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How to improve your FBSM service

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I've compiled some ideas to help the ladies provide a better Full Body Sensual Massage sessions. I'm not criticizing anybody. I'm just sharing my wishes, combining techniques I've seen from several providers and what other people have mentioned here and in other places.
 
Assumptions in this post
 
- I'll just use the term massage in general [snip] including body rubs.
- Standard 1 hour session
- The client is respectful, not looking for FS but for FBSM.
- The client is clean.
- The provider is serious about her work, I'm not talking here about providers that just give lousy rubs and quick HJ.
- Mutual touching, fully nude, body to body, tits massage, Nuru, BJ or similar options don't affect the following recommendations.

In general
 
- Besides the massage in the large body parts like the back or shoulders also massage hands and fingers, face, ears, and scalp. You don't have to be a licensed masseuse to massage those areas. It feels very good and is very relaxing. Avoid scalp massage with oily hands. If you are not sure, ask the client.
 
- Include the feet and toes, if you are not sure if he would like it, just ask. It's easier for you to ask if he likes it or not than for the client to request it. Most people like foot massage.
 
While he is facing down
 
- Massage the whole back side, from head to toes, no only back and shoulders.
 
- Tease the balls, inner thighs and crotch once in a while during the massage. Your oily hands on that area feel awesome. The teasing should not be only for the happy ending.

- If he is really clean, as for example freshly showered at your place, include the crack and anus during the butt massage. No need to go inside him, just outside, which should be clean. Obviously, some men don't like this so if you are not sure you can insinuate it with an exploratory massage or just asking. Again, it's easier for you to ask if he likes it than for him to request that massage.
 
Once he is facing up
 
- Once the client has flipped over, massage the full front side of his body. Don't go directly to the HJ. Massage legs, thighs, arms, chest, neck, face, etc, etc. From head to toes again. You should calculate your time on the back in order to have time for the front.
 
- Tease the fun parts once in a while during the front side massage as well, don't wait for the actual HJ to do this.

- Tease/rub/pinch / (kiss/bite) the client's nipples. Men's nipples are similarly sensitive as women's.

For the final fireworks
 
- Do some penis massage, before the HJ or as a replacement for the traditional HJ. There are plenty of video clips in porn sites that show what a penis massage is. This is different than the traditional up and down handjob. For example: Massage for the Male Penis or Penis Massage.
 
- Massage the balls and surrounding area. If you've massaged his crack and anus (look above), do it again at this moment.
 
- "Edge" at least one time. Edging means take him more or less near to the climax and then stop and give attention to other areas of the body while he relaxes. You can "edge" as many times as you want. You should calculate your time for at least one edging.
 
- This one is very important and a common error: once the client starts cumming don't stop right away doing what you were doing. The first shot of cum is not the signal to stop! Continue doing what you were doing until he becomes too sensitive to resist it, that should be obvious and that's the time to stop. Or when he tells you to stop. (Optional: once the overwhelming sensitivity has gone, softly HJ him a little bit more, even if it's already soft. Feels very good)

- Clean him up with warm towels, or whatever you use. This is a nice touch and very much appreciated.
 
- Do some post-cum body massage. It's awesome to calm and relax for a few minutes after the orgasm while receiving a soft massage, instead of getting dressed immediately. I know a provider that saves the feet massage for this moment.
 
Some trial and error for the distribution of your time probably would be needed but everything should fit in the 1-hour session.
 
Everybody, please feel free to contribute, add or criticize my suggestions.
 
Ladies, if you can please give some feedback about this, maybe you see things from a different point of view that I have not taken into account.
 
Edited by Kaduk
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Forwarded to the Colorado  AMP Association...

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I agree with a good portion of this except for a few things. Not all clients want me to rub the front, they usually like it when I get into the teasing part of my session, and while I am not sure other ladies do that...I seem to notice the guys liking that. Also, some ladies(myself included) are not into anal and won't touch there. That is totally a preference thing. Another, is the rubbing of the balls and shaft. That is what they call a Lingham massage, and usually mixed into tantra play. Lastly, every client is different and communicating with each one is how you know what they like and don't like. Not all of these things will specifically be what they are looking for. It is a good start though and more common, but generalizations seem to hurt some of us that take that extra step to be a little different than the rest.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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Have to agree with "lawyer." So far,in my experience, I have had only one FBSM lady do what he suggests.

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I REALLY enjoy the provider grinding on my Johnson cowgirl or reverse cowgirl 

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Thanks for putting this together.  It seems to cover all bases.  Teasing and stroking the penis from behind is amazing. 

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Man! what a great summary!

I totally agree with everything you mentioned.

I hope this helps to bring both providers and clients to a new standard.

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I like the observation that the lady should not bail out at the first shot of cum.....lots of Escorts do that too....it is a real buzz kill. However, that aside, I feel compelled to make a possibly UNpopular observation here. The OP gave a VERY detailed account of super-top shelf FBSM combined with Therapeutic Massage. Seems to me that such an "all encompassing, loaded with options, Cadillac massage" should come with a premium price. It kinda sounds like the OP might ( ok...I said MIGHT) expect ladies to provide all those options, bells and whistles as "standard equipment"...but still at the base price.

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It all works for me also, but don't touch my feet I have never liked that even as a kid don't know why, and I let the the lady know up front so there is no surprises on my part,but every thing else works for me. i also like the cowgirl grinding

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I will agree with most everything here, too. Including Admiral C's observation that this is not what should be expected for discount rates. I can say that for me, there is nothing more delightful than having the shaft and balls played with 'from behind' while I am lying on my stomach.

I would add another option, too; if I really want a good massage (assuming I know the provider is capable of proving such), I prefer that the money shot comes relatively early on in the process. The whole teasing and edging and etc. may be glorious, but it is rarely conducive to what would result in a good massage experience (a great experience, just not a good massage experience). So, if that is what I am after, I far prefer a quickie first, then I can be much more receptive to the following massage without the tensing and writhing and squirming that (hopefully) comes with the erotic portions.

In the end, it really does come down to communication, though. What do I want, what can she provide. Ladies need to be willing and able to discuss this with we clients... and we also need to be willing and able to communicate it to them. If you go in expecting a great session without spelling out what you want at the beginning, you will certainly be somewhat if not greatly disappointed.

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Great post. Always shower and scrub immediately before so I can get alot of crack and anus attention.

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I agree with the statement in bold 100%. As for the rest, I leave it up to the provider. I'd rather not get the same experience everywhere I go. The variety is what makes it fun.

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3 hours ago, PeterPrinciple said:

Great post. Always shower and scrub immediately before so I can get alot of crack and anus attention.

This is what I love about AMPs. Besides, that table shower can be such a sensual experience in its own right. 

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Nice post. Providers, pay attention to what he said about the first shot. Many have stopped, slowed down or changed pace after the first shot instead of keeping the rhythm going. A  big disappointment when this happens. Just keep it going!!! Anal massage is being taught to some providers and can be very stimulating. You should wear a glove during this portion or require a shower if you have the facilities. More body slides are needed. Providers  doing this could do very well. 

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2 hours ago, Skg said:

 You should wear a glove during this portion or require a shower if you have the facilities. More body slides are needed. Providers  doing this could do very well. 

Ahh yes, I remember listening for Sensual Violet slipping on the rubber glove, knew the real fun was about ready to start.....

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21 hours ago, richinco said:

It all works for me also, but don't touch my feet I have never liked that even as a kid don't know why, and I let the the lady know up front so there is no surprises on my part,but every thing else works for me. i also like the cowgirl grinding

I was the same way about my feets, until I decided to let my technician go for all of it. 1st I went and got a pedicure, try that, you'll actually thank yourself for doing it. Honestly made the FBSM experience complete, of course depends on your tech so YMMV.

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This is a great post!! However if this is as complex and advanced as providers go, they are missing a WHOLE lot of skills, erotic knowledge and play.  Is this kind of basic knowledge not common place??

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