Posted February 12, 2017 The user names lustyleah and rjb1354 have been banned for misrepresenting their Forum presence with intent to violate the rules and interests of TOB. We are confident and resolute in our findings that there is No female LustyLeah and in fact was created by the user RJB1354 who is a male. Deceptions have been in play and this is not acceptable to and for the valued TOB membership. 25 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 12, 2017 I am happy to see the board is here to protect us...... thank you!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 Just curious but how did you discover this? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 1 minute ago, MrBigShot said: Just curious but how did you discover this? We all reported him for being a scammer. TOB was really good about putting it all together. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 10 minutes ago, Raine-7379 said: We all reported him for being a scammer. TOB was really good about putting it all together. I see. Thank you 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 3 hours ago, MrBigShot said: Just curious but how did you discover this? Baby you know I love you to death, but you know after the first time I saw her on the board, it was just plain common sense. Cute girls don't come on this board looking for other girls! This just doesn't happen ! And if there were ever to be somebody like that they would not change their profile picture every two weeks to someone that looked completely opposite of what the last person look like. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 21 hours ago, Raine-7379 said: I am happy to see the board is here to protect us...... thank you!! Just a quick thought to the administrators. How protected are the ones that did respond to her, or did chat with her via p.m. ????? How safe are we now considering this could've been LE? Thoughts anyone? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 1 hour ago, AnaBeau said: Baby you know I love you to death, but you know after the first time I saw her on the board, it was just plain common sense. Cute girls don't come on this board looking for other girls! This just doesn't happen ! And if there were ever to be somebody like that they would not change their profile picture every two weeks to someone that looked completely opposite of what the last person look like. I was in my first week in this new life style. Now, I know people are creepy and are cons. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 2 hours ago, AnaBeau said: Just a quick thought to the administrators. How protected are the ones that did respond to her, or did chat with her via p.m. ????? How safe are we now considering this could've been LE? Thoughts anyone? They/he wasn't LE, he had written a review of me and 32 others. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 13, 2017 4 minutes ago, Melissa Sterling said: They/he wasn't LE, he had written a review of me and 32 others. That is why I got caught in the con... I believed he had seen all of you. Stupid me for not reaching out to you ladies. I am learning.... I know, finally!!! Thank you again for all the support. Not feeling so utterly alone and lost. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 At least he was dedicated. What kind of fool would write 32 reviews if they didn't have to. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 Well I had seen him, and at the time he was perfectly fine. I'm not entirely comfortable with discussing it on the forum, however, if anyone has any questions you came pm me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 4 hours ago, Melissa Sterling said: They/he wasn't LE, he had written a review of me and 32 others. Why thank you love! What a CREEP!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 Why did he do it? I don't get it. What did he get out of it? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 13 hours ago, Vassago said: Why did he do it? I don't get it. What did he get out of it? I wish I knew what makes someone do something so crazy as to set up a fake wife. I do not see any benefit to him. Now, his game is over with these accounts. I am sure he will be back under a new identity. We all just need to be better at reporting. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2017 On 2/13/2017 at 11:40 AM, AnaBeau said: Baby you know I love you to death, but you know after the first time I saw her on the board, it was just plain common sense. Cute girls don't come on this board looking for other girls! This just doesn't happen ! And if there were ever to be somebody like that they would not change their profile picture every two weeks to someone that looked completely opposite of what the last person look like. I didn't pay that much attention to the profile pics changing so often as I took this person at their word to be who they said they were. PM if there's more to this story 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 so..... question asked multiple times but not even partially answered - a long time and known john suddenly creating a wife character Hoping to gain what? A case of if you can't tell whole story, spare me the partial story. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 5 hours ago, MrBigShot said: I didn't pay that much attention to the profile pics changing so often as I took this person at their word to be who they said they were. PM if there's more to this story I am totally with you Bigshot!! I liked LustyLeah and she was even on my profile page before it went down. Let me know also if any of you have the time. I also just don't pay attention to the people on here that mind their manners. It is usually the ones that cause problems that get more of a notice from me and I am sure the same is true from others. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 1 hour ago, gr8owl said: so..... question asked multiple times but not even partially answered - a long time and known john suddenly creating a wife character Hoping to gain what? A case of if you can't tell whole story, spare me the partial story. There was a case here a few years ago where a poster, who was somewhat adept at writing amateur pornography, got all the dudes here in quite a tizzy, until it turned out to be another guy("lazy dog anal" anyone?). There was no discernible benefit to posting what they did, other than to get a bunch of fine fellows into a lather. In this case however, while I found the OP odd in the regard you mentioned("they" could have just disappeared), I think it was more of a public airing?/execution?, to serve as a public warning against such behavior. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 This is not the first time a dude has taken on the persona of a woman. For you long time rodeo riders, do you remember JustinCase? This gal had every guy dripping as she described how she liked Greek, etc. She went through lengths to describe sexual positions she enjoyed. For months she teased as guys tried to figure out who SHE was. We all got a good chuckle out of it when we figured out how foolish we were to believe such a creature existed. No pitchforks. No burning at the stake. Just a good laugh at being fooled. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 2 hours ago, MrReindeer-9515 said: There was a case here a few years ago where a poster, who was somewhat adept at writing amateur pornography, got all the dudes here in quite a tizzy, until it turned out to be another guy("lazy dog anal" anyone?). There was no discernible benefit to posting what they did, other than to get a bunch of fine fellows into a lather. In this case however, while I found the OP odd in the regard you mentioned("they" could have just disappeared), I think it was more of a public airing?/execution?, to serve as a public warning against such behavior. 1 hour ago, inkspot said: This is not the first time a dude has taken on the persona of a woman. For you long time rodeo riders, do you remember JustinCase? This gal had every guy dripping as she described how she liked Greek, etc. She went through lengths to describe sexual positions she enjoyed. For months she teased as guys tried to figure out who SHE was. We all got a good chuckle out of it when we figured out how foolish we were to believe such a creature existed. No pitchforks. No burning at the stake. Just a good laugh at being fooled. I'm on stinkpot's ignore list I'm sure, but yup same one. The only issue: it most certainly was not JustinCase. I believe the handle was Sweetlife... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 4 hours ago, gr8owl said: so..... question asked multiple times but not even partially answered - a long time and known john suddenly creating a wife character Hoping to gain what? A case of if you can't tell whole story, spare me the partial story. Exactly!!!! Gr8owl, maybe there is no real answer other than Someone embellished to the degree of making up a fake wife. Not quite sure if I necessary see the guy as a creep? Thinking more along the line's of trying his own understanding of what it would feel to spread his wings a bit and pretisapate with his feminine ego?! Not sure really?Well,other than I value Melissa's understanding and judgement. I am sure the guy was a good client! if Melissa say's so! Yes! It has to true!😃 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 (edited) 7 hours ago, MrReindeer-9515 said: I believe the handle was Sweetlife... I concur. Edited February 15, 2017 by Bit Banger 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 It's called Role Play Gaming. Some folks like to pretend their elves & wizards in D&D. Others think they're Jack Reacher or members of Seal Team 6 in the latest video shoot'em up. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 All I can say is WOW! I even gave her/him props. Thought it was a she. Just goes to show you to be diligent but still.... WTF. I feel like the dude in the crying game holding myself in the shower... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Exactly!!!! Gr8owl, maybe there is no real answer other than Someone embellished to the degree of making up a fake wife. Not quite sure if I necessary see the guy as a creep? Thinking more along the line's of trying his own understanding of what it would feel to spread his wings a bit and pretisapate with his feminine ego?! Not sure really?Well,other than I value Melissa's understanding and judgement. I am sure the guy was a good client! if Melissa say's so! Yes! It has to true!😃 I've been on the internet since back in '89. There were trolls back then already, doing what trolls do. Riling folks up just because they can and they get some weird pleasure about tricking people. I'm pretty sure it's a narcissistic trait. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 2 hours ago, Running with Scissors said: All I can say is WOW! I even gave her/him props. Thought it was a she. Just goes to show you to be diligent but still.... WTF. I feel like the dude in the crying game holding myself in the shower... Nah. I'm pretty comfortable with my masculinity. If a dude can turn me on and I have know idea he's a dude, good on him. It's more the deceptive pretense that irritates me. And that only a little bit cause I still don't know what the fuck he was doing it for. There was another post not long ago about what confuses me. This. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2017 But what really makes me sad is I was hoping for some lesbian/girl on girl reviews. So hot! Now my vicarious hope is shot to shit.. Uggh 😢 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites