Next time you bitch about getting screened...

[Guest]

Remember that THIS is always a fear in the back of our minds.

[Guest]

If someone "bitches" about being screened, that should be a red flag. Move on and don't see him. It works like this: either you give me the information I ask for or you move on. End of story.

[Guest]

If someone "bitches" about being screened, that should be a red flag. Move on and don't see him. It works like this: either you give me the information I ask for or you move on. End of story.

Amen!

[MAG]

Remember that THIS is always a fear in the back of our minds.

Can you explain how screening could help you avoid guys like that?

[MAG]

Amen!

I don't recall ever hearing about any "bitching" from guys. Several men here have simply stated that they won't give out any personal info. That's not bitching, that's just common sense.

Based on the rankings of a few hookers here lately, I'd say it's a wise philosophy. There's no bitching needed - ask me for my name, and the next thing you'll hear is a dial tone.

[Bit Banger]

How does an experienced client get taken for a ride? He books with a TGTBT provider. (20 something hottie on BP for $150/hr)

How does an experienced escort get taken for a ride? She books with a TGTBT client. (willing to pay 5X std rate for a first visit)

Both of these situations may be avoided with proper screening.

Edited March 12, 2015 by Bit Banger
Symmetry

[Guest Kashmir]

So, no posting a visiting ad in Australia. Got it.

[fork]

Sad that they have to bother with this. It's legal in some parts of Australia. I had some good times there!

[Guest]

Yeah I was going to say....in Sydney there was a whole brothel area when I was back out there.

[Guest]

This isn't in the US so doesn't directly apply. But this stuff honestly makes me angry. A bunch of women shipped over here against their will and forced to do things? Sure. Knock yourself out. But the crap out of that. But women who are advertising for themselves and completely independent offering service to normal guys looking to have some fun? You damn well better have solved every other crime that's been committed before you spend my tax money on that. You get the guy who stole my car stereo last year? Didn't think so.

Better yet, get LE, who clearly have nothing else to do, to screen guys. Pop by the office and say hi, then call the lady and report "seems legit". That could actually prevent something terrible from happening.

I can't imagine what it's like being a woman, waiting for a guy you've never met to show up. Then that knock on the door. I'd go white as a sheet and break out in a cold sweat. I honestly don't know how you do it.

[fork]

Better yet, get LE, who clearly have nothing else to do, to screen guys. Pop by the office and say hi, then call the lady and report "seems legit". That could actually prevent something terrible from happening.

I always thought Canada had the best system. It's been a while so it may be different now, but 15 years ago in Toronto the outcall escorts would check in at the front desk of the hotel. The desk would ring your room and ask if he could send her up. Net result: someone knows what's going on. But no questions asked or funny looks given. Safer for all involved.

[Guest]

I can't imagine what it's like being a woman, waiting for a guy you've never met to show up. Then that knock on the door. I'd go white as a sheet and break out in a cold sweat. I honestly don't know how you do it.

i'd say because i don't have much of a soul to speak of and i enjoy men, sex, and money. i also like the whole nsa aspect of my job. nobody gets hurt and to me it has always been about having fun. living in the moment..

[socutesocurvy]

I love in the article the author asks about how to apply for this job then notes, "for a friend." lol

[2Big]

. It works like this: either you give me the information I ask for or you move on. End of story.

Lol. Keep dreaming, girl. As I've said many times before, most girls don't screen. And rightly so. Because, if they did, they'd be making $10 a year profit. Instead, they use common sense.

[Big unit]

Now if that job was like a professional restaurant reviewer instead of a fucking NARC, my ass would move to the land down under!

[Guest]

most girls don't screen. <snip>they use common sense.

Not screening=common sense? FAIL!

[Guest]

Lol. Keep dreaming, girl. As I've said many times before, most girls don't screen. And rightly so. Because, if they did, they'd be making $10 a year profit. Instead, they use common sense.

When I first started working in "Denver" (not when I first started hooking)

I was newbie to Denver, I did not know shit about being a hooker outside of a brothels. I posted up, got 100's of calls everyday. If someone called me, I asked them for there name, when are we meeting? That was it, I clearly didn't know jack crap about screening, never heard of it. I was taught to be the best at what I want, don't be a bitch to the guys who pay for services, they can get a bitch right at home. There was another provider here in Denver who later started calling me for references asking me guys I seen before. I didn't realize she was screening. She never told me anything about screening.

It wasn't until _ *_* _showed up to take my pictures, I was answering the phone just telling the guys where I was, what time to be here. They sure showed up.

I never screened them. _ _ _ was in shock after listening to me on the phone. ;)lol _ *_* _ was kind to me, _ *_* _gave me good advise, never treated me as if I was stupid, _ *_* _ knew I had no awareness about screening at all. But she lead the way for me. While being friends with the other girl... she never bothered to tell me hey.. you should screen your clients.

2big is 100% right "most girls" do not screen. Because think about how many girls don't give references, or girls will play games while a references is being sought out. "I never seen him" lol a bunch of bullshit...A

2big is 100% right about girls would make less money if they screened. This is statement based on fact.

Screening can lead to both good and bad relationships. Some girls don't like sharing clients. Its a fact, not all girls are like this. But some are.

Its best if you use other screening methods, so no body knows who I am seeing.

I love p411... If I ever get busted well I don't a give shit. I clearly understand the consequences. That is what my lawyer is for. Now with that being said, I would like to avoid any trouble I can and leave it at that.

Not screening=common sense? FAIL!

Destiny is 100% right By not screening one can experience consequences

Such as getting robbed, more likely to get NCNS, not knowing who's really showing up, But I will be honest... Iv only had two really bad experiences in all the years iv been hooking and both where screened.

Screening is important for girls to be and feel safe. That I understand.

However, with that being said....girls are getting ruthless, don't give a fuck. Innocent people are suffering consequences over bullshit. This I have experienced. I know of others who have as as well. Now, I no longer feel the same after what has happened to me.

If you fly by the seat of your pants... your taking a risk.

Even if you screen your still taking a risk its just a lower percentage, less pay.

[Guest]

I don't recall ever hearing about any "bitching" from guys. Several men here have simply stated that they won't give out any personal info. That's not bitching, that's just common sense.

Based on my personal experience I AGREE 100%.

ask me for my name, and the next thing you'll hear is a dial tone.

That was you...lol You ve called me... just playing After what has happened to me. If I was John I would never give any hooker my personal information.

[Happymon]

Remember that THIS is always a fear in the back of our minds.

Definite upgrade on a Wal-Mart greeter.

[Guest pejo]

Remember that THIS is always a fear in the back of our minds.

I tried really really hard to read the article. But I got distracted:

[boink36]

I don't recall ever hearing about any "bitching" from guys. Several men here have simply stated that they won't give out any personal info. That's not bitching, that's just common sense.

Based on the rankings of a few hookers here lately, I'd say it's a wise philosophy. There's no bitching needed - ask me for my name, and the next thing you'll hear is a dial tone.

There is never a need to bitch about screening. give her all the hobby only information she wants. if she starts asking for personal information, quietly hang up the phone and call the next name on your list.

[Guest]

if she starts asking for personal information, quietly hang up the phone and call the next name on your list.

Maybe the new hasn't worn off my new toy, but in less than a week of having a P411 account, I have a list longer than I'll get through in two years.

I'll say it again, since it can't be said enough. There are F A N T A S T I C providers here who don't require much in the way of info. Find two of them. Ask them for references. Use those to get your P411 account approved without giving them any personal info at all.

Say it with me.

Hobby phone. Hobby email. Two references. You're the invisible man.

[FatDog]

So, no posting a visiting ad in Australia. Got it.

you win the internet today.

[2Big]

This is your all-access pass:

[boink36]

This is your all-access pass:

2Big how did you get a picture of my drivers license??

[Bit Banger]

Ben's friends Andrew & Ulysses can also be of assistance. Alex, Abe, Thomas, & George not so much, but they're still acceptable.

[Flanker]

How does an experienced client get taken for a ride? He books with a TGTBT provider. (20 something hottie on BP for $150/hr)

How does an experienced escort get taken for a ride? She books with a TGTBT client. (willing to pay 5X std rate for a first visit)

Both of these situations may be avoided with proper screening.

Another facet to this gem of a topic, is that I did provide my name to a provider some time back as a part of being screened and she then tried to blackmail/extort me and when I wouldn't cave she outed me with all my personal information she used to "screen" me. She was a well known provider here too at the time. Just goes to show it can to either way for both John and ASP.

[MrReindeer-9515]

Another facet to this gem of a topic, is that I did provide my name to a provider some time back as a part of being screened and she then tried to blackmail/extort me and when I wouldn't cave she outed me with all my personal information she used to "screen" me. She was a well known provider here too at the time. Just goes to show it can to either way for both John and ASP.

Funny, as I recall(and verified with the original posts), at the time there was no mention of "blackmail"...just you getting outed on NBL for, ostensibly, acting like a tool who couldn't respect someone's boundarys.

[Bit Banger]

My recollection is that those boundaries involved writing a review that was less than FANTASTIC. Though I may have the wrong client/provider pair.

[Flanker]

Funny, as I recall(and verified with the original posts), at the time there was no mention of "blackmail"...just you getting outed on NBL for, ostensibly, acting like a tool who couldn't respect someone's boundarys.

Same old Mr. Reindeer. The outing happened first and after I was told not to discuss on this TOB I was unable to tell "the rest of the story". This circles back to the OP's point of bitching. There you go.