Posted September 26, 2013 As a frequent hobbist, I'm always looking for a regular frequent guest. I'm an outcall kind of user. My MO is to pay a flat rate that always exceeds the advertized rate, because your not getting through my door unless I think your worth it. Here's the rub. I want to have two, maybe three providers, well paid and in rotation that (and this is where my fantasy begins) actually tell the truth. It is my experience after two to three weeks, I have yet to find a provider that does not want $3,000. for some personal reason. The problem is the format of introduction (escort service) is a weak platform for truth. I would say its the quickest way to get rid of a high paying client, but the fact is, I have to hit the open market to fill the void and (back to the truth issue) God knows how many I see before even the pics are right. I think I've got to try another hobby, like RC controlled helicopters. They never lie. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 26, 2013 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/24/sleepless-in-austin-thin-girlfriend_n_3984384.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular romeo rose is that you? oh never mind that couldn't be. he only had $1500 to play with. and that was just a one time fee he could afford. you calibration are a much higher roller!!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 26, 2013 Here's the rub. I want to have two, maybe three providers, well paid and in rotation that (and this is where my fantasy begins) actually tell the truth. It is my experience after two to three weeks, I have yet to find a provider that does not want $3,000. for some personal reason. Maybe they need money for a Tiffany Blue Jet Ski... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Bullshit! My 'copter flew off with no regard to the signals I was remotely sending. Why didn't it want my 3k? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I can't even figure out what the OP is trying to ask? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I'm glad you said it. Because I am not sure either. OP, clarity? What is the essence of your situation? Should you be a sugar daddy? Or retire to your robotic toys and give up? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Only trying to illuminate the path for which we are currently deployed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 What is the meaning of life............? Where are we going........? What car will we take to get there? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Yeah, yeah, here are those answers. Anyway, why don't women want your money? 1. There is no such thing 2. Nowhere 3. A fford What is the meaning of life............? Where are we going........? What car will we take to get there? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Jaded Megan. Very jaded. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Your'e right. It could be Chevy. Jaded Megan. Very jaded. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 huh, and where once you condemned me such an intellective old fraud (which admittedly i am) well at least now i got some competition (and i don't blame no dam chronic neither) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I can't even figure out what the OP is trying to ask? He's looking for "truth" I suppose, but he can't seem to buy it. Is that it? I don't know. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 So I really want to find out what OP is trying say here. Not trying to be sarcastic. And, I am not sure where "Regulars vs New Clients" fits. Okay, so when you find a worthwhile provider, you offer more than her suggested donation to allow for the frequency you want at your outcall. This sort of seems to be the opposite of a potential perk of being a frequent regular -- a slightly reduced rate and greater availability, if you're a "favorite" of a provider. (I've heard this may happen on rare occasions.) Is you're offer of the hire flat rate in exchange for exclusivity? So it sounds like the "truth" is just what they look like? The equilibrium of truth in is "hobby" is totally out of whack. Providers want truth about clients ' work and history and such, but very few are comfortable giving that. Clients want to know what a provider looks like, what they're "skills" are like and so on. I don't know how you can reconcile that. Personally, my biggest "truth" issue is about enjoyment. That's a tricky one. The whole "please don't fake it" is a dodgy request, because the YL could be having just a terrible day and nothing your doing or not or whatever is going to make it better or worse or....I'll search "faking it" as to not hijack the thread. Simple question: what the heck are you talking about? Sounds like it might be interesting. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I could be wrong but I read this differently....I thought he said that over time, they girls lie to him and come up with some excuse for wanting more money from him....who knows. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I think it's real interesting, but I've noticed some actually bother to write more harsh words, unlike your's, which leads to a whole different issue for another day. I suppose it's the paradox of expression, the sensation of fantasy and the brutality of reality side by side, trying to reach abudantly different goals and a common willingness to suspend logic. Hey, trust me, I'm a hobbist, so I count myself among the many. And yes, I do pay high and never look for special deals. The social consequence of multiple encounters at high rates leads to some amazing babble, outlandish lies and ultimately, by my experience, high level deception. I have no desire to put anyone on a leash. Where's my girls? You know who I am. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 That would be accurate Velvet, but it's the complexity that I find incredible. No one ask for it. That would be to simple. The irony of trying to twist my emotions in an escort relationship is both amusing and likely sad. Maybe they really do need it. There are no emotions in this transaction, fantasy and harsh reality notwithstanding. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Ooohh Come on guys, Give Cal a break. Lol IMO I think your own "fantasy" is your ultimate downfall. You want your ASP's to feel intimate enough to open up to you and share their REAL lives which often enough comes with real problems/issues/wants/needs which could possibly be alleviated with sayyy about 3000$$?? Hahaha ...My advice: Keep it professional💋 Dont concern yourself with her real life and she shouldn't feel inclined to open up that door and ask for more. You are more than generous! XoxoXxX ❤ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 ..........it's the complexity that I find incredible. No one ask for it. That would be to simple. The irony of trying to twist my emotions in an escort relationship is both amusing and likely sad. Maybe they really do need it. There are no emotions in this transaction, fantasy and harsh reality notwithstanding. I disagree that this is an emotionless activity. Interacting with another human being is going to result in emotions unless you are a complete sociopath. This is why I choose escorts rather than porn, love dolls, or celibacy. All women are different, and I believe it was Beverly Fisher who stated (and I paraphrase) that when you visit a lady for pay, you ARE seeing the ladies real personality…..but ONLY the best side of that personality. If you happen to “click” with that personality, the emotional response will be especially strong. The trick is keeping your emotions under control. Because, if the provider you are seeing is unscrupulous (some are, some are not), and they see that there is an emotional vector they can manipulate to extract more money from you, they will. Hence, the lying. It is obvious from your post that you have experienced this on multiple occasions, and are getting tired of it. But, if you are paying for the GFE, and she is doing a really good job of delivering the GFE, even though she doesn’t feel it; well that’s not lying…..that’s a skilled professional doing her job. I guess my best advice is to accept it when it happens…..but don’t let it rule you or ruin you. Know in advance how far you are willing to play along. When your limit is reached, stop. Adopt the philosophy of the M&M in the recent candy commercial, who….as he is beginning to be devoured….exclaims “IT HURTS, BUT I KIND OF LIKE IT!!!” He knows what’s happening. I recently changed my avatar to one that means a lot more to me and can serve as a kind of self-warning…….because I AM the kind of guy that gets attached to the ladies he sees. And I KNOW it. The lady, caressing the gun with the smoke curling from the barrel, is the provider I have just seen. She has a look of ecstasy on her face, and “One Shot, One Kill” tattooed on her neck. And she has just put a “bullet” through my heart. If I am aware of this response, and accept it for what it is, then I can enjoy those emotions without allowing someone to manipulate me. I give what I want to give and no more…..if a lady feels a need to lie in an attempt to manipulate me (again…..not all do), then that is her problem and I am immune. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 that (and this is where my fantasy begins) actually tell the truth. Tell the truth about what? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 I think it's real interesting, but I've noticed some actually bother to write more harsh words, unlike your's, which leads to a whole different issue for another day. I suppose it's the paradox of expression, the sensation of fantasy and the brutality of reality side by side, trying to reach abudantly different goals and a common willingness to suspend logic. Hey, trust me, I'm a hobbist, so I count myself among the many. And yes, I do pay high and never look for special deals. The social consequence of multiple encounters at high rates leads to some amazing babble, outlandish lies and ultimately, by my experience, high level deception. I have no desire to put anyone on a leash. Where's my girls? You know who I am. My head hurts. Could you translate that into English please? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Be careful if you take up RC helicopters, they can cut your head off. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 27, 2013 Whew. I have to stop reading this. My head hurts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2013 I think you should set your standards a little lower. Look for special deals and pay there rate. And stop crying all the time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2013 i would if i could, av. but it might take more kush than i currently have on hand to do that . . . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2013 Who knew... it doesn't even matter. I see from the ramblings above, I've made a huge error. Imposing the logic and practice of real life and thought is an an utter waste of time while being a hobbist. Henceforth, I will suspend thought and logic and simply indulge, selfishly taking all I can in return for coin. Not. Better that I keep my thoughts to myself and leave you folks to yourselves. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2013 Who knew... it doesn't even matter. I see from the ramblings above, I've made a huge error. Imposing the logic and practice of real life and thought is an an utter waste of time while being a hobbist. Henceforth, I will suspend thought and logic and simply indulge, selfishly taking all I can in return for coin. Not. Better that I keep my thoughts to myself and leave you folks to yourselves. Awesome -- thanks! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2013 hey Cal, i didn't mean it personal, so don't take it hard, pal. i was jest funnin' with av8r at your expense a little. sorry to hear it only took 'em 5 months to browbeat you into silence tho. the peanut gallery is only that, so i wouldn't pay em much mind if i was you. i suspect you're not a product of the public education system and therefore not a perpetual t.l.d.r. meat head, so there's always hope. nut up, grow some hair on yer ass, hang tough and say what you think here. fuck, it's only an escort blog and we need more like you. after all, it's ultimately about the content and it's tiresome enuff having to slog thru the usual swamp of 411 requests to extract any value out of this place as it is. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2013 hey Cal, i didn't mean it personal, so don't take it hard, pal. i was jest funnin' with av8r at your expense a little. sorry to hear it only took 'em 5 months to browbeat you into silence tho. the peanut gallery is only that, so i wouldn't pay em much mind if i was you. i suspect you're not a product of the public education system and therefore not a perpetual t.l.d.r. meat head, so there's always hope. nut up, grow some hair on yer ass, hang tough and say what you think here. fuck, it's only an escort blog and we need more like you. after all, it's ultimately about the content and it's tiresome enuff having to slog thru the usual swamp of 411 requests to extract any value out of this place as it is. I would choose to read the 411 requests long before some of the other pizzle dribble that gets posted around here. Awesome -- thanks! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 29, 2013 i jest meant i don't get anything out of them for my own purposes. i know it's useful for a lot of the fellas here. as for the p.d. postings, i plead guilty. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
