Posted December 5, 2013 So I know of Fetlife, (I'm a member since I love to let me kink flag fly) but am curious as to if any of you fine felines and fellas have any fetishes or kinks. Do you have and that you'd love to try but just haven't found the right partner? For me...I desire to be taken.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 ...........Do you have and that you'd love to try but just haven't found the right partner?........ Several things I'd love to try, some I'm getting close to trying, but it is a matter of trusting the provider........and being willing to let go. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 Several things I'd love to try, some I'm getting close to trying, but it is a matter of trusting the provider........and being willing to let go. COMPLETELY understand and relate to "letting go". I think some of it has to do with the taboo of some of the things we'd like to try. Does wanting to be taken (I hope you wonderful people get my drift) make me a bad person or somehow twisted because I desire something most women fear. I have yet to experince my desires played out, trust is a big issue and with my desire I'd have to trust a great deal. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 Does wanting to be taken (I hope you wonderful people get my drift) make me a bad person or somehow twisted because I desire something most women fear. I have yet to experince my desires played out, trust is a big issue and with my desire I'd have to trust a great deal. That's an awesome one, nothing twisted about that at all......... One of mine has been something semi-public, like a dark, mostly empty movie theater. I may have to settle with an adult theater....but that's not exactly what I have in mind. I've had some public moments in the past with an S.O. ....and that really get's the old blood pumping :D. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 So I know of Fetlife, (I'm a member since I love to let me kink flag fly) but am curious as to if any of you fine felines and fellas have any fetishes or kinks. Do you have and that you'd love to try but just haven't found the right partner? For me...I desire to be taken.... To McDonald's? Which one do you want to meet at, I'm buying. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 COMPLETELY understand and relate to "letting go". I think some of it has to do with the taboo of some of the things we'd like to try. Does wanting to be taken (I hope you wonderful people get my drift) make me a bad person or somehow twisted because I desire something most women fear. I have yet to experince my desires played out, trust is a big issue and with my desire I'd have to trust a great deal. I've studied psych and worked in the field for decades and that is one of the most common fantasies women have. BUT, typically women dream about a handsome guy "kinda" overpowering them in a way that's forceful, but NOT vicious. Meanwhile, guys who really "take" women tend to beat the shit out of them because they hate them. That's a good point to clarify. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 I've studied psych and worked in the field for decades and that is one of the most common fantasies women have. BUT, typically women dream about a handsome guy "kinda" overpowering them in a way that's forceful, but NOT vicious. Meanwhile, guys who really "take" women tend to beat the shit out of them because they hate them. That's a good point to clarify. I allowed the thread starter for discussion sake, editing out the obvious "forbidden topic".. but if you guys continue to add fuel to that topic, I'll close it. The OP is asking for others' fantasies and kinks.. not an internet shrink session. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 I allowed the thread starter for discussion sake, editing out the obvious "forbidden topic".. but if you guys continue to add fuel to that topic, I'll close it. The OP is asking for others' fantasies and kinks.. not an internet shrink session. Oops! I was just trying to clarify the type of fantasy rather than analyze it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 To McDonald's? Which one do you want to meet at, I'm buying. The one that came to mind when I read "taking" was: Where? I'm low on gas and you need a jacket. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 5, 2013 Unusual things I enjoy: DATO (she's in doggie), while finger fucking her pussy. Rubbing my cock on the soles of her feet. Face fucking Orgies Things I desire: A threeway with my girl, and a MTF transsexual. I don't think I have any fetishes, that I seek regularly. I can do without almost any act, except kissing. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 Ghostrider: nothing like a little exibitionism perhaps with a dash of voyuerism thrown in. Dweller: Perhaps a tad more sophisticated than McDonalds...but I'm good with it, when are we going sweets? And I am a LMFT by trade in real life, (I escort on the side to fulfil another fantasy of mine) so psychoanalyzing isn't needed. Psychologists are some of the most effed up people in the WORLD!! (true story) so it should have to go unsaid that I don't want the "traditional" female fantasy. I'm an odd Bird...but a pretty one :-) Sorry Mase....I promise we will get back on track, because I am really curious about this...I want to know if there are people like me out there who have this hidden kink side. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 Mmmmm.. where to begin?? Soooo many kinky fantasies, so little time! I have a predilection for public, naughty playfulness that is clearly apparent to any wanting to sneak a peek.. the hand below the table, hiking up her skirt.. panties that allow for *ahem* this naughty flirtation.. I envision these in romantic settings.. high-end, dimly lit restaurants or cocktail lounges.. I have fantasies involving filming "the act".. with costumes and masks that are from an age gone bye.. Then there is the Tim Allen in all men.. rough, in control, domineering.. *sigh* finding a suitable partner is always the rub.. I'll keep looking.. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 I am the submissive and my provider plays the dom. I want to proud a drink on the rocks and light a cigar for her while she reclines back in her easy chair. I will then knee in front of her as she slips on her drink, smoke her cigar and blows the smoke down into my face. After 10 or 15 minutes of this play she then leads me to the bed where we enjoy a PSE. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 Dweller: Perhaps a tad more sophisticated than McDonalds...but I'm good with it, when are we going sweets? And I am a LMFT by trade in real life, (I escort on the side to fulfil another fantasy of mine) so psychoanalyzing isn't needed. Psychologists are some of the most effed up people in the WORLD!! (true story) so it should have to go unsaid that I don't want the "traditional" female fantasy. I'm an odd Bird...but a pretty one :-) I'm up for anything, as long as it has protein, BUT it's all about the company IMO, so anywhere is good, as long as we are good. As a side note, it's been a dating test of mine to take a person to a restaurant that is not awesome to see if the time will be awesome. If the person is nice and we like each other, then anyplace will be fun. A great place will always be great no matter the company so you learn nothing! Psycho: I wasn't analyzing the fantasy, rather I didn't want someone to show up on your door with brass knuckles, a 40 inch jackhammer dildo, and a garbage bag to fulfill your fantasy. Get my meaning? My Fantasy: I wouldn't mind being the "taker" as long as fun is had in the taking. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 I would "take" Ms. Lovely anywhere, and I would happily control the action if she could take direction like a good girl. As for kinks, DATO is the only one I can think of, but that is probably fairly tame for this crowd. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 The word kinky has changed meanings for me. In my younger days I thought kinky was getting fingered behind the bushes at a local park, groping someone underneath the table with friends around. Now, kinky to me is leather and/or whips etc. I know I'm a pervert, but I'm not kinky. I'm gotten my toes wet with some Kinky stuff, done to me, and I didn't like it. But I'm totally down for making someone my bitch. I guess, deep down, I'm a control freak but I'm able to hide it well. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 While I won't deny that I relish the dominant role.. I can't deny that I'm equally intrigued by relinquishing total control and when the "controller" looks like Mistress Claire (and has the way with words like she does).. put me down as trainable bitch material.. don't hide it Mistress Claire, celebrate it!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 Cowboy, Such the charmer, compliments will get you every where with me! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 6, 2013 I'm a foot and leg man. While many women will happily comply, I have found only one who really knows how to work these fetishes, encourages them, and enjoys them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 8, 2013 I'd like to find an ex-gymnist or cheerleader type who is really flexible so I can enjoy some of the more interesting positions I'd like to try! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2013 I like a little BD. Used to be a couple submissive ladies I saw that liked restraints, blindfold, ballgag, nipple clips. Neither are still around, haven't found another. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 9, 2013 Walk up behind a young lady, bind her arms, put a blindfold on her. Collar and chain, lead her to a large, comfortable, place to play, probably a ball gag of some sort. While blindfolded and unable to speak, play with her body. See how she reacts to stroking, caressing, kissing, licking. Her neck, breasts, arms including inner arms, legs from toes to the top. Fingering, licking, kissing, sucking on the entire vaginal area. Eventually, mounting her from a position of power. Dominance without pain. Struggling yes, but not inflicting pain.. Unbind her, but leave collar on and have her lay there for me to caress and kiss. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2013 I would like to be pegged. I don't necessarily want to be dominated, but would love to have a women take me in a sensual not dominating way. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 15, 2013 I've had more than one lady tie me to the bed.... that's always fun. And one or two have brought out their strapon. There are just times when the last thing I want is to be in control. FWIS Vic 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 15, 2013 I actually have a lot of kinks, fetishes and fantasies. Admittedly, I have a very long sexual "to do" list and unfortunately, very few items have been crossed off thus far *sigh* A couple of items at the top of said list include being completely and totally dominated by a woman. Not necessarily having pain inflicted per se, but just being controlled and doing anything (well, almost anything) she wants me to do. Yes, this includes pegging. I've been watching a lot of pegging videos lately and I gotta admit that I think it's pretty hot. The thought of totally submitting to a beautiful woman and just letting her have her way with me seems awesome. I also fantasize about public places. Yes, I know it's rather cliche' but it's still a major turn-on and seems like a lot of fun... that thrill/risk of getting caught in a compromising situation at any moment. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 17, 2013 The closest to "kink" I've come have been threesomes (MFF), which are always a good time, and a prostate massage. Still on my "bucket list" are: - MFM threesome DP--Actually had set one up, but was NCNS'd. Found out later the gal was there but forgot her phone. - Orgy - Doing it in semi-public. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2013 It is an unusual fetish/kink, but I find women that smoke a huge turn on. I know it is a huge turnoff for most people. However for me it gets my juices flowing seeing a sexy woman smoke or for a woman to smoke while performing the activities at hand 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2013 (edited) [snip} 16. Do not post messages to advertise or promote parties, fundraisers, special events, etc. [snip} Edited December 19, 2013 by boink36 see above. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2013 (edited) [snip} 16. Do not post messages to advertise or promote parties, fundraisers, special events, etc. [snip} I like the way romn thinks. I second that motion! Edited December 19, 2013 by boink36 Edited quote. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 18, 2013 My ultimate fantasy is where I go to visit my ATF, and she greets me at the door, ravishes my body, calls in her two best friends, they all three spend three hours satisfying every possible fantasy and kink I might express, and then they throw $1,000 on the pillow and leave me to take a nice long nap in a real high quality hotel room (that they paid for). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
