Posted April 24, 2015 When I had a P411 account, I received OK's from unknown providers. When I contacted the owner, I was told that I forgot and did not remember seeing the provider. One OK was from out an of state provider. I had never been in that state. Providers travel to Colorado, but the Okay is given using their permanent (Home) listing from whatever city. Providers also change their names and photos. Please remember that the P411 staff can see in your account if you contacted the providers who gave you the Okay in question, if you set up an appointment with the provider, and if you requested an Okay from the provider, etc. Also, since 2013 it has not been possible for a provider to give a client an Okay unless the client first requests it. If anyone needs additional info to spark the memory, just say the word to P411 and that info can be shared. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2015 The bottom line, at least that was her reason for bailing out a few hours before the appointment was that I had TOO MANY okays through P411. Personally, I think this is ridiculous, foolish, and hypocritical. You were lucky to miss her. Now, if she had other reasons, and this reason was just an excuse, you were still lucky. Who wants to visit someone who doesn't want to see you? Better luck next time! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2015 Dude, only YOU could OKs without even thinking about it. Your charms must flow through the keyboard and permeate the 'net.[/quote 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2015 Does anyone else think this thread has completely meandered off course? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2015 Does anyone else think this thread has completely meandered off course? Not really as we are still discussing the OK system. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2015 I think this thread has been severely been highjacked, and the offenders shall be hung by their tits if they don't stick to the original topic. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 Personally, I think this is ridiculous, foolish, and hypocritical. You were lucky to miss her. Now, if she had other reasons, and this reason was just an excuse, you were still lucky. Who wants to visit someone who doesn't want to see you? Better luck next time! Not often that I agree with pfunk, but this time.... There are PLENTY of hookers who will happily accept your business. See one of them. Discussing OK's is a lot like discussing rates - it's pointless. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 I would venture to guess that there was another reason for the cancel, and it had nothing to do with you or your number of okays. More okays can mean more legitimacy(is that a word?) to me. I don't care who you have seen. If I were a man with a P411 account, I would see tons of ladies! i thought variety was part of the reason for hobbying for a lot of guys? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 This is bullshit. I have well over a hundred p411 "ok's" and I've never had a lady not see me because of this or any other reason for that matter. On the contrary, I contact a provider thru p411 and I get cleared for a short-notice appointment without a problem. This gal is an anomaly and this is supported by Geecue's post, as he's likely has plenty of okays, and "too many okays" is a truly rare complaint from his experience. Sometimes the lady and I laugh together about my activity, but I've never been criticized for being an active hobbiest. I joke that I pump a lot into the local escort economy---and I spend a lot of money too! I wouldn't change my practice because of one weird provider. I keep all my okays because they're a walk down memory lane for me. The okays are as much for me as for the new provider. I wouldn't delete a one for the rare ASP whom seems to be troubled by this. I think most ladies appreciate an experienced hobbiest. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 This is bullshit. That seems to be the consensus. There was another reason. This was an excuse. So what? Who cares? Move on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 ... I keep all my okays because they're a walk down memory lane for me. ... ^^ YES ^^ I'm going to need that list to refresh my memory while in that nursing home rocker. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 ^^ YES ^^ I'm going to need that list to refresh my memory while in that nursing home rocker. LOL Exactly. That is 100% what it's all about. How pissed is the guy next to you going to be, in his moments of clarity, when you go on and on about all the hot women you were with? He'll be complaining that the nurse doesn't empty his bed pan, and you'll be thinking "I'm pretty sure I fucked her". Making memories. We get one ticket to the amusement park, and I'm planing to ride all the rides while I have some good years left in me. "Bob. Hey Bob. You awake? Look at this one. Yeah. I remember, I think. Back in 2021. Man, that was amazing. She was... Bob. Bob?" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 LOL Exactly. That is 100% what it's all about. How pissed is the guy next to you going to be, in his moments of clarity, when you go on and on about all the hot women you were with? He'll be complaining that the nurse doesn't empty his bed pan, and you'll be thinking "I'm pretty sure I fucked her". Making memories. We get one ticket to the amusement park, and I'm planing to ride all the rides while I have some good years left in me. "Bob. Hey Bob. You awake? Look at this one. Yeah. I remember, I think. Back in 2021. Man, that was amazing. She was... Bob. Bob?" I'm right with you! And maybe I/we think this way because we're up in years? I've been saving to my hobby email all the pictures posted on EB/P411 of the women I choose to remember. That way I can remember and smile when I'm out of the game. I've got all the material stuff I need. My favorite ladies are helping create fun and memories that will last a long time. I just hope one day I can share this part of my life with someone, other than my provider friends, but probably not. I think I should leave a note to my sons when I pass that has them Google my handle and "TOB" and let them read my scores of reviews. Lol!! That will make some interesting conversation after the funeral! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 You know what I say>>>>>>Move on.... I'm sure there are other provider's that would be glad to see you. Her loss not yours..... Have a Great Day!!!! Sundance 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 (edited) I would venture to guess that there was another reason for the cancel, and it had nothing to do with you or your number of okays. It's possible that they had an issue with a specific person who had given you an OK. Rather than make an issue of it, they just said "too many". For instance, they may know or even just suspect that a specific provider engages in unsafe practices. It wouldn't be unreasonable for them to refuse to see clients who had been with that provider. If it's something they suspect, but aren't sure of, I can see why they wouldn't really want to explain why they didn't want to see you. ^^^ This ^^^ lame ass sorry bullshit excuses.... this is how they cock block providers and clients, even if its a roomer and not true. :roll eyes: Here are my thoughts her loss, she loses money, someone else's gain... NEXT in line...... Edited April 25, 2015 by Kaduk Content 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 personally, i think this is ridiculous, foolish, and hypocritical. You were lucky to miss her. Now, if she had other reasons, and this reason was just an excuse, you were still lucky. Who wants to visit someone who doesn't want to see you? Better luck next time! +1 not often that i agree with pfunk, but this time. There are plenty of hookers who will happily accept your business. see one of them. Discussing ok's is a lot like discussing rates - it's pointless. +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 I've never had a provider cancel on me for having too many okays but I have had 2 or 3 mention the number during the session. It did seem like they were a little put off by the number of okays I had which I thought was a little strange but I never put much thought into it. I'm not about to start deleting okays or stop asking for okays just because a few might disapprove. Okays and reviews are me way of keeping track on who I have seen. If they don't like there are plenty that don't care and have no problem taking my money. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 Ask her how many "OK's" she has given out. Or how many reviews she has. I bit of a double standard I believe. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 Ask her how many "OK's" she has given out. Or how many reviews she has. I bit of a double standard I believe. Now, this is solely my opinion but I don't give a shite about how many either has. The higher the number on the Ladies, I'm confident said Lady supports the clients of P411. AS with the clients, I prefer to see the type of LADY He HAS visited. This gives me an indication of what he likes besides what may or may not be in his profile. Does he prefer spinner type, then why is he contacting me? Oh, I see he has seen a vast variety of Providers. All his okays are mid 20's, I'm early 40's I think you get my drift. I use okays as part of my screening to make sure I Am really what client is looking for. So, again my opinion, but please don't delete your okays. The more you have, this reassure me you know what you are doing. Your seasoned, experienced and I don't have to worry about some newbie all paranoid about anything. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 I have heard providers getting picky about it. Interesting but hey more clients for us other cool girls! Makes me feel better you have seen a lot of girls:) I am happy for you and happy to see someone with lots of okays. Double standard so true! Exactly our true number is not posted and who are we to judge as this is what we girls do to make our money 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 25, 2015 I think this thread has been severely been highjacked, and the offenders shall be hung by their tits if they don't stick to the original topic. I was told that's a fetish and it costs extra. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2015 I was told that's a fetish and it costs extra. For you, FREE. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2015 With a lot of reviews the provider should know the client is not LE nor a blacklisted client. The more the merrier for me lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 27, 2015 Something to remember: On repeat visits your OK gets updated. You do not get a new OK. I think the ASP still gets points (Gina, correct me if I'm wrong about that.) So the guy w/500 has seen 500 different ladies. I didn't notice anyone respond to this... We only get points for the INITAL Okay. Any updates after that are not credited with more points. Not everyone updates them either. Some providers needs to be asked. I think this thread has been severely been highjacked, and the offenders shall be hung by their tits if they don't stick to the original topic. I have some 550 Cord for those with nipple piercings. With a lot of reviews the provider should know the client is not LE nor a blacklisted client. The more the merrier for me lol +1!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 27, 2015 I didn't notice anyone respond to this... We only get points for the INITAL Okay. Any updates after that are not credited with more points. Not everyone updates them either. Some providers needs to be asked. ... Thank you, Justina, for that correction. 😘 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 27, 2015 With a lot of reviews the provider should know the client is not LE nor a blacklisted client. The more the merrier for me lol And, perhaps, that he "knows his way around" and won't be a ball of nerves from the moment he comes in the door? (I like to think that about myself anyway.) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 27, 2015 Too many Oks? What's that mean? It's like too much money, there's NO such thing! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 28, 2015 TOO MANY OKAYS?? I?m not sure why this is bothering me, but I thought I would post and try to keep this civil and I definitely WON?T mention a name. But maybe you?ve already run into her. An appointment was set up, but then we decided to cancel because it would have just been weird. Do I write a review and point this person out? I typically don?t. The bottom line, at least that was her reason for bailing out a few hours before the appointment was that I had TOO MANY okays through P411. WHAT? Now I?m typically pretty good at thinking on my feet, but I had nothing to say. Thoughts were going through my head about how many people she has seen, but I don?t get to know that. It doesn?t bother me. But the double standard of too many okays? Really? I should have known something was up when she tried to push doubles with her friend, who was also in town, at LEAST 4 different times during the text conversation. Included with the ?no? was a feeble explanation of why I don?t like doubles. They just don?t work very well with me. I didn?t NOT go into detail about what my expectations are during a doubles session and so far none have met those pretty high expectations. I mean c?mon, we?re guys. We watch porn so we have some expectations. So anyway, back to the whole too many okays thing. While on the phone with her (two hours before the appointment) she started quizzing me. First name (didn?t she see my email and text?). Last name (um why). What do I do for a living. Do I consider myself a hobbiest? How often do I see providers? If you do the math from the ?too many okays? it?s about 2-3 a month. I?ve been on P411 for 4.5 years. And a few more questions. Isn?t that what P411 is for? We could talk about what I do for a living when we meet. I dunno. The quizzing was weird, but that was all before she fessed up and said I had too many okays. She also mentioned that I said something ?gross? in my text. I try to be funny. Maybe when I was trying to explain WHY I didn?t want to do doubles for the 4th time I said I could see them individually. Probably not back to back sessions. I?m not a machine. I thought that was funny. Maybe she found THAT gross. I dunno. So I?m probably gonna be shredded for this. Maybe some find this offensive, but I was curious if this has happened to anybody else. Take care, and Happy Hobbying! Unfortunately I have been declined appointments based on my # of OKs (>100, but way less than 500) on P411, twice in fact by two local Denver ladies. Each time they mentioned they were uncomfortable with the number, not my profile. I chalked it up as "different strokes for different folks", then moved on and made an appointment with a lady who was comfortable with seeing me! I'd rather have that happen before, than have a crappy session and wonder WTF, at least she's honest with you beforehand. I think that is testimony to the system working! Btw, I am still taking applications for my next "OK" submitters! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 28, 2015 WHAAAT????? How can a guy have too many OK's? Isn't that the point of P411? To help speed up the process of verifying someone is OK. Personally, the more ok's a guy has the better. If a guy has NO ok's I will not see him until he has an established record. SO, the more ok's the better, but hey that is just me. There is no cure for schtoopid, move on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 6, 2015 I haven't been on in a while... (mostly because I KNOW it will take up my ENTIRE night). Thank you for all your posts. I PM'd who I could. My box was full when I logged in tonight. @Hvnaball ? The woman who called and the person she was upselling with were both on P411, but maybe they were newbies and possibly intimidated. But I don?t get to see that kind of info. @Badboy ? I was the same way. After a while I didn?t really care until I found out the providers get points for that. But maybe P411 will do away with that since they took away the Ad Board. Wouldn?t it be cool if there was an option in P411 to only show the last 10 Oks, or 20, etc. (or all). @MrFister ? Sometimes it?s nice to look at her first OK to see how long ago you saw her. I dunno, they seem to like the fact that you remembered the last time you saw them especially when it?s well over a year. And I?m sure there are some acting skills involved too. LOL. ;-) @BitBanger ? That notes feature isn?t all that reliable. It?s hit and miss for me. Maybe the notes go away if the contact was 2+ years or something like that. @PeteProfessor ? I think I?m with Pete on this one. SO sentimental. :-) @easyfriend33 ? She was beating around the bush for quite a while and then finally landed on ?too many oks?. So I think that?s what she was truly trying to be ?frank? about. I guess I bought that. @pfunk ? Totally agree. I finally interrupted her and said that if you want to cancel, just cancel. It?s not going to be fun for either of us. @hollylove ? W00T to VARIETY!! But keeping those Oks might otherwise put some people off. @gettin? up there ? I definitely get comments about being ?popular?. I just say I?m lucky. Sentimental or the walk down memory lane is good. Maybe keep a journal? That?s probably another topic? @frankenthaler91 ? Totally, a double standard. OR if she doesn?t have a high number then ask are YOU stopping at a certain number? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
