Posted April 30, 2019 (edited) Inquiring minds want to know? First of all, I want to say thank you so much to the ladies in the Springs who not only share references, but are kind about them, and quick to respond. I'm sure the gents here appreciate you more than you know. I know I will be be highly reccomending you to the gentleman I come in contact with, and promote you ladies any chance I get. If you are on the social media platforms I am on, i would be more than happy to boost and promote you as often as possible. I'm so sorry you guys in the Springs have to deal with this. No wonder you have issues getting new ladies visiting your city. It's very dissapointing to see a group of providers in our community who aren't team players helping each other out. I myself pulled over twice yesterday on my way here to return a reference request, and twice on the drive from Foco to DTC the day before. It doesn't hurt me one bit to help my fellow providers and hobbyists. Greed is ugly indeed. Edited April 30, 2019 by Hunter VanDyke 15 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 It's also not lost on me that these cockblockers reach out and ask my friends for references. 🤷♀️🙄 #ColoradoSpringsCockBlockerBrigade And another thing. Ladies sure don't mind getting reviews so they can get new clients, but heaven forbid they give them a reference so the guys can see new ladies. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 You go girl. References help keep everyone safe, it shouldn't be an option to not provide. If you want to screen with references you better damn well provide them. Holding back is petty short sighted and unsafe. Do unto others as you want done into you. Be safe ladies and help each other out. P.s. if I find out a lady isn't providing a refernce for me cause she wants to keep me from seeing others you can be sure I won't be going back to her. But if she happily provides references I will come back to her many times over to say thanks. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 1 hour ago, Hunter VanDyke said: And another thing. Ladies sure don't mind getting reviews so they can get new clients, but heaven forbid they give them a reference so the guys can see new ladies. 2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Inquiring minds want to know? First of all, I want to say thank you so much to the ladies in the Springs who not only share references, but are kind about them, and quick to respond. I'm sure the gents here appreciate you more than you know. I know I will be be highly reccomending you to the gentleman I come in contact with, and promote you ladies any chance I get. If you are on the social media platforms I am on, i would be more than happy to boost and promote you as often as possible. I'm so sorry you guys in the Springs have to deal with this. No wonder you have issues getting new ladies visiting your city. It's very dissapointing to see a group of providers in our community who aren't team players helping each other out. I myself pulled over twice yesterday on my way here to return a reference request, and twice on the drive from Foco to DTC the day before. It doesn't hurt me one bit to help my fellow providers and hobbyists. Greed is ugly indeed. I want it to be known we appreciate ladies like yourself...you helped turn things around for me as well and it’s appreciated... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 I’m sorry you had to deal with that sweet lady. That’s a bummer. I give references, and go out of my way as well. I don’t want to negatively affect anyone’s income or someone’s fun. I wonder how many feel the same as @K2dnvrfun 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 1 hour ago, Audrey Astor said: I’m sorry you had to deal with that sweet lady. That’s a bummer. I give references, and go out of my way as well. I don’t want to negatively affect anyone’s income or someone’s fun. I wonder how many feel the same as @K2dnvrfun You’ve got one right here that feels the same... thank you, Audrey. 😘 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 11 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Inquiring minds want to know? First of all, I want to say thank you so much to the ladies in the Springs who not only share references, but are kind about them, and quick to respond. I'm sure the gents here appreciate you more than you know. I know I will be be highly reccomending you to the gentleman I come in contact with, and promote you ladies any chance I get. If you are on the social media platforms I am on, i would be more than happy to boost and promote you as often as possible. I'm so sorry you guys in the Springs have to deal with this. No wonder you have issues getting new ladies visiting your city. It's very dissapointing to see a group of providers in our community who aren't team players helping each other out. I myself pulled over twice yesterday on my way here to return a reference request, and twice on the drive from Foco to DTC the day before. It doesn't hurt me one bit to help my fellow providers and hobbyists. Greed is ugly indeed. Hunter, you are one classy lady and the way you handle things is what makes you such a special lady. Your presence in our community is a blessing. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 This is something that happens too often and I’m sorry you missed opportunities to meet wonderful men. To be reference friendly helps keep everyone safe and keeps our little world spinning. There’s no room for greed, immaturity or selfish behavior among us ladies. We all actually rise if we lift each other up! 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 33 minutes ago, average1 said: Hunter, you are one classy lady and the way you handle things is what makes you such a special lady. Your presence in our community is a blessing. I 2nd that 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 It is a damn shame that there are ladies who don't give a shit about their compatriots. References help keep everyone safe. If you refuse to give a reference, you have no right to ask for a reference. For all the ladies who are reference friendly, you have a great soul and care about your fellow co-workers. It's too bad that a list of non-reference ladies can't be publicized for everyone to see. Remember Karma. What goes around, comes around. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 Why does it seem that tales of escort fuckery(*) keep coming out of CoS? Perhaps it’s time for an escort social (no clients) in CoS to develop some solidarity amongst the sisterhood. But then again the miscreants probably wouldn’t attend 😒 (*) cock blocking, Outing or blacklisting clients for mediocre reviews, etc. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 7 hours ago, Sexy Francesca said: I used to visit COS often, buy if it wasn’t for my best friend living/playing down there and referencing, I would’ve seen no one because other ladies did not respond to my requests ..This has been many many years ago...It’s unfortunate because some of the nicest guys I have met down here 😊 Thanks for always helping a sista out, your awesome!! This is my 3rd trip to the Springs, and have yet to have a negative experience with the guys. Sweet, kind, caring, and fun. They deserve better for sure. 😊 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 COS is definitely a different market than Denver unfortunately. Seems a lot more territorial, you never see any social gatherings, things like that. All the girls seem much more fiercely independent but that can definitely cause issues like this. Not all are that way, there are some that do share refs around here and do great. It's just how things evolved down here over the years, and many of us would like to see it change. I talk to several gents down here and they all seem to indicate they'd get out more and see more people if there were references sent easier. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 My suggestion is you gents in the Springs start holding these ladies accountable and move your business elsewhere. Come on guys...you aren’t in this for the drama or possessive behavior. Take a stand. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 7 minutes ago, Laci French said: My suggestion is you gents in the Springs start holding these ladies accountable and move your business elsewhere. Come on guys...you aren’t in this for the drama or possessive behavior. Take a stand. Aint that the truth.... being selfish in the hobby only makes things more complicated.... sadly the main issues on this thread are ladies who dont participate in the forum...... but if they see this.... YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!! Why is your safety more important than anybody elses? Gentlemen need to start asking ladies if they are reference friendly before giving them reviews! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 We all should be reference friendly, and recommendation friendly when we are unavailable... I want our Gents to have an amazing encounter Everytime.... 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 30 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said: Aint that the truth.... being selfish in the hobby only makes things more complicated.... sadly the main issues on this thread are ladies who dont participate in the forum...... but if they see this.... YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!! Why is your safety more important than anybody elses? Gentlemen need to start asking ladies if they are reference friendly before giving them reviews! Or stop seeing those that don’t give references because it places us all at risk. Now is the time for integrity to be brought back into our community. We need to raise the bar. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 13 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said: We all should be reference friendly, and recommendation friendly when we are unavailable... I want our Gents to have an amazing encounter Everytime.... 12 minutes ago, Laci French said: Or stop seeing those that don’t give references because it places us all at risk. Now is the time for integrity to be brought back into our community. We need to raise the bar. Out of hearts, so I +1 both these. I generally ask ladies after a good session if she is reference friendly, but haven't done so before hand, just felt kinda weird. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 14 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: It's also not lost on me that these cockblockers reach out and ask my friends for references. 🤷♀️🙄 #ColoradoSpringsCockBlockerBrigade 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 1 hour ago, MeganMarie4u said: Aint that the truth.... being selfish in the hobby only makes things more complicated.... sadly the main issues on this thread are ladies who dont participate in the forum...... but if they see this.... YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!! Why is your safety more important than anybody elses? Gentlemen need to start asking ladies if they are reference friendly before giving them reviews! This 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 I was seeing a well reviewed lady on here and after a few visits to her I asked if she could give me a reference and her reaction was not what I expected! She all of a sudden had rules for her to give me a reference and only to certain ladies and so on! So I never went back to see her! But it got me to not even ask any lady anymore! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 Im trying to avoid points in 2019 or id call them all out.... im half tempted to send some DM's! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 (edited) Sadly, that is not the case for one of these providers. She does post on the forums, and she does reach out to other ladies for references. Edited April 30, 2019 by Hunter VanDyke 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 56 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said: We all should be reference friendly, and recommendation friendly when we are unavailable... I want our Gents to have an amazing encounter Everytime.... This! Every damn time.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 2 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Sadly, that is not the case for one of these providers. She does post on the forums, and she does reach out to other ladies for references. That is pathetic....🙄 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 1 hour ago, Laci French said: Or stop seeing those that don’t give references because it places us all at risk. Now is the time for integrity to be brought back into our community. We need to raise the bar. I wish there was a public list that listed the ladies that were reference friendly and the ladies that weren't reference friendly. Then hopefully the guys would stop calling the ladies that aren't reference friendly. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 The problem with the list of reference friendly is you would really have no idea if she is sharing for sure. I thank the ladies that have been a reference for me and in return I always answer my PM's about the ladies I have seen as well discreet info of course. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 2 hours ago, ilovewomen said: I wish there was a public list that listed the ladies that were reference friendly and the ladies that weren't reference friendly. Then hopefully the guys would stop calling the ladies that aren't reference friendly. Well, IDK.... There is a lot that goes on through back channeling. I don't mind sharing my experiences. I have several guys that I have given many, many references for to other ladies. Yet, even after they should have these new ladies as references, I am continually used. I suppose the others are not answering. That is too bad. Ugh! I'm not sure that some guys will actually avoid the non-reference giving folks---- especially if they are getting what they deem is a "good/cheaper deal". Unfortunately we can only control ourselves. I'll be a good player. I will give references to ladies that don't give them to me, because the client ends up losing out, and I don't want to risk anyone's safety. It's just a crappy deal, but mehhhhh... 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 Perhaps you ladies should inform gents that their references didn’t bother to respond. We(guys) don’t know. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 30, 2019 6 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said: Aint that the truth.... being selfish in the hobby only makes things more complicated.... sadly the main issues on this thread are ladies who dont participate in the forum...... but if they see this.... YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!! Why is your safety more important than anybody elses? Gentlemen need to start asking ladies if they are reference friendly before giving them reviews! Or hold your review tlll you get your reference?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
