Taboo? or not taboo?

[Archetype]

Sweeping, bigoted generalizations

I get the sense that:

a) You saw a few black ladies from BP or some other less-than-reputable sources, on whom you failed to perform your research, and used that to allow your brain to vomit your OP; or

You showed up to an appointment with a black lady while unshowered, poorly-dressed, and/or with a bad attitude, and blamed your bad experience on the lady instead of yourself; or

c) You're just a hateful person who enjoys stirring up shit.

Either way, the board doesn't need your "observations" - there's enough drama here without it.

[Bit Banger]

Interesting. In my 40+ years of "the hobby" my terrible experiences have all been with AE (American/European) providers. The NCNS, the Bait&Switch, the Cash&Dash, the hurry ups, and the upsells - yep, all white!

So what does that tell you? Should I avoid Caucasian providers?

[VirgilBliss]

So what does that tell you? Should I avoid Caucasian providers?

If you're not a beta orbiter, you're goddamn right!

Never swallow the blue pill, stick with the red one...

Edited November 15, 2014 by virgilbliss
Advice

[pfunk]

beta orbiter

You're the only person I've ever seen/heard use this term.

Sorry! It's lame, and guess what?<snip>

Edited November 15, 2014 by Kaduk
name calling

[NaughtyNiceGuy]

You should both avoid all hookers since you are so easily taken by scammers.

[lilithia]

Honey U are beauty -t-ful, ok.

Don't sweat or doubt yourself. Keep on doing what your do.

Edited November 17, 2014 by Kaduk
off topic...

[2Big]

You guys, I found a picture of "Virgilbliss":cool:

[Guest Shauna_Styles]

I think its very interesting that this thread lead into a black vs white when the original question mentioned no specific race.

[Gizzicka Dior]

yes honey!!!! lol i was thinking the same thing.....

but the proof is in the pudding i guess....

all I know is i can count on one hand how many clients i have actually seen...

and i always get that line.... I cant believe your not the "stereotypical" blah blah blah smh

But I really dont say to much or even start threads anymore because since day one, I have been getting LASHED about the DUMBEST things. I have noticed the guys on the board are really BRUTAL to people who post things they dont agree with... they pounce on the "offender" like a mountain lion, making him/her reconsider their ENTIRE way of thinking.

Me for example as a New provider and NEW to the state got LASHED on multiple post for weeks about picking a name I had NO IDEA was used. (even contacted the old Provider with the name and she didnt care) But i was labeled classless ignorant etc etc etc

and then we get a SUPER OFFENSIVE post on here

(and im not saying everyone) but look how what was posted was in a way "looked over"

it was said with NO repercussion lol

and i know this might make me get hit EVEN harder but hey the truth is the truth....

all i can do is sit back smile and laugh .... then continue to read my book..

This is NOT the only time I have seen something down talking AA providers, it pops up ALL the time smh

its going to get better for us Shauna! and just know if NOBODY else got you I GOT YOU!

Its hard i know, and at first i thought it was just me, Keep your head up Girl! your are PRICELESS and you deserve the sun moon and stars! remember that!

much love girl! smile your beautiful inside and out!!!

[Gizzicka Dior]

Over 35? Might as well be bangin' gummin Granny.

That said, I've fucked plenty of black girls. Plus, one of the hottest black porn stars - Sierra - used to whore out of Chicago. Unfortunately, never could find the time to see her.

My only problem with black hookers is the fuckin' fake hair. I can't stand it. As I said in another thread, I don't want to be rear ending that azz, pulling her hair....and end up with a fistful of extensions or jheri curls. Or some fuckin wig.

are you seriously saying YOU never saw a "white" lady with extensions??? lol really?

The only picture I get is that you're a [snip}. But, whatever.

[HappyHarryHardon]

When I first engaged in this business (1999), I was open to anything and was truly color blind. However, I've been consistently burnt (for whatever reason) by African-American providers. They are the worst!

You cannot have a intelligent conversation with them. Their services are so limited that they might as well wear a latex body glove, but you pay a premium for that "cultural experience". They are the masters of bait and switch. For example, they sport a Tyra Banks look-a-like picture in their ad, but when you show up, you get a Congo bush woman straight out of a Nat-Geo mag. They are also the biggest liars about being on the rag, but sill going through with an appointment and it becomes a bloody mess. Having said that, one of my best APS experience was an AA provider, but she is long gone.

So the ideal ASP for me is a non-aa who is over 35.

For those of you who have had the same experience as me here are some tips:

If in their ad, they say:

Mixed = Black

Exotic = Black

Nubian = Black

Blasian = Black

Mulatto = Black

Puerto Rician = Black

Hispanic = Black

Irish-Egyptian = Black

German-Moroccan = Black

French-Moroccan = Black

Phillipian = Black

Creole = Black

Cuban = Black

Cajun = Black

Middle Eastern = Black

Persian = Republic of Congo Black

Antarctician = Black

Post-Racial Caucasian = Black

Get the picture?

Got it?

Well then, good!

Ignorance is Bliss. With that said, I have never had a bad experience with a lady of any color, race, ethnicity, or cultural background. I do not choose who I spend time with based on any of those things either. As with anything, doing your homework seems to work well. I do have my preferences, of which include at the top, having a good attitude! If she is a bitch, color makes no difference. A lady could have plain looks about her, however if she is a fun person to be around I tend to not care. A good provider knows how to mind fuck you. She makes the fantasy believable, fun, and will most likely get a call back. As for the period thing, Shit happens, get over it. The tricks these ladies have up their sleeves to hide mother nature from us guys are ingenious. If a whoops happens, it is in my experience truly unexpected, and I have never been upset.

[NaughtyNiceGuy]

You ask if race is a factor in deciding who you see and then act surprised it turned into a racial discussion.

[2Big]

(This happens when you don't know how to use the quote function).

And, yeah, I don't like white girls with extensions either. Usually, there's a pimp named "LeRoy III" to go with that.

Somebody put this sorry thread out of its misery.

[Gizzicka Dior]

(This happens when you don't know how to use the quote function).

And, yeah, I don't like white girls with extensions either. Usually, there's a pimp named "LeRoy III" to go with that.

Somebody put this sorry thread out of its misery.

you are right i just was so blown back by this and actually A lot of girls from every............

never mind lmbo why bother!

lol i hope everyone is enjoying the start of an awesome week!

[Velvet Valentine]

Unfortunatly, I don't really think the real people with racial problems would honestly answer in this thread. Probably a waste of time, but who knows.

Shauna is BEAUTIFUL inside and out. I have told her many times that she should have nothing to worry about and she needs to stop over-thinking if times are sometimes slow. I doubt seriously that it's personal.

Laughing at some of the posts above...I'm half Cuban and half russian, but raised in the south....good mix. I never over-think it. I consider myself sometimes white, sometimes exotic, sometimes latin...whatever. It really doesn't matter. I remember years ago, when Gina told me that she thought I was black and we laughed in an email. It was too cute to me. I look at the person for their inside, not their outside, but I guess it's different for some who are paying and might be looking for something spicific.

[Guest Shauna_Styles]

You ask if race is a factor in deciding who you see and then act surprised it turned into a racial discussion.

Not surprised at all. C'mon now I'm a multi-racial woman living in 'post racial' America. I was disgusted that the thread turned into a black woman bashing parade.

[fork]

I was disgusted that the thread turned into a black woman bashing parade.

I think it was a short parade - one person long.

(I hope you didn't take my silly joke as black woman bashing - it may have come across that way but that wasn't my intent. If so, my apologies. I was trying to make fun of the rant.)

[Gambit63]

So I have to ask this question because it's something I think about almost daily.

Does race/ethnic background play a part in choosing a provider to visit?

There have been recent posts that talk about provider's not seeing certain races, but what about the other way around?

Not really. I may have a preference in regards to size (full vs. thin), age (mature vs. young), type of service provided, etc... but race is very low on the scale.

[VirgilBliss]

Well I found some footage of 2big: surprised???

[MAG]

Not surprised at all. C'mon now I'm a multi-racial woman living in 'post racial' America. I was disgusted that the thread turned into a black woman bashing parade.

First of all, it never became a "black woman bashing parade".

Secondly, what DID you expect? You asked a question about race. If you didn't want honest answers, what DID you hope to accomplish?

I suspect you wanted people to reassure you that your race had nothing to do with anything. We read "sorry no black men" all the time in hooker ads, so what's the difference?

[Guest pejo]

Does race/ethnic background play a part in choosing a provider to visit?

There is one way in which it does for me. I have seen several Asian providers (not at AMPs, I don't do that). All were petite women. All had trouble taking a well-endowed dick all the way in. 1/4 to 1/2 penetration doesn't do it for me. I have never repeated with any of them, and I generally avoid Asian women now.

[nudiej]

I certainly have my types. And I LOVE variety. Race is just one characteristic in choosing a provider for me. There have been days when all I can see when choosing to ask for some provider's time is a woman of a certain color, or size, or grooming, or or or...

So will I not see a woman because she is yellow, white, black, or brown, probably not.

[kenlook123]

Well, I went into this with no color requirements, now I see ones that are open-minded enough to see a 40 + black male, and in colorado, we know that means I have 15-25% of the providers to choose from.

[harpo]

The power of the internet !

[dj278]

I tend to find dark hair, eyes & skin attractive, and so I tend towards certain races, but I exclude none. There is so much beauty and wonderful experiences out there to be had.

[harpo]

Unfortunatly, I don't really think the real people with racial problems would honestly answer in this thread. Probably a waste of time, but who knows.

.

I agree .

Yes, I do have my preference. It's been my experience that some groups are simply better at the vocation than others. There are exceptions, of course, but not enough to change my perception.

Thank you , I am too .

[2Big]

Well, I went into this with no color requirements, now I see ones that are open-minded enough to see a 40 + black male, and in colorado, we know that means I have 15-25% of the providers to choose from.

I have to admit that when it comes to dating and whoring, I'm a bit of a reverse racist. Not really attracted to blondes and prefer to date "colored girls". Exceptions are girls from Eastern Europe.

[BenThere]

I am going to chime in on this one. I love black girls. They just seem more open and fun.

[Guest]

I love women of all shapes and sizes and have had the pleasure of enjoying this hobby with women of many races as well. Since I truly love variety, I've sometimes based my desires to see a particular ASP on race. I've found that a good experience isn't strictly based on a particular race and have had both wonderful experiences with (Latinas, Asians, Caucasians and African-Americans) and average to not-so-good experiences as well.

Throughout this journey, I've found steroetypes to mainly be unjustified as far as what race an ASP happens to be. Making a connection and enjoying one another's company is a universal goal of mine in this hobby regardless of whether or not she happens to be of a particular race.

To answer your question more directly...No, I do not, nor would I ever, disqualify a provider because of her race.