Posted August 25, 2020 On 8/23/2020 at 5:41 PM, parkercole said: Yea she is a wild card and offering something much more/different than PSE if she is offering BBFS. GFE and PSE will be interpreted differently by many. But BBFS is something that is never on the table for GFE and PSE experiences. This topic has been talked to death like a rate thread, and in the end people will have different interpretations. My thought/opinion is GFE is that of a girlfriend nature. I want to make out and have a more intimate experience. Where as PSE is a sexual fucking experience, hence porn star. And there are so many different activities in each one of these sessions. And I think that's why everyone has different ideas and what expectations are for each? If you can find a date that is in sync with what your desires are, for what ever experience. Then she is a keeper! When I first started. I found who I was most attracted to. Hot and naughty sessions where I just wanted to bang it out with someone I was physically attracted to. I would say PSE is what I desired then. Now I'm looking for more of a connection. So I desire a GFE experience. But in either one of those sessions BBFS was never an option. I second this... I think this nails the difference between GFE and PSE. Also fits exactly with my own preferences... When I started hobbying about 10 years ago, I thought it might be a brief thing, just to get some of my long-held fantasies met, a few decidedly PSE sort of things. But after just a few hobby dates I quickly found I liked both the affectionate vibe as well as the hard-n-heavy experiences... some of my favorite times hands down are with the rare provider you click with interpersonally, who really turns you on physically, and who can mix both the GFE and PSE effortlessly... whenever you’re both feeling either the one or the other. For me, there is nothing more fun than an hour or two of cheerful, fun-loving conversation and decadent sex.... where we’re both turned on and horny as hell, doing our best to make each other feel good. Sometimes that’s just intimate, affectionate smooching, slow rhythmic sex, and a crescendo-like finish... Other times it’s a wild rollercoaster ride of sweaty, filthy and erotic-as-hell fun that you’d be proud to put up for an AVN award. Only 4 or 5 providers for me have ever had that connection and level of mutual enjoyment. For some folks (not me), that means BBFS... I guess either from the thrill, risk... or just the intense pleasure. So it’s understandable that so folk’ll conflate a wilder PSE with BBFS. But ultimately not correct, I don’t think. Nothing is more important than staying safe and healthy everyone. Fantastic hobbying really comes down to attitude more than any specific activity. Like the previous post says perfectly... find a provider who’s really in tune with what you both like and how you both like to play. That’s the perfect recipe for some fun. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 25, 2020 (edited) From what I hear, in Texas they expect that GFE means bare. Here in Colorado, GFE means more kissing and cuddling. Edited August 25, 2020 by ilovewomen 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 26, 2020 I guess if you wanted to really make it GFE, just throw in some regular conversation. Like do I look fat in this outfit. Why didn't you call me. You know I just don't sit by my phone, waiting for you to call. Who else are you seeing? Etc. Lol. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28, 2020 On 8/21/2020 at 10:46 AM, Alex Majors said: Well each girl has her own definition what each one is. So you have to know what she thinks each is. I would say I am a GFE type. It is more tame and gentle. PSE is more physical. An anology would be where you tee off in golf and drive as hard as you can (PSE), as opposed to putting (GFE), where it takes a gentle touch. But do you putt from the rough? kidding. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30, 2020 I like both GFE and PSE and actually prefer both in one session! Mostly because it makes me feel like I have a really slutty girlfriend. A good GFE is anything flirty, sensual and intimate. A PSE girl is showy, the experience gets dirty and fetishes take over. A sloppy BBBJ is where I usually draw the line. Certain reactions that show you she really wants your to fuck her hard and some real hardcore dirty talk can add to that. Any CIM or COB ending is definitely PSE in my book. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2020 (edited) On 20.8.2020 at 8:46 PM, Kat Vega said: Hello guys and dolls I just wanted to hear your opinion on if you lean more toward GFE or PSE? Which do you prefer? Why would that be? How do you differentiate between the two? Trust me I have my thoughts on having an extensive menu that clearly helps distinguish between the two, but I would love to hear your thoughts xoxo GFE: - kissing and cuddling - BBBJ - treating her like a "girlfriend" etc. PSE: - skullfucking - anal/analingus both active and passive - Dirty Sanchez and other pervy stuff, ha ha - light slapping, domination - facial - treating her like a "slut" etc. Edited August 31, 2020 by 2Big 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2020 On 8/23/2020 at 0:23 PM, Seeker5280 said: What do call it if there is no kissing, no daty and a cbj................ I can only think of one word.......... boring! Non GFE and you are right .. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2020 On 8/25/2020 at 4:39 AM, visitingmike said: I second this... I think this nails the difference between GFE and PSE. Also fits exactly with my own preferences... When I started hobbying about 10 years ago, I thought it might be a brief thing, just to get some of my long-held fantasies met, a few decidedly PSE sort of things. But after just a few hobby dates I quickly found I liked both the affectionate vibe as well as the hard-n-heavy experiences... some of my favorite times hands down are with the rare provider you click with interpersonally, who really turns you on physically, and who can mix both the GFE and PSE effortlessly... whenever you’re both feeling either the one or the other. For me, there is nothing more fun than an hour or two of cheerful, fun-loving conversation and decadent sex.... where we’re both turned on and horny as hell, doing our best to make each other feel good. Sometimes that’s just intimate, affectionate smooching, slow rhythmic sex, and a crescendo-like finish... Other times it’s a wild rollercoaster ride of sweaty, filthy and erotic-as-hell fun that you’d be proud to put up for an AVN award. Only 4 or 5 providers for me have ever had that connection and level of mutual enjoyment. For some folks (not me), that means BBFS... I guess either from the thrill, risk... or just the intense pleasure. So it’s understandable that so folk’ll conflate a wilder PSE with BBFS. But ultimately not correct, I don’t think. Nothing is more important than staying safe and healthy everyone. Fantastic hobbying really comes down to attitude more than any specific activity. Like the previous post says perfectly... find a provider who’s really in tune with what you both like and how you both like to play. That’s the perfect recipe for some fun. I have to agree 100% some of my favorite times hands down are with the rare provider you click with interpersonally, who really turns you on physically, and who can mix both the GFE and PSE effortlessly... whenever you’re both feeling either the one or the other. For me, there is nothing more fun than an hour or two of cheerful, fun-loving conversation and decadent sex.... where we’re both turned on and horny as hell, doing our best to make each other feel good. Sometimes that’s just intimate, affectionate smooching, slow rhythmic sex, and a crescendo-like finish... Other times it’s a wild rollercoaster ride of sweaty, filthy and erotic-as-hell fun that you’d be proud to put up for an AVN award.some of my favorite times hands down are with the rare provider you click with interpersonally, who really turns you on physically, and who can mix both the GFE and PSE effortlessly... whenever you’re both feeling either the one or the other. For me, there is nothing more fun than an hour or two of cheerful, fun-loving conversation and decadent sex.... where we’re both turned on and horny as hell, doing our best to make each other feel good. Sometimes that’s just intimate, affectionate smooching, slow rhythmic sex, and a crescendo-like finish... Other times it’s a wild rollercoaster ride of sweaty, filthy and erotic-as-hell fun that you’d be proud to put up for an AVN award. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2020 On 8/25/2020 at 7:10 AM, ilovewomen said: From what I hear, in Texas they expect that GFE means bare. Here in Colorado, GFE means more kissing and cuddling. Not all think that in Tx. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2020 On 8/23/2020 at 1:23 PM, Seeker5280 said: What do call it if there is no kissing, no daty and a cbj................ I can only think of one word.......... WIFE... Fixed it for you... LoL 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2020 GFE makes me laugh... That would be a messy bun, yoga pants, no makeup, complaining about where we are going to go to dinner... And in winter unshaven... Is endlessly squirting a PSE?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2020 7 hours ago, Raine-7379 said: GFE makes me laugh... That would be a messy bun, yoga pants, no makeup, complaining about where we are going to go to dinner... And in winter unshaven... Is endlessly squirting a PSE?? Lmao. I've never been that kind of Girlfriend! I know a lot are though. 🤣🤣🤣 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2020 (edited) Lol dude said "from what he heard in Texas they expect gfe to mean bare" lmao. What Texas are YOU speaking of, is there one I don't know about? Edited September 3, 2020 by Kat Vega 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2020 20 hours ago, Raine-7379 said: Is endlessly squirting a PSE?? I'd be into that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2020 On 9/2/2020 at 0:07 PM, Raine-7379 said: GFE makes me laugh... That would be a messy bun, yoga pants, no makeup, complaining about where we are going to go to dinner... And in winter unshaven... Is endlessly squirting a PSE?? No that's BWE your describing (bitchy wife experience)! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
