When you see a provider/client out in the public?

[Savoir Faire]

12 hours ago, Johnny Shakes said:

I said Hello How Can I help You

What response did you get Johnny? 

[glassonion]

To be clear, any acknowledgement of knowledge from provider or client is a breach of trust IMO. The only appropriate reaction is none. 

 

That said, I did notice a provider I had an encounter with downtown walking with what looked like a bf. I kept my distance but was certainly curious because the lady in question supposedly was not from Denver. No judgement or anything. I think it makes sense for ladies to setup boundaries however makes sense. I know I do. 

 

 

[Savoir Faire]

1 hour ago, glassonion said:

To be clear, any acknowledgement of knowledge from provider or client is a breach of trust IMO. The only appropriate reaction is none. 

 

That said, I did notice a provider I had an encounter with downtown walking with what looked like a bf. I kept my distance but was certainly curious because the lady in question supposedly was not from Denver. No judgement or anything. I think it makes sense for ladies to setup boundaries however makes sense. I know I do. 

 

 

Onion I think the majority of us all share your opinion. What boundaries are you suggesting the women set up? 

[glassonion]

In this case the boundary I meant was claiming to be from our of town. 

[ilovewomen]

On 4/18/2022 at 9:03 PM, lustybustygina said:

Once in Dallas was at the hotel bar guy ask me if I was LustyGina . I was think you have me mixed up and then sent me text to tell me who is refes was and we met the next day lol  had I not known who the refes was I just  not returned his text and she texted me as well.lol 

While this encounter did turn out okay, it is my opinion he was out of bounds for coming up to you and asking you if you were LustyGina without ever meeting you prior to that.

[ilovewomen]

On 4/18/2022 at 9:03 PM, lustybustygina said:

Once in Dallas was at the hotel bar guy ask me if I was LustyGina . I was think you have me mixed up and then sent me text to tell me who is refes was and we met the next day lol  had I not known who the refes was I just  not returned his text and she texted me as well.lol 

While this encounter turned out okay, in my opinion this guy broke boundaries by coming up to you asking you if you were LustyGina without ever having met you before.

[ilovewomen]

3 hours ago, glassonion said:

In this case the boundary I meant was claiming to be from our of town. 

I wouldn't think her telling you she was from out of town and yet she was in Denver is a boundary violation.  More like she didn't tell you she was in town during a certain time period or even if she lives in town. It's not a boundary violation.  More maybe like a white lie if she lives in town and she didn't want you to know where she actually lives.

[Hunter VanDyke]

A lot of provider's tour cities where they have friends and family or like to vacation.  Sometimes we visit AND work, but just as many times we come for a visit without working.

Regardless, of what the provider/client's life really is, respect their boundaries and mind your own business.  Trying to figure out a provider/client's real and private life is crossing a boundary. Keep it professional because we're all human beings and the time that was paid for is over.  If anything, go out of your way to give them respect, and please don't stare at them or who they're with, or gawk or smile or giggle, or go running to your hobby/provider friends and telling them all about it.  Be cool. 

[Savoir Faire]

11 hours ago, glassonion said:

In this case the boundary I meant was claiming to be from our of town. 

Maybe she was trying to market herself.................Like when some business claim they have this and that, then you arrive and they are either sold out or don't have the product you came in for..................

[Savoir Faire]

6 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

A lot of provider's tour cities where they have friends and family or like to vacation.  Sometimes we visit AND work, but just as many times we come for a visit without working.

Regardless, of what the provider/client's life really is, respect their boundaries and mind your own business.  Trying to figure out a provider/client's real and private life is crossing a boundary. Keep it professional because we're all human beings and the time that was paid for is over.  If anything, go out of your way to give them respect, and please don't stare at them or who they're with, or gawk or smile or giggle, or go running to your hobby/provider friends and telling them all about it.  Be cool. 

Ms VanDyke LOL, good luck with getting guys not to stare/gawk over a fine ass woman. Trust me, if that woman got all dolled up and went in public and nobody looked at her, LOL lets just say she wouldn't feel so pretty. I agree that both provider/client should BE COOL and respect one another because you are 100 percent correct that THE SESSION IS OVER WITH so either set up another one or keep those memories near and dear. 

[Hunter VanDyke]

The LOL is that you think we feel like we're not pretty if nobody looks at us when were out in public. 🙄 🤦‍♀️

[lustybustygina]

9 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

While this encounter did turn out okay, it is my opinion he was out of bounds for coming up to you and asking you if you were LustyGina without ever meeting you prior to that.

it did take me back and how to respond ..

[Savoir Faire]

6 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

The LOL is that you think we feel like we're not pretty if nobody looks at us when were out in public. 🙄 🤦‍♀️

 If that woman got all DOLLED UP and went in public and nobody looked at her, LOL lets just say she wouldn't feel so pretty is what I actually said/think........ I admire women that get all DOLLED UP that I see in PUBLIC.....................Keep looking good LADIES because us MEN are looking........

[Hunter VanDyke]

5 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:

 If that woman got all DOLLED UP and went in public and nobody looked at her, LOL lets just say she wouldn't feel so pretty is what I actually said/think........ I admire women that get all DOLLED UP that I see in PUBLIC.....................Keep looking good LADIES because us MEN are looking........

Bless your heart

[Caressa Duval]

1 hour ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Bless your heart

@Hunter VanDyke Isn't SF precious?

 

7 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:

 If that woman got all DOLLED UP and went in public and nobody looked at her, LOL lets just say she wouldn't feel so pretty is what I actually said/think........ I admire women that get all DOLLED UP that I see in PUBLIC.....................Keep looking good LADIES because us MEN are looking........

Mr. Faire, women get "dolled up" for ourselves!! Not for men!! Beauty is on the inside, and feeling pretty is a state of mind. It comes from our own self esteem, NOT from men ogling us when we are in our real lives.

 

On 4/15/2022 at 1:34 AM, Savoir Faire said:

For me personally, I either immediately remember the session and I look but won't say a word. I won't even approach them either. If they come up to me its totally okay, I am single, professional and on that grown man shit (meaning I can keep a secret). Other times, I may not recognize the provider right away, so I find myself trying to figure out where/when did I fuck this woman. Just the other day LOL, I was at the View House and this provider strolls past me and it was awesome because on this particular day (last week) she seemed a lot shorter than she did in our sessions. All in all she looked damn good still. 

Good heads up to all the ladies, ^^^^ this is what SF thinks of all you, or remembers about you^^^^.

Bless your heart SF! Over, and over, and over again!

[Hunter VanDyke]

1 hour ago, Caressa Duval said:

@Hunter VanDyke Isn't SF precious?

It's not a very good idea to put how we feel about ourselves into something we have no control over. I sure would like to comfort any woman who feels this way.  That I'm aware of, I don't know any.  

[Savoir Faire]

4 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

Bless your heart

Keep looking good LADIES because us MEN are looking........ Thanks for the BLESSING........................Ditto

[Hunter VanDyke]

Be discreet.  Especially when we're with our loved ones.  Pretty please and thank you.   Just my thoughts on the topic. 🙏💙

[gr8owl]

The thought that women would in any way base their self esteem and how attractive they are/feel on whether they are being stared at and ogled by strange men is pretty sad and rather demeaning in my opinion.  One can look and be discreet. But in the context of the original topic, overtly staring would definitely be unacceptable and in bad taste.  IMHO for what its worth.

[lustybustygina]

I  hardly will look at someone staring at me, as to think do they know who I'm or just think im cute lol   

[JRWolfe]

On 4/15/2022 at 1:26 AM, Savoir Faire said:

Ladies and Gents, when you see a Provider/Client in the public, how do you react/respond to them? 

I let them,if they choose to do so respond to me. The ladies deserve to have their private life respected. 

 

[sb1212]

On 4/22/2022 at 11:29 AM, lustybustygina said:

I  hardly will look at someone staring at me, as to think do they know who I'm or just think im cute lol   

I can think of two significant reaons why you might attract stares from prior clients, perfect strangers, random men, women and inanimate objects....🤪

 

On 4/18/2022 at 9:03 PM, lustybustygina said:

 

 

[Savoir Faire]

10 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

I let them,if they choose to do so respond to me. The ladies deserve to have their private life respected. 

 

Thanks for answering the question.....................I think everyone that responded pretty much feel the same way..........

[Imyrhklbry]

On 4/19/2022 at 0:43 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Being discreet is all I will ever ask. I have no problem with Companions or Clients approaching me while in public. I am pretty relaxed and can hold my own. Sometimes my kids and Or Grandkids accompany me. 

 Excellent to have a close friendship with a companion!

Furthermore, . @Savoir Faire, you should know by now I don’t bite! 😂😂

I enjoy my friendship with you 🥰😘💋

[JRWolfe]

21 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:

Thanks for answering the question.....................I think everyone that responded pretty much feel the same way..........

21 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:

 

  Well,,the client/escort relationship does begin when the door opens and ends when the door closes.

[Savoir Faire]

22 minutes ago, JRWolfe said:

  Well,,the client/escort relationship does begin when the door opens and ends when the door closes.

I agree with you to a point.......Most relationships do end as the door closes but in my opinion when it comes to REGULARS or SPECIAL FRIENDSHIPS, I believe the door may be left unlocked/half way open/wide open depending on you and her.............

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

I think a little wave or a smile would not  hurt me (me and only me). 
 

Although, please don’t approach me    with “shop talk”!  To me it is  all  about discretion!  And being discreet goes long way! We have screen names for a very powerful reason! This world is very special and should remain as! ☺️ Even if this career becomes legal! Send me text or email later if I don’t respond. 

Edited April 29, 2022 by Kali Sensual Reiki

[Imyrhklbry]

1 minute ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

I think a little wave or a smile would not  hurt me (me and only me). 
 

Although, please don’t approach me with   with “shop talk”!  To me it is  all  about discretion!  And being discreet goes long way! We have screen names for a very powerful reason! This world is very special and should remain as! ☺️ Even if this career becomes legal! Send me text or email later if I don’t respond. 

Being discrete & adult is what it's all about 🥰

[Imyrhklbry]

51 minutes ago, Imyrhklbry said:

Being discrete & adult is what it's all about 🥰

I've actually run into several in public ( I used to work at a major local shopping mall ) . See a few out & about , doing everyday,  normal activities.  Nothing ever said . Maybe once in awhile a smile or quick "hi" .... a couple times later I'd get a private text , thanking me for being discrete and also if I'm up for getting together soon ! 🥰👅🥰  Being discrete does have it's advantages! 

[Hunter VanDyke]

16 minutes ago, Imyrhklbry said:

 a couple times later I'd get a private text , thanking me for being discrete and also if I'm up for getting together soon ! 🥰👅🥰  Being discrete does have it's advantages! 

A thousand times THIS ^^^