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  1. Feeling Dreary Like the Weather!

    Hello, all! I'm feeling a bit down today and I've found that often times my mood likes to mirror the weather. Any suggestions on activities to do or places to see that might elevate one's spirits a bit? All suggestions are welcomed and appreciated! Thank you.
  2. I've compiled some ideas to help the ladies provide a better Full Body Sensual Massage sessions. I'm not criticizing anybody. I'm just sharing my wishes, combining techniques I've seen from several providers and what other people have mentioned here and in other places. Assumptions in this post - I'll just use the term massage in general [snip] including body rubs. - Standard 1 hour session - The client is respectful, not looking for FS but for FBSM. - The client is clean. - The provider is serious about her work, I'm not talking here about providers that just give lousy rubs and quick HJ. - Mutual touching, fully nude, body to body, tits massage, Nuru, BJ or similar options don't affect the following recommendations. In general - Besides the massage in the large body parts like the back or shoulders also massage hands and fingers, face, ears, and scalp. You don't have to be a licensed masseuse to massage those areas. It feels very good and is very relaxing. Avoid scalp massage with oily hands. If you are not sure, ask the client. - Include the feet and toes, if you are not sure if he would like it, just ask. It's easier for you to ask if he likes it or not than for the client to request it. Most people like foot massage. While he is facing down - Massage the whole back side, from head to toes, no only back and shoulders. - Tease the balls, inner thighs and crotch once in a while during the massage. Your oily hands on that area feel awesome. The teasing should not be only for the happy ending. - If he is really clean, as for example freshly showered at your place, include the crack and anus during the butt massage. No need to go inside him, just outside, which should be clean. Obviously, some men don't like this so if you are not sure you can insinuate it with an exploratory massage or just asking. Again, it's easier for you to ask if he likes it than for him to request that massage. Once he is facing up - Once the client has flipped over, massage the full front side of his body. Don't go directly to the HJ. Massage legs, thighs, arms, chest, neck, face, etc, etc. From head to toes again. You should calculate your time on the back in order to have time for the front. - Tease the fun parts once in a while during the front side massage as well, don't wait for the actual HJ to do this. - Tease/rub/pinch / (kiss/bite) the client's nipples. Men's nipples are similarly sensitive as women's. For the final fireworks - Do some penis massage, before the HJ or as a replacement for the traditional HJ. There are plenty of video clips in porn sites that show what a penis massage is. This is different than the traditional up and down handjob. For example: Massage for the Male Penis or Penis Massage. - Massage the balls and surrounding area. If you've massaged his crack and anus (look above), do it again at this moment. - "Edge" at least one time. Edging means take him more or less near to the climax and then stop and give attention to other areas of the body while he relaxes. You can "edge" as many times as you want. You should calculate your time for at least one edging. - This one is very important and a common error: once the client starts cumming don't stop right away doing what you were doing. The first shot of cum is not the signal to stop! Continue doing what you were doing until he becomes too sensitive to resist it, that should be obvious and that's the time to stop. Or when he tells you to stop. (Optional: once the overwhelming sensitivity has gone, softly HJ him a little bit more, even if it's already soft. Feels very good) - Clean him up with warm towels, or whatever you use. This is a nice touch and very much appreciated. - Do some post-cum body massage. It's awesome to calm and relax for a few minutes after the orgasm while receiving a soft massage, instead of getting dressed immediately. I know a provider that saves the feet massage for this moment. Some trial and error for the distribution of your time probably would be needed but everything should fit in the 1-hour session. Everybody, please feel free to contribute, add or criticize my suggestions. Ladies, if you can please give some feedback about this, maybe you see things from a different point of view that I have not taken into account.