Posted January 8, 2022 What men in this hobby really talk about? I’ve been quietly following the forums on: usasexguide.nl and it’s an interesting look into what’s never talked about or said here. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2022 Take a look. Or not. It’s more of an informative post for a provider’s insight on how some clients behave when they think no one is watching. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2022 24 minutes ago, Leigh5280 said: Take a look. Or not. It’s more of an informative post for a provider’s insight on how some clients behave when they think no one is watching. I’ve seen it, and can never unsee it. It’s very crass, gross, and overall disheartening. It’s a god screening tool as some handles are very familiar. Thank gosh we have many real gems to make up for the negative. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2022 3 hours ago, Audrey Astor said: I’ve seen it, and can never unsee it. It’s very crass, gross, and overall disheartening. It’s a god screening tool as some handles are very familiar. Thank gosh we have many real gems to make up for the negative. I'm not sure I agree with this. I've been in a LOT of behind the scene conversation through DMs and email, and while sometimes they are a little more graphic then public conversations, for the most part guys just want to get and share information so they can maximize a good time when they are able to book with a lady. In my experience, in these group conversations, anything shady would not fly. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2022 3 hours ago, Audrey Astor said: … It’s very crass, gross, and overall disheartening. It’s a god screening tool as some handles are very familiar. … Some familiar handles are there for access to data on other areas of the country/world. Doesn’t make them any more/less crass than they are here on TOB. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 10, 2022 My experience is similar to @Mustang87 I’m in a couple other groups that are “men’s only” and for the most part they are not gross and definitely not demeaning. They are frank and open, but not like those on the usasexguide boards. Admittedly, I don’t have a huge amount of experience with them and I wouldn’t stay in one that was like that, so take my opinion with a grain of salt. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2022 I remember the occasion, more than a decade ago - TOB 1.0, when a YL called 1hr before our appt and cancelled because she found my handle in another board. I had a prior session with her which I thought went well based on M&G conversations both before and after. Shortly after that a flame war started on TOB by a retired escort about the hierarchy of sex workers and the lowly streetwalkers.???🥴 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2022 Like some others, I have been a part of DM's and Men's Only conversations about some of the ladies. In my experience, the conversations have been a bit more explicit, but always respectful. I value this hobby and the ladies (and the gents) too much to be rude, crass or mean-spirited, even in DM's or Men's Only conversations. Some folks may get rude, crass and mean-spirited, but those are folks (on both sides of the equation) I tend to avoid. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2022 On 1/10/2022 at 0:37 AM, Bravo1 said: Examples..? http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?27914-Bareback-Providers 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2022 17 hours ago, Leigh5280 said: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?27914-Bareback-Providers WOW. That thread is titled "Bareback Providers." I think that is a good site to stay away from, and that includes the people on that thread. I can tell you that a topic like that would never fly in any DM group I have ever been in. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2022 On 1/11/2022 at 6:50 AM, average1 said: Like some others, I have been a part of DM's and Men's Only conversations about some of the ladies. In my experience, the conversations have been a bit more explicit, but always respectful. I value this hobby and the ladies (and the gents) too much to be rude, crass or mean-spirited, even in DM's or Men's Only conversations. Some folks may get rude, crass and mean-spirited, but those are folks (on both sides of the equation) I tend to avoid. Just want to say thank you for being a thoughtful and respectful human being. I hope the companions you visit take good care of you sweetheart. 🤗❤🥰 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2022 On 1/8/2022 at 11:26 AM, Leigh5280 said: What men in this hobby really talk about? I’ve been quietly following the forums on: usasexguide.nl and it’s an interesting look into what’s never talked about or said here. Great, now you got one of the members over here on another thread. That’s exactly the kind of crazy that’s on usasexguide or whatever it is. 😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2022 Sad but true - there will always be respectful to raunchy to rude players in the hobbyverse... And as long as there is enough of a group, there will be a place they congregate, be it a board or PMs, or trolling crusade, etc... But information is key, a valuable hobby commodity be it respectful, raunchy, or rude. And if it helps people hobby safely and smartly, then good to be aware of it, and use it for the tool it can be for each and every one to screen or choose or think twice... A BB thread is a good case in point. I like reading those so i know who not to go see - and i know of ladies that like those posts so they know who not to entertain. Then horny of the feather get to hobby together! Safely! If it ain't safe, it ain't fun:) just my humble opinion... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2022 10 hours ago, Audrey Astor said: Great, now you got one of the members over here on another thread. That’s exactly the kind of crazy that’s on usasexguide or whatever it is. 😂😂 Oh sheesh. Lemme go look. 😜 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2022 I wonder why they don't talk like that here. 😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2022 On 1/8/2022 at 11:26 AM, Leigh5280 said: What men in this hobby really talk about? I’ve been quietly following the forums on: usasexguide.nl and it’s an interesting look into what’s never talked about or said here. oh my.... there's a rabbit hole I never knew existed! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2022 On 1/12/2022 at 7:43 PM, Hunter VanDyke said: Just want to say thank you for being a thoughtful and respectful human being. I hope the companions you visit take good care of you sweetheart. 🤗❤🥰 Hunter, thanks. I feel grateful and fortunate, in a variety of ways and for a variety of reasons. 😉 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
