Our wild animals? This is so sad!

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

11 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

I can see your perspective on this and hopefully you can see mine which is, where else can someone make cheddar like yours for making us smile? All about supply and demand, this is the same cart before the horse found in any and every employment dynamic. Who needs who? Is it the chicken? Or the egg? The answer is yes.

But actually, TOB is one of those places where providers who, presumably using hobbyist cheddar to keep the lights on, call the shots. And that's OK! From a hobbyist's perspective, we get to purvey the world's best candy for our next delight 24/7 and only pay upon delivery. What could possibly go wrong?

The problem that is, not all candy is sweet. Some of it, like @Caressa Duval and to her defense, a few others as well, is sour, bitter, break your effin teeth, rip the esophagus, hard to swallow. And therein lies the rub. Starting with this thread, in which she resorted to childish name calling to handle a respectful, dissenting opinion, take a look at her activity and notice how meaningless if not vile her contributions are overall. Much like this thread, a Usual Suspect doesn't like or understand a contrarian view, no matter how respectful, and that's all she wrote. Now surely my participation doesn't fit the mold but rarely, if ever is it vile and then only to give better, or worse than I got.

The good news is most of you are ladies in the truest sense of the word who don't live in the trash bin these forums can be, given the wrong input. Thank you for that.

Correction: the vast majority of you are ladies...

[gr8owl]

51 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

I can see your perspective on this and hopefully you can see mine which is, where else can someone make cheddar like yours for making us smile? All about supply and demand, this is the same cart before the horse found in any and every employment dynamic. Who needs who? Is it the chicken? Or the egg? The answer is yes.

But actually, TOB is one of those places where providers who, presumably using hobbyist cheddar to keep the lights on, call the shots. And that's OK! From a hobbyist's perspective, we get to purvey the world's best candy for our next delight 24/7 and only pay upon delivery. What could possibly go wrong?

The problem that is, not all candy is sweet. Some of it, like @Caressa Duval and to her defense, a few others as well, is sour, bitter, break your effin teeth, rip the esophagus, hard to swallow. And therein lies the rub. Starting with this thread, in which she resorted to childish name calling to handle a respectful, dissenting opinion, take a look at her activity and notice how meaningless if not vile her contributions are overall. Much like this thread, a Usual Suspect doesn't like or understand a contrarian view, no matter how respectful, and that's all she wrote. Now surely my participation doesn't fit the mold but rarely, if ever is it vile and then only to give better, or worse than I got.

The good news is most of you are ladies in the truest sense of the word who don't live in the trash bin these forums can be, given the wrong input. Thank you for that.

I only call you a pathetic piece of shit troll because that is indeed exactly what you are although it may be unfair to shit everywhere because shit is after all necessary to life.  This whole little whine fest from you was started by ...... YOU, by bumping a month and half old thread simply to indulge in your favorite pastime of trashing one provider with whom you seek to manufacture a fake vendetta and somehow prove your wit and value.  What you are doing is out and out harassment and if the mods allow it to stand it will answer the question of why the place is such a desert these days.  It was a far better place during your little "hiatus." The only vile contributions are yours troll boy and they are as predictable as the little birds to Capistrano.

[gr8owl]

1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

The population of ladies has never been large.  That’s typical of all the escort discussion boards I’ve participated in over the last 30 years. TOB has one of the more resilient female contingents.

Bit, you know as well as I there used be a far larger number of participants, both clients and providers alike.  It was very common to have a dozen new threads per day, now we have been known to go a day or two without a single POST let alone enjoyable thread.  The reasons are numerous but being constantly put down and harassed by Stinky Feet certainly does not make participation very inviting, and the lack of many speaking up about it is not either.

[gr8owl]

9 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Block him @gr8owl  he is not worth your breath! 

Thank you, Kali and I understand your point.  I have largely ignored the idiot since his return but ignoring and blocking him does not stop his bullying and harassment of ladies just trying to operate a business and occasionally trying to contribute on forum.  Some things have to be called out.  Thanks for being a positive participant.

Edited August 29, 2023 by gr8owl
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[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

23 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Bit, you know as well as I there used be a far larger number of participants, both clients and providers alike.  It was very common to have a dozen new threads per day, now we have been known to go a day or two without a single POST let alone enjoyable thread.  The reasons are numerous but being constantly put down and harassed by Stinky Feet certainly does not make participation very inviting, and the lack of many speaking up about it is not either.

Stinky Feet? What are you, 12? Grow the fuck up "man".

[E.J.England]

1 hour ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

I can see your perspective on this and hopefully you can see mine which is, where else can someone make cheddar like yours for making us smile? All about supply and demand, this is the same cart before the horse found in any and every employment dynamic. Who needs who? Is it the chicken? Or the egg? The answer is yes.

But actually, TOB is one of those places where providers who, presumably using hobbyist cheddar to keep the lights on, call the shots. And that's OK! From a hobbyist's perspective, we get to purvey the world's best candy for our next delight 24/7 and only pay upon delivery. What could possibly go wrong?

The problem that is, not all candy is sweet. Some of it, like @Caressa Duval and to her defense, a few others as well, is sour, bitter, break your effin teeth, rip the esophagus, hard to swallow. And therein lies the rub. Starting with this thread, in which she resorted to childish name calling to handle a respectful, dissenting opinion, take a look at her activity and notice how meaningless if not vile her contributions are overall. Much like this thread, a Usual Suspect doesn't like or understand a contrarian view, no matter how respectful, and that's all she wrote. Now surely my participation doesn't fit the mold but rarely, if ever is it vile and then only to give better, or worse than I got.

The good news is most of you are ladies in the truest sense of the word who don't live in the trash bin these forums can be, given the wrong input. Thank you for that.

You know all I have is my Word & Rep. I go ABOVE & Beyond, my clients can speak for that. As other providers I can't speak on or entertain anything against them. I wish everyone well and Good Vibes.

 

As far as keeping the lights on, well baby my mom raised a Woman. Not my only source of income...

I respect everyone opinions. Kisses Down Low 💋

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

11 minutes ago, E.J.England said:

You know all I have is my Word & Rep. I go ABOVE & Beyond, my clients can speak for that. As other providers I can't speak on or entertain anything against them. I wish everyone well and Good Vibes.

 

As far as keeping the lights on, well baby my mom raised a Woman. Not my only source of income...

I respect everyone opinions. Kisses Down Low 💋

Yes, she did . Based on your input, I believe you're here because you like sharing that sugary, chocolate cake.

Aware this is not the only source of income for many, the "lights on" comment was meant to acknowledge providers pay to be here, not hobbyists. Enjoy your day sweets.

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

I only call you a pathetic piece of shit troll because that is indeed exactly what you are although it may be unfair to shit everywhere because shit is after all necessary to life.  This whole little whine fest from you was started by ...... YOU, by bumping a month and half old thread simply to indulge in your favorite pastime of trashing one provider with whom you seek to manufacture a fake vendetta and somehow prove your wit and value.  What you are doing is out and out harassment and if the mods allow it to stand it will answer the question of why the place is such a desert these days.  It was a far better place during your little "hiatus." The only vile contributions are yours troll boy and they are as predictable as the little birds to Capistrano.

Finally, I see how you think! So, I sought out an old post from someone I have no problems with to find a provider whom I haven't and wouldn't see to take out a vendetta using wit I don't have because, like little birds to Capistrano, shit is after all necessary to life?

OH BOY!

Strangely, none of my part in that is true but, dude! Are you off your meds or is that frontal lobe just taking longer to cook?

Edited August 29, 2023 by Hobby Hobbit

[Caressa Duval]

2 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

I can see your perspective on this and hopefully you can see mine which is, where else can someone make cheddar like yours for making us smile? All about supply and demand, this is the same cart before the horse found in any and every employment dynamic. Who needs who? Is it the chicken? Or the egg? The answer is yes.

But actually, TOB is one of those places where providers who, presumably using hobbyist cheddar to keep the lights on, call the shots. And that's OK! From a hobbyist's perspective, we get to purvey the world's best candy for our next delight 24/7 and only pay upon delivery. What could possibly go wrong?

The problem that is, not all candy is sweet. Some of it, like @Caressa Duval and to her defense, a few others as well, is sour, bitter, break your effin teeth, rip the esophagus, hard to swallow. And therein lies the rub. Starting with this thread, in which she resorted to childish name calling to handle a respectful, dissenting opinion, take a look at her activity and notice how meaningless if not vile her contributions are overall. Much like this thread, a Usual Suspect doesn't like or understand a contrarian view, no matter how respectful, and that's all she wrote. Now surely my participation doesn't fit the mold but rarely, if ever is it vile and then only to give better, or worse than I got.

The good news is most of you are ladies in the truest sense of the word who don't live in the trash bin these forums can be, given the wrong input. Thank you for that.

I would like everyone to know that Hobbit has quoted or tagged me 5 times in the past several days. Digging up old posts I have made, and then visiting my profile when I have ignored all his hateful words. This is cyber-stalker behavior!  Hobbit has never me. He knows nothing about me. I do hope the powers that be, will stop forum posters from verbally attacking women.  I will be saying Good Bye now to the forum. No one needs this negativity in their lives.

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

4 hours ago, Caressa Duval said:

I would like everyone to know that Hobbit has quoted or tagged me 5 times in the past several days. Digging up old posts I have made, and then visiting my profile when I have ignored all his hateful words. This is cyber-stalker behavior!  Hobbit has never me. He knows nothing about me. I do hope the powers that be, will stop forum posters from verbally attacking women.  I will be saying Good Bye now to the forum. No one needs this negativity in their lives.

Afraid to now because cyber-stalking 🤣 , not because that's what it is there for, I cannot remember the last time I visited your profile, Twitter, nada Duval so, stop making trouble that doesn't exist and, bye! Don't let the door hit ya anywhere the good lawd split ya! 😀

[MrReindeer-9515]

20 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

Afraid to now because cyber-stalking 🤣 , not because that's what it is there for, I cannot remember the last time I visited your profile, Twitter, nada Duval so, stop making trouble that doesn't exist and, bye! Don't let the door hit ya anywhere the good lawd split ya! 😀

That’s interesting, because according to the records, it was last Thursday.🧐

[gr8owl]

6 minutes ago, MrReindeer-9515 said:

That’s interesting, because according to the records, it was last Thursday.🧐

He is not even good at lying

[gr8owl]

33 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

Afraid to now because cyber-stalking 🤣 , not because that's what it is there for, I cannot remember the last time I visited your profile, Twitter, nada Duval so, stop making trouble that doesn't exist and, bye! Don't let the door hit ya anywhere the good lawd split ya! 😀

You don't lie well, don't even troll well.  Yes, cyber stalking is the polite wording for it.  Harassment is another word for it.  Only you causing trouble where it does not exist. That's right ................... that's what you are good at - stirring up bs.  I almost forgot.

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

58 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

You don't lie well, don't even troll well.  Yes, cyber stalking is the polite wording for it.  Harassment is another word for it.  Only you causing trouble where it does not exist. That's right ................... that's what you are good at - stirring up BS.  I almost forgot.

This week alone I feel as though I have been run sort of crazy torture machine. And no.  it was not  the Hobbit. It was someone else who seriously has it out for me in my life. I blocked them both because my focus was becoming seriously distracted. You do know that I as well as the majority of all these lovely ladies have worked their tail feathers off to get where we are in life. I also like to believe that most of us provide excellent service to our clientele. I am also going through something called d Sauter and returns, return which happens right before you turn 60. I am 58 now and I’ll be 59 in April. so it’s really important for me to keep my focus and this is why I am blocking certain people that have hurt me. I appreciate the gentlemen  that look look out for us you being  white Knights are important! Consider it a honor to be called that! All the rest of the world looks down on us. It’s important to have those who know how valuable we are to a community. To be our friends.   https://rachellangastrologer.com/horoscopes/2019/8/15/saturn-return-the-start-of-a-new-chapter  (Information on Saturn Returns)

[Admiral C]

Isn't someone supposed to post a guy with popcorn meme right about now? 

[sparkey600]

On 7/17/2023 at 1:44 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

My eyes are killing me! Hope you can get what I wrote?! Sorry if not. 

Yes, it's all good!

[sparkey600]

14 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

Correction: the vast majority of you are ladies...

Your DICK is showing again.

Didn't we have a nice talk about that a few weeks ago?

Hope you are doing well and having fun!

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

21 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Isn't someone supposed to post a guy with popcorn meme right about now? 

Where have you been hiding? 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

16 hours ago, sparkey600 said:

Your DICK is showing again.

Didn't we have a nice talk about that a few weeks ago?

Hope you are doing well and having fun!

Wishing we had a giggle button to hit!

[Admiral C]

47 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Where have you been hiding? 

I would not say I have been hiding......just not following the board. I trust and hope you are well?

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

1 hour ago, Admiral C said:

I would not say I have been hiding......just not following the board. I trust and hope you are well?

 

1 hour ago, Admiral C said:

I would not say I have been hiding......just not following the board. I trust and hope you are well?

Think I double quoted you! I am doing well. Covid test came back negative. Very surprised to see you pop up again welcome back! 

[Bit Banger]

On 8/29/2023 at 10:24 AM, gr8owl said:

Bit, you know as well as I there used be a far larger number of participants, both clients and providers alike.  It was very common to have a dozen new threads per day, now we have been known to go a day or two without a single POST let alone enjoyable thread.  The reasons are numerous but being constantly put down and harassed by Stinky Feet certainly does not make participation very inviting, and the lack of many speaking up about it is not either.

Yes, TOB used to a much larger, more vibrant community.  I miss those days.  I suppose recent government regulations have chilled not only this board, but the industry as a whole (or driven it underground). We’re also an aging population with younger generations gracing newer platforms.  Much has changed since alt.sex.*

We’ve always had our share of trolls.  Remember 2Big, namdaed, to name a few.

[sparkey600]

8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Wishing we had a giggle button to hit!

Me too! Love you pretty lady, hope you are doing well!

[sparkey600]

5 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Yes, TOB used to a much larger, more vibrant community.  I miss those days.  I suppose recent government regulations have chilled not only this board, but the industry as a whole (or driven it underground). We’re also an aging population with younger generations gracing newer platforms.  Much has changed since alt.sex.*

We’ve always had our share of trolls.  Remember 2Big, namdaed, to name a few.

Remember Gandalf Black? I think Hobby Hobbit is one in the same. My opinion here. Same attitude. Same Lord of The Rings handle too.

[Admiral C]

On 8/30/2023 at 6:00 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

 

Think I double quoted you! I am doing well. Covid test came back negative. Very surprised to see you pop up again welcome back! 

Thanks for the welcome back. Perusing, I get the impression that the posting guidelines and moderation has been greatly relaxed since I was last reading\posting here. Not to the degree of the flame attacks and troll wars of 20ish years ago....but trending that way. Could be highly entertaining. Glad your test was negative. Those tests are not too selective, so the good news is, you likely don't have flu, RSV, etc. either.

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

9 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Thanks for the welcome back. Perusing, I get the impression that the posting guidelines and moderation has been greatly relaxed since I was last reading\posting here. Not to the degree of the flame attacks and troll wars of 20ish years ago....but trending that way. Could be highly entertaining. Glad your test was negative. Those tests are not too selective, so the good news is, you likely don't have flu, RSV, etc. either.

Going into the doctors today regardless. I am not getting better. Sucks! 😷 thanks for the support 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 8/31/2023 at 6:31 PM, Admiral C said:

Thanks for the welcome back. Perusing, I get the impression that the posting guidelines and moderation has been greatly relaxed since I was last reading\posting here. Not to the degree of the flame attacks and troll wars of 20ish years ago....but trending that way. Could be highly entertaining. Glad your test was negative. Those tests are not too selective, so the good news is, you likely don't have flu, RSV, etc. either.

Some crazy virus that is making it’s way around Denver. I am much better now. Thank you,  @Admiral C and yes as time continues, the fear is less around https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/FOSTA-SESTAnot sure where is things stand these days? The crack down was hard for sure!  As far as I know there was some talk about two weeks ago on here. Since then not much has been said about one of the founders of Backpage dying. I think that is what you are making reference too @Admiral C?

[Admiral C]

14 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Some crazy virus that is making it’s way around Denver. I am much better now. Thank you,  @Admiral C and yes as time continues, the fear is less around https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/FOSTA-SESTAnot sure where is things stand these days? The crack down was hard for sure!  As far as I know there was some talk about two weeks ago on here. Since then not much has been said about one of the founders of Backpage dying. I think that is what you are making reference too @Admiral C?

Actually, that is NOT what I am making reference to. I am literally talking about TOB 15-20 years ago. You were not here then. The forum was a constant blaze of flaming and attacks with probably a dozen or more regular "flame thrower" experts, and many others who would get drawn in. It makes spats on here nowadays look like nothing. 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

23 hours ago, Admiral C said:

Actually, that is NOT what I am making reference to. I am literally talking about TOB 15-20 years ago. You were not here then. The forum was a constant blaze of flaming and attacks with probably a dozen or more regular "flame thrower" experts, and many others who would get drawn in. It makes spats on here nowadays look like nothing. 

I was on this platform for a short while and then I left for a period of five years once I disappeared. 2002 through 2011. Returning again 2016. When I first started I did most of my advertising in the Oyster paper.  From about 2008 on for a period of time SoWet, Craig’s List, Back Page, and Right before I quit it was TOB. I remember many of the ladies I could name some really fun names! Funny thing I was probably a little less vocal back in those days. Kali of Denver and when I came back again I am  now Kali’s Sensual Reiki or Kali Sensual Reiki. Reiki Energy on P411. Kali S Reiki on Tryst.   Some ads I would not have a name back in those days when I first started. I was also working in the RW too. So I was not as vocal like I am now😉

[sparkey600]

On 9/6/2023 at 10:17 PM, Hobby Hobbit said:

Yeah, we did. I don't remember giving a rip though. Funny.

Let me put DICK away before you hurt yourself. Eyes here buddy!

I wish you the best.

And hope you can have fun and not hate so much.

Have a good evening!