime???  Do you boo 🤷‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️   

I really dislike judgmental people. It kind of seems like an oxy moron to bring that ish here of all places. 😂

Ps. Thanks for helping us keep our DNS list up to date.😉

[Hunter VanDyke]

53 minutes ago, FuriousWeasel said:

Must be nice.  I know a provider losing her home TODAY, getting kicked out on the street with her kid, because she's not been getting any work.  She's not in a position to be protected by any anti-eviction efforts.

If it's who I think it is. We are helping her with that, and if it's not, reach out to me please so we can help.. Thanks FW. 💙

 

[lustybustygina]

On 3/22/2020 at 11:03 AM, Coflyfshr83 said:

I have come to enjoy seeing ladies who have an onlyfans account. In fact lately I’ve only seen 1 or 2 girls I’ve been with before or who have only fans. Girls like to verify what they’re getting into and this is really one of the best ways guys can know they’re not seeing doctored, old or fake pics. It’s been great for me. 

Onlyfans is a  way to get to see and all most touch !!!

[Audrey Astor]

17 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

If it's who I think it is. We are helping her with that, and if it's not, reach out to me please so we can help.. Thanks FW. 💙

 

Let me know if my vehicle will help. Damn that is so sad. The thing about the real community here, is that we rally to care for each other in times of crises rather than judge each other.

[Hunter VanDyke]

3 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Let me know if my vehicle will help. Damn that is so sad. The thing about the real community here, is that we rally to care for each other in times of crises rather than judge each other.

Thanks to some wonderful folks we we're able to keep them in their spot. Thank you for the offer to use your vehicle. Unfortunately if this drags on, I have a feeling we might have to take you up on that. Thanks for always being here for the ladies and gents Miss Audrey. Thanks Thanks Thanks 🤗🤗🤗

[Guest]

On 4/8/2020 at 1:18 PM, Audrey Astor said:

Are you keeping notes of those who don’t claim income and are get housing help or food stamps from the Government? Are you keeping notes of who has what responsibilities? How many littles have you adopted and/or are fostering on your own dime???  Do you boo 🤷‍♀️🤬🤷‍♀️   
 

I really dislike judgmental people. It kind of seems like an oxy moron to bring that ish here of all places. 😂
   

Ps. Thanks for helping us keep our DNS list up to date.😉

 

Is it really that different than keeping track of who posted asking for BBFS or providing BBFS and declining future dates with them?

I honestly don't see the difference.

[Ryann]

On 3/24/2020 at 4:40 AM, 2Big said:

The Escort Business is Finished - Do Hookers and Johns have a Plan B

When this is all over - probably not before Fall of 2021, escorting as a viable business is going to be done for. A lot of guys are gonna be afraid to dip their stick into some unknown poonanie. Scared to catch the virus, guys are going to stay home. 

A lot of girls are going to quietly slip back into civilian life, maybe finally get that nursing degree they always talked about, or setting up shop as home aides. 

Johns are going to reluctantly have to fuck the old ball and chains. I can see a lot of delighted wives wondering where that renewed vigor is coming from, ha ha ha. 

Interesting times ahead. 

This business  will never die ! LoL

hell It’s survived the Spanish/swine flu

Trust me men can’t handle one p&$?&

for the rest of their lives and speaking for myself I could never stick with 1D for the rest of my life how boring

This too shall pass

[Ryann]

On 3/25/2020 at 3:41 PM, ilovewomen said:

Remember the gum that squirted in your mouth?  We used to call it Cum Gum.

It was called freshen up!!! I love that gum so much, i wish they made it still

[pfunk]

21 hours ago, lex7 said:

Is it really that different than keeping track of who posted asking for BBFS or providing BBFS and declining future dates with them?

I honestly don't see the difference.

One big difference...escorts have lost the majority of their business through no fault of their own. They certainly didn't create Covid-19, nor spread it across the world. If they are working, it's due to desperation.

Clients looking for BBFS are CHOOSING to find, and do, something risky and dangerous. It's due to lack of self-control.

Make sense to you?

[Guest]

On 4/11/2020 at 8:58 AM, pfunk said:

One big difference...escorts have lost the majority of their business through no fault of their own. They certainly didn't create Covid-19, nor spread it across the world. If they are working, it's due to desperation.

Clients looking for BBFS are CHOOSING to find, and do, something risky and dangerous. It's due to lack of self-control.

Make sense to you?

Hi pfunk,

I mean this most respectfully - I beleive you are conflating cause and effect.

The cause is different in the two cases, I agree.

However, the effect, of someone exhibiting a risky behavior that can potentially spread deadly disease, is the same. I think many would prefer not to partake in activities with people who behave in this manner, and I beleive that is thier right.

 

[2Big]

Providers who are seeing clients in this time are CHOOSING to engage in high risk behavior with potentially deadly consequences. The reasons for doing so are immaterial, the outcome is the same. It's still a choice. 

In contrast barebacking it with a hooker is stupid but it's - unless she's an intravenous drug user, has a boyfriend who is "down low", etc. - not nearly as dangerous. Again, it's still dumb, but it probably won't kill you. 

Plus, I'm a little bit annoyed at being constantly bombarded with this "poor hookers are desparate, hve lost all their income" meme. There are jobs out there that you can apply to right now. 

I already mentioned a friend of mine, who is now driving for Amazon, another buddy just called me the other day: he's an academic with a PhD - lost his job, is now working at Costcos. 

[pfunk]

7 hours ago, lex7 said:

Hi pfunk,

I mean this most respectfully - I beleive you are conflating cause and effect.

The cause is different in the two cases, I agree.

However, the effect, of someone exhibiting a risky behavior that can potentially spread deadly disease, is the same. I think many would prefer not to partake in activities with people who behave in this manner, and I beleive that is thier right.

#1 Covid is a POTENTIALLY deadly disease (maybe 4% fatalities).

#2 Providers are working currently to earn money for rent, food, childcare, clothing, etc.

#3 Clients ask for bbfs because they want pleasure. It's not at all neccessary to living.

#4 Both are risky behaviours. I don't fault anyone for choosing not to participate in either.

[Bit Banger]

Military, coal miners, first responders - All have dangerous occupations.  Within the military, SpecOps are particularly hazardous & voluntary.  Do we chastise them for accepting danger as part of the job supporting their family?

[fork]

3 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Military, coal miners, first responders - All have dangerous occupations.  Within the military, SpecOps are particularly hazardous & voluntary.  Do we chastise them for accepting danger as part of the job supporting their family?

We give them hazard pay. Anyone who sees me naked should also get hazard pay.

[2Big]

5 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Military, coal miners, first responders - All have dangerous occupations.  Within the military, SpecOps are particularly hazardous & voluntary.  Do we chastise them for accepting danger as part of the job supporting their family?

You are not seriously comparing essential personnel to hookers, are you?

Seriously, screwing working girls is a nice to have but not a must have. You're not going to die, if you lay off the paid poonani for a while.

[Bit Banger]

17 minutes ago, 2Big said:

You are not seriously comparing essential personnel to hookers, are you?

No, I was comparing people working in dangerous professions to support their families.  Not everyone has a nice office or retail job.

While working gals may not be ‘essential’ to you & I, they (& their income) may be essential to their households.  This is also true for many other households in these troubling times.

[Audrey Astor]

On 4/10/2020 at 11:45 AM, lex7 said:

Is it really that different than keeping track of who posted asking for BBFS or providing BBFS and declining future dates with them?

I honestly don't see the difference

Yikes! This thread took a different direction than where we began. Perhaps we should close it.

[2Big]

I just find it quite funny and telling that getting a different job is never considered an option.

[2Big]

On 26.3.2020 at 7:47 PM, parkercole said:

I will just have to wait until the dust settles.

But this is exactly the problem: there is no such thing as "when the dust settles". There is never going to be an official announcement: Ladies and Gentlemen, it's now safe to return to doing what you did before. IOW, the risk factor is going to be sky high for years to come. It'll be your choice whether you might want to end up in the icu hooked up to a respirator, taking your last dying breath. 

Back to the "other options" question: webcamming is extremely competitive, and anyone who thinks they can make quick money, just by firing up their computer's video cam is going to be in for a rude awakening. There is a metric fuckton of camsites out there with thousands of women competing for a guy's $.

Also, most ladies on here can't compete with the 20 something Romanian girl who is sticking 6 dildoes out of her azz. Camsites have been completely flooded with girls from Eastern Europe. 

Onlyfans, etc. - yeah, sure, but you gotta start producing highest quality content. On the regular. 

In short: developing alternative options within the sex industry is close to impossible. 

Don't count on it as a way to generate a sustainable income. 

Edited April 15, 2020 by 2Big

[Mike940370]

12 Benjamin's should be hitting your bank today.

Of course that's  not much for some peeps here, for others, spend it wisely.

[Bit Banger]

11 hours ago, 2Big said:

... You're not going to die, if you lay off the paid poonani for a while.

True.  But does getting some paid nookie really increase my odds of dying?  How about compared to an unprotected trip to the grocery store or movie theater?  Or quiet interlude with that fine looking lass at the end of the bar? (Perhaps the riskiest of the lot.)
 

Life goes on - or it doesn’t.  Remember the difference between life and living.

[fork]

35 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

True.  But does getting some paid nookie really increase my odds of dying?  How about compared to an unprotected trip to the grocery store or movie theater?  Or quiet interlude with that fine looking lass at the end of the bar? (Perhaps the riskiest of the lot.)

I'm doing the math this way. Note that I'm not a health expert or scientist, I just know how to multiply and divide.

In Colorado there are 7300 confirmed cases of COVID-19 among 5.7 million people. That's roughly one person out of every 800 with it. Now we all know there isn't enough testing, and I think conservatively there are 2x that many cases. So am guessing that 1 out of 400 people in Colorado have it. The number could be much higher.

I don't know the stats but I bet if you have an intimate encounter with someone who has it, then you're about 100% likely to get it. That's not true walking past someone at the grocery, but it's pretty true if you're spending an hour kissing someone with the virus.

And if you get it, you're about 2% likely to die (1 in 50).

So by my math, you've got about a 1 in 20,000 chance of dying after an intimate encounter (this is 1 in 400 chance of that person having the virus multiplied by 1 in 50 people will die)

Of course there are many problems with my assumptions. Some of those 7300 cases are recovered and no longer contagious. On the other hand, someone who is going around fucking strangers is probably more likely to be a carrier than someone who is not fucking strangers. If someone is truly sick, they are probably not fucking strangers, but not everyone shows symptoms at all. And age plays a role in all of this, mainly in the survival rate. So these are just some vague numbers.

I'm not telling anyone what to do. But, place your bets.

[Audrey Astor]

10 hours ago, 2Big said:

I just find it quite funny and telling that getting a different job is never considered an option.

Dude, I’m anxious to go to the grocery store, Walmart etc. I’m not excited to be around EVERYONE.  You also must know that schools are closed, meaning home schooling is alive and well. 
 

This thread has just turned in a bad way. Let’s stop judging people when we have NO IDEA what their circumstances may be. So gross...🙄🙄🙄

[Laci French]

Everyone needs to make the choice on what's best for them.  

Life circumstances for each of us are very different and we need to be supportive and compassionate.

I pray that all of this will end soon and we can get back to some form of normal. 

This is as divided as politics by choosing sides and each has valid points.  Maybe we need to just follow what feels right individually and allow others to do the same.

Much love❤

[Kaduk]

12 hours ago, Mike940370 said:

12 Benjamin's should be hitting your bank today.

Of course that's  not much for some peeps here, for others, spend it wisely.

Just a heads up::

Snail mail---> those receiving their check by mail will now have to wait an additional four days account of one benevolent monarch deciding the need to have his name printed on them.......