I could use some advice...

[CrawDaddy32]

I called a girl a little over a week or so ago and we set up a time for later that night at my place, only she never showed. When I texted her to ask if she was ok and still planning on coming, she never responded. I have to admit, I was a little sketched out by the experience... I'd be totally cool if she just gave me a heads up that it was not going to happen, no explanation needed. But it was a little weird just sitting there wondering if she was going to show up.

Anyway, out of the blue a couple of days ago, I got a text from her saying she felt bad the other night, and she wanted to set up a new time to get together. I thought that was incredibly nice, but I couldn't figure out if it was a good idea to set something up again or not... I'm not sure what to do here. I think she's incredibly attractive, and she seems very nice and very sincere, but I'm having a hard time getting over the no-show.

If anyone has any opinions or suggestions to share, please do so! I would be most grateful. Feel free to tell me I'm being a giant baby about this too, thats a perfectly respectful position to take and its one that I'm kind of thinking of adopting myself. Thank you in advance!

[VirgilBliss]

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[MAG]

I called a girl a little over a week or so ago and we set up a time for later that night at my place, only she never showed. When I texted her to ask if she was ok and still planning on coming, she never responded. I have to admit, I was a little sketched out by the experience... I'd be totally cool if she just gave me a heads up that it was not going to happen, no explanation needed. But it was a little weird just sitting there wondering if she was going to show up.

Anyway, out of the blue a couple of days ago, I got a text from her saying she felt bad the other night, and she wanted to set up a new time to get together. I thought that was incredibly nice, but I couldn't figure out if it was a good idea to set something up again or not... I'm not sure what to do here. I think she's incredibly attractive, and she seems very nice and very sincere, but I'm having a hard time getting over the no-show.

If anyone has any opinions or suggestions to share, please do so! I would be most grateful. Feel free to tell me I'm being a giant baby about this too, thats a perfectly respectful position to take and its one that I'm kind of thinking of adopting myself. Thank you in advance!

Kick her to the curb.

She obviously doesn't consider you or your time to be valuable, so why give her another opportunity to mess with you?

There are many incredibly attractive women available who won't waste your time. Pick one of them.

[juanduh]

If she felt bad she would have already taken care of you. Sounds more like she needed the next john (you) to finish up her weekly monetary quota. Give her a shot just don't be dissappointed if she no shows.

[juanduh]

I once had a ASP call me out of the blue at 7:00am asking if she could come over becuase she stood me up last night.I said NO and went back to sleep.

[Guest]

Kick her to the curb.

She obviously doesn't consider you or your time to be valuable, so why give her another opportunity to mess with you?

There are many incredibly attractive women available who won't waste your time. Pick one of them.

I actually agree with this statement; as harsh as is is. If this was your first time with an escort you should have done an in call appointment. If it was a very well reviewed lady, try and work things out, if it was a BP, fly by night girl write a review and learn from your mistakes. However, I will say this....things are way more sketchy in Denver than here in the Springs. Here, an out call to a residence is a no brainer, it's golden even if the guy is a newbie. Well, at least for me it is. If you feel like giving this young lady another chance, do an in call. If you do an out call to your place with a lady who is not reputable, well you run the risk of everything you experienced and then some. At least on her turf you are safe from knowing where you live, and everything that could happen.

Sadly, you just never know. One bad apple, ruins the bunch. A lot of ladies work hard for our reputations, and it's the ding dongs that make things much harder for us

[Real Colorado Guy]

There's so many things to think & go with this.

My opinion is if you really want to see her then do so. I personally only would if her reason was/is a good one. Hopefully if she feels bad she will give you a good time & maybe compensation with extra time or something. I'm not saying it's required but it would be considerate. I have 2 ladies offer this to me. Unfortunealy, one is retired so I doubt if I will be able to redeem on that & the other I've been trying to schedule with for awhile but I don't want to push it with her because I don't want to come off bad. Hopefully she'll remember without me mentioning it. ;-)

But otherwise the are other great ladies to see & not give you any more brain damage.

[Guest Mr.Bubble]

The good ones don't do this.

My .02: She didn't show up because her driver/pimp was in the slammer.

Now that she's had time to case the neighborhood.......and her pimp is out on bond......she's ready for a go at you. Expect this session to cost FAR more than the advertised rate. Make sure your health insurance covers broken bones and knife wounds.

Seriously.....I have met maybe 2 of these ladies often enough that I would trust them to come to my home. Not saying the others were bad....I just didn't know them well enough. I simply do not understand why ANYONE would have an outcall to their home on the first meeting. Go get yourself a hotel room!

[pfunk]

There are two valid reasons for someone to no-show, and not call.

1) unconscious

2) dead

Unless #1 was the reason for her standing you up, I suggest you stop communicating with her, and find someone who wants to accept your money when you offer it.

Good Luck!

[NaughtyNiceGuy]

+1 ..... her gang wasn't available on your scheduled date but are now ready to go. Have her come over asap.

[pitbull]

Run screaming from this woman. And how do you know if she is "incredibly attractive" if you have never met?

[geecue2]

I called a girl a little over a week or so ago and we set up a time for later that night at my place, only she never showed. When I texted her to ask if she was ok and still planning on coming, she never responded. I have to admit, I was a little sketched out by the experience... I'd be totally cool if she just gave me a heads up that it was not going to happen, no explanation needed. But it was a little weird just sitting there wondering if she was going to show up.

I would pass on her.

[Keyser Soze]

Never ever do business with an ASP who calls or texts you out of the blue, unless you're in a personal situation where that can't cause you a serious problem. Even then, it's super flaky behavior, unless you explicitly told her it was OK to do that.

It always amazed me that some girls do this kind of thing, given that probably 90% of their clients are married.

Short version: she sounds like bad news.

[Paul Pudenda]

If she'll see you for free, then by all means go for it. That's the least she could do for the inconvenience she caused.

But by not calling or giving you a heads up, she's a LOSER - I wouldn't expect a "happy ending."

[Velvet Valentine]

I agree with Melissa. She NC/NS you, didn't let you know, then had the nerve to contact you out of the blue days later to come back? Wasn't feeling well? Why couldn't she call you to cancel?

So, did she just sober up? PASS and write a review.

[inkspot]

Stay away. Show her the same respect she showed you.

This is a no brainer.

[Bit Banger]

Run, Forrest, run!

[csm007]

If anyone has any opinions or suggestions to share, please do so! I would be most grateful.

Obviously, you like this girl very much. So, go ahead and give her another chance. I bet you $500 that she'll do the same thing to you again at some point. This SP may have overbooked and just threw you under the bus. Some excuses that I have had from a girl that I visited when I went out of town last year:

1) phone destroyed while she chased her dog which chased another dog (LOL)

2) appt at the vet took longer than expected and forgot to bring phone

3) forgot phone at home and need to turn around

4) dog has a medical emergency

Mind you, this girl was not NC/NS but just very late (up to 3-h) and would never answer text or call up to 3-h after appointment time has passed. She probably overbooked and pushed my appt back.

if I kept seeing this girl, I am not sure what kind of creative "dog" stories I would get. Perhaps, I can't come now because I am having sex with my dog.

After a couple of incredible stories, I got tired of the dog stories and stopped seeing this girl altogether.

[Guest]

My policy has always been to move on unless a pretty believable excuse comes forward quickly. I can allow for some occasional issues which can cause an appointment to be canceled, but if there isn't a quick follow up with a believable story, I have better places to spend my time. Time & companionship is a business. It needs to be treated like one. Thsi one sounds like a "move on" to me.

[lola]

question? what is "incredibly nice" about her calling to ask for business the next day? and you never said what reason she gave you for not calling.

i have never nc/ns but i had to cancel once 5 min before and i felt so terrible that the next one was gratuito. still see him.

oh and i dont have a dog but i forgot my phone at home TWICE and had to turn back when i realized it.

i really support you if you decide to move on.

[Guest]

I called a girl a little over a week or so ago and we set up a time for later that night at my place, only she never showed. When I texted her to ask if she was ok and still planning on coming, she never responded.

This is oftentimes a fairly common young girl behavior, in my experience. If she's under maybe like 23 you might just reschedule, and once you meet again just calmly explain in a kind yet authoritative tone tone hey, that was inconsiderate, and if you do it again, I won't see you again.

If she's older, guess what, she's immature and not yet considerate of others feelings. You can decide if you want to deal with it or not.