Posted September 13, 2021 Hmmmm. I am used to paying a co-pay....after I arrive at the Dr. office. Not before. As for the larger issue, I respect that some providers may ask for a deposit. No arguement. It a legit business practice in the hobby. However, there are enough who do not ask for a deposit to provide me with a broad range of high quality options, so I choose to go that direction. If my ATFs start requiring deposits I might rethink my position. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2021 5 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: What sort of health plan do you have? HMO health plans always demand you to belly up to.the counter and pay a deductable down (nonrefundable) prior to meeting with your doctor. I go to Kaiser Permanente. here in Lakewood area. Nobody there will see me if I don’t pay my, Co payment first. Trust me in saying this is a normal procedure. I look behind me as well as in front and I notice we all are pulling out cash and credi/debit cards to pay a down deposit to see medical. SW are no deferent we are much like doctors in that we provided a much needed medication. Place value where value is well deserved! Tip your Companions, bring a gift, never short change, haggle and pay the Cancelation fee or set up a new date if possible. Send reminders as the time draws closer too. Make sure always that you both of you are indeed on the same page ready to encourage each other and to make sure nothing is lost or missing prior to meeting, while together, or after you leave. I really love and enjoy the thinking that we are all I love with each other and supportive sources of well sounded encouragement! Fuck stereo types! Us ladies and gentlemen crushed that negativity long ago! ❤️ I do pay a co-payment but not before I get to the office. IF you are having to make your co-pay before you get to the office then okay, you win, BUT there is a very big differance between a co-pay for medical services and a deposit with an SW should LE ever be trying to make a case. Deposits are a huge bread trail that leads in two directions. I respect your positions, I am 9n awe of what you ladies do, but have you ever had a DR. take your co-pay and run out the door once you were in your underwear???? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2021 9 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: What sort of health plan do you have? HMO health plans always demand you to belly up to.the counter and pay a deductable down (nonrefundable) prior to meeting with your doctor. I go to Kaiser Permanente. here in Lakewood area. Nobody there will see me if I don’t pay my, Co payment first. Trust me in saying this is a normal procedure. I look behind me as well as in front and I notice we all are pulling out cash and credi/debit cards to pay a down deposit to see medical. SW are no deferent we are much like doctors in that we provided a much needed medication. Place value where value is well deserved! Tip your Companions, bring a gift, never short change, haggle and pay the Cancelation fee or set up a new date if possible. Send reminders as the time draws closer too. Make sure always that you both of you are indeed on the same page ready to encourage each other and to make sure nothing is lost or missing prior to meeting, while together, or after you leave. I really love and enjoy the thinking that we are all I love with each other and supportive sources of well sounded encouragement! Fuck stereo types! Us ladies and gentlemen crushed that negativity long ago! ❤️ I have Kaiser Permanent and I pay upfront as well .. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2021 7 hours ago, mustang said: I do pay a co-payment but not before I get to the office. IF you are having to make your co-pay before you get to the office then okay, you win, BUT there is a very big differance between a co-pay for medical services and a deposit with an SW should LE ever be trying to make a case. Deposits are a huge bread trail that leads in two directions. I respect your positions, I am 9n awe of what you ladies do, but have you ever had a DR. take your co-pay and run out the door once you were in your underwear???? With KP you walk into the local branch hospital and there is a security guard who watches the in coming people walking through the doors and up to a camera that takes your temperature and possibly an image of your face too. Then you walk up to another line (if it is a doctor appointment) you check in and pay for your appointment at this counter. This being your “co payment” . None of what goes towards your care. No, this payment is applied to your deductible. I could say more except this is getting rather old and boring. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2021 13 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: With KP you walk into the local branch hospital and there is a security guard who watches the in coming people walking through the doors and up to a camera that takes your temperature and possibly an image of your face too. Then you walk up to another line (if it is a doctor appointment) you check in and pay for your appointment at this counter. This being your “co payment” . None of what goes towards your care. No, this payment is applied to your deductible. I could say more except this is getting rather old and boring. It's just beating a dead horse over and over .. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2021 (edited) 21 hours ago, mustang said: I do pay a co-payment but not before I get to the office. IF you are having to make your co-pay before you get to the office then okay, you win, BUT there is a very big differance between a co-pay for medical services and a deposit with an SW should LE ever be trying to make a case. Deposits are a huge bread trail that leads in two directions. I respect your positions, I am 9n awe of what you ladies do, but have you ever had a DR. take your co-pay and run out the door once you were in your underwear???? The doctors that see me want my underwear off, and then are happy to deposit their tool : ) and they pay me for the exam. Maybe you should change the color of your underwear, if they are running away. Edited September 14, 2021 by Caressa Duval comma 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2021 3 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: The doctors that see me want my underwear off, and then are happy to deposit their tool : ) and they pay me for the exam. Maybe you should change the color of your underwear, if they are running away. NOW that's FUNNY. I reallyh appreciate the abilty to discuss things like this and be able to have a laugh or two. It is especially refreshing to have a differant viewpoint with out being called some kind of name. YOU have made my day. Now, de we need to discuss your Docs ethics??? You are MOST refreshing .... thanks! :) On 9/13/2021 at 10:49 AM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: What sort of health plan do you have? HMO health plans always demand you to belly up to.the counter and pay a deductable down (nonrefundable) prior to meeting with your doctor. I go to Kaiser Permanente. here in Lakewood area. Nobody there will see me if I don’t pay my, Co payment first. Trust me in saying this is a normal procedure. I look behind me as well as in front and I notice we all are pulling out cash and credi/debit cards to pay a down deposit to see medical. SW are no deferent we are much like doctors in that we provided a much needed medication. Place value where value is well deserved! Tip your Companions, bring a gift, never short change, haggle and pay the Cancelation fee or set up a new date if possible. Send reminders as the time draws closer too. Make sure always that you both of you are indeed on the same page ready to encourage each other and to make sure nothing is lost or missing prior to meeting, while together, or after you leave. I really love and enjoy the thinking that we are all I love with each other and supportive sources of well sounded encouragement! Fuck stereo types! Us ladies and gentlemen crushed that negativity long ago! ❤️ I do pay a co-payment but not before I get to the office. IF you are having to make your co-pay before you get to the office then okay, you win, BUT there is a very big differance between a co-pay for medical services and a deposit with an SW should LE ever be trying to make a case. Deposits are a huge bread trail that leads in two directions. I respect your positions, I am 9n awe of what you ladies do, but have you ever had a DR. take your co-pay and run out the door once you were in your underwear???? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 6, 2021 On 3/24/2021 at 8:39 PM, lustybustygina said: I just did a tour to San Jose Ca and it's mostly Private Delights & Eros and I got a lot of deposit & few gent's paid for the time together with venmo or cash app ( nice way not to carry lot of cash around on both ends ).. I did return a deposit of 100$ for a 2hr appt , why did I well my flight was 4hr's late getting in and my appt only had the time we set to meet , So I had to cancel and I did work hard to get him to book again but his time line ran out .. do your homework on who you are giving deposit with . My Venmo is list as a Non escort name (Id) so is my cash app .. I do understand tho if you can't . Yes, Gina, I am the same way. If I have an unexpected emergency come up I refund the deposit and give my client a 20% discount for the next appointment. I try to be fair. I understand the argument with some gentlemen being scared, but if the provider is reputable and deposit is reasonable then there is little to lose. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2022 On 6/24/2021 at 1:18 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: How about a payment from preload card? . I believe you can buy a card at Walmart “Blue Bird” or Visa gift card. You need not even give the cashier or counter officer at the store your personal information. No trail no worries! LOL go out to the parking lot and use your biocular‘s to scan the parking lot for suspicious characters lurking. Damnnn it is only Urban travelers asking for a handout if you are in West Denver! Many people use prepaid cards to make purchases on line anyway! This is all very easy! She is not going to ask you to pay the whole rate prior to meeting up. Just a portion of the payment. Not the whole kitten caboodle! Don’t make this more than it is. The beauty is that that means less cash out of the ATM for you! Win Win! I use pre paid cards all the time! Especially when ordering online! Takes the worry out of getting ripped off. I also have a prepaid cell phone .. no contract at all. Just pay my bill every 30 days , plus phone belongs to me ! I keep things very self security and private 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 16 On 4/29/2021 at 0:05 PM, Seeker5280 said: How about a client doing a meet and greet and pre-paying for a session? There is a huge positive that happens here.......... The ice gets broken and each other get to see exactly what there in for. I wonder if this would work! A meet and greet? I assume you mean meeting to decide if he wants to book? I highly doubt a lady is going to meet without compensation for her time. With review boards and social media it’s fairly easy to pick the real from the fake. I’ve done stg and others like it and still would request a deposit. Most think I’m fake but if they did their research it’s easy to see I’m real ….. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 16 On 3/24/2021 at 2:51 PM, shredder_dude said: As I look at ads in STG and other non TOB sites, I notice a pattern of out of state area codes or TGTBT pictures usually want a deposit to meet. The pictures are usually borrowed. Does anyone really put a deposit down for these unknown providers? You can’t really go off of out-of-state area codes as a lot of girls tour and are not gonna change their number every time they go to a new city. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17 On 3/15/2024 at 8:26 PM, KortneyB said: You can’t really go off of out-of-state area codes as a lot of girls tour and are not gonna change their number every time they go to a new city. Area codes have little bearing these days. I’ve been n the RGV for about 5yrs now. Still have my 303 cell phone as my only phone number, as does my partner. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 17 On 4/29/2021 at 9:11 AM, mustang said: Too many "bread crumbs" with deposits. It is very easy for anyone to follow you and your actions electronically. Cash contribution can be cash made up of bills from a 7-11, Walmart, Target etc. Electric transfer of funds records are forever. Many of us have various options for deposits...some non-electronic and a savvy companion will have their electronic options not tied in to their escort persona. I am very strict on not having a paper trail that will look like a gent has gotten nooky somewhere... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 18 6 hours ago, MelindaMadison said: Many of us have various options for deposits...some non-electronic and a savvy companion will have their electronic options not tied in to their escort persona. I am very strict on not having a paper trail that will look like a gent has gotten nooky somewhere... I am sure that you do that BUT you cannot make the electronic record go away and a determined individual can learn about where or who an electronic transaction goes to. Cash leaves no tracks and no tracks mean no questions. I may have different circumstances clients that pay deposits. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 18 12 hours ago, mustang said: I am sure that you do that BUT you cannot make the electronic record go away and a determined individual can learn about where or who an electronic transaction goes to. Cash leaves no tracks and no tracks mean no questions. I may have different circumstances clients that pay deposits. Repeat: there are ways to pay deposits "NON-electronically" too without a paper trail. Hopefully, companions will give you options that will work for both of you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 20 On 3/18/2024 at 9:06 AM, MelindaMadison said: Repeat: there are ways to pay deposits "NON-electronically" too without a paper trail. … Including ‘in person’ cash drop off, which I have done for special events (Super Bowl, Halloween, …) 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
