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About MelindaMadison

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  1. Backpage ads

    Those who had pain in advance for sponsor ads ...and kept them updated before they expired (you could buy a month or a week).. are the ones with longer verbiage. If a provider let her ad expire where she needed to "renew" it- it gets bounced to the new system. Pretty soon...all will be just the numbers.
  2. 2 more nights in Denver

    Rioja in Larimer Square. (many other choices in the Square also) Check out what is in Union Station (also multi choices) and patio at Root Down. Acorn in RiNo. for exceptional small plates and cocktails.
  3. An Introduction and Questions *San Antonio* *Austin*

    Thank you. I am pretty familiar with Austin (I am primarily a food truck and Salt Lick girl) ....but San Antonio is where most of my time will be. Researching Gwendolyn, Cured, The Last Word and La Boulangerie - love to hear local's faves there!
  4. An Introduction *Salt Lake City*

    Greetings! In the past my "real life" career has taken me to SLC and i've had the pleasure of wonderful company during what little free time I have had there (i do not "tour" per se but almost always have been there often in combination with a business trip- although always amenable to a Fly Me to You I miss the former AHB board and the friends i have made there and reaching out here to reconnect if any have gravitated here that i have missed...esp with my fall travels out that way. xoxo Mel
  5. Greetings! Long time established companion from Colorado and formerly Boston here. My "real life" business is taking me to San Antonio next weekend/week and then a brief stop in Austin...with some future Austin business in the works. I am super part time with my "Melinda" life and cater to very few friends- many regular but adore meeting new ones along the way! Love the following recommendations for my upcoming my free time outside of my seminar is early mornings and my evenings aside from my last day. #1 Restaurant. (I love fresh and creative components, relaxed upscale atmosphere, unique) #2 Coffee Shop #3 yoga studio/running trail/fitness related venues Thanks in advance for the recommendations! Melinda Madison
  6. Westslope Peaches

    Western Slope unfortunately has a reputation behind the scenes and talk amongst the ladies for non-commitment and cancellations. There's a post like this every so often-but typically the guys approaching want the lady to take the risk of hours of travel out to be available IF and WHEN they feel the urge for them to connect for an appt. When one lives in an area that is not heavy with providers-it's often necessary to prebook/commit/deposit/be reliable and actually show up for your appt-gain the reputation as a gentleman AND the region (as being profitable for ladies to come out) before having any carte blanche with choosing on your own schedule. Western Slope has often been lots of promises yet lack of actually showing the $. (for all price point providers). I have had good luck with my longer regular dates/fly-in's and deposited appts but when i offer the shorter dates/non-deposited appts- i get flakes like some of the other ladies have run into.
  7. Where to Find Super-Fit Provider???

    Thanks Raoul,....but i'm more of a curvy, Crossfit, mtn biking type and fluffy off-season right now. I'll be back racing and competing come late spring/summer... a little bit of healthy jiggle, still working out like crazy but i think he may be looking for a leaner type.
  8. Friend's ex

    BUT...that sounds like it was a Mutual agreement between both parties to go that direction in YOUR case. The OP seems to be contemplating booking with someone he knows ( a former gf of a friend of his) (probably NOT pre-agreed upon cooperation from all parties involved). However successful you may have been in bridging the gap between professional provider and turning them into personal friend or gf- there are many cases and stories of this type of relationship gone wrong which just brings forth a low of wrath, heartbreak and drama. Always best to avoid. To the OP: there are plenty of wonderful ladies out there that aren't tied into your personal life and friendships- and she may not be in a situation where she wants to service a buddy of her ex either. (or if she does-should be given the choice Before booking-although i suspect that may be awkward as hell for both of you)
  9. Friend's ex

    This world is suppose to be drama-free (yes-in Utopia) AND DISCREET. There's no element of discretion in the action that you are contemplating taking. Seriously- can't even believe this is on the table. If roles were reversed...any truly professional lady would avoid the appointment to veer away from any issues that may develop from it. You don't mix real-life world with fantasy world- Period. That's just being professional- and Safe.
  10. calls from the wife/girlfriend

    Exactly why i have always remained somewhat "Old School" in my discretionary practices. (There is no "Melinda Phone" nor "Melinda Phone Number" floating around out there.) In the past.. 1.Phone girls were most targeted by LE (easy for them to run down the list of numbers to run a same day/same nite sting) and 2. time wasters ("Oh Goodie! I can chat up an escort!") or 3am calls- or rejected/danger guys-changing hobby phones and trying to bypass the past and get in. 3. SO's can google a number on their hubby's or BF's phone and LINK identities/activites to an escort. 4. SO's FIND a "hobby phone" (and no, guys- they will not believe that it is a roadside emergency phone- there's been enough talk about "hobby phone's" out there for any woman to know what they are. 5. Guy's leaving "call me back" and not saying what time is discreet to do so and RISK of the provider calling back at the wrong time..or missing the opportunity to connect. Overall.... Phone's (although convenient to the "want it now" crowd HAVE more RISK than payoff. ***'s important to me to speak to a new friend by phone prior to meeting them- but we arrange that privately after the introduction is made and they are committed to meet. LESS HEADACHE... but also...I go through GREAT Lengths to protect both myself and My Client's Discretion and leave NO CHANCE to error of a phone password being known by an SO or a Silly TEXT (OMG- don't get me started on the lack of discretion of THOSE) and a gent by accident not locking down his Shit. (or even the super rarity of an SO showing up in a blind jealous rage to an incall - people get hurt that way) Yes, call me Old School...but my life has been super peaceful in the drama department and all the years I've been playing- have eliminated the stalkers-never had a call or email from an SO -ever! (and emails are easier to passcode and hide for most) frustrations and risks that can tarnish the pleasure of this venture. That's what works for me.
  11. Is it creepy?

    probably not as creepy as an escort saving her client's pictures on her computer or printing out for good sakes...(from P411 or correspondance etc) to "Remember Good Times".... See? It's more of a discretion issue than anything else.....
  12. Social Media and The Hobby

    "Facebook your Friends and Tweet Your Twat" is a phrase often used. Facebook is not so discreet - as it webs into real life for people...and not suggested for the Hobby. Twitter is NOT generally used for finding clients (the gentlemen who are the successful movers and shakers in industry..are not spending their time trolling Twitter)...but is used as an extra "Get to Know Me" tool for many providers... and with P411 getting rid of the Message Boards that were once used effectively for availability or visiting different cities- it has replaced that role for some ladies. (Not every provider is sitting on the computer or in an incall with "come get me now 'real time" type of business) It also has been an effective networking tool for national providers to connect with other providers in other cities to gather info about market, restaurants to go to, things to do. is a useful tool...but not in the Direct Advertising sense. That being gives gentlemen a running timeline of posts that they can view and get a feel not only for a provider's personality...but in any potential personality clashes-drama etc. (just as a lady may evaluate a guy's reviews/board posts/online behavior to ensure a gentleman may be nice in person)
  13. A guy who has ulterior motives to harm [snip} or hardly going to be the type of guy who is forthcoming in their identity when they walk in the door. Prudent ladies..have a system where if they disappear or are harmed seriously...someone in their life will know where to look to see who they met that police can be contacted. It was always real life info in the past that kept providers safe from those types in most cases.. If it was my personal home..I know i would not just let an anonymous guy walk in.. There's ways of screening to make both parties feel comfortable and this is a case of someone meaning to do harm that felt he would not get wonder why that is. hmm Thank God she is OK. RIP to the possible others he killed.
  14. Real Name First & Last

    If you have ever personally known a woman who was killed or beaten in the job of providing- it changes your standards pretty darn quick against what "risks" you are willing to take. Men are afraid of a provider telling their wives. I am afraid of being murdered. Big difference.
  15. Real Name First & Last

    Guys are afraid of giving their real names because they may not trust you to keep their discretion (new providers/ TOFTT cases..those not established) ...whereas as a provider...I am afraid of murder, rape and stalking. Those who are forthcoming with their info and have already done their savvy research on a provider- are not the ones that cause you harm, hurt you, waste your time, counterfeit you or rip you off. Screen as you will attract what you set your standards and boundaries at. On the flip side- as a provider- you owe it to all your clients to have your discretion/security systems locked down as super professionally as you can. ( no "black books" extensive or telling email records/ indiscreet texting or calling from a listed/known escort phone number..etc etc... ) and even with a real need to know HOW to prove it is HIS real name vs a fake. If you cannot do that and assure that safety for your clients...they have every reason to worry. Stay safe..and remember ..if you are beaten up or harmed or good client goes bad (as what happens with "good referenced" guys sometime) can't go to the police with a TOB Handle, a P411 handle or "Joe" 41 yr old with brown hair and tall". The risk is yours to take or not to take. there will always be those johns who want anonymity..and that's fine. In the past- they had the avenues of the streets or newsprint ALL TYPES are on the net. Anonymity and Discretion are two different things. A smart man not only knows the difference but chooses his companions super wisely to ensure it.