Posted May 24, 2019 This may only apply to ladies who are new or don't have a lot of experience but I want to make a case for some men who send out one-word or otherwise short, to the point texts. I tend to communicate with many gentlemen who are shy, socially underdeveloped, or otherwise just not hip with texting etiquette (all of which nothing to be ashamed about). I know some of us ladies find it easy to make judgements right off the bat about a man just by the way he texts/communicates. I have had a lot of instances where a gentleman will (gratefully) introduce themselves and be cordial and respectful, follow my screening requirements, etc. and then when it comes to simple questions they revert to one-word responses or very short messages back. In my opinion, if a gentleman starts off with one word responses or short messages from the get-go its probably not a good sign but after some initial "normal" communication, if a man is texting short messages there may be several reasons for this and I just want to open this up for ladies to just be aware that this is a common thing and not to get anxious or suspicious. 95% of the time this has happened to me the gentleman turned out to be very sweet and respectful. I recently spoke with another provider that complained about this, saying it made her feel strange, anxious, etc. but I wanted to reassure her, and the rest of the community that short text messages after initial proper communication and set-up could have many reasons behind it and are usually not cause for concern. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 24, 2019 Once I've seen a gentleman, I don't mind short texts. I've never had an issue with clients like that. If he's only prescreened, I'm not too chatty through messages. I like to wait until we meet. On a side note....Not to sound creepy or anything...Nice body, and especially nice booty! 😘 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 24, 2019 Hard to type up a 1,000 word autobiography to send to 100 sporting ladies, only to have 99 ignore it. And the 100th do a NCNS. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 24, 2019 27 minutes ago, Milos Vesely said: Hard to type up a 1,000 word autobiography to send to 100 sporting ladies, only to have 99 ignore it. And the 100th do a NCNS. Type it out, email it to yourself, then copy and paste 😉. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 24, 2019 2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Once I've seen a gentleman, I don't mind short texts. I've never had an issue with clients like that. If he's only prescreened, I'm not too chatty through messages. I like to wait until we meet. On a side note....Not to sound creepy or anything...Nice body, and especially nice booty! 😘 Hahah thanks Hunter, you’re sweet 💕 I agree with this. I tend to keep my communication short over text and am quite the opposite in person. Other reasons for a guy doing this could be because he likes it that way (like I do), is busy, or for really no reason at all lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 25, 2019 Yes l like short answers and questions. Less to share with Leo. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 25, 2019 21 hours ago, Chloe Conifer said: A case for the short communicator I agree with Chloe. just because a guy is under 6' doesn't mean he is not a good communicator. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 25, 2019 2 hours ago, boink36 said: I agree with Chloe. just because a guy is under 6' doesn't mean he is not a good communicator. Haha. We just keep the radio chatter to a minimum. We can still deliver the package. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
