Has anyone else experienced this?

[Bullseye73]

I’d like to start by saying that I really don’t want to hear a bunch of negativity, so if your response isn’t going to be constructive, please just pass me up.  About a year ago I saw a provider in the downtown Colorado Springs area from an STG ad.  I don’t do it often at all but I let her give me a BBBJ.  I ended up with some kind of infection but never was confirmed to be chlamydia or gonnhoria although doctors said the symptoms were sounding like that’s what I had, but the tests came back negative 3 times.  According to Google, it’s rare but possible to get those infections from receiving oral.  I shyed away from the hobby for a while after that.  I have since saw a couple “bucket list” providers but have been adamant that there is no BB.  Well I saw a provider a couple weeks ago and asked is she had the protection and she said yes.  However, she started to get started without it.  I stopped her immediately and asked her to please use it and hoped that it would be okay.  Now I’m showing the same symptoms again and not sure if someone out there has experienced this same thing and has any resolution for what it actually is.  Is there another type of infection out there that isn’t necessarily an STI, but maybe from a drug addict’s habit?  Both were not great when I arrived and were obviously high at the time.  Symptoms are sore bladder, abdominal pains and a little tickle at the tip of the urethra, in case people want to know that part.  

[JoDoe27]

Were you checked for a UTI? Men don’t get them as easily as women but it’s possible. You’re previous tests came back negative, so the symptoms resolved themselves or were you treated? The only thing I can think of for the course of action is to see your doctor or hit a clinic. Describe what’s going on and mention it happened previously and be honest about your activity and get a full panel of pretty much everything they offer. 

[Caressa Duval]

The ethically correct answer, would be to consult your physician again. Asking lay people for medical opinions on a internet sex forum is a dangerous way to go. If your physician is not able to answer this question, and your honesty with your doctor is huge in this situation. Then seek a second opinion with a specialist. For example, a urologist.  I again strongly advise not to try and diagnose yourself on the internet, or from people that have zero medical training.

[geecue2]

Asking lay people for medical opinions on a internet sex forum is a dangerous way to go.  Agree with this ;after the ladies read this I am sure they will be lining up to see you. To much information. Definitely sounds like an allergy, remember when I developed an allergy to latex out of no where, remember having to pull over on I-25 and scratch down there, freaked me out wondered what I caught. 

[ilovewomen]

As has been stated previously here, go see a doctor and be honest with the doctor.  Tell the doctor about your complete history and when you last experienced this issue.

You don't need to concerned about your SO (if you have one) finding out due to HIPPA and all. Or go to a private clinic and get checked out.

[Bullseye73]

Thank you for your replies so far.  I was treated with a shot and an antibiotic pill for the first time although I didn’t test hot.  They just kind of threw a plethora at me I guess.  So nothing was confirmed.  I have been totally honest with the docs I saw so that’s not an issue for me.  I know there may be TMI in here but I wanted to do 2 things; 1) make others aware that BB is an awful choice.  Don’t be dumb like me.  And 2) see if there is anyone on here that has in fact experienced the same thing as I did so I could know where to start next time I do see the doc.  As for “the gals on here lining up to see me..” I’m done with this hobby at this point.  So there’s that  

[gr8owl]

As others have said, go see a doctor.  I will be more specific: go see a urologist.  If all the STI tests were urine tests next time just flip a coin.  Cheaper and just as reliable.  Agree with JoDoe27 - sounds like uti.  Again, go see a urologist.  Lastly - obtain any infection from BBBJ twice from two different ladies in short period of time.  Highly, exceedingly unlikely

[sb1212]

1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

 

You don't need to concerned about your SO (if you have one) finding out due to HIPPA and all.

Unless she is monogamous and gets sick....🤔

[Mustang87]

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

As others have said, go see a doctor.  I will be more specific: go see a urologist.  If all the STI tests were urine tests next time just flip a coin.  Cheaper and just as reliable.  Agree with JoDoe27 - sounds like uti.  Again, go see a urologist.  Lastly - obtain any infection from BBBJ twice from two different ladies in short period of time.  Highly, exceedingly unlikely

Again, the advise to see a urologist is what you should be following. But the highlighted statement is certainly true.  This is an experience that I've received literally hundreds of time with no negative reaction. The same is true for scores of guys on this board.  I suspect your reaction is more about you than the ladies involved or the act performed.  And to clarify, when you say BB, you are talking about BBBJ and NOT BBFS?  Just my opinion, so please see a specialist.

[Phil-anderer]

GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR.  Yes, I am one, but not yours.

Often suspected STDs are treated with a standard treatment of rocephin IM and 1g of azithro.  There are alternatives to this as well.  However.....  go see your doctor.  Be honest and transparent.

[Caressa Duval]

18 minutes ago, Phil-anderer said:

GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR.  Yes, I am one, but not yours.

Often suspected STDs are treated with a standard treatment of rocephin IM and 1g of azithro.  There are alternatives to this as well.  However.....  go see your doctor.  Be honest and transparent.

I am beginning to wonder who gave what to who... He needs to inform all the women he has met with that he is having symptoms, and not play the blame game! If he doesn't inform them, he jeopardizing their health and well being.

Edited November 16, 2021 by Caressa Duval

[Bullseye73]

43 minutes ago, Caressa Duval said:

I am beginning to wonder who gave what to who... He needs to inform all the women he has met with that he is having symptoms, and not play the blame game! If he doesn't inform them, he jeopardizing their health and well being.

I had been treated last year for what the doctors thought was chlamydia/gonorhea with a shot and some pills.  However, all STI tests came back negative at the time.  I felt great for a year and only started getting symptoms of this again after about a week after seeing the last provider.  This is why I started the thread, was to see if anyone had ever experienced this same thing.  I am not trying to blame anyone for anything.  I was only trying to come to a place of common people with common interests…. 

[CountryGentleman]

On 11/15/2021 at 7:35 AM, Caressa Duval said:

The ethically correct answer, would be to consult your physician again. Asking lay people for medical opinions on a internet sex forum is a dangerous way to go. If your physician is not able to answer this question, and your honesty with your doctor is huge in this situation. Then seek a second opinion with a specialist. For example, a urologist.  I again strongly advise not to try and diagnose yourself on the internet, or from people that have zero medical training.

THIS ^^^

Your symptoms are exactly the same as I had when I ended up in the hospital for a week with Diverticulitis.  Totally NOT an STI.  A life-threatening issue almost always passed down through the family.  I'm only saying that because it could be something completely unrelated to your activities.  Definitely, need to keep on top of symptoms like that with your doctor.