Posted August 16, 2018 Hello All! So I am new to the hobby and have a question for y’all hobbyists and providers alike - how does one bring up a possible threesome with a provider(s)? I think it would be rather easy to find such a situation with an agency but quite frankly I would rather work with independent providers as I think you ladies are much easier to talk to and much more personable. Any advice or guidance you might have would be appreciated, thanks and have a lovely day! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 i've noticed a lot of providers offer doubles. You can type in "double" into a review search. Plenty of hits. You can ask if she does "doubles" and they should tell you yes/no most likely they have an already existing relationship with another girl if they provide. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 If they have a Web site you can usually find that information there. If not just ask when you are visiting the lady. Both options have worked for me. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 “ Hey, do you have a friend?” pretty simple , wink wink 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 My 1st 3some I was still a newbie. only my 3rd Lady. 2 hour appt she asked me if I could find as she was new to area. Obviously new territory for me. Wasn't that easy at all, a lot of the Ladies didn't know her so no go. I finally interviewed a prospect who is a also a porn star and she agreed. Being a newbie, screening both me and her was the hard part. On occasion I use advertised teams, but honestly prefer choosing who I want to see. Best get some refs in order 1st OP. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 4 hours ago, Ryann said: “ Hey, do you have a friend?” pretty simple , wink wink IMHO, far and away, the best method! ^^^^ I've had GREAT 3-somes using this! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 6 hours ago, Ryann said: “ Hey, do you have a friend?” pretty simple , wink wink Right? And, does she play? BTW? .? 😎 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 16, 2018 5 hours ago, fishndude57 said: My 1st 3some I was still a newbie. only my 3rd Lady. 2 hour appt she asked me if I could find as she was new to area. Obviously new territory for me. Wasn't that easy at all, a lot of the Ladies didn't know her so no go. I finally interviewed a prospect who is a also a porn star and she agreed. Being a newbie, screening both me and her was the hard part. On occasion I use advertised teams, but honestly prefer choosing who I want to see. Best get some refs in order 1st OP. I had an impromptu 3 some. Showed up for visit. Friend was finishing up in the restroom area. And she was hot! So I asked, “ would she like to join us?” YL asked her friend! Friend said sure. So I told YL, “ I need to get some more “ fun coupons”.😎 out of my car. 🚘 Shes like, “ are you cuming back?” I said heck yeah. I left my glasses as collateral.😊. Got back and had a swell time! 😎 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 I would start with "do you like girls?" If I was going to do a 3-way I'd make sure that she was into girls. Because watching that go down is half the fun. Only then, "do you have a friend?" 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 1 minute ago, fork said: I would start with "do you like girls?" If I was going to do a 3-way I'd make sure that she was into girls. Because watching that go down is half the fun. Only then, "do you have a friend?" Or, do you have a friend that .likes to play? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 It's super kinky and s 10 hours ago, Kindacurious008 said: Hello All! So I am new to the hobby and have a question for y’all hobbyists and providers alike - how does one bring up a possible threesome with a provider(s)? I think it would be rather easy to find such a situation with an agency but quite frankly I would rather work with independent providers as I think you ladies are much easier to talk to and much more personable. Any advice or guidance you might have would be appreciated, thanks and have a lovely day! o much fun but you guys are right the girls really have to know and like eachother. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 30 minutes ago, Jammie said: It's super kinky and s o much fun but you guys are right the girls really have to know and like eachother. See, and I know that. I do know some BI Ladies. But they don’t necessarily know each other! Whats a guy to do? ?😎 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 Tell her "many hands make light work" 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 Lots of good suggestions and sometimes polite questions can be the best. It's been brought up a number of times with a variety of ladies, sometimes by them, sometimes by me. So far, none of us has been offended at the question, even when the answer is "No". When the answer has been "Yes", some fun things have happened, if I had enough "fun coupons" to take advantage of it. I do need to be mindful of my "fun coupon" budget. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2018 23 hours ago, Kindacurious008 said: Hello All! So I am new to the hobby and have a question for y’all hobbyists and providers alike - how does one bring up a possible threesome with a provider(s)? I think it would be rather easy to find such a situation with an agency but quite frankly I would rather work with independent providers as I think you ladies are much easier to talk to and much more personable. Any advice or guidance you might have would be appreciated, thanks and have a lovely day! Just ask 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2018 I’m sure if you bring it up in a way that makes her feel like she’s the desire one in the topic of Doubles, then it would be perfect. That would be something very fun with the right ladies. Key is, enjoyment between all . Good luck 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2018 Ahhhhhh! Doubles, and I don't mean a double shot of booze, are the most fun! Had one recently and hope to have one again. My birthday is next month so maybe a birthday present to myself! I agree with Ryann on the just ask comment and with Jennifer on enjoyment for all. The classic win, win, and win scenario of the hobby! BR 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2018 I say just ask! The worst she can say is No haha 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2018 One thing to add to all of this, especially for those of you who have a SO that might be on the fence so to speak on this subject. Please make sure she is very involved in the process of meeting someone new and that they communicate and have a positive connection with one another. This is paramount to having a good time and developing a positive relationship moving forward if that's whats you wish. If you are in doubt, let your lady/SO make the choice and go along for the ride. Trust me on this. You won't be disappointed for this decision. Most of the things I've mentioned have been posted many times. Because they make total sense. Happy hunting to all, good luck and have fun! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 24, 2018 On 8/17/2018 at 10:31 PM, Leena_rose said: I say just ask! The worst she can say is No haha That’s what I was thinking. Of course I don’t always have the nerve to ask myself. It would be nice if some of the ladies that you have seen a few times would suggest. I had a great time when that happened to me. 😏 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites