Posted July 12, 2021 34 minutes ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: Both ladies are "retired" and on to new chapters in their life. To answer you question; my favorite still remained my favorite playmate for several years. She and I are still friends and occasionally meet for lunch or coffee. We share a same "advocation" concerning theatre but we no longer play. I originally hooked up with her on TOB. Her friend never joined and was always very low key. Finding my favorite on TOB was a bit unusual. It is rare that I find a regular or long term playmate on TOB. Before anyone goes ballistic, that is NOT, in any way, a slight or meant to be derogatory toward the wonderful ladies here. My play is difficult to fit into a standard one hour or two hour block of time and is not for everyone. I have wondered off the subject of the original OP so I will stop. Mr OTG thanks for clarifying. I agree with you on TOB having a number of wonderful ladies. I too understand how difficult it can be choosing a favorite as well. Thanks for answering, I wanted real answers and you provided exactly what I was looking for, whether it be off subject or on subject. You have a wonderful week my friend........... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 12, 2021 17 hours ago, geecue2 said: I had a bait and switch that sounds almost like the OP post. Pre-tob, called and a lady answered, set up a time and went to see her. Knocked on the door and this guy with a 5 o'clock shadow in lingerie answers the door. Look at him and tell him seriously dude, he says what. Said to myself I ought to bitch slap this guy, starting thinking about it a no win situation. Someone sees me smacking this guy, they call the cops. the other way. guy whoops my ass, cops probably called again. As I was beating feet out there, one of his neighbors happens to see me and is laughing at me, probably has seen a lot of guys leaving. GQ LOL, thanks for presenting a similar situation, I was hoping that it was someone out there who encountered what I did LOL or was not ashamed of admitting it. I agree with you, the thoughts that go through your head at the time are crazy. Its like, do you just go completely insane or do you fight with yourself to act in a professional manner and just walk away. I think we both made great decisions and we walked away. Now we can laugh/chuckle about it. And yes, the neighbor and a few of us are laughing at you because our stories are funny but the great thing is we were able to walk away untouched............... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 12, 2021 On 7/6/2021 at 8:36 PM, Mr.Pink said: Should have gave them the Saviour Fair award for dude looks like a lady. LOL Mr Pink I think that was performed by Aerosmith. This dude looked nothing like a damn lady, he was about 6'7 and weighted about 290/300 lbs. Dude looked more like a BigFoot. There will be no Savior Faire Awards given for Bait N Switch participants................... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 13, 2021 On 7/6/2021 at 3:20 PM, Savoir Faire said: Providers have you ever had a guy show up that wasn't the guy you text or scheduled the appointment with? Guys have you ever encountered a bait and switch before? I have been pretty fortunate and I have only had 2 baits and switches. LOL I showed up and the instructions were to come in and get comfortable. Well I had a feeling something was not right so I took a seat and waited. Sure enough, some huge guy dressed in woman's clothing comes out and motions for me to join in the back room. I respectfully asked for the girl on the profile and he LOL kept ignoring my request. So I again, respectfully said you are not who I came to see and he gets a MAJOR ATTITUDE LOL. I honestly was trying to be nice because I was hoping the girl I was looking for was the friend sharing the room. Can you believe he asked me to leave him a little something for his time. I gave him a look and that was the end of that comical show.......... I guess this would qualify for Savoir Faire’s “Mrs/Ms I don’t mess around with no Oscar Meyer wiener”?? Love your reviews, FYI 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 13, 2021 3 hours ago, BaldPilot said: I guess this would qualify for Savoir Faire’s “Mrs/Ms I don’t mess around with no Oscar Meyer wiener”?? Love your reviews, FYI Thanks BP................. You being a pilot and all LOL, I have a couple of MILE HIGH REVIEWS that are dated way prior to me joining TOB. I cannot tell a lie, I do polish sausages..............You know when they are cooked well done and they split down the middle..................... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2021 i want to blame BP for these but we all know the truth... more times than i can remember the big head engages the little head and makes a clear case for exiting stage left as the gal behind the door i believed each time could be the mother of the gal in the pics - and the little head won out and i just validated the behavior...seemed to happen a lot in TX pre sesta fosta fosta sesta yadda yadda... a few times and i can remember the famous 'i am independent and date in a private residence' only to show up to a seedy place and encounter another man"ager" there... i'm sure if i set forth to really reminisce, this list would grow... thanks for sharing all - sounds like everyone made it out ok and these stories are great to hear to remind me to be super careful when going on a new date from communities like these - and also that there is a certain safety in sticking with reputable providers on a board like this to make sure it's safe...... if it ain't safe....it ain't fun.... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2021 On 7/13/2021 at 7:26 PM, hornyoldtoad said: i want to blame BP for these but we all know the truth... more times than i can remember the big head engages the little head and makes a clear case for exiting stage left as the gal behind the door i believed each time could be the mother of the gal in the pics - and the little head won out and i just validated the behavior...seemed to happen a lot in TX pre sesta fosta fosta sesta yadda yadda... a few times and i can remember the famous 'i am independent and date in a private residence' only to show up to a seedy place and encounter another man"ager" there... i'm sure if i set forth to really reminisce, this list would grow... thanks for sharing all - sounds like everyone made it out ok and these stories are great to hear to remind me to be super careful when going on a new date from communities like these - and also that there is a certain safety in sticking with reputable providers on a board like this to make sure it's safe...... if it ain't safe....it ain't fun.... Mr OTG TOB has a pretty good track record for safety in my opinion and I agree with its good that we all made it out of those awkward situations. Those reputable beauties and those reputable gents both deserve an "ENCORE". Thank you for sharing as well.................. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2021 Savoir Faire....I just remembered a bait and switch...... well it was more like a scam, but felt like gents here could possibly relate or give similar stories. I was first starting in the hobby and came across Erotic Monkey. I signed up for a free account and started browsing. I found myself intrigued by a curvy Latina. I contacted her and started texting. We set up a time, she gives me the location, I think we're good to go! Wrong! Guess how she wanted to be paid?! Gift cards! First big red flag....... but I didn't know that at the time and was clueless.....I was thinking with my second head. "She" is very polite and checks in to see if we are still on and asking about my ETA, etc. I get to the location and I'm given a unit and room. But........ before she will see me, she wants me to scratch the back of a gift card and send her a photo of it. (I can see everyone shaking their head now). I do, like an idiot..... she asks me to scratch another card and send the photo...... after the first card, I started to clue in......I texted back that I don't like being scammed. This "lady" was very smooth.... kept saying she would open the door when I sent all the pictures, kept making excuses, etc. I noticed that the door to the unit had been damaged(this has happened to other guys). I left. The "lady" kept texting and asking what went wrong? "Don't you want to see me?!" I finally had to block this person's number because they kept texting me...... they never broke character though...... got to hand it to them. I have learned much since then. And I am truly grateful for this site and the members. Hopefully I am now wise enough to not have that happen again. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2021 I have had one bait and switch. My own fault, I never did my homework well enough. I have had several sessions where the provider was not exactly what I had hope, or appeared to be. In some cases they just really disappointed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2021 Bait and switch make my boots walk away. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2021 Lived in Canada for 17 years. It was well known that most of the Asian providers were B&S. I had firsthand experience a couple of times before I just gave up on contacting Asians. Fortunately, nothing too bad. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 I fell for this lady on my second or third outing - later learned that the pic was "borrowed" from pornstar Tj Hart Had a reasonably fun time regardless, but I was a little disappointed that the bad teacher wasn't the one I had driven hour for .... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 I've encountered bait and switch a few times. Sometimes my big head does all the thinking and I walk away. A few times the little head is in control and I have regretted the etitre encounter. The B & S is why I am so cynical about Backpage, Eros, RubRatings, etc. ladies. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 On 7/22/2021 at 10:52 PM, Steve Rogers said: Savoir Faire....I just remembered a bait and switch...... well it was more like a scam, but felt like gents here could possibly relate or give similar stories. I was first starting in the hobby and came across Erotic Monkey. I signed up for a free account and started browsing. I found myself intrigued by a curvy Latina. I contacted her and started texting. We set up a time, she gives me the location, I think we're good to go! Wrong! Guess how she wanted to be paid?! Gift cards! First big red flag....... but I didn't know that at the time and was clueless.....I was thinking with my second head. "She" is very polite and checks in to see if we are still on and asking about my ETA, etc. I get to the location and I'm given a unit and room. But........ before she will see me, she wants me to scratch the back of a gift card and send her a photo of it. (I can see everyone shaking their head now). I do, like an idiot..... she asks me to scratch another card and send the photo...... after the first card, I started to clue in......I texted back that I don't like being scammed. This "lady" was very smooth.... kept saying she would open the door when I sent all the pictures, kept making excuses, etc. I noticed that the door to the unit had been damaged(this has happened to other guys). I left. The "lady" kept texting and asking what went wrong? "Don't you want to see me?!" I finally had to block this person's number because they kept texting me...... they never broke character though...... got to hand it to them. I have learned much since then. And I am truly grateful for this site and the members. Hopefully I am now wise enough to not have that happen again. Mr Rogers don't feel bad, this particular scam happens quite often. I have had a few of them attempt this type of act but I can safely say, I recognized the scam early and just moved right along to someone else............Sorry for replying so late, my plate is always full.......................... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 10 hours ago, lintlizard said: I fell for this lady on my second or third outing - later learned that the pic was "borrowed" from pornstar Tj Hart Had a reasonably fun time regardless, but I was a little disappointed that the bad teacher wasn't the one I had driven hour for .... LL did the one that answered the door look somewhat like this woman? If you had a fun time, I am guessing she must have been descent looking. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 26 minutes ago, ilovewomen said: I've encountered bait and switch a few times. Sometimes my big head does all the thinking and I walk away. A few times the little head is in control and I have regretted the etitre encounter. The B & S is why I am so cynical about Backpage, Eros, RubRatings, etc. ladies. ILW do you care to share any of your bait and switches? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 On 11/9/2021 at 3:39 PM, coloradoguy75 said: I have had one bait and switch. My own fault, I never did my homework well enough. I have had several sessions where the provider was not exactly what I had hope, or appeared to be. In some cases they just really disappointed. CG believe it or not, you can do your homework and still encounter a bait and switch. Example: I saw this sexy blonde girl. She posted her pics, had a website and reviews. I went to see her and sure enough, this girl answered the door. We had a great time. Wrote her a review and I have seen her a few times since then. Well this other member went to see her as well, yet when the door opened it was another girl and not her. The girl that answered the door was hot but she wasn't the girl that the other member came to see. So sometimes, you can do everything possible and this type of thing can still happen. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 20 hours ago, JRWolfe said: Bait and switch make my boots walk away. Bait and switching is all a part of the game.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 34 minutes ago, Savoir Faire said: Bait and switching is all a part of the game.... On rare occasions the switch is truly a great encounter, only rarely. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 13 minutes ago, wglide2003 said: On rare occasions the switch is truly a great encounter, only rarely. Glide I must agree with you. I have politely declined each one of my bait and switches that I have encountered. Each bait and switch LOL developed a MAJOR ATTITUDE as a result of me leaving. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2021 1 hour ago, Savoir Faire said: Glide I must agree with you. I have politely declined each one of my bait and switches that I have encountered. Each bait and switch LOL developed a MAJOR ATTITUDE as a result of me leaving. One time only one, my appointment was ill and had a friend come in to take the appointment, She was a doll and we had a regular relationship for a year or two. She since retired. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 10 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: Bait and switching is all a part of the game.... Best way to discourage ŕepeat business. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 11 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: LL did the one that answered the door look somewhat like this woman? If you had a fun time, I am guessing she must have been descent looking. Yes, she was a mature blonde, and good looking I actually see her posting on TOB occasionally, but now using her real pics. I never did visit her again though, probably because I felt a bit of a burn from the initial visit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 It only happed once to me. A beautiful Caucasian gal was advertised but she ended up being a black gal. That was ok with me as she was so attractive and built. She was terrific. Not sure what happened behind the scenes. I was pleased do didn’t ask. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 On 11/11/2021 at 8:10 AM, wglide2003 said: On rare occasions the switch is truly a great encounter, only rarely. Glide I am routing for a great encounter if I happen to run into another bait and switch. I pretty much think I am safe when I stick with TOB................ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Skg said: It only happed once to me. A beautiful Caucasian gal was advertised but she ended up being a black gal. That was ok with me as she was so attractive and built. She was terrific. Not sure what happened behind the scenes. I was pleased do didn’t ask. SKG I am glad your encounter was a good one. I have had a similar encounter like you. A Hispanic girl was advertised but when I showed up it was a black girl. She assured me she was the girl on the pics but she forgot the girl on the pics had small nipples and skinny lips. Her nipples were thick/chocolate and her lips were full. I only left because she lied............................. Edited November 12, 2021 by Savoir Faire word left out 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 17 hours ago, lintlizard said: Yes, she was a mature blonde, and good looking I actually see her posting on TOB occasionally, but now using her real pics. I never did visit her again though, probably because I felt a bit of a burn from the initial visit. LL I know the feeling. All in all, at least she wasn't too far off from the advertisement. LOL you did okay compared to the woman I was going to see being a hottie, yet when I showed up it was an Asian male dressed in woman's clothing with ATTITUDE............. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2021 18 hours ago, JRWolfe said: Best way to discourage ŕepeat business. Believe it or not, some guys will stay. I am not knocking the guys that choose to stay by any means, I just don't care for the bait and switch gals developing ATTITUDES when clearly they know why you are leaving/refusing.................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 13, 2021 On 11/11/2021 at 7:26 AM, Savoir Faire said: ILW do you care to share any of your bait and switches? I was in Chicago on business and looking at Backpage. Saw a good looking (white) woman with a 720 area code and thought “Alright. This will be good.” Rate was only $200 for an hour of companionship. I arrived in a very sketchy neighborhood and wondered if I should even park. I did. Went up to her door and a good looking black woman answered the door. I thought “why not” so I entered. It went downhill from there and I felt lucky to have gotten out of there without getting hurt. Cost me $500 for that one. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 14, 2021 10 hours ago, ilovewomen said: I was in Chicago on business and looking at Backpage. Saw a good looking (white) woman with a 720 area code and thought “Alright. This will be good.” Rate was only $200 for an hour of companionship. I arrived in a very sketchy neighborhood and wondered if I should even park. I did. Went up to her door and a good looking black woman answered the door. I thought “why not” so I entered. It went downhill from there and I felt lucky to have gotten out of there without getting hurt. Cost me $500 for that one. ILW jeesh, I am glad you made it out in one piece. I wonder if you were on the South side of Chicago? Good old backpage LOL. I definitely had some fun on that site. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
