Posted August 31, 2014 I started out always taking off my ring before my appointment and still do--and not because I don't want the provider to know I'm married' date=' because I know it doesn't matter to them. I take it off because I don't want to be reminded of this when I'm in doggie and have my hands on her ass [/quote'] Nothing sexier than an honest man!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2014 I think the wife topic came up with all three gals I have met. I can't remember which one of us brought it up. It was part of the normal banter and did not seem to be prying. I do not mind saying that I am separated. One gal asked if I had kids which surprised me. I would want to know her better to talk about kids. I can see how reminding a guy about his wife and kids might spoil his mood or cross a line. It might not be a taboo subject after multiple visits and some comfort level/friendship is achieved. Better to let the guy discuss his family when he sees fit. I am surprised that some ASPs discuss details about their kids so freely with clients. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2014 When you get to know someone passed the orgasm, people discuss what's important to them, and kids are a natural topic of conversation. I guess past the first session or so, the ASP's trust me to not be a psychopath and feel okay to talk about what they're up to, which sometimes includes their kids. The talk is always general---we ain't discussing names, birthdates, addresses! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2014 Of course you are married/buried! Why else would you be there? Damn straight. And hell, I'm wearing the wedding ring. Even if I took it off, you could see the clearest tan line known to man. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2014 While being single, use to wear a wedding ring. When I hustled for tips I would wear a wedding ring because, men perceived as supporting a family received more tips. Sometimes I would forget that I was wearing it and would continue to wear it after work. I wonder is karma kept my love from talking to me because of the ring. It would have been nice if someone would have asked me if I was married. Since I have been misleading about being married, I wouldn't consider the question inappropriate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2014 While being single, use to wear a wedding ring. When I hustled for tips I would wear a wedding ring because, men perceived as supporting a family received more tips. Sometimes I would forget that I was wearing it and would continue to wear it after work. I wonder is karma kept my love from talking to me because of the ring. It would have been nice if someone would have asked me if I was married. Since I have been misleading about being married, I wouldn't consider the question inappropriate. I am surprised that some ASPs discuss details about their kids so freely with clients. In this business, It's is extremely foolish to let anyone know you have kids or that your married, or have girlfriend or boyfriend both providers and johns. Don't tell anyone this information. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2014 During a session this week a provider asked me if I was married. I answered her but found the question a taboo topic of conversation during session. If Iwere married it would change the whole tone of the evening. Has this happened to anyone else What does the fact of you being married or not have to do with the hobby? Especially when one is getting their squeal on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2014 During a session this week a provider asked me if I was married. I answered her but found the question a taboo topic of conversation during session. If Iwere married it would change the whole tone of the evening. Has this happened to anyone else The more I think about this, I find it bothersome. If the guy brings it up. Thats his mistake. IMHOP when escort your paying for by the hour she has no reason to get into your personal life, start asking you personal questions. I would begin to wonder why is she asking, what are the consequences going to be. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2014 The last thing I want to hear about is his wife or who he saw last week... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2014 Take this in fun, as I seldom get asked for a tip. Where do you work? Meaning: How much can you tip? Where do you live? Meaning: How much can you tip? What college did you go to? Meaning: How much can you tip? Are you on a business trip? Meaning: How much can you tip? Are you married? Meaning: He can tip more if single. Do you do this often? Meaning: Is he new? If so, I can ask for a higher tip. For a conversation killer ask, "How many guys have you fucked today?" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2014 Take this in fun, as I seldom get asked for a tip. Where do you work? Meaning: How much can you tip? Where do you live? Meaning: How much can you tip? What college did you go to? Meaning: How much can you tip? Are you on a business trip? Meaning: How much can you tip? Are you married? Meaning: He can tip more if single. Do you do this often? Meaning: Is he new? If so, I can ask for a higher tip. For a conversation killer ask, "How many guys have you fucked today?" Well done. Now that is a great post, although many will get their panties in a wad. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4, 2014 Mom what are you doing here? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 17, 2014 During a session this week a provider asked me if I was married. I answered her but found the question a taboo topic of conversation during session. If Iwere married it would change the whole tone of the evening. Has this happened to anyone else It has, and it makes me uncomfortable. I think it is best for both escorts and their clients to avoid discussion of family, relationships, or other "affiliation". Better topics include interests, experiences, perspectives, etc 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 18, 2014 With my screening, I already know if he is married or not. lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 20, 2014 With my screening, I already know if he is married or not. lol Care to elaborate? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 20, 2014 Care to elaborate? She calls his wife for a reference...... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 20, 2014 She calls his wife for a reference...... "Hi! I'm *insert name here* and your husband gave me your name/number as a reference. I just wanted to make sure that he's: Employed STD Free Snipped (yes/no) Current on alimony payments Also, do you have any preference on where/how he cum's? I want to make sure he's getting the experience you aren't providing for him." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 20, 2014 Care to elaborate? It's Cheyenne, she's related to all her customers... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 21, 2014 Sometimes the info pops up during simple screening....I had to inform one client to change the name he used on his gmail account to one that was not his real name, and did not pop up all info about who he was. I told him this so the info did not fall into the wrong hands. He asked me how I knew, I told him. Simple google search. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 21, 2014 (edited) Care to elaborate? I ask for full name. I then Google, Facebook, and linked in it. Most people have Facebook. On the searches like spokeo or my life it lists related people with the first usually being their wife. I check out her Facebook too if he doesn't have one. Edited September 22, 2014 by Kaduk 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 22, 2014 Care to elaborate? The less said about marital status or employment the better. There was an ASP not that long ago who would use that information against clients and make their lives miserable. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 22, 2014 The less said about marital status or employment the better. There was an ASP not that long ago who would use that information against clients and make their lives miserable. Its real simple, I hope you boys are paying attention. It's Cheyenne, she's related to all her customers... OHHHHH SHIT!!!! lol I ask for full name. I then Google, Facebook, and linked in it. Most people have Facebook. On the searches like spokeo or my life it lists related people with the first usually being their wife. I check out her Facebook too if he doesn't have one. Good one. Prime example. You totally just fucked up by writing this statement. You shouldn't have answered her. lol Rule #1.. Never publicly announce your screening. Now if law enforcement decided to bust you, they know exactly how you operate. If you ever have someone who doesn't like you provider or john.... now they can get your location, because they too know how you operate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2014 I personally don't ask. I don't feel it is necessary, doesn't matter. Once the door closes, it's all about us. If he has a Mrs., he doesn't think about her when they're with me anyway. It shouldn't matter, so why care to ask... Just my opinion of course. ( : 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
