MiniMe

I have done a lot of work for a lot of ladies in the industry, which led to me knowing their real names. Most of them I was not seeing as a client, though... and I actually would prefer to not know any of the real names of those I do see. It makes me a bit nervous, afraid I might screw up and call them by the wrong name at the wrong time or in the wrong place. I get the appeal for some - it feels like a significant measure of trust has been imparted (and, it has!). Which makes you feel 'special'. But, if I am seeing a lady as a provider, I personally am not looking to blur the lines and pretend that she is anything other than a provider. I am not looking for a girlfriend or a wife (one is more than enough!), and while I enjoy feeling a friendship/camaraderie with a provider... I don't need it to include her real name. That's just me, though.

I will agree with most everything here, too. Including Admiral C's observation that this is not what should be expected for discount rates. I can say that for me, there is nothing more delightful than having the shaft and balls played with 'from behind' while I am lying on my stomach. I would add another option, too; if I really want a good massage (assuming I know the provider is capable of proving such), I prefer that the money shot comes relatively early on in the process. The whole teasing and edging and etc. may be glorious, but it is rarely conducive to what would result in a good massage experience (a great experience, just not a good massage experience). So, if that is what I am after, I far prefer a quickie first, then I can be much more receptive to the following massage without the tensing and writhing and squirming that (hopefully) comes with the erotic portions. In the end, it really does come down to communication, though. What do I want, what can she provide. Ladies need to be willing and able to discuss this with we clients... and we also need to be willing and able to communicate it to them. If you go in expecting a great session without spelling out what you want at the beginning, you will certainly be somewhat if not greatly disappointed.

Same question from me... Of course, I get that it would be a YMMV, Just want to know who is open to it... As he said, PMs would be great!

I had a rough time a few decades back, and would have been homeless for a year or so, were it not for the charity of friends. I lived in someone else's house. I ate someone else's food. I had no income to speak of at all. I had a vehicle, but rarely drove because what little money I could earn doing temp work and odd jobs was too precious for gas - rather I tried to salvage pride by repaying it to my friends' as much as I could. The total time I was with no income was a bit over 18 months. I didn't even file at all for the one year. I mean, I had no income, right? The next year, I filed because I had gotten a job and pretty much had to. I assumed that I would get a massive return because of my lack of income for more than half that year. Instead, I ended up owing a ton. Why? Because the IRS considered the 'rent' and 'food' that I was provided as gifts. And I had to pay taxes on those 'gifts'. You do NOT have to have ANY income to owe taxes. You can call your income 'gifts' or 'charity' all you want, it has no bearing on how much the IRS wants from you for it. You still (legally) have to claim it all regardless. If you're comfortable breaking the law, go for it. I honestly don't care if you do or not. As has been said, we all break the law simply by participating in this hobby. But if you're doing it simply out of ignorance... now you know. You were wrong. So, pay taxes or not. I don't care. But know that you're committing a potentially much more serious crime - or, put another way, a crime with much more severe penalties, by avoiding paying your taxes. Get caught for prostitution, you get a proverbial slap on the wrist...hundreds or a few thousand dollars, and weeks or months in prison (if at all). Get caught not paying your taxes... especially on the income of the typical escort, and you could be looking at decades in jail and tens or hundreds of thousands in fines.

I'm guessing the answer will be a resounding NO... but it doesn't hurt to ask, does it? I was recently in a minor accident, and my injuries were also minor - but I do need to see a massage therapist. I thought perhaps, possibly, someone might know of one who is a good actual massage therapist who can help my muscular issues...and also provide a few more services? Feel free to message me if you don't want to advertise someone's name/info publicly.

Hi there! New to this board, and somewhat to the community - though once upon a time I was a regular. It's been about 15 years since I have done any hobbying, as I met the girl of my dreams and we've had our fun together (and occasionally with others, but I hadn't felt the need to hobby). We have an upcoming anniversary, and a joke on my part on how we'd celebrate it led to her seriously suggesting the following scenario; We get a hotel room, possibly Mon Chalet, but more likely something far more upscale (either way, hopefully with a hot tub in the room). We find one or two providers we're both into, and who are willing able to fulfill all of this for us. We each get a decent massage - not a FBSM, but an actual massage (erotic is fine, but the intent is that it is on par with what we'd get from a CMT or similar masseuse); about 45 minutes to an hour each. After the massages, we have some fun for an hour or two (or maybe even a bit longer, depending on budget and rates and etc.) - nothing exceptionally kinky or fetishy is needed; just a good old fashioned ménage à trois or foursome, with fairly equal time spent pleasuring her and me. So now, I am out of touch as to who is good at what, and willing to do what. And she is only vaguely aware of the industry. So the first consideration is, who is out there who is willing and able to provide a high quality massage, and satisfy both halves of a couple? And what are your rates for doing so? I realize asking for two massages back to back is taxing, especially when followed by play time - which is one reason why we'd consider two providers. But then we have to find two providers both skilled in giving massage, willing to play with couples, and willing to play with each other (or at least work together while playing with the couple). Once we have a decent idea of who, if anyone, meets those criteria, then we have to decide who meets our personal preferences for looks. She has slightly different tastes in women than I do, another reason we'd consider two providers. But they're close enough we can usually find compromises; so that isn't a huge hurdle. Anyway, I did read the forum rules, and saw the whole no shilling, no advertising clauses. So if you can't answer my questions here, you can private message me. Even from other guys out there, if you know of a lady or two who you think would fit the bill. ...And, in case you're worried, once she and I pick one or two providers, she will be glad to handle most of the phone calls and emails to nail down the details, so you can be sure I am not some weird dude springing a surprise on his wife which will end up with you getting a bunch of hate from her. Or some weird dude with an imaginary wife or whatever. Besides which, she wants a sense of whomever we'll be meeting before we finalize anything, and so would prefer to have one or two phone calls before the event in any case.