Posted March 31, 2012 Why are most guys terrified of other mens' cocks? A lot of men do not want to even be in the same room with another (naked) penis. What's up with that? What is the phobia all about? Some men act like seeing another penis is like pouring acid in their eyes. Half of the world's population have penises but most individual men are totally freaked out by other mens' penises. Looking at another man's penis does not make you gay (even though there is nothing wrong with being gay, I am half gay myself). I guess I will never understand this. Those of you that have "Oh no! Not another man's penis!" phobia, can you please explain to me why? We will leave "sword crossing"to another thread... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2012 not me trains are fun idk y but whenever a women is into to gang bangs it gets pretty cray. Idk if i could do a dp or dv tho. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 I actually don't run into this phobia often. I've done lots of GB's with DV and DP and I guess in those situations, it's just expected, so there's not a lot to get nervy about. I think the guys know what to expect there. In any other setting, I don't thinks it's been an issue either, though I'll have to double check the mental filing cabinet to recall for certain. Weird though Destiny, you really run into these guys? In all seriousness, I'm asking. It's just not something I've come across (pun intended) in a very long time. ETA- this is not at all what I thought this post was going to be about LOL 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 The only "another dick in the room" rule I'm familiar with is the bathroom rule: "Never look another man in the eye when he's waterin' the corn dog." It's not that I'm askeered of other guys dicks. Just not interested, I guess. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 You are right. In the instance of a gang bang or a double penetration situation, all parties must be comfortable in order for the event to properly unfold. And all parties would be in agreement and understanding before the fun was to unfold. I don't necessarily "run in to" these types of guys. I guess it was more of a generalization. I actually don't run into this phobia often. I've done lots of GB's with DV and DP and I guess in those situations, it's just expected, so there's not a lot to get nervy about. I think the guys know what to expect there. In any other setting, I don't thinks it's been an issue either, though I'll have to double check the mental filing cabinet to recall for certain. Weird though Destiny, you really run into these guys? In all seriousness, I'm asking. It's just not something I've come across (pun intended) in a very long time. ETA- this is not at all what I thought this post was going to be about LOL 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 Why are most guys terrified of other mens' cocks? Beats me. I've sucked a cock here and there (well, just here, really ... not sure how I'd suck it there). It's more fun when a woman's present, and pussy is more to my taste, but cock's fun now and then if it's friends messing around, something different and all No regrets. No phobias. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 Why are most guys terrified of other mens' cocks? A lot of men do not want to even be in the same room with another (naked) penis. What's up with that? What is the phobia all about? Some men act like seeing another penis is like pouring acid in their eyes. Half of the world's population have penises but most individual men are totally freaked out by other mens' penises. Looking at another man's penis does not make you gay (even though there is nothing wrong with being gay, I am half gay myself). I guess I will never understand this. Those of you that have "Oh no! Not another man's penis!" phobia, can you please explain to me why? We will leave "sword crossing"to another thread... Destiny imagine if you will, that a dick is a high voltage wire. when insulated, these wires are no problem. in close proximity uninsulated wires can spark and cause fire. if these wires touch it can shock, burn, and even cause death. wires in the same room should always be insulated. PS. this thread is gay. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 yep, i'm one of those guys! have a friend very interested in dp and she asked me if i was interested. as hot as dp maybe, just couldn't go there! dunno, call me silly being wierded out being that close to another guys junk......... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 (edited) speaking strictly for myself (but i suspect on behalf of a number of other guys as well) that's why i exclusively watch g/g porn. if i want to see a cock and hairy balls, all i got to do is look down. the fascination for me is all about the mystery and allure of how other half looks below the waist. as a boy growing up in the '60s with 3 older brothers, the message i got loud and clear was that anything about some other guy's cock was strictly his business and none of mine. in junior high when i first encountered gang showers in gym class, it was a psyche-scarring experience, but something that social decorum demanded be endured with the utmost of disinterest and NOT the slightest hint of penis envy, lest even the faintest expression of homophobia would reveal a mask of deep-seated homoerotic tendencies, much less that the slightest interest in or fascination with another guy's cock would confirm it. it didn't help any that i was also on the wrestling team, which is another story altogether. nope, i'm all about the pussy. just the thought of double-teaming a woman from the same end of her anatomy and the prospect of ball-on-ball contact or penis-to-penis sabre-rattling makes my cock limper than elton john's wrists. not that i've ever experienced a doggie/bj double-team, but that image doesn't affect me one way or the other as long as all 3 get what they want and none of what they don't. plus, i can't imagine watching another guy fucking a woman in person. it just strikes me as creepy and weird and unnaturally wrong - like beastiality (dog-fucking) or cutting a hole in a watermelon and fucking it (fruity-fucking) or any number of aberrant and deviant expressions of sexual perversion that keeps rick santorum up nights worrying about. with apologies to the p.c. crowd out there, that's just fucked up in my book but hey if your partners are cool with it, far be it from me to want to pass or enforce a law against it. of course, you should realize that my little diatribe here should be interpreted as wreaking with the full measure of sarcasm and satire that i intended, not taken in the slightest bit seriously and for fuck's sake don't flame my sorry ass over it for another dozen posts. Edited April 1, 2012 by urfan correction and clarify 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 Not scared, I just don't find guys very attractive and I think dicks are just plain goofy looking. If I'm going to be in a room with a naked person I'd rather it be with a woman that I am attracted to. I won't freak out if there is another one in the room. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 :)Urfan, I absolutely loved your post. I had heard that about boys locker rooms. So, satire or not,teen-age angst is tough when you are living through it. With us girls it was tit size, aand of course we had many discussions on who was a virgin , whho was not.. So I find it believable about boys not wanting anyone to spring the dreaded word "homo" or "queer",etc. in the same sentence with their name. Good thread Destiny. I will admit, I have PENIS ENVY! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 Scare me? No. But totally out of place and distracting and weird, yes. I think I could participate in a MFM and enjoy it, but I imagine it would take a little time & effort to get over the shock of the other cock in the bed 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 First, a post about a guy sucking his own dick. Now this about how men feel about other mens' cocks. Let's face it: Inside Destiny is a gay man waiting to come out. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1, 2012 Ive found that guys who are secure with their sexuality have no issue with it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Just afraid that where there is cock there is unwashed ass!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Or worse, a titty twisting genital biting vampire 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Ive found that guys who are secure with their sexuality have no issue with it. Just because I don't want some dude's junk waving around in front of me, this makes me "insecure"? Ima call bullshit on this one. I'm very secure in my heterosexuality, and this is why I don't want someone dangling his nutsack in my face. If you want your boyfriend to suck someone else's dick, go right ahead, it's a free country. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Then why such protestation? If you were as secure as you try to convince yourself you are , you wouldn't care and you'd be concentrating on the lady in the room. Ima call insecure ++++ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Just because I don't want some dude's junk waving around in front of me, this makes me "insecure"? Ima call bullshit on this one. I'm very secure in my heterosexuality, and this is why I don't want someone dangling his nutsack in my face. If you want your boyfriend to suck someone else's dick, go right ahead, it's a free country. Wait, aren't you the guy who loves anal sex, and thrills to "gladiator" style TV shows, with semi nude men fighting? And aren't you always claiming to be the expert on how to spot transexuals? Things that make you go hmmmm. (By the way, I'm secure in my sexuality, whether it's homo, or hetero. A believe a man is a man, gay, straight, or in between.) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Am I the one who starts all these threads about some gay stuff? I don't care who you fuck: girl, boy, goat, gerbil. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Then why such protestation? If you were as secure as you try to convince yourself you are , you wouldn't care and you'd be concentrating on the lady in the room. Ima call insecure ++++ Why don't I come around and wave my junk around in your face? If it's all the same to you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 I guess I am not afraid as I am comfortable in my sexuality... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 I don't care who you fuck: girl, boy, goat, gerbil. You are going to do WHAT !!!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 (edited) Ive found that guys who are secure with their sexuality have no issue with it. No doubt there are such guys and you have met some. However, personal sexual security is unrelated to preference. Edited April 2, 2012 by Happymon clarity is my inspiration 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 I'm not a-skeered! I know who I am and my sexuality. I don't have a problem with it. Same thing with ass play. I know who I am. Ass play doesn't mean I'm gay. Not that I have a problem with homosexuality. Everyone deserves to feel good, be happy and cum! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 2, 2012 Nah.....that don't scare me. I'm actually looking forward to my 1st DP experience with a provider, one of these days. .....just no male contact ('cause homie don't play wit da boyz) . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2012 oh man 2b, ur 2 funny. i only pray that destiny's a gay man in a woman's body! just like i think i'm really a lesbian trapped in a man's body - lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 3, 2012 Not scared of his junk, just do not want to see it. I am not scared of Brussel sprouts, just don't want to eat them. I have no problem tasting my own jiz, by kissing post BJ or eating post coitus, but I don't want to taste another guys. I don't want to have another man tugging my balls while I am "in the saddle", but I have no problem watching another man riding the same filly - live or on video. I watch porn, never MM but MMF, DP, FF, MF even some tranny porn but don't care for TM preferring TF (somehow that is really hot!) I have never sucked a cock, mine or anyone else (but I would suck mine if I could) I have never had the uncomfortable locker room vibe. But then again I have always been comfortable with myself. I have never paid attention to another guys gear, grooming, size shape etc... I simply do not care. Homophobe? I suppose. But I have no issue with gay men. I simply don't care. I will not impose my beliefs on them, please do not impose yours on me. That is how I feel about it. I do not wish to share the same end of my date with another guy at the same time. I really do not wish to share her at all - he can wait his turn. But I do think I could be part of one of those gang bang - cum all over her face scenes. I just do not want to touch another dudes cock, or taste his jiz. But that is just me, to each their own. DBL out 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
