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TOB Members, Who's visited a provider with their wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend? Is there a provider you recommend, or who you've had a wonderful experience with? Who's the best provider for couples? Providers - Who loves working with couples? Maybe it's more comfortable, or more fun. What do you like about it? I'm interested in hearing any stories or recommendations regarding couples joining a provider or vice versa.

Anyone taken the 5 Love Languages quiz? 30 ?? ranking what you desire most from a partner. It’s a fun way to reflect on what type of Provider or Client you are. I suggest doing it as Single for this one (couple if you have an SO is fun too). 💞 5lovelanguages.com/profile/singles have fun loves! 💋

Expanding horizons a bit, I've been cruising the mw4m section of CL for a few months to see what's crackin' when I hit the mother load of not one but two live ones on the hook. Any who cruise CL understand live ones are almost not a thing but this time, there was one couple seeking someone "hung for wife", the other offering a ++ massage. It's gettin' hot in here. After an extensive exchange, which included a need to know my stats, the "hung for wife' dude first asked if I was bi-curious, to which I indicated I might be if properly motivated. What he didn't know is this meant if the wife was so hot the little head had gotten the best of the bigger and it had become the price to pay but, it's not what I would have responded to so, on with the story. He then said she asked for cock pics to "check my size", which I will not do under any circumstances. Responding to my request to know how she looked, he said the wife was a 5'5", 145 lb brunette. Being the meat on the bone kinda guy I am, I let him know that seemed "delicious" and asked when could I come over, to which he informed me she had "found her guy" but wanted to know would I allow her to watch him "suck a nice cock". Are you serious?! "Not at all". Bro? You got me twisted, bro. Feeling duped, my suggestion he post in the m4m section was about as P.C. as I could muster. Then there was the ++ massage offer, which almost had me. An extended silence making me think they had moved on, I sent my number informing them I had as well but that I was there...for them...if they needed me. After some time he explained they got "75-100" replies a day making it "hard to keep up". Does this even seem real? Do CL ladies get this much play? Finding this quite exhausting, his response to my, "keeping her busy, huh?" was, "Try to". Here I am thinking it's some suburban couple living a little like me but, noooo, what we have is Iceberg Slim (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iceberg_Slim)in the flesh! What a guy, right ladies? Thinking back to the offer of a BJ, DATY (which I've yet to do on a provider) and a "++ sensual massage" which I correctly interpreted as FS, in the context of "75-100" swinging dicks coming through a day I asked, "is bb possible?". The answer, "with a tip and be DDF and clean" simultaneously confirmed my worst fears while diminishing all hopes I had in mankind. I mean, "a tip, DDF and clean"? Will any tip do? Don't you eat there, bro? LOL'g my "the correct answer is never. I'm out" response, which was me trying very hard not to be judgmental, I then suggested he take better "care of his queen and money maker". That's not very judgmental, is it? This Bull Shit is turning out to be tougher than hobbying and rocket science when compared to slot car racing. The struggle is real, people!

Couple here. Female has a cuckquean fetish and we are looking to plan a special evening with a high end, super good looking provider who caters to couples. Who is that special lady that you dreamed of splurging on once you won the lottery? Feel free to PM us any suggestions if you prefer not to make suggestions in this thread. Ladies, also fee free to PM us.

Hi there! New to this board, and somewhat to the community - though once upon a time I was a regular. It's been about 15 years since I have done any hobbying, as I met the girl of my dreams and we've had our fun together (and occasionally with others, but I hadn't felt the need to hobby). We have an upcoming anniversary, and a joke on my part on how we'd celebrate it led to her seriously suggesting the following scenario; We get a hotel room, possibly Mon Chalet, but more likely something far more upscale (either way, hopefully with a hot tub in the room). We find one or two providers we're both into, and who are willing able to fulfill all of this for us. We each get a decent massage - not a FBSM, but an actual massage (erotic is fine, but the intent is that it is on par with what we'd get from a CMT or similar masseuse); about 45 minutes to an hour each. After the massages, we have some fun for an hour or two (or maybe even a bit longer, depending on budget and rates and etc.) - nothing exceptionally kinky or fetishy is needed; just a good old fashioned ménage à trois or foursome, with fairly equal time spent pleasuring her and me. So now, I am out of touch as to who is good at what, and willing to do what. And she is only vaguely aware of the industry. So the first consideration is, who is out there who is willing and able to provide a high quality massage, and satisfy both halves of a couple? And what are your rates for doing so? I realize asking for two massages back to back is taxing, especially when followed by play time - which is one reason why we'd consider two providers. But then we have to find two providers both skilled in giving massage, willing to play with couples, and willing to play with each other (or at least work together while playing with the couple). Once we have a decent idea of who, if anyone, meets those criteria, then we have to decide who meets our personal preferences for looks. She has slightly different tastes in women than I do, another reason we'd consider two providers. But they're close enough we can usually find compromises; so that isn't a huge hurdle. Anyway, I did read the forum rules, and saw the whole no shilling, no advertising clauses. So if you can't answer my questions here, you can private message me. Even from other guys out there, if you know of a lady or two who you think would fit the bill. ...And, in case you're worried, once she and I pick one or two providers, she will be glad to handle most of the phone calls and emails to nail down the details, so you can be sure I am not some weird dude springing a surprise on his wife which will end up with you getting a bunch of hate from her. Or some weird dude with an imaginary wife or whatever. Besides which, she wants a sense of whomever we'll be meeting before we finalize anything, and so would prefer to have one or two phone calls before the event in any case.

The wife has come around. She is willing to try a threesome. So, whom do you suggest I contact? I think for both of us to be comfortable we need a ASP in her 30s or 40s. What are your thoughts? Do you recommend someone? Do you wanna join us? Oh, and I wanna be fair. I want my wife to enjoy another man. Thoughts on that?