Posted September 28, 2022 I apologize if this is a dumb question. There are a number of women on this site that I would like to meet up with, but I pass because I don't know what their rates are. I hate outright asking providers what their rates are. Please, what's the most courteous way to learn about a provider's rates if she doesn't display her rates? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 Check to see if they have a website- make sure you look at the drop down menu on the site and view all the options. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 On TOB ads, that little link/chain to the right that says “site” is their personal site usually. Or check on her profile and it should have one linked. That is, if they have their own site. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2022 Not a dumb question since rates are not posted for ant companion on TOB. In addition to Myra's good advice...If the absence of rate data is the only thing that causes you to hesitate, reach out via text, email, phone call or PM (whatever is her stated communication preference) and request an appointment by stating the date, time, length and location ( in or out) that you want to meet. In that first communication, ask her to please confirm the donation. If the donation works for you, follow through, go through her screening and go have fun. If not, politely decline. You can also PM other clients and ask them. Finally, many companions advertise on sites (P411, EROS, etc.) that do show rates. Do a google search ("Bambi Delight escort Denver") and see what you find. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2022 11 hours ago, sb1212 said: Not a dumb question since rates are not posted for ant companion on TOB. In addition to Myra's good advice...If the absence of rate data is the only thing that causes you to hesitate, reach out via text, email, phone call or PM (whatever is her stated communication preference) and request an appointment by stating the date, time, length and location ( in or out) that you want to meet. In that first communication, ask her to please confirm the donation. If the donation works for you, follow through, go through her screening and go have fun. If not, politely decline. You can also PM other clients and ask them. Finally, many companions advertise on sites (P411, EROS, etc.) that do show rates. Do a google search ("Bambi Delight escort Denver") and see what you find. Thank you. I ended up finding rates all through pm, other escort sites, and straight from the provider as I scheduled. You guys are truly informative and helpful! 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2022 On 9/28/2022 at 6:17 AM, sb1212 said: Not a dumb question since rates are not posted for ant companion on TOB. In addition to Myra's good advice...If the absence of rate data is the only thing that causes you to hesitate, reach out via text, email, phone call or PM (whatever is her stated communication preference) and request an appointment by stating the date, time, length and location ( in or out) that you want to meet. In that first communication, ask her to please confirm the donation. If the donation works for you, follow through, go through her screening and go have fun. If not, politely decline. You can also PM other clients and ask them. Finally, many companions advertise on sites (P411, EROS, etc.) that do show rates. Do a google search ("Bambi Delight escort Denver") and see what you find. Only if all hobbyist would do this ..life would be so easy to get laid .. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2022 16 hours ago, lustybustygina said: Only if all hobbyist would do this ..life would be so easy to get laid .. If donations were listed in their ads then that would save SO much time for everyone!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2022 2 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: If donations were listed in their ads then that would save SO much time for everyone!! We just follow the rules we're given for ads on TOB 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2022 Look to the right of the photo in the ad and click on "P411" (if it is there) to show the rates. Not every provider is a member of P411 but you as a hobbyist can view the home page with one click. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2022 On 9/30/2022 at 4:00 PM, inkspot said: Look to the right of the photo in the ad and click on "P411" (if it is there) to show the rates. Wow, I'm a dummy. I thought you had to be a member of P411 before it shows rates thank you! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2022 If a profile is set to public view, you can see P411 w/o being a member.👍 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 3, 2022 TER posts rates, but I find consistently that they are wrong - on the low side. I always check P411 if the companion does not have a web site. Those rates are consistently more accurate. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 5, 2022 if she has a website listed is easy way to see rates or my be Google her .. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2022 On 9/28/2022 at 7:17 AM, sb1212 said: Not a dumb question since rates are not posted for ant companion on TOB. In addition to Myra's good advice...If the absence of rate data is the only thing that causes you to hesitate, reach out via text, email, phone call or PM (whatever is her stated communication preference) and request an appointment by stating the date, time, length and location ( in or out) that you want to meet. In that first communication, ask her to please confirm the donation. If the donation works for you, follow through, go through her screening and go have fun. If not, politely decline. You can also PM other clients and ask them. Finally, many companions advertise on sites (P411, EROS, etc.) that do show rates. Do a google search ("Bambi Delight escort Denver") and see what you find. Exactly this!! I always do as much research as I can. There are a few that don’t list their rates anywhere, and I’ve found that they are happy to answer your polite question about them, and even tell you without asking. Above all, don’t try to negotiate a lower rate, they have their reasons for choosing them and if you can’t afford it, just say thank you and wish them well. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 9, 2022 5 hours ago, CountryGentleman said:Above all, don’t try to negotiate a lower rate, they have their reasons for choosing them and if you can’t afford it, just say thank you and wish them well. This! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2022 On 10/9/2022 at 6:16 AM, CountryGentleman said: Exactly this!! I always do as much research as I can. There are a few that don’t list their rates anywhere, and I’ve found that they are happy to answer your polite question about them, and even tell you without asking. Above all, don’t try to negotiate a lower rate, they have their reasons for choosing them and if you can’t afford it, just say thank you and wish them well. I fine it funny when I give my rates or other info I need for screening and the guy SAYS GOOD LUCK on that LOL 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2022 6 hours ago, lustybustygina said: I fine it funny when I give my rates or other info I need for screening and the guy SAYS GOOD LUCK on that LOL Some people are real jerks, I'm sorry that happens... I always say something like "Unfortunately that is out of my range. Thank you for your time and my best wishes to you!" 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2022 52 minutes ago, CountryGentleman said: Some people are real jerks, I'm sorry that happens... I always say something like "Unfortunately that is out of my range. Thank you for your time and my best wishes to you!" I will sometimes say "No doubt you are worth every nickel. I wish I had more nickels." 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2022 20 minutes ago, sb1212 said: I will sometimes say "No doubt you are worth every nickel. I wish I had more nickels." I'm probably going to steal that... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2022 6 hours ago, CountryGentleman said: Some people are real jerks, I'm sorry that happens... I always say something like "Unfortunately that is out of my range. Thank you for your time and my best wishes to you!" I say well good luck on not getting busted by LE if you don't want to screen or someone jumping out of the bathroom lol 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2022 We put up with so much crap most of you don't even know how much on a daily bases .. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2022 12 hours ago, lustybustygina said: We put up with so much crap most of you don't even know how much on a daily bases .. We don't and I, for one, admire you for it! I can't imagine what it's like having to deal daily with what is sometimes the worst humanity has to offer. My only hope is that some of the rest of us help brighten your day even if it's just a little. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 12, 2022 I have never had a problem asking " what is your current consulting rate". Always thank them and schedule or tell them that it is out of my budget. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2022 (edited) 23 hours ago, wglide2003 said: I have never had a problem asking " what is your current consulting rate". Always thank them and schedule or tell them that it is out of my budget. An important distinction ^here^. ‘Out of my budget’ implies that it’s my problem for not having enough $s, instead of ‘she’s charging too much.’ Much more genteel. 👍 Edited October 13, 2022 by Bit Banger Format, spelling 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
