Posted May 13, 2016 (edited) I saw a provider recently that was always a good go-to for me, whenever, I was interested in a particular activity. Session starts out great as usual, and I then inquire about said activity... something along the lines of "do you still enjoy "icecream"???" To which she replied "I'm not sure I ever really enjoyed "ice cream", but I do still occasionally eat it." I know there is a degree of acting that goes into the profession, but I guess I just always assumed that if something was not offered, or on menu then it was due to the provider's preferences, but I guess now I wonder how often do providers acquiesce to request for things they don't actually enjoy?? The phrase "I love what I do, and you will too" just doesn't have the same sentiment to me anymore, lol Edited May 13, 2016 by BadLeroyBrown 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 I would assume the ladies do it because we want it, to make us happy even if she dont like it? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 Maybe you should try searching for the activity you are seeking in the review areas....It is likely if you happen to find it located there that the lady does offer it and that is most likely because she does happen to like it....If someone does not list it as available then it is possible that she is not interested in doing that particular thing you are looking for and might not be interested in providing that service either....That is part of the reason for reviews so that you can find a lady who offers what you want or maybe I am missing something here....If so then excuse me and never mind.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 40 minutes ago, Barbi said: Maybe you should try searching for the activity you are seeking in the review areas....It is likely if you happen to find it located there that the lady does offer it and that is most likely because she does happen to like it....If someone does not list it as available then it is possible that she is not interested in doing that particular thing you are looking for and might not be interested in providing that service either....That is part of the reason for reviews so that you can find a lady who offers what you want or maybe I am missing something here....If so then excuse me and never mind.... Barbi, I guess it was my assumption that if a provider did not enjoy something they simply would not offer/allow it. This however was an instance where the provider was offering something she didn't enjoy. I had seen her previously and enjoyed the service with her before, but this one particular time she just happen to let me know it wasn't her choice of activities at all. Made me feel kinda bad for taking part in the activities perviously. Does that better explain my position? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 Absolutely and you should not feel badly about her choice to do that with you in the first place...It was her choice dear and just because you asked does not mean that forced her into doing it, she could have said no which she did not....So while she might not enjoy doing it again, that in no way should make you feel badly about it because if she had not tried she would never have known if it was something she enjoyed or not.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 1 hour ago, stevie-2249 said: I would assume the ladies do it because we want it, to make us happy even if she dont like it? Let's say the best provider you ever saw was entirely faking it, and then there is a second provider maybe she doesn't get you as hot, and bothered as provider 1, but she is genuine, and you have a great connection, and understanding with her. If you had a choice to see one or the other again for free which would you choose, and why? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 (edited) I would have to say that is a personal choice as it all depends on what it is you want and are looking for from the experience....As I said that is something which only you know and can make the right choice for you there BadLeroyBrown....And no matter what it is you decide there really is no wrong choice either..... Edited May 13, 2016 by Barbi wanted to add something important..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 25 minutes ago, BadLeroyBrown said: Let's say the best provider you ever saw was entirely faking it, and then there is a second provider maybe she doesn't get you as hot, and bothered as provider 1, but she is genuine, and you have a great connection, and understanding with her. If you had a choice to see one or the other again for free which would you choose, and why? The non-faker. Once I know she's faking, it'll be in my head for the whole session, and I won't get "hot and bothered", at all. However, as long as I don't know she's faking, I'll have no problem seeing the "best provider I ever saw". 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 I would choose the genuine connection, feel like more of a gfe experience 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 I guess I don't understand the question. If you're both getting what you want, then what's the problem? You're having a good time and she's getting paid for her time. She can choose what she offers on her menu. If she offers ice cream, then that's probably because it brings her more clients or allows her to charge a little bit more. Honestly, I'm pretty sure most people don't like ice cream (yes, I know there are exceptions). Have you tried it? I had to know, so I did. It has a really weird mouth feel when it's hot and melty. I couldn't eat it on a regular basis. As for this particular provider, maybe she does love what she does--making people happy for a little while--but just doesn't love that aspect of it. I enjoy my job, but there are things I do that I don't like (like going to endless meetings). It seems like she was so comfortable with you that she felt she could tell you the truth. If you're the kind of guy who looks for a connection, that ought to count for something. If you just want to get your rocks off, then it shouldn't matter anyway. It sounds like a win either way to me. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 Back when I started, I was curious about all types of sexual flavors. Over time, I realized that some of the flavors weren't any good anymore, and I quit having them. People change, and find what they really prefer to enjoy. Also, I have met providers that will enjoy one flavor to reel you in, and then give you the low down later on. Others do it with only a select few. There is a reason they have the acronym YMMV. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 46 minutes ago, SultryKitten said: Back when I started, I was curious about all types of sexual flavors. Over time, I realized that some of the flavors weren't any good anymore, and I quit having them. People change, and find what they really prefer to enjoy. Also, I have met providers that will enjoy one flavor to reel you in, and then give you the low down later on. Others do it with only a select few. There is a reason they have the acronym YMMV. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard Is sexual flavors anything like sexual healing........ ? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 My assumption is that all escorts are "faking it" in the sense that they convincingly act as if they are so extraordinarily happy to see this very average-looking older guy, that they are just on fire to have all kinds of wild sex with him, and passionately desire every variety of position and activity the old guy can dream up. My only request is that they be really good actresses. Sure, after a few visits, sometimes we actually do generate some chemistry, and maybe it is a little less faking and a little more genuine emotion, but that is the exception rather than the rule. However, as the lady says, YMMV. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 13, 2016 6 hours ago, daaacz said: I guess I don't understand the question. If you're both getting what you want, then what's the problem? You're having a good time and she's getting paid for her time. She can choose what she offers on her menu. If she offers ice cream, then that's probably because it brings her more clients or allows her to charge a little bit more. Honestly, I'm pretty sure most people don't like ice cream (yes, I know there are exceptions). Have you tried it? I had to know, so I did. It has a really weird mouth feel when it's hot and melty. I couldn't eat it on a regular basis. As for this particular provider, maybe she does love what she does--making people happy for a little while--but just doesn't love that aspect of it. I enjoy my job, but there are things I do that I don't like (like going to endless meetings). It seems like she was so comfortable with you that she felt she could tell you the truth. If you're the kind of guy who looks for a connection, that ought to count for something. If you just want to get your rocks off, then it shouldn't matter anyway. It sounds like a win either way to me. Daaacz, she was definitely comfortable with me to let me in on that tip, I guess I just A.) felt wrong for enjoying something that apparently caused her discomfort, and B.) It made the rest of the encounter seem less genuine to me for knowing that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 14, 2016 2 hours ago, BadLeroyBrown said: Daaacz, she was definitely comfortable with me to let me in on that tip, I guess I just A.) felt wrong for enjoying something that apparently caused her discomfort, and B.) It made the rest of the encounter seem less genuine to me for knowing that. Do you enjoy every aspect of your job and all the things you do for money? Why did it make the encounter less genuine? If anything I would have thought the honesty would have made it better. It's impossible to connect with every single client. It's impossible to enjoy everything all the time. It should be comforting that a lady decided to open up to you and offer some insight. It's better perspective than you can find here because it's real time with a real person. I would think that any insight you can get would only help make future meetings better. There is definitely pressure to like certain flavors. Every provider is of course free to choose what they want but to not feel the pressure to like nasty Rum Raisin would be great. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 14, 2016 36 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said: Do you enjoy every aspect of your job and all the things you do for money? Why did it make the encounter less genuine? If anything I would have thought the honesty would have made it better. It's impossible to connect with every single client. It's impossible to enjoy everything all the time. It should be comforting that a lady decided to open up to you and offer some insight. It's better perspective than you can find here because it's real time with a real person. I would think that any insight you can get would only help make future meetings better. There is definitely pressure to like certain flavors. Every provider is of course free to choose what they want but to not feel the pressure to like nasty Rum Raisin would be great. I just personally wished that she would have kept it 💯 with me the entire time. I've seen providers who didn't offer things I was looking for, and some who did offer things that were just on menu for me as YMMV. I'm completely fine in either case, but to have multiple encounters only to find out a few years later she never enjoyed a particular flavor to begin with... well, it makes you wonder about other encounters... I understand there are trials and tribulations to being a provider just as theRe are to working in any job, but I guess this just happened to catch me off guard 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
