Barbi

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  1. Honestly while the movies like Pretty Women depict the fairy tale ending, there are not fairy tale endings for the soldiers in this world like all of us and this gives the opportunity to live in the moment not matter what your fantasy might be....Welcome to TOB the land of hopes and dreams.....Didnt it go something like that....I really dont remember for sure as I never really liked the movie all that much anyway....While the story is nice, I seriously dont believe any of us believe in fairy tales here...Now if you are talking making a fantasy come true then we can assist you....But if your looking for LTR you might check out Toys R Us, as I heard they have a sale on blow up partners at the moment....Only kidding of course but everyone here knows that too....
  2. Black mail & Being Outted

    Pm also sent....This situation is just wrong and it is nice to see so many here providing support to another person in the hobby, that is what we need to be strong and keep ourselves together here....I am sorry that it took this to do that but hopefully nothing will come of this and Jasmine will get through it none worse because of it.....It is unfortunate that some people use such things as weapons instead of having the ability to see this is just like anything else and as long as long as none one is being hurt it is no one elses business....
  3. Thank you!

    Your the best Laci...But I am still hoping you and your doubles partner will join me one day for a foursome on the tennis court.... LOL.... But seriously you are an awesome lady
  4. How Old is too Old?

    Now that's too funny.... I always get a great laugh when I come here... Thank you everyone for helping to make this the best place on the internet...
  5. References

    I had a friend of something that I had almost forgot and it really sank in as I thought about what he said...Life is about taking risks....And he was absolutely right...When I first came here no one asked anyone for references,. it was unheard of and now because there are some who do not seem to grasp the entire concept of things here, they have started asking such things because of supposed safety concerns but really what good does that do....It does seem to me a way of getting information about others from someone else which is really not anyone elses business....By sharing such information are we not putting ourselves at risk as well??? Just a thought that I have been considering just a bit lately and it seems to me we really have no clue who it is asking so that is putting us at risk not only once but twice....I am really not all that comfortable with that especially with all the old faces here that are not looking the same as they used to....Really until someone opens the door you are still at risk since it is impossible to know anything for sure until that moment and that is something that is very important to remember....Never put yourself at risk if you are not comfortable and never ask someone else to decide that for you, it is a choice that you and only you should make and if you make that decision on your own then maybe you are in the wrong hobby....Life is full of risks and we need to realize that and think about the level of risk we are willing to take before we do the things we do....
  6. How Old is too Old?

    Age is irrelevant, it is how you choose to live that determines your true age....While there are things that can be said about youth, it is not a time in this world that I would wish to be in my youth....There is far more to be said about maturity as you can see what it is you are going to get because it is already established and not established by days or weeks but by the long haul....Thats how it goes in life and how it really goes with everything.....It is impossible to re-live ones lost youth and only a fool would try to re-live it vicariously through another instead of just living their own life....
  7. Homeless teens

    I made a donation last night and will be doing the same every week, it really made me feel good knowing that I was doing something this important to others and these young people are our future so we need to help protect them now or our future might seriously be in question someday...It has also made me decide to create a website for myself soon just so I can include a comment about this program for others to see who might not make it here.... Working together I am certain we can actually help to change someone's life for the better by each of us just doing one small thing...That is why I am asking each of you to do this one simple thing....Winter is coming soon and these young people are going to need a place to stay when it gets cold, so what a better time to help....So I am asking everyone to bypass the stop at Starbucks once a week and at the end of the month donate what you saved by doing that to the Urban Peak program....It is something that we would not even miss but all of us doing this simple thing every week it would make a huge difference to the Urban Peak program and those that they help...I hope you all will consider doing this because these young people are out future and they need our help now.... Thanks for reading and for sharing the information about such a wonderful program as Urban Peak....
  8. Another etiquette question for the ladies

    I believe when first making contact the use of pet names such as you have said is not appropriate as it is taken as disrespectful...However once you have established with a re pore with a person then they are taken as a term of endearment instead of being an insult because the level of respect has been established and that creates an entirely different situation when they are used...Hope that helps you to realize the difference I believe that most people consider their use....
  9. Reference

    Thank you Kandi....It helps to have a great memory in the hobby....
  10. Reference

    Were you not a member of P411 by the name of DarsonJ or something similar to that??? And if my memory serves right were you not removed from P411???? I think you may have had another account here too..... https://theotherboard.com/users/105970 Sorry if I have you confused with someone else, it is just your style of writing is very similar to that person and that is why I am asking....
  11. Homeless teens

    That is wonderful to know and thank you for having such a kind heart to share that with us here in the community...This has become a serious problem across the country and unfortunately it is something that is likely to continue as the result of the greed of those who have controlled the government for decades...It is nice that there is a place for homeless teens to go, as that is something that has been lacking in most major cities for a long time because it does not fit within the governments agenda....It is important that everyone help with this serious problem anyway they can.....It is nice to see that others here agree....
  12. 411 on BriLuvssuuu720

    Welcome to TOB Redneck Mikey.... Interesting post for a first time poster, I would say that you have your own answer to your question...So why would you want to post that information here unless you are trying to do some free advertising for that girl here is beyond me and I am certain that those here would agree....
  13. Years ago a friend of mine photographed mine and cast it in 14k gold and adorned with diamonds and other precious stones. I wore it around my neck for several years but it was lost when the chain broke...It was a fun conversation piece for sure and I hope the wonderful replica found a good home after being lost....These are certainly great articles which made me think of the beautiful memorial that was created for me by my dear friend...If anyone is interested in having their own made it as created by Lawrence at Designer Fine Jewelry in Westminster....
  14. What's your Unicorn?

    Well mine would be someone who understands what it is to be honest with those close to them and themselves....But since that will never happen I guess this is the closest thing that I will ever get to having that....LOL...Have a great day everyone.....
  15. Lady Friends

    Welcome to Denver and I am certain you are going to find it a great place to live and play....We are glad to have you here and if you have any questions just ask as someone will always be glad to assist....Have a great time and we are glad your here....