BigBaldBlk

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  1. Posted · Edited by BigBaldBlk
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    On 4/19/2024 at 5:04 PM, Western ~P said:

    how long you think ‘later’ is? i thought i wanted to buy now but w those interest rates, i have decided against buying now 

    I know they recently bumped to 7% but if anyone keeps waiting for interest rates to drop below 5%, the equity you could accumulate NOW will more than offset the higher rate.  I purchased my first home in 2000 and the interest rates were at 9%.  They were double-digits a few years prior.

    Side note, if you can get solar panels, that too will add value now and future.

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    6 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

    What you do is buy now and refinance when they go down, it’s a buyers market so take advantage of that, why pay someone’s mortgage 

    Absolutely correct.  Buy now and refinance later, especially as housing continues to increase monthly.   Other markets that don't have our growth can delay, but along cities near the I-25 & I-70 corridor, I'd buy sooner than later!

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    On one front, shitty so far with three deaths of family and friend's with it only being the 11th.  Too upbeat to wallow, looking forward to a better 2024 and beyond!

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    I have to agree with the gents above.  Your request is very reasonable, but if it doesn't confirm to what the lady wants, it doesn't matter how reasonable it is.  Some ladies want to talk, some text, emails, deposits etc.  It's up to gents to make the ladies feel comfortable in seeing them.  If it doesn't work for you (or them), then move on, or wait until you have your day off and see if she's available.

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    Depends on what you mean 'High Profile'.  Some ladies will show their faces while others do not due to their own comfort level.  If you're referring to their number of reviews, one of the reasons (to me) they are high profile is that they know what they are doing with regards to screening, availability etc.  There's always a chance that a provider can out you, but conversely, YOU could do the same, but more importantly, harm them in some way.

    This is supposed to be fun and if your spidey senses are tingling, maybe do more research on said lady/ies

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    If guy #1, #2, #1001 knew about it and either party discussed beforehand, I'd say it was roleplay.  If they didn't know beforehand and the wife wasn't into it at all even with coaxing from hubby, it's awkward to me and I'd have to go in the NOT camp.

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    On 12/21/2022 at 10:45 AM, BigBaldBlk said:

    This topic has been discussed several times like here and here, but still brings back fond memories.  Agree with @coolhand luke about Jae/Birdie and @geecue2 regarding Megan, Abigail and Justina.  I'd like to add Lauren Alexis, SophiaDDD, Destiny, Melissa Sterling & Kyla Young.  Ladies that moved away I miss are P of Denver and Naomi Michaels.

    Thank you @Seeking ~P-1761 for chiming in! :rolleyes:  Also, forgot to mention Chloe Bloom

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    I think most guys feel awkward about posting a negative review, but ... your post is actually a pretty good review of your experience.  All that's missing is the ladies name.   If she is an established provider she'll want to make it right, if what you say is true.  If her perception/truth is different than yours, if posting a review is still an option, she'll have a chance to rebut like previously stated.  Definitely appears communication was lacking on her part.

    The fact she reached out before your time together and then didn't respond until after you left would piss me off and would be tough for me to want to book with her again. To me, there's no benefit of posting a review.  

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    I'm a usually a pretty upbeat person so don't think I have many pet peeves.  What I do see frequently is ... 

    "Treat her with respect" as @BaldPilot said.

    "Sorry, No AA"  You're not sorry, you just don't see AA guys.

    "I really don't want to write this review as I want to keep her to myself"  If you really felt this way, (and she's in agreement) become a SD or put a ring on it

    "Age is X" and has been X for the past 10+ years

    "Guys who whine about giving too much of their personal information to providers who have over 100+ reviews"  Are YOU going to be the person she decides to flip on vs the other gents she's seen for years?

    "Gents adamant about not paying deposits"  Either pay them and see the lady or don't pay them and don't see the lady.

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    @SultryKitten very insightful and well written.  To the OP, I think Samantha hit on most of the national sites, but there are several local sites that may yield results.  I don't know them all, but others would include: ECCIE, TNABoard, EscortAlligator, OurHome2 and others.  If you play locally, TOB, P411 and the national sites are probably best to peruse.  If you travel, then find out what 'their' TOB board is.  Good luck!

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