Posted April 2, 2015 1st time posting ... So sorry if this is a dumb question. Tried AFF, Milfaholics & a couple others .... They all seem fake. Thus the reason I started hobbying? Any input on these? Just curious? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2015 1st time posting ... So sorry if this is a dumb question. Tried AFF, Milfaholics & a couple others .... They all seem fake. Thus the reason I started hobbying? Any input on these? Just curious? No. Sorry to burst your bubble, but they're all fake, though some of them can be an alternate venue for meeting ASPs. Like P411, only not as honest. Lets get this over with all at once. There's no Santa Claus or Tooth Fairy or Easter Bunny, either. And there is no such thing as free sex. The most expensive sex I ever had was "free." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2015 Well. Depends on what you're looking for. You can meet women on mocospace. It's pretty much a hook up site. Some are semi-pros who expect to be paid. I had a good time with one. A lot are just lonely women, many in bad marriages, who want someone to like them. I met women and had some fun. But it's not a real classy group of folks. I passed on many more opportunities than I followed through with. Ended up meeting a couple of women I wish I hadn't. Things could have gone very badly. I needed to get it out of my system. If you need to validate your own sense of self by proving that you can still attract a woman, then give it a shot. If you're looking to have some fun with a great looking woman who will make you feel super, stick with an escort. Just my advice. Worth what you paid for it. Pretty much agree with Laplace. I wouldn't say any of it was free. I just paid for it differently. And ultimately, yes, I think it was more "expensive". But my fragile male ego had to prove that I could meet women without giving them cash. I'm really glad I got it out of my system. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2015 (edited) Thanks for the feedback! Much Appreciated . I will stick to hobbying .. Never got anywhere on any of those sites. And don't need the drama ... Mahalo Bradah's Edited April 2, 2015 by Lahaina19 Mispelling 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2015 (edited) No. Sorry to burst your bubble, but they're all fake, though some of them can be an alternate venue for meeting ASPs. Like P411, only not as honest. Lets get this over with all at once. There's no Santa Claus or Tooth Fairy or Easter Bunny, either. And there is no such thing as free sex. The most expensive sex I ever had was "free." Really? No Santa Claus, Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny? Damn, I knew it wasn't them I was playing poker with last night. [snip} bd5671 Headin' to Blackhawk, again... Edited April 7, 2015 by boink36 Forbidden topic removed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2015 Lets get this over with all at once. There's no Santa Claus or Tooth Fairy or Easter Bunny, either. This is the worst news ever!!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2015 This is the worst news ever!!!! Can't say about santa and tooth fairy, but ............. no Easter bunny ........... explain this! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2015 1st time posting ... So sorry if this is a dumb question. Tried AFF, Milfaholics & a couple others .... They all seem fake. Thus the reason I started hobbying? Any input on these? Just curious? What exactly are you seeking? FWB, Swingers or Girl Friend? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2015 Every semi-attractive woman gets offered cock multiple times per day. They don't need to go on the Internet to find it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 Every semi-attractive woman gets offered cock multiple times per day. They don't need to go on the Internet to find it. This is the bottom line. Also, there is no easter bunny, santa claus, or god for that matter. But I will say there is more evidence for real hookup sites than there is for any deity. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 Every semi-attractive woman gets offered cock multiple times per day. They don't need to go on the Internet to find it. This isn't really true! Women do get plenty of offers for sex but they're not all from men they would happily bed. I have never used a dating site but I have used craigslist for a hookup or two or three. I use them so I can reel in someone I would actually like to spend time with and of course someone who I am attracted to. You can get it when you want it but you can't always get exactly what you want. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 Every semi-attractive woman gets offered cock multiple times per day. They don't need to go on the Internet to find it. This has been true since the dawn of time. When I entered my mid life crisis full swing, what surprised me most was that so little had changed. It seems guys never grow up. The guys who are jerks are still my best friend. At a bar 20 years ago, or on a web site today. Women get really tired of that. It's amazing how far you get just being a decent, respectful person. If anything, it's more true later in life than it was when I was young. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 I have never used a dating site but I have used craigslist for a hookup or two or three. Ah. I knew we'd met before. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 This has been true since the dawn of time. When I entered my mid life crisis full swing, what surprised me most was that so little had changed. It seems guys never grow up. The guys who are jerks are still my best friend. At a bar 20 years ago, or on a web site today. Women get really tired of that. It's amazing how far you get just being a decent, respectful person. If anything, it's more true later in life than it was when I was young. I agree that nothing has changed, but I disagree that jerks make it easier for a nice guy to get anywhere. The problem is that the jerks cause so much noise, especially online where it's easy to cut-and-paste and send a message to every single girl. That means that your nice-guy message is unlikely to get noticed. Possible, but unlikely. It's probably actually easier in a bar or pickup environment, if these things exist anymore (I haven't been to one in so long I'm not sure) since it actually takes balls and effort to approach a woman. Online, all it takes is cut-and-paste-and-send. Any idiot can do that. So the upshot is - online hookup sites for civilians is mostly a waste of time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 Um backpages is very good all purpose site. I use it for dating, hooking up, massages, escorts. Pretty much any purpose it can do it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 6, 2015 Also, there is no easter bunny, santa claus, or god for that matter. But I will say there is more evidence for real hookup sites than there is for any deity. I remember saying something similar to this in a college English class. there were a couple of students wanting to burn me at the stake as we tried to have a logical (wink-wink) discussion about this. fun times.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 7, 2015 I am only posting to this thread because my profile photo is SO appropriate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 7, 2015 Um backpages is very good all purpose site. I use it for dating, hooking up, massages, escorts. Pretty much any purpose it can do it. Yea verily, macho. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 8, 2015 1st time posting ... So sorry if this is a dumb question. Tried AFF, Milfaholics & a couple others .... They all seem fake. Thus the reason I started hobbying? Any input on these? Just curious? Craigslist can be occasionally stupendously wonderful. Usually it's just whistling in the dark though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 8, 2015 Craigslist can be occasionally stupendously wonderful. Usually it's just whistling in the dark though. All I've ever gotten on Craigslist is spam for dating sites. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 8, 2015 I agree that nothing has changed, but I disagree that jerks make it easier for a nice guy to get anywhere. The problem is that the jerks cause so much noise, especially online where it's easy to cut-and-paste and send a message to every single girl. That means that your nice-guy message is unlikely to get noticed. Possible, but unlikely. That is for sure. If I'd spent the hours I wasted on that doing something productive, I could have cured cancer. It is a huge time drain. And, yeah, almost every note is completely ignored, or you get one response then nothing. But if you have to time to invest... I don't know. I guess I'm glad I did it. I have some crazy experiences to look back on. The bad ones make better stories, really. LOL Like I said, I'm probably really lucky I didn't end up divorced, murdered, or robbed. I guess my instincts served me well. Man, I typed up a few stories. But probably best to save them for another time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 8, 2015 All I've ever gotten on Craigslist is spam for dating sites. After getting this response from them, I repeatedly reply what they should do with the herd of goats they are tending. In my area, BP has not taken off for anything but escorts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 9, 2015 I got a p2p hooked up with a Latina on CL casual encounters for a little massage and a BBFS last week. She actually posted for a massage. It was different. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 10, 2015 too much work , way easier to pick up the phone 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 10, 2015 too much work , way easier to pick up the phone True. I learned this the hard way. And if you have a soul, turns out, you hurt people along the way. No matter what they say. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 10, 2015 I have whole list of websites. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 10, 2015 I have whole list of websites. How many of them are you on? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 10, 2015 How many of them are you on? I was on four of them. But not anymore. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 13, 2015 Well I was looking for a FWB's type thing ... Had one years ago but, she moved to Florida to be closer to her mother. I travel alot for work so something ... with no commitments was what I was looking for without the expectation of every week ... etc ... but Mahalo for all the feedback everyone 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
