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Yesterday I read a thread here about things people love or hate to hear. Some one said they hate to hear about there SO. so I started wondering if a lot of providers have SO. I would guess a lot of clients also have SO. I would like to hear, if it is appropriate, how your SO handles the hobby or if they just don’t know( I don’t think you could hide it from them)

 

thanks hope to to hear some answers. 

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None of your damn business what is going on in our personal lives.  

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No body wants to die Alone. So YES many Providers have families,Children, Boyfriends, Husbands,Lovers ect ect..

I myself just can't seem to make a relationship work While in the Hobby so I date Outside of the hobby Never revealing my personals..My Family Knows about my shenanigans so no secret there. 

There is no One Answer here. It is a loaded question that will get Many answers. 

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43 minutes ago, Laci French said:

None of your damn business what is going on in our personal lives.  

I was just wondering I never said you have to say anything. I was asking providers/clients if they were comfortable sharing. 

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43 minutes ago, Chrissy said:

No body wants to die Alone. So YES many Providers have families,Children, Boyfriends, Husbands,Lovers ect ect..

I myself just can't seem to make a relationship work While in the Hobby so I date Outside of the hobby Never revealing my personals..My Family Knows about my shenanigans so no secret there. 

There is no One Answer here. It is a loaded question that will get Many answers. 

Thank you!

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This is a question that should have never been asked.  If a lady wants you to know her personal business, she will tell you.

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We see the ladies to be their SO for a certain period of time. When the time is over, we are no longer their SO until next time.

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I assume some ladies have SOs and others don't, just like everybody else, I just don't want to hear anything about them. 

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I only care how I am treated in our short time together. I leave the real world behind when I walk through that door and I hope she does too. I leave the BCD in that room when I walk out (other than the large grin on my face)  and I hope she does too. All the rest is just noise. 

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I would guess that it's probably not uncommon for a provider to have a SO.  I mean, pornstars have SO's so why wouldn't a provider have one?  This is a job, a way to put a roof over your head for a provider.  Sure, it's a more unique situation and one that might require more open discussions early on about how the relationship is going to go but there is someone out there for everyone.  Just might take a little more effort to find one with an open mind. 

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 I know for a fact that  many providers do not have SO’s  because he/she would not like nor approve of it.  I also know that many providers hate what they are doing, but need to do it in order to put a roof over their head. It doesn’t matter to me one way or another, because we all have things we hate doing in order to survive. I spend my time with A provider because it makes me feel good for that limited amount of time.  But make no mistake about it, most providers would much rather be doing something else besides taking a bunch of strange old men between their legs. 

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On 12/14/2017 at 11:40 AM, Mustang87 said:

I assume some ladies have SOs and others don't, just like everybody else, I just don't want to hear anything about them. 

       That does put a damper on things. I would rather respect her private life,than hear about it before and during sheet time.

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My SO is my hound,does that count? She is who I answer too. And somehow, I don't think any of my clients care to hear

me gush over how great and wonderful she is.  Beyond tho effecte basic , "So Jez, I hear you have a giant breed dog.

That being said, sometimes you guys want to talk about SO problems. You'd be surprised at the regularity of this. At that time we become the therapist.  And then the HIPPA  goes into effect. We are after-all , role players so  whatever you want us to be( if we agree too)!

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Your questions not a bad question,  it's just like Chrissy said.  Some find it obtrusive while some want to know.  When I started, I was curious as you, but after awhile, I really didn't care.  The main reason is there's no need to share my situation, so I really don't want to know about theirs!  I'm there to enjoy my allotted time!

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I knew a few with SOs and everything went great. Ya just gotta fallow your own path and life will be a calmer place to live.

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