Posted June 29, 2023 A married couple had a discussion about having kids but the husband was unable to have more kids because of a previous vasectomy surgery. He had a couple kids from a previous relationship and desperately wanted more with his new wife. Due to how long it had been since he had the surgery the doctors were not able to reverse it. The couple didn't want to go to a sperm bank so they decided on using the husband's adult son's sperm who he had from another relationship. The husband and wife felt that it would be the closest match/DNA to solve their problem. They successfully had another child which happened to be a female. 30 years go by and now the mother is asking for advice on whether or not she should reveal to their daughter that the man she thinks is her Father is actually her Grandfather and the guy she thinks is her Father is actually her Brother. And her Brother's children are actually her nephews/nieces instead of her cousins and so forth. What would you do in this situation, tell the daughter or keep it a secret? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 29, 2023 Genealogists will go crazy! I have an ancestress which married her brother-in-law after her husband died. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 29, 2023 Why turn the family situation into "Chinatown"? I always ask myself "before deliberately entering into conflict, what is the upside". 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 29, 2023 2 hours ago, Necron 99 said: Why turn the family situation into "Chinatown"? I always ask myself "before deliberately entering into conflict, what is the upside". I agree! Sometimes things are better unsaid. Disrupting a family is wrong and disturbing for all those involved! 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 29, 2023 I had a friend who found out that his ‘sister’ was really his mother when he was in high school. He continued to call her folks Mom & Dad. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 30, 2023 8 hours ago, Necron 99 said: Why turn the family situation into "Chinatown"? I always ask myself "before deliberately entering into conflict, what is the upside". Interesting comment, I'm curious when you say turn the family situation into a "Chinatown" what exactly do you mean? Are you referring to the film "Chinatown" where Faye Dunaway's character reveals her sister is also her daughter? Or are you making reference to Jack Nicholson (who plays Jake in the movie) who in real life discovered the women he thought was his sister was actually his mom. And the woman he thought was his mom was actually his grandmother. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 30, 2023 8 hours ago, Bit Banger said: I had a friend who found out that his ‘sister’ was really his mother when he was in high school. He continued to call her folks Mom & Dad. Jeesh..............................I couldn't imagine being in this person's shoes........................... 16 hours ago, Necron 99 said: Why turn the family situation into "Chinatown"? I always ask myself "before deliberately entering into conflict, what is the upside". If it were me in this situation, I would have NEVER agreed to using a family member's sperm PERIOD but I am guessing the guilt is getting to the Mother in this particular case. In this particular case, the upside is the daughter knowing the TRUTH that has been hidden from her for 30 years. She has a right to know the truth............................ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 30, 2023 (edited) 4 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: Jeesh..............................I couldn't imagine being in this person's shoes........................... If it were me in this situation, I would have NEVER agreed to using a family member's sperm PERIOD but I am guessing the guilt is getting to the Mother in this particular case. In this particular case, the upside is the daughter knowing the TRUTH that has been hidden from her for 30 years. She has a right to know the truth............................ Why is the "guilt" getting to the mother, because you are "guessing" it? It is NO ONE'S business how a family chooses to conceive offspring! Why are YOU so concerned about the "Truth"? Who are you to lay moral judgement on anyone Savior Fairy? This is an escort/client forum. Your topic is for a Maury Povich show. Seriously WTH. Edited June 30, 2023 by Caressa Duval 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 30, 2023 You have the wildest imagination 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 (edited) This is a truly f-ed up hypothetical. In this scenario, the husband and wife should both be bitch slapped! Not thinking far enough ahead to when the kid wants/deserves to know who his/her father is should automatically disqualify them from parenting. F-ING IDIOTS! The sad truth is, this (or something similar to it) has probably happened in modern society, and will leave some innocent kid with the burden of carrying heavy baggage around for the remainder of his/her life.... I repeat. the "parents" should be bitch slapped! HARD! Edited July 1, 2023 by lintlizard 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 17 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said: You have the wildest imagination Mom Wonders How To Tell Her 30-Year-Old Daughter That Her Father Is Actually Her Brother (msn.com) IMAGINE THAT.................. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 6 hours ago, lintlizard said: This is a truly f-ed up hypothetical. In this scenario, the husband and wife should both be bitch slapped! Not thinking far enough ahead to when the kid wants/deserves to know who his/her father is should automatically disqualify them from parenting. F-ING IDIOTS! The sad truth is, this (or something similar to it) has probably happened in modern society, and will leave some innocent kid with the burden of carrying heavy baggage around for the remainder of his/her life.... I repeat. the "parents" should be bitch slapped! HARD! Monsieur LL I agree that it is a messed up TRUE STORY LOL. Now you don't have to wonder if it happened before: Mom Wonders How To Tell Her 30-Year-Old Daughter That Her Father Is Actually Her Brother (msn.com) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 1 hour ago, 2Big said: TLDR Mom Wonders How To Tell Her 30-Year-Old Daughter That Her Father Is Actually Her Brother (msn.com) Read when you have time LOL......... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 On 6/29/2023 at 4:02 AM, Savoir Faire said: A married couple had a discussion about having kids but the husband was unable to have more kids because of a previous vasectomy surgery. He had a couple kids from a previous relationship and desperately wanted more with his new wife. Due to how long it had been since he had the surgery the doctors were not able to reverse it. The couple didn't want to go to a sperm bank so they decided on using the husband's adult son's sperm who he had from another relationship. The husband and wife felt that it would be the closest match/DNA to solve their problem. They successfully had another child which happened to be a female. 30 years go by and now the mother is asking for advice on whether or not she should reveal to their daughter that the man she thinks is her Father is actually her Grandfather and the guy she thinks is her brother is actually her Father. And her Father's children are actually her brothers/sisters instead of her nieces/nephews and so forth. What would you do in this situation, tell the daughter or keep it a secret? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 (edited) This is the edited version since TOB wouldn't allow me to do it before the time limit................If it were me, yes I am aware that it would cause CHAOS in the FAMILY but they should have thought about this before they decided to have another child, therefore I feel that the daughter needs to know THE WHOLE TRUTH............................My 2 cents.......... Edited July 1, 2023 by Savoir Faire 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 5 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: Mom Wonders How To Tell Her 30-Year-Old Daughter That Her Father Is Actually Her Brother (msn.com) Read when you have time LOL......... Well, damn. My bad, Monsieur Faire. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 1, 2023 13 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: Monsieur LL I agree that it is a messed up TRUE STORY LOL. Published stories aren't necessarily true. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 4, 2023 On 7/1/2023 at 5:37 PM, oldguy47 said: Published stories aren't necessarily true. OG47 you can say the same about POSTED TOB MEMBERS' COMMENTS............................You are more than welcome to go and RESEARCH this STORY LOL just make sure you SHARE the RESULTS............... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 4, 2023 On 7/1/2023 at 9:49 AM, Hobby Hobbit said: Well, damn. My bad, Monsieur Faire. Nods my head @ Happy Feet.......................... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
