So has this ever happened to you?

[gettin' up there]

I just finished posting a review on a local newish, young, provider, which should be up tomorrow, so my rant is detailed and appropriately placed. But here's what happened and the question. I book a 30-minute appointment. with this well-reviewed p411 provider. She's 40 minutes late and apologetic and texts she'll "make it up to me". We're doing the deed and she looks at the clock and warns me I had only 10 minutes left of the hh! After I finish up with 1-2 minutes to spare:), I tried to tell her what a mood-killer it is to tell a guy the "clock is ticking" while he's doing the deed. She tells me she was trying to be nice:eek:, because she knows girls who end the session without a warning. And here I didn't know she was trying to be so nice! So, has this happened to any of you guys? Ever been cut off as the clock struck the hour?

[mjk_79]

Yep, happened last week actually.

[gettin' up there]

Wow, not even a 2-minute warning? I guess you didn't leave her a tip.

[RichardBlackman]

Yes, it's happened, I quit scheduling thirty minute sessions. I.prefer 60-90 minutes, especially if it's our first time meeting. I hate the rushed feeling. I usually take the "I'll make it up to you baby," with a grain of salt.

[Denguy40]

I think 10 mins is a fair warning. Happened to me once and I was already aware if it and was pacing myself to milk every second out of the session so it didn't phase me.

[MrReindeer-9515]

I just finished posting a review on a local newish' date=' young, provider, which should be up tomorrow, so my rant is detailed and appropriately placed. But here's what happened and the question. I book a 30-minute appointment. with this well-reviewed p411 provider. She's 40 minutes late and apologetic and texts she'll "make it up to me". We're doing the deed and she looks at the clock and warns me I had only 10 minutes left of the hh! After I finish up with 1-2 minutes to spare:), I tried to tell her what a mood-killer it is to tell a guy the "clock is ticking" while he's doing the deed. She tells me she was trying to be nice:eek:, because she knows girls who end the session without a warning. And here I didn't know she was trying to be so nice! So, has this happened to any of you guys? Ever been cut off as the clock struck the hour?[/quote']

So, you got the time you paid for, and you got a nut; what's the problem?

While I agree 10 minutes is ample warning(especially on a 30 min appt)I suspect this ^ is the reason she(and others) have learned to be good time keepers(and have learned to collect the donation up front).

Edited January 29, 2014 by MrReindeer
Science!

[Guest]

A gentleman always knows what time it is. Do not rely on the providers timepiece, however. Many of them set their clock in the bedroom ahead by 10 to 15 minutes in an attempt to cheat you. A quick check of your watch as you are undressing will allow you to "recalibrate."

[MrReindeer-9515]

A gentleman always knows what time it is. Do not rely on the providers timepiece, however. Many of them set their clock in the bedroom ahead by 10 to 15 minutes in an attempt to cheat you. A quick check of your watch as you are undressing will allow you to "recalibrate."

With your vast amount of experience in this arena, perhaps you would like to share some empirical data to support this? Or were you just talking out your ass?

[pfunk]

I'd rather hear "you have 10 minutes left" than "Oh, we went over by 10 minutes, you owe another $". (Some strippers love to do this.)

If that's a mood killer how about "Is it in yet?" or "Jeez, will you cum already!" or "How much of a tip are you gonna leave?", or...

[Guest]

With your vast amount of experience in this arena, perhaps you would like to share some empirical data to support this? Or were you just talking out your ass?

I can name at least 3 ladies on EB who do this. I know because I checked. I could give names, but they would be quickly deleted.

And when I talk out of my ass, you'll know because it will smell like your breath.

[Denguy40]

I can name at least 3 ladies on EB who do this. I know because I checked. I could give names, but they would be quickly deleted.

And when I talk out of my ass, you'll know because it will smell like your breath.

Ha ha - bam! +1

I know of at least 3 providers who do the same. Perhaps the same 3 actually. The only difference is that they set the clocks ahead by 5 mins. I showed up right on time and looked at their clock versus my watch and made sure they knew that I was aware when I showed up. It didn't effect the session since we were on the same page.

[mjk_79]

Wow' date=' not even a 2-minute warning? I guess you didn't leave her a tip.[/quote']

It was already a hefty donation..

[Guest Mr. X]

When the game clock is running down, go into your hurry up offense, call an audible and change the play. I like to yell Omaha.

[Hoarce]

Running 40 minutes late, "I'll make it up to you," and watching clock. Running late is rude, annoying, and disrespectful. "I'll make....." means acknowledging the inconvenience and waste of time. 10 minutes left means disregard what I said and go back to rude, annoying, and disrespectful.

I know things come up. I know shit happens. But if an ASP cares, they should show it. If they don't, it would be better to say they were running late and give the hobbyist the right to cancel. It's only fair.

As to sticking around for 40 minutes, it's been my experience that the majority of time the tardiness ruins or diminishes the session for me. There have been a few surprises and exceptions, but generally my attitude goes to hell, the session feels rushed, I feel I didn't get my money's worth.

If an ASP shows me the consideration that the delay imposed on my time and my schedule it helps. In the quoted case, "I ran late, let's just relax, it's ok to run over by 10 minutes" probably would help my mood greatly, even if I didn't need or want the time. "Gee whiz, I can't, I'm already late for my next appointment....." goes back to rude, annoying and disrespectful(of my time).

[Bit Banger]

^^^ ROFL ^^^ (especially the Omaha bit)

[Blue-eyedTraveler]

The 30-minute appointment is a new thing to me. Years ago, an hour was an hour. I suppose it's a matter of the economy and perhaps the ability to upsell, but I'm not sure my dick would actually work under such pressure.

[inkspot]

I just finished posting a review on a local newish' date=' young, provider, which should be up tomorrow, so my rant is detailed and appropriately placed. But here's what happened and the question. I book a 30-minute appointment. with this well-reviewed p411 provider. She's 40 minutes late and apologetic and texts she'll "make it up to me". We're doing the deed and she looks at the clock and warns me I had only 10 minutes left of the hh! After I finish up with 1-2 minutes to spare:), I tried to tell her what a mood-killer it is to tell a guy the "clock is ticking" while he's doing the deed. She tells me she was trying to be nice:eek:, because she knows girls who end the session without a warning. And here I didn't know she was trying to be so nice! So, has this happened to any of you guys? Ever been cut off as the clock struck the hour?[/quote']

Another example for not paying up front.

[Bit Banger]

The 30-minute appointment is a new thing to me. Years ago, an hour was an hour. ...

No, years ago it was an hour OR UNTIL YOU POPPED, which ever came first. The concept of spending the whole hour together, even if just to chat, is a more recent phenomenon related to the GFE level of service.

[gettin' up there]

Yes, it's happened, I quit scheduling thirty minute sessions. I.prefer 60-90 minutes, especially if it's our first time meeting. I hate the rushed feeling. I usually take the "I'll make it up to you baby," with a grain of salt.

I have heard the "I'll make it up to you baby" many times and I've never left the session with the feeling that I received special treatment, i.e. an offer of more time/an offer of reduced donation (which I wouldn't accept, but the offer is nice), or a statement like: "For all the trouble I put you through, I'm going to let you CIM":).

When I think back to all my favorite providers, there has never the need for such a statement. They know how to be on time and not jerk clients around, they know that service starts when the door opens, and often before when they send an pre-appointment enticing text, until the clean-up and the warm hug good-bye. Good/great service that separates the fantastic from the perfunctory seems so simple, I'm always surprised that so many don't get it.

[bigpharmaboner]

No, years ago it was an hour OR UNTIL YOU POPPED, which ever came first. The concept of spending the whole hour together, even if just to chat, is a more recent phenomenon related to the GFE level of service.

Which I greatly appreciate. I just need a half hour for business. If I have a great time I will book an hour the next time to enjoy the broader experience.

[gettin' up there]

I'm like you, if I'm seeing someone new and they offer a hh, I'll usually take it because I can finish in that time without a problem. To me it's a quickie to see if I like her, and if I do, I'll usually schedule an hour, or as I've posted previously, sometimes for 45 min, so I have more time for foreplay and post-coital cuddling/talking. Some gals offer a quickie as a "greet n meet" or a 15-min "Blow n go", but this always seemed too short for me.

The first escort I ever saw, which was on BP, offered a session for a $100. I figured it was for a hh, but when I walked in, she told me it was for 20 min. I told her that was too quick and offered to pay more for a hh, but she obviously had another guy already scheduled sooner. I put down my Benjamin, joined her in bed, she asked: So what do you like?" I was back in my car with a smile and shaking my head over my new-found hobby in just under 20 minutes. She showed me who was in charge!

[Happymon]

If she cut the session short, that's a different issue from how she communicated the wind down of your time. Which concerns you here? I think I have much as much responsibility for monitoring the time as does the girl. Most girls are more skilled than the one you describe at communicating that the end is near. Lastly, 30 minute sessions in my work require a lot of clock focus or they get out of hand and quickly become 45. I'd bet that's the same for a hooker.

[badboytimmay]

Tough spot but I think you need to think about the other clients as well that won't be happy that she is running late either. Someone is gonna take the hit one way or the other. "making it up to you" has to be taken within a grain of salt. The perils of the hobby I guess. Brights side.....things could have been much much worse. You got what you came for.

[Jez UaBriain]

Sorry you had that experience. There are some things that only maturity can teach us.

When I was in my 20's I know for a fact that I did not have any clue about how my words / actions were being perceived by others. And even if I could have known, I doubt that I really would have cared much.

[MAG]

Sorry you had that experience. There are some things that only maturity can teach us.

When I was in my 20's I know for a fact that I did not have any clue about how my words / actions were being perceived by others. And even if I could have known, I doubt that I really would have cared much.

How is it different now?

[The Oxymoron]

No, years ago it was an hour OR UNTIL YOU POPPED, which ever came first. The concept of spending the whole hour together, even if just to chat, is a more recent phenomenon related to the GFE level of service.

I was thinking exactly the same thing.

I actually quit working as an escort once an hour actually became an hour (circa 1999), because I'd been spoiled with "one hour means one pop and you leave". I found the adjustment very difficult, unbearable in fact.

[Guest]

Coming from an old pro, I find this comment both enlightening and concerning. I have been doing it wrong.

I have only been at this for a few months, but I have found a couple of providers whose company I enjoy. I was thinking of scheduling longer sessions with them in the future, but your comment seems to indicate this would make them unhappy, and that, where possible, one should move from requesting one hour sessions to requesting 30 minute or even 15 minute sessions, rather than move the other way towards 90 minute or longer sessions.

It seems that by chatting a bit at the end of the session, I am prolonging the providers misery, something I would never intentionally do.

Thank you for the insight, and in an effort to be a better customer I will begin to schedule shorter sessions.

I was thinking exactly the same thing.

I actually quit working as an escort once an hour actually became an hour (circa 1999), because I'd been spoiled with "one hour means one pop and you leave". I found the adjustment very difficult, unbearable in fact.

[Guest Mr. X]

Coming from an old pro, I find this comment both enlightening and concerning. I have been doing it wrong.

I have only been at this for a few months, but I have found a couple of providers whose company I enjoy. I was thinking of scheduling longer sessions with them in the future, but your comment seems to indicate this would make them unhappy, and that, where possible, one should move from requesting one hour sessions to requesting 30 minute or even 15 minute sessions, rather than move the other way towards 90 minute or longer sessions.

It seems that by chatting a bit at the end of the session, I am prolonging the providers misery, something I would never intentionally do.

Thank you for the insight, and in an effort to be a better customer I will begin to schedule shorter sessions.

I think maybe you've taken her meaning too literally.

[Bit Banger]

... I have only been at this for a few months, but I have found a couple of providers whose company I enjoy. I was thinking of scheduling longer sessions with them in the future, but your comment seems to indicate this would make them unhappy, ...

There are YL who enjoy a more relaxed GFE style session with conversation as part of the interaction.

There are YL who strive to provide a quick 3G style release w/o any personal interaction.

The difference between the two is a YMMV factor depending on: a) her personality, your personality, c) her mood for the day, and d) your mood for the day.

With the right gal, longer sessions are Da`Bomb!

[gettin' up there]

Tough spot but I think you need to think about the other clients as well that won't be happy that she is running late either. Someone is gonna take the hit one way or the other. "making it up to you" has to be taken within a grain of salt. The perils of the hobby I guess. Brights side.....things could have been much much worse. You got what you came for.

Someone does not have to take "the hit" for a provider who is running late if she doesn't schedule so closely. It is interesting that some think because I popped, I got what I came for and shouldn't complain. I don't agree with this. I can stay home and get off for free. I venture out at expense and risk because I like the contact with warm, fun ladies, who seem to enjoy having sex. If the provider can't keep her eyes off the clock while we're in the act, and especially not tell me how many minutes I have left, she's bad news to me. There are so many friendly providers out there, why would you think this kind of behavior is okay? I'm not condoning guys who try to stretch the time they paid for, and wouldn't object if I was reminded of the time if I was running over, but I don't want to be reminded how many minutes I have left during the session I already paid for.