Barbi

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About Barbi

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    Putting things together

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    Female
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    Denver, CO
  • Interests
    Reading, Real Estate Investing and Historical Property Renovations....As well as being a student of life, I am current studying the law and hope to become an advocate for reform of the current policies that affect us here....

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  1. Why even review now

    I think it is like anything else, we will survive and get around it....It is nothing like craigslist or bp, even now so lets not make into something that it is not and never will be....We have a wonderful community here of very helpful people and we are willing to help each other as we always have, if you are serious about finding out then ask, if not then you werent that serious to begin with so dont complain about it when its easy enough to find out....There will still be some who try to get away with the same ridiculous things they always have and thats on both side and like before they will be exposed quickly because of this forum we are blessed to be apart of....Personally I am really glad that we still have this community and as long as we all understand that what has happened for a reason that is beyond their control then we will be fine and for those who really have a problem with it, all I can really tell you is sorry about your luck but it is not likely you will find it any better anywhere else and if you do then thats great for you and maybe that is where you should be then, but that is something you need to decide for yourself but it is certain that you wont find a better and more helpful community any where.... I am glad for all the wonderful people I have met here and look forward to having a great time with others in the future, as is the case with most who are here on both sides of the equation, the ladies and the gentleman alike.....If you have questions ask, that is how it has always been and if you dont ask then dont be upset by your results, that is pretty much just a fact of life it does seem because not everyone exactly the same way as you or likes the same things that you like so there is a little chance that you might not like this or that but all in all, it really is not that much different, so dont be too afraid or embarrassed to ask as you will find most everyone here is very helpful...So just as before we are all trying to just get along the best we can both here and in real life....So smile and know it could certainly be much much worse then it is now and that will make it easier for you, I am sure....Everyone have a fantastic weekend and it is always a pleasure seeing you all here and I do sincerely mean that....
  2. Here's some interesting reading.

    This is just another misguided attempt to fill the prisons in this country...We need to realize what the war on drugs started in this country, it lead to the mass incarceration of the people in this country that many failed to see....The United States has the highest rate of incarceration in the world per capita and that is not sustainable, much less the problems that this broght with it....It is partially responsible for the heroine epidemic, since people do not realize that left me explain how this is true...First they focused their attacks on the addicts, not the actual dealers for the most part as that would have been dangerous....So the went after a segment of the population who had a difficult time dealing with life, so the turned to drugs....They then arrested them, demoralized them and marginalized them and expected they would stop using....So to punish them for not stopping, they then institutionalized the addicts and thought that would make them quit....So effectively what they did was take a person who had a hard time dealing with life and put them in the worst environment there is and thought they would quit...Instead what happened is the addicts continued to use in prison which only makes sense....They used the drugs that were readily available in prison, which was heroine because it was most profitable and easiest to get into the prisons...So what happens when they are releaased??? They are now using a drug that they would have never been exposed to on the streets...Now they do not know what to do to stop that but they will pretend they do....Now to the next problem, what about all the prison cells that they funded and built to house those addicts....What about all the jobs that depend on those prisons being full in the small communities across the country that actually allowed a prison to be built in their communities and those private companies who payed to build the prisons are they really just going to be out that money and jobs??? Guess again, they need to find something else that will be used to fill those empty cells and that they are planning on being us....So that is why the ignorant smearing of campaign going on now....Its all just setting the American people into believing this is something that it is not... This is something that I had discussed here years ago because it was obvious what was going on even then....
  3. Thoughts on a new interface

    It seems the answer to the problem is going to be putting a flashing landing platform where any person from the United States is denied access from the site...That would eliminate the problem that they are facing, but does very little for their members like ourselves but that is the only answer that would keep any site safe...They just need to censor people from the US, this is our problem not everyone elses....We elect idiots who try to control everything we do and we are so blind we still believe we live in the land of the free...
  4. Back page orphans

    Very well put oldertruckguy-9225....It is frightening to have your living torn out from under you but that is what the issue is here with us too, we just havent had that happen and if we do not protect it will be soon...I am not blaming all the ladies from BP for what happened but they do need to understand it is ultimately their responsibility because when you hear of there being ads posted for illegal activity and you choose to turn a blind eye to that fact and advertise there anyway, that it becomes your problem....We dont have that problem and I would hate to think we might so this is important for them understand if they wish to make this their home, that we will not tolerate that here...
  5. Back page orphans

    it is not a matter of who is right or wrong, so stop trying to say that is what this is about..This is a serious problem and it could easily affect us all and it is much deeper than the BP orphans who have arrived....As an established part of this community I do not waste my time over such things as jealousy over a new lady showing up here so dont even try to go there...What this has to do with is the fact that they shut BP down because of the content....As BP was not a reviews site, that means content was posted by advertisers aka providers....So that is the problem I have with any of this, nothing more and certainly nothing less...So dont try to make this into something that it is not...So now that we got that straight...
  6. Back page orphans

    Here as in life, respect is earned not given because of your circumstance...So understand it is not as easy as you just showing up here and demanding something that you have yet to earn...Respect in this community is earned by putting in the time and effort to establish yourself as being legitimate, not because you feel you deserve...Remember you are here because of problemswhere you were before, so you are going to work to prove that you are not a part of that problem...There is nothing rude about being honest so stop trying to make it into something it is not....There is nothing to more to discuss either you walk your talk or you dont and that is your choice and the rest goes without saying, so please stop bringing it up.....
  7. Back page orphans

    How soon they all forget...It will just take a short time for the gentlemen to remember the reason most did not use BP to begin with....Really thats all that needs to be said about this topic and to continually bring it up, is like a broken record...Or rinse, repeat....Very much indicative of the way they used to advertise on their beloved BP when in fact it is nothing more than a form of free self advertising... You can see what they are about just from reading the messages they continue to post about themselves and what has happened as if they are some type of victim now, this is completely beyond my understanding...What has happened was inevitable because of the caliber of rif-raf that had long been associated with BP, so it was not surprising that they closed down that site...But what is surprising is the fact that knowing this, that it has been welcomed here now...This too shall pass in time, so remember that... All this is nothing more than a violation of the First Amendment which is stripping away the right of freedom of speech which should be guaranteed and assigning blame to a website for the ignorance of speech and poor behavior of others....
  8. Real world dating as an adult

    I think our living in a disposable society where everything has become a matter of convenience has seriously affected relationships in this country...Everything is done for convenience or made to be done fast...The food we cook for dinner takes minutes to prepare instead of hours....The products we buy are designed to be thrown away instead of fixed when the break....I think that has become true for relationships as well...Its easier to throw it away for a new one then to work through the problems involved...But I dont think I would take relationship advice from me honestly as I have never had a successful relationship in my life that normally lasted ore than just a few months since i graduated high school, so I am probable the last one any one who is looking for that special someone should be listening to for advice in that area....
  9. The Tip up front

    Personally I agree, asking for a tip is tacky indeed...It is a gratuity and if the provider doesnt like that fact then she should consider going to work somewhere else if she is not making what she thinks she deserves or maybe she needs to work on providing a better quality of service, then the tips would come on their own without the need to ask especially before you even had the opportunity to determine if she was worth the little extra...Thats just my opinion and it is some free advice so take it for what its worth if you otherwise it didnt cost anything and we all know what they say about opinions, everyone has them and most of them..... Have a great evening everyone and enjoy your weekend...
  10. Low Volume Girls

    Hi Hunter.... I believe what most guys mean by low volume providers is that they lady has another career instead of just the hobby but I am not certain about that here but I know in a few other places that is what some of the guys suggested as being a low volume provider....I am not sure what the difference is but seems to sort of make sense in a strange way....Well dont know if that helps at all but I hope it might.... Anyway, have a wonderful weekend and enjoy your day.... B....
  11. fresh meat

    Welcome...I would say so far so good, keep up the good work and you will be fine here....
  12. How old are you guys?

    Honestly I think being a part of the hobby keeps people feeling younger, at least younger at heart....Maybe because they have more progressive thoughts that reflect in their lives....Just a thought....
  13. New here

    Welcome....Thank you for taking the time to introduce yourself, that is a very lovely way of showing your desire to become one of the wonderful people here....It is a pleasure and thank you for sharing with us all and we look forward to your participation in our little community here in the future....
  14. Hi..new to this...

    Welcome Satine'....Always a pleasure to have new ladies here with us, especially ones who are so kind as to thank others for the help...I am sure you will find you meet a lot of wonderful people here and that in time you will even become friends with most...While it might not be heaven, it is our little place in the internet cloud where we all come to meet other like minded people to share time with here....If you have any questions, please just ask as there is always someone or two who will be happy to provide you with the information you might be looking for....Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday and hope you all a wonderful new year as well....
  15. Hello

    Welcome to our little slice of heaven in the cloud....But seriously, this is a great place where you can find like minded people to communicate with and find out just about anything you might want to know....Its a great place to come at the end of the day when you want to just chill and not have to deal with life....It is also a great place where you can vent or speak your mind on just about any topic under the rainbow...And if you are lucky, It could be where you actually met some new friends to spend some time with...We look forward to your contributions and input to help make our little world here an even better place.... Have a wonderful day