Posted January 4, 2013 Clients, When you make your grand entrance into a session or even from the outside, what are the immediate signs to you that you're going to be enjoying your time? And what are the immediate signs that it's gonna not go as well as you had imagined ? Besides the obvious; she's missing teeth, has the wrong body part, is located on Colfax, etc 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Good indications She looks like her pictures. She’s dressed in something slinky or a revealing wife beater, (you know who you are!) She says hello and gives me a long deep kiss. Her in-call is clean and comfortable. She laughs twice in the first minute. She doesn’t ask about the money. She smells good. Her legs are shaved and smooth. She takes my coat. She’s relaxed. She helps me undress. She has a great attitude. Bad indications She looks like the mother of the girl in her pictures. She’s dressed in mismatched sweats. She asks who I am. Her in-call could use some dynamite. She hasn’t laughed since 2008. She wants the money… NOW! She smells like an Army tent. She has a pretty good start on a beard. She takes my coat and keeps it. She’s tweaking. She pats me down for weapons. She has an attitude like a gut shot grizzly. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 For me its the smile and the look you get when your eyes first meet, can usually tell if we are going to click together. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 The pics are accurate and the greeting I get at the door. If she is relaxed, smiling and seems interested in the upcoming session, that is a great start for me in line with my hoped for expectations. The initial ambiance of the provider and the room helps set the session to a good start. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Best indicators upon arrival that I am going to have a good time are: She looks like her pictures and looks like her voice sounds (I speak to her on the phone first as well) She greets me with a welcoming smile, a hug and kiss She has fresh breath She has an incall in a location that I do not mind parking my truck for an hour or more. Bad signs - in addition to the opposite of any of the above: The TV is on, and left on throughout our time together There are a lot of other folks wandering in the area (housekeeping, neighbors, street people, LE etc...) Obvious pets - I like dogs and cats, and do not mind saying hi to them when I arrive, but I really do not want cat hair on my coat or Fido licking my nutsac while giving my all in missionary... And there is little worse than the sight and/or smell of a dirty litterbox 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 for me it's definitely the eyes first; that tells me all i need to know. then our first embrace conveys everything that needs to be communicated without saying a word. the first kiss? well that's the closer. bad indicator: meeting her 2 o'clock ambling out of the incall 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Lol, something all you guys seem to have in common is a smile, is it often you show and she's frowning? Wtf? What a bummer! Also, thank you for input, it really does give me an idea from the other side of the fence. With that said, please continue . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 I completely ditto what songdog and defendingbluelines have said! A lot about a pleasurable meetings has to do with feeling comfortable with where you are. Robs or LE are the number one concern first and foremost, but you could be the most attractive woman ever, but if your locations vibe is off... Your client will most likely not enjoy themselves! Hotels are iffy, some of my best experiences have been with asp at their private residence 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Lol, something all you guys seem to have in common is a smile, is it often you show and she's frowning? Wtf? What a bummer! Also, thank you for input, it really does give me an idea from the other side of the fence. With that said, please continue . You bring up a great question - and I like to think it is the warmth and welcome you receive. But then I am not in it for the quickie and spend time doing homework or connecting somehow. But then again, if the person is having a down day - I prefer to reschedule which has happened and I am OK with that. Hate walking into a bad situation - it has to be drama free! Overall, I think it begins with the conversation - what do we have in common or what can we share that makes the moment memorable? As DBL said, he talks with the lady on the phone first. Which is something I like to do before we meet - call it an icebreaker! I havent had problems with pics or being who she says she is - again the homework thing. I love the hug and the kisses - this is always a favorite of mine! And I love that we are connecting to have a good time! When I saw your question - I was wondering what do ladies think when they approach an outcall? What are the expectations there? Maybe another thread for this discussion! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 5, 2013 The best ever was a girl in Seattle whose trademark was to come in the door, immediately drop to her knees, and start sucking dick while she called the agency to let them know she had arrived. She would manage to choke out a few words to the agency without really letting up. She then looked up and said "you can come in my mouth - we have the whole hour to go again". All this within the first 60 seconds of meeting. Hard to beat that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 Along with what others have mentioned like a warm smile and eye contact. I like a sense of confidence - like she knows how to turn me on... or wants to know and then... Let's have some fun! Also, if I ask a provider to wear thigh highs or something sexy I am pretty bummed when she arrives at the door in jeans and a hoodie. I also like when she can leave the cell phone alone during the session. i understand checking in, but after that leave the phone alone. If she smells like cigarettes, I'm bummed as well. It is interesting as I've had a great time with a provider who was a bit shy but would pay attention to what I liked and then just jumped my bones, and I've also had a ton of fun with a provider who liked to talk and asked me lots about what I like as well as bout me as a person... and then was able to provide an amazing sexual experience. It was very erotic and she was sort of mystical in how she did everything... She was great fun but I haven't seen her ads in a year or so. Comtbker 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 Lol, something all you guys seem to have in common is a smile, is it often you show and she's frowning? Wtf? What a bummer! Also, thank you for input, it really does give me an idea from the other side of the fence. With that said, please continue . smile is more effective than viagra. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 Funny, I never notice if they smile or not. I think we all smile. The best times happen when there's a good amount of touching in the beginning. Touching/kissing during conversation is nice. I've never thought about any consistencies between all of the average-to-poor sessions. I'd have to say those times when I walk in, we sit across the room from each other and talk, I undress myself, she undresses herself. THEN we start. Lack of sensuality and intimacy at the beginning changes a lot. Thanks for bringing this up - much food for thought. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 (edited) I'm with Songdog on the plus side. On the minus side: 1. The look on her face says, "you and one more and I'm done for the day. Thank gawd for that." 2. She's on the cell phone talking to.... anyone! 3. The first words out of her mouth are about the crappy day she's having, her bum of an ex, or the problems with her [snip] 4. She doesn't look anything like her pics 5. She's dressed like we're going to a ball game. 6. She's not dressed at all ( I really like unwrapping the package) 7. The place is a dump, unclean, or just sloppy 8. Her dog/cat is laying on the bed I could go on, but you get the idea. This is a fantasy and anything that takes away from that ruins the fantasy. Vic.... Edited January 6, 2013 by boink36 Forbidden topic removed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 Good indications She’s dressed in something slinky or a revealing wife beater, (you know who you are!) Bad indications She’s dressed in mismatched sweats. Also, if I ask a provider to wear thigh highs or something sexy I am pretty bummed when she arrives at the door in jeans and a hoodie. 5. She's dressed like we're going to a ball game. When I have met providers for the first time they are usually fully dressed. Not as in they don't care about impressing new clients, but more like it's the last step of screening a new client is to get a look at him first. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 Lol, something all you guys seem to have in common is a smile, is it often you show and she's frowning? Wtf? What a bummer! Also, thank you for input, it really does give me an idea from the other side of the fence. With that said, please continue . The smile is very important! I have a real weakness for a ladly with a nice big smile that goes all the way to her eyes! She could have a body like a weathered fence post, but if she has a good smile I'm down for an hour! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 6, 2013 The initial greeting is usually an indicator of how the session is going to be. The warmer and more authentic the greeting the better the session usually goes. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2013 The best ever was a girl in Seattle whose trademark was to come in the door, immediately drop to her knees, and start sucking dick while she called the agency to let them know she had arrived. She would manage to choke out a few words to the agency without really letting up. She then looked up and said "you can come in my mouth - we have the whole hour to go again". All this within the first 60 seconds of meeting. Hard to beat that. There was a girl in Omaha that did the same thing. I asked her why and she said that if I had been LE that I wouldn't have let her! I am not a lawyer so don't know if that is right, but as far as I know she was never busted. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
