Posted June 13, 2014 Of late I've been hobbying simply to fulfill fantasies...3 somes, awesome titty fuck/Russian, cute young blonde etc etc. I don't just need to get laid, I'm after something specific (service, looks etc). Why do you hobby? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 Because it's never enough. I go to night clubs, run down bars, I pick up women at the gym, work, the grocery store, where ever I can. On nights I can't find a woman the conventional way I get an escort. I actually make myself sick. Last night I almost did something really awful, but managed to stop myself. That was the first time in a while that I've been able to do that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 Last night I almost did something really awful Don't leave us hanging -- we want details! It will help the rest of us feel better about the awful things we HAVE done... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 Because it's never enough. I go to night clubs, run down bars, I pick up women at the gym, work, the grocery store, where ever I can. On nights I can't find a woman the conventional way I get an escort. I actually make myself sick. Last night I almost did something really awful, but managed to stop myself. That was the first time in a while that I've been able to do that. Woah...if u want to get something off your chest or discuss in private, feel free to PM me...sounds heavy 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 What's Tinder? I know I can Google it, but want a hobbyists perspective on it... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 Because it's never enough. I go to night clubs, run down bars, I pick up women at the gym, work, the grocery store, where ever I can. On nights I can't find a woman the conventional way I get an escort. I actually make myself sick. Last night I almost did something really awful, but managed to stop myself. That was the first time in a while that I've been able to do that. Don't be a dick and confess your sins. I started just because I wasn't getting laid. Then it kind of grew into some sort of mental thing in my head about filling the void in my heart with lots of sex. I eventually got over it now I hobby to see only the hot sexy chicks. Like girls I can't get in really life. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2014 Why do you hobby? I like variety. Older, younger, big, little, etc. I like meeting new girls. I don't like additional relationships (I have a great one, yay!). For the NSA stuff, I'll stick to the pros. This ^^^^ is is big factor. I don't want to become infatuated with anyone, or have anyone latching on to me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2014 Plain and simple it was to loose the stupid v-card that had been built up in my head as being such a big deal, yes it was a big deal, and it still is but at least it is done with,some of you guys are most likely gonna laugh or make fun of that fact, but whatever. How long will I do this for, i have no idea. But i am done with different young ladies, I'm sticking to a select few, This is kinda off topic but anyways, I feel old but I'm only 28, now I do it just for experience and trying out different girls. I have basically never dated girls, no actual girlfriend, so sad but I want to change that, which is really strange because I love everything about Women ever since i was young. Finding women to date at my age is much harder than i thought it was going to be. My perspective on the types of women i thought i liked has really changed too because of this, such as it is really funny how i always thought i liked DD fake tits, blond hair, blue eyed women, But in reality this has changed. I no longer look at these girls the same , i idolized them because of this, don't get me wrong i'm sure most are very nice and are great people. I can tell you it has helped with my confidence, I will walk up to any girl and say hi now, before this i would of just walked past, regardless if i liked her on not. One thing i did not expect to happen was to actually talk to the girls about the industry and their personal lives. Sometimes we talk for 30 minutes, which i guess you could say is another reason i like this, just getting to meet a new person is fun to me, yea the adult activities are nice but its not the be all and end all , This might sound stupid but it was the best thing i have ever done. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2014 Plain and simple it was to loose the stupid v-card that had been built up in my head as being such a big deal, yes it was a big deal, and it still is but at least it is done with,some of you guys are most likely gonna laugh or make fun of that fact, but whatever. How long will I do this for, i have no idea. But i am done with different young ladies, I'm sticking to a select few, This is kinda off topic but anyways, I feel old but I'm only 28, now I do it just for experience and trying out different girls. I have basically never dated girls, no actual girlfriend, so sad but I want to change that, which is really strange because I love everything about Women ever since i was young. Finding women to date at my age is much harder than i thought it was going to be. My perspective on the types of women i thought i liked has really changed too because of this, such as it is really funny how i always thought i liked DD fake tits, blond hair, blue eyed women, But in reality this has changed. I no longer look at these girls the same , i idolized them because of this, don't get me wrong i'm sure most are very nice and are great people. I can tell you it has helped with my confidence, I will walk up to any girl and say hi now, before this i would of just walked past, regardless if i liked her on not. One thing i did not expect to happen was to actually talk to the girls about the industry and their personal lives. Sometimes we talk for 30 minutes, which i guess you could say is another reason i like this, just getting to meet a new person is fun to me, yea the adult activities are nice but its not the be all and end all , This might sound stupid but it was the best thing i have ever done. Not stupid at all, Brett. We all come here for different reasons, and there are many men in your shoes, probably more than you can imagine. Hell, there are women in your shoes. Your reason for hobbying is just as valid, moreso actually than others -- my dad lost it to a pro when he was in the Navy during the Korean War. They had a stopover in some exotic port and he "got it over with." Incidentally, Alfred Hitchcock did not lose his virginity until the age of 25. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2014 The sex in my relationship has been close to nonexistent for many years now. If that were not the case, I would not consider the hobby. I would greatly prefer my woman, but I have to adjust based on current realities. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2014 Plain and simple it was to loose the stupid v-card that had been built up in my head as being such a big deal, yes it was a big deal, and it still is but at least it is done with,some of you guys are most likely gonna laugh or make fun of that fact, but whatever. How long will I do this for, i have no idea. But i am done with different young ladies, I'm sticking to a select few, This is kinda off topic but anyways, I feel old but I'm only 28, now I do it just for experience and trying out different girls. I have basically never dated girls, no actual girlfriend, so sad but I want to change that, which is really strange because I love everything about Women ever since i was young. Finding women to date at my age is much harder than i thought it was going to be. My perspective on the types of women i thought i liked has really changed too because of this, such as it is really funny how i always thought i liked DD fake tits, blond hair, blue eyed women, But in reality this has changed. I no longer look at these girls the same , i idolized them because of this, don't get me wrong i'm sure most are very nice and are great people. I can tell you it has helped with my confidence, I will walk up to any girl and say hi now, before this i would of just walked past, regardless if i liked her on not. One thing i did not expect to happen was to actually talk to the girls about the industry and their personal lives. Sometimes we talk for 30 minutes, which i guess you could say is another reason i like this, just getting to meet a new person is fun to me, yea the adult activities are nice but its not the be all and end all , This might sound stupid but it was the best thing i have ever done. I always talk about hitting the jackpot on BP and finding really cool providers(just not lately), I wonder if providers feel the same way about some johns. Like when a younger, good looking, well off, super nice guy greets them and it's just like 'DING DING DING', or if it's just another session that they just suffer through. Seems like this guy is a decent candidate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2014 I hobby because I can and I enjoy it. Not too complicated for me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 15, 2014 I hobby because I can and I enjoy it. Not too complicated for me. Wow Abrenly you just completely mind fucked me. So simple yet so simple. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2014 I like variety. Older, younger, big, little, etc. I like meeting new girls. I don't like additional relationships (I have a great one, yay!). +10000, I coudn't have said it better myself pfunk. Like Sealy once told me, "we all need a little strange, once in awhile" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 16, 2014 To my surprise , I discovered I have a penis . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2014 How does that old saw go about a dog & his balls? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2014 After 35 years of monogamy and steadily diminishing sex, my sex drive could no longer be denied. When I discovered this world 3.5 years ago, Backpage followed by P411/EB, I felt like a kid in a candy shop, and after hundreds of encounters, I still do. Simply put: I love women, especially how they look, taste, smell, sound and feel. I love developing relationships and I love the infinite variety. I will hobby and enjoy the magnificence available for as long as I can. In my work I see constant sickness and death. The end ain't pretty, so I enjoy life each day. And there isn't anything that makes me feel happier about being alive than touching, laughing, and having sex with a beautiful, passionate woman. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2014 Why do you hobby? Well let's see - because it is FUN??? I kinda just fell into it, literally, (I had my first encounter in DC a number of years back) and have enjoyed it ever since! Like biking, golf, gambling, scotch and cigars - just enjoying the moment! If it feels good - why not? oh - don't forget to have fun! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 17, 2014 I hobby because I can and I enjoy it. Not too complicated for me. That is so true! And I always enjoy a glass of wine and a great conversation with a beautiful lady. Lately though I have run over on time because we were having great discussions! But made up for it by booking another hour so we could have fun! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 18, 2014 I hobby because I've been single for 6 years and civilian dating is just too much time and energy. I am a very busy woman and the men I dated in my civilian life were very demanding of my time and couldn't seem to understand that I was not interested in being in a serious long term relationship. For me hobbying is having my cake and eating it too since it has allowed me the time to focus on the things I want such as completing my fitness instructor certification and going back to grad school. There is no demand for a relationship and we both are enjoying our time spent together. What more could a girl ask for really? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 18, 2014 My wife lost interest in sex post-menopause, but we have an otherwise great life, so I have no interest in forming any other relationships. I was walking along one day thinking of all the things I will never do again (due to age) and thought, "and I will never make love to a beautiful young woman again." This was more depressing than you can possibly imagine! Later it occurred to me that this is not entirely correct -- I may have to pay for it, but I still can have sex with beautiful young women. BTW, I have also found, to my delight, that I can have sex with beautiful not-so-young women, and they are even more fun! In other words: because it is more fun than anything else I could be doing! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 19, 2014 My wife likes to go at 2-4 times per year and I have a much stronger libido than that. She actually added to her rejections a few times that I'm welcome to find someone else to do that with if that's just what I need (semi-jokingly). I took her up on it but I still keep it a secret. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2014 off topic, but I'm really curious about this. in your early years or marriage was it much more frequent, because I think if i get married, i don't think i will ever want to stop, I really have an insight into why there is a demand for this hobby. My wife lost interest in sex post-menopause, but we have an otherwise great life, so I have no interest in forming any other relationships. I was walking along one day thinking of all the things I will never do again (due to age) and thought, "and I will never make love to a beautiful young woman again." This was more depressing than you can possibly imagine! Later it occurred to me that this is not entirely correct -- I may have to pay for it, but I still can have sex with beautiful young women. BTW, I have also found, to my delight, that I can have sex with beautiful not-so-young women, and they are even more fun! In other words: because it is more fun than anything else I could be doing! My wife likes to go at 2-4 times per year and I have a much stronger libido than that. She actually added to her rejections a few times that I'm welcome to find someone else to do that with if that's just what I need (semi-jokingly). I took her up on it but I still keep it a secret. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2014 Years of marriage verses frequency 0-5 2-3 times a day 5-10 2-3 times a week 10-+ 2-3 times a month 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2014 I like variety. Older, younger, big, little, etc. I like meeting new girls....... Plus I can indulge my fantasies! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2014 off topic, but I'm really curious about this. in your early years or marriage was it much more frequent, because I think if i get married, i don't think i will ever want to stop, I really have an insight into why there is a demand for this hobby. Yeah, it was more frequent earlier on. I admit, though, 2-4 times per year might be exaggerating a bit. Every time it does happen, it's because I put the effort into making it happen. If I didn't, I think my wife could just never have sex again and not even realize it. Years of marriage verses frequency 0-5 2-3 times a day 5-10 2-3 times a week 10-+ 2-3 times a month That's fairly accurate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 21, 2014 because I think if i get married, i don't think i will ever want to stop, You won't but she will. Stay single, getting married is just not worth the hassle. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
