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Being New Sucks

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3 hours ago, Plot said:

She deleted her profile.  It seems I am unable to leave a review because of a lack of an alternative website

How convenient.  Another guy who has been here a year, never made an appointment posting a generic woe is me post to garner sympathy to substitute for lack of references OR to fire a shot across a lady's bow (better do what I said or I will ruin you - check board) and when pressed for even basic details and asked to submit a review - gosh, can't.  This well known lady with several reviews has just poof!! - vanished.  Sorry, not buying.

I can understand the confusion on how does he do that from someone that never does, so here goes.

All the system asks for is ANY web link that will help identify which lady it is for sure - say she is one of the five hundred Nikki's, Lexi's etc.  So her profile here is gone - OK hypothetically say it is.  If she had several reviews I guarantee a google search of her handle and her contact information (surely you know how you got in tough with her) will generate SOME website she is on, even if just some lame "escort busts" site.  Use that link in the review.  Pretty simple.

What this whole thread points out is that it might be helpful if it does not pose risks to the board to allow a check box for NCNS in reviews.  Barring that if it says "unknown" about the only two things besides "recommend?" and that one says "no" I think most of us can figure it out.

1 hour ago, *Merlin said:

And how will he do that?

 

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I’m not garnering anything,   I didn’t post her name.  I think the research tip is helpful, but I think the tip on research is helpful, and I will try that.  But sympathy in lieu of references?   I have seen clearly that ladies on here will either see s newbie or won’t.  My post on here won’t, not was it intended to, change that.  Thanks for your input, though.

2 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

How convenient.  Another guy who has been here a year, never made an appointment posting a generic woe is me post to garner sympathy to substitute for lack of references OR to fire a shot across a lady's bow (better do what I said or I will ruin you - check board) and when pressed for even basic details and asked to submit a review - gosh, can't.  This well known lady with several reviews has just poof!! - vanished.  Sorry, not buying.

I can understand the confusion on how does he do that from someone that never does, so here goes.

All the system asks for is ANY web link that will help identify which lady it is for sure - say she is one of the five hundred Nikki's, Lexi's etc.  So her profile here is gone - OK hypothetically say it is.  If she had several reviews I guarantee a google search of her handle and her contact information (surely you know how you got in tough with her) will generate SOME website she is on, even if just some lame "escort busts" site.  Use that link in the review.  Pretty simple.

What this whole thread points out is that it might be helpful if it does not pose risks to the board to allow a check box for NCNS in reviews.  Barring that if it says "unknown" about the only two things besides "recommend?" and that one says "no" I think most of us can figure it out.

 

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@Plot  --  You would post a review but you won't post her name ? ? 

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The copied piece below was pretty undeserved I think.   I haven’t threatened anyone. I am fully aware that providers will either see or won’t see a newbie.   My post wouldn’t change that.  I haven’t slandered anyone tried to post a name or anything else.  I guess it would be better for us new guys to shut up and leave the board posts to you old veterans.   I did nothing wrong, and I don’t appreciate the insinuations that I did.  

 

 

“How convenient.  Another guy who has been here a year, never made an appointment posting a generic woe is me post to garner sympathy to substitute for lack of references OR to fire a shot across a lady's bow (better do what I said or I will ruin you - check board) and when pressed for even basic details and asked to submit a review - gosh, can't.  This well known lady with several reviews has just poof!! - vanished.  Sorry, not buying.”

pretty harsh for someone who doesn’t know me.  I’ve been on here for over a year and have never had a bad thing to say about anyone.

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I’m sorry this happened to you and hope you have fantastic encounters moving forward.  

This part of our lives should be fun and free of stress. 

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3 minutes ago, Laci French said:

I’m sorry this happened to you and hope you have fantastic encounters moving forward.  

This part of our lives should be fun and free of stress. 

I appreciate that

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40 minutes ago, Plot said:

pretty harsh for someone who doesn’t know me.  I’ve been on here for over a year and have never had a bad thing to say about anyone.

Well, first as far as the old timers beating up the newbies thing, if you have paid any attention during your year here you would have noticed i try regularly to welcome and assist newbies of both genders.  But I have a low tolerance level for bullshit, and that is precisely how the "I would post a review but can't" line.struck me.  If/when I see the review (and rebuttal if any lol) I will issue you a public ass kissing and sincere apology. Hell, I will even give you a conditional one now - if your motives and intentions were golden and your experience was for real as presented I am sorry that happened to you and sorry I jumped your case and hope you do better next time.  But it has NOTHING to do with being new - happens to guys who have been here a long time too.  And happens to the ladies too, just part of the deal unfortunately. 

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Saying that originally would have been much better received.   I’m trying to get another website link, so I can post a review.  If nothing else, I’ve learned to save that website info, just in case.   Thanks for hearing me out.

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If there is an admin who could help me out, I would appreciate it.

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2 hours ago, Blaze said:

@Plot  --  You would post a review but you won't post her name ? ? 

Just a note;

Conversation exchanges needs to stay general in scope with No mentioning of names.

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I broke into this over ten years ago also, almost before the convenience of craigslist and when you could find a few ads in the Independent. Whatever happened to "the Dollhouse"?  "Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat." TR

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1 hour ago, Kaduk said:

Just a note;

Conversation exchanges needs to stay general in scope with No mentioning of names.

I deliberately didn’t post a name because I didn’t think I should here.

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Well, I decided to take all your advice and booked another date for tonight.   Wish me luck.

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4 cancels this week! It really sucks for us ladies guys! 🙁 both ends it hurts having your time waisted! 

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43 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

4 cancels this week! It really sucks for us ladies guys! 🙁 both ends it hurts having your time waisted! 

One no show today and yesterday. Very frustrating and rude.  Have respect all and text or call. There is plenty of technology to communicate. 

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Best of luck Pilot !

I will usually give a new date, the benefit of doubt, up to about 30min. As long as she is communicating with me. Past that, I would suggest possibly rescheduling for another day. But, don't chase after her, to reschedule the date. 

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Different provider, Skylighter

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I figured as much. But, was just saying for future reference. 

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2 hours ago, Zelda Runner said:

One no show today and yesterday. Very frustrating and rude.  Have respect all and text or call. There is plenty of technology to communicate. 

What sucks even more is I do verify. 

Once again here is another cancel. I am very frustrated right now! 🙁

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9 minutes ago, Skylighter said:

I figured as much. But, was just saying for future reference. 

I’m a quick study...thanks

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4 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

What sucks even more is I do verify. 

Once again here is another cancel. I am very frustrated right now! 🙁

Hugs and come have a glass of wine! 

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6 minutes ago, Zelda Runner said:

Hugs and come have a glass of wine! 

Awe thank you Zelda the thought alone sounds great! Sitting right in the entrance of my home in my nightly. Honestly at this point I don’t even care!😣 the air feels great!😘

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3 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Awe thank you Zelda the thought alone sounds great! Sitting right in the entrance of my home in my nightly. Honestly at this point I don’t even care!😣 the air feels great!😘

Cheers it is a gorgeous evening in Denver. 

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3 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

4 cancels this week! It really sucks for us ladies guys! 🙁 both ends it hurts having your time waisted! 

Idea 💡 

why don’t you and the Gentleman who started this thread get together 😎

just a thought 😇

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9 hours ago, gr8owl said:

Barring that if it says "unknown" about the only two things besides "recommend?" and that one says "no" I think most of us can figure it out.

I’m sorry, I’m stuck on stupid. I don’t see making a recommendation is a review.

He who recommended many ‘no’ may effect his future appointment opportunity. :confused:

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3 hours ago, Skylighter said:

I figured as much. But, was just saying for future reference. 

I’m a quick study...thanks

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Stood up again.  No call no show.  How many no recommendations can I post before you ladies won’t respond to me?

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Mustang says it best.  Stick it out and things will get better.  A lot of great providers here.  You miss 100% of all the baseballs you don't swing at.  Keep trying.  Perseverance is the key.

Happy Hobbying!

BR

 

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